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Christianity EtcRe: 8 false Teachings by Churches And The Biblical Truths Concerning them. by Toks2008(op):
[size=13pt]4.Wearing an attachment and covering of the head[/size]

The same scriptures for jewelry wearings also applies here

Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. (1 Peter 3:3-5)

As I quoted in the scripture above, there is no sin at all if you decorate yourself from head to toe with gold but the Bible made us understand that we should not just be concerned about this act but also make sure we enmesh ourselves with GODLY virtues so enjoy wearing your jewelries while keeping in mind the need to uphold GODLY virtues

I always marvel at the taught that wearing an attachment will take you to hell and I honestly have not found one verse in the scripture suggesting this so I don’t really need to waste time on this issue. You can beautify your hair anyway you like and that has got nothing to do with been saved or making heaven.


Concerning the covering of head in church or when praying
, many churches are so myopic about this because the very passage in the bible they usually quote stated clearly that the long hair of a woman is a covering to her head and this simply means that if you are a lady with a low cut,it is expedient to cover your head but if you have long hairs i guess that itself is a covering to your head. Lets read this together.

13Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? 14Does not even nature itself teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a dishonor to him, [size=16pt]15but if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her? For her hair is given to her for a covering[/size]. 16But if one is inclined to be contentious, we have no other practice, nor have the churches of God. 1 Corinthians 11:13-16

Christianity EtcRe: 8 false Teachings by Churches And The Biblical Truths Concerning them. by Toks2008(op):
[size=13pt]3.Wearing of jewelries[/size]:


There are two separate verses in the New Testament that, at first glance, appear to teach against wearing jewelry. The first is 1 Pet 3:3 which reads,

“Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel…”

The second and very similar verse is 1 Tim 2:9 that says,

“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array…”

But are these scriptures forbidding the use of jewelry by Christians?


A number of holiness-based Christian groups have come to that conclusion, but doing so fails to consider the numerous other passages in the Bible that actually appear to endorse the use of jewelry. In fact, many places in the Bible show that God uses jewelry as a blessing to his children.

One of the first passages in the Bible to deal with jewelry is Gen 24:47, 48 which reads,

“And I asked her, and said, whose daughter art thou? And she said, the daughter of Bethuel, Nahor's son, whom Milcah bare unto him: and I put the earring upon her face, and the bracelets upon her hands. And I bowed down my head, and worshipped the LORD, and blessed the LORD God of my master Abraham, which had led me in the right way to take my master's brother's daughter unto his son.”

Here we have a rather tender story of Abraham's servant giving jewelry to Rebekah, who was the woman God had specially chosen for Isaac. The servant then bows his head and worships God. If jewelry were sinful, his offering it as a gift to Rebekah, and then subsequently worshipping God, would be irreverent and inappropriate.

We find another such example in Gen 41:42, which says,

“And Pharaoh took off his ring from his hand, and put it upon Joseph's hand, and arrayed him in vestures of fine linen, and put a gold chain about his neck...”

Joseph was one of the greatest men of the Old Testament, and God blessed him greatly because of his faithfulness. In this verse, we find Joseph accepting jewelry as a gift from Pharaoh. If God forbade jewelry, undoubtedly, Joseph would have rejected this gift.

David, the man said to be after God’s own heart,1 writes in Ps 25:12,

“As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.”

David compares gold earrings to the way an obedient ear accepts wise instruction. Surely if jewelry were a sin, David would never have made a comparison between wise behavior and something that is sinful.

The prophet Isaiah wrote in Isa 61:10,

“I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decketh himself with ornaments, and as a bride adorneth herself with her jewels.”

Isaiah compares righteousness and salvation to a bride and bridegroom who adorn themselves with jewelry. Would Isaiah compare a sinful activity to the salvation and righteousness of God?

God, through Jeremiah, speaks of jewelry in this way:

“Can a maid forget her ornaments, or a bride her attire? Yet my people have forgotten me days without number.” (Jer 2:32)

God compares forgetting about him to a maid who forgets her jewelry. Again, if jewelry were sinful, God would never have made such a comparison.

In Ezek 16:11-13, God says that he has blessed his children with bracelets, necklaces, earrings, jewels and crowns,

“I decked thee also with ornaments, and I put bracelets upon thy hands, and a chain on thy neck. And I put a jewel on thy forehead, and earrings in thine ears, and a beautiful crown upon thine head. Thus wast thou decked with gold and silver; and thy raiment was of fine linen, and silk, and broidered work; thou didst eat fine flour, and honey, and oil: and thou wast exceeding beautiful, and thou didst prosper into a kingdom.”

God would not offer his children something sinful as a gift or reward.

Some may argue that God once gave and blessed the use of jewelry, but because of the vanity and disobedience of Israel, he no longer does, which is why it is forbidden in the New Testament. The problem with such an assertion is that it is not taught in the scriptures. In fact, the scriptures contradict such an idea. Luke 15:22 says,

“But the father said to his servants, bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand…”

This verse is from the parable of the Prodigal Son, given by Jesus. Surely, Jesus would not have used a sinful practice as part of his parable.

Considering the overwhelming body of evidence that God not only doesn’t condemn the use of jewelry but has actually given it as a gift to his faithful children, it cannot reasonably be stated that jewelry is a sin. In light of this, let's take another look at the verses used to support the belief that the use of jewelry is forbidden:

Christianity EtcRe: 8 false Teachings by Churches And The Biblical Truths Concerning them. by Toks2008(op):
[size=13pt]2.Alcohol intake [/size]

Alcohol intake is not a sin at all but drunkenness is a sin. Some people can take two bottles of beer without getting stupid while some people will take just a glass and get tipsy.

The problem is that how many people can draw the line between moderate intake of alcohol and excessive intake? This is why I will advice you desist from the act totally so that you will not cross the line and end up messing up yourself and allowing the alcohol control you which may lead you to sin.

Although the Bible never says that alcohol itself is sinful, it does say many times that drunkenness is a sin. God says, "Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit." (Ephesians 5:6) In fact, there are many verses in the Bible which speak out against drunkenness.

Christianity EtcRe: 8 false Teachings by Churches And The Biblical Truths Concerning them. by Toks2008(op):
[size=13pt]1.Smoking [/size]

Smoking is not a sin but the question is what do you smoke into your body? If there is something else that is not harmful to your body which is the temple of GOD,if only there is something else to smoke that will not damage your organs then you can smoke your way into the Kingdom of GOD but as long as you smoke in harmful substances that damage your organs or brain then this is regarded as a sinful habit and must be stoped before it takes you to hell.

Christianity Etc8 false Teachings by Churches And The Biblical Truths Concerning them. by Toks2008(op):
[size=13pt]HERESY[/size]

Have you ever been in a bus where some preachers come so hard by saying "If you perm your hair you will go to hell,if you are a woman wearing trousers,you will go to hell,if you wear earrings,you will end up in hell,if you keep boyfriends and girlfriends.hell awaits you,if you smoke or drink alcohol,hell straight,if you..."

Some times i tend to almost voice out and tell them to preach salvation rather than confuse intending believers thereby driving them away from salvation.

Do you know that many people are in hell today because they were so uncomfortable with giving their life to Christ because they can't imagine themselves not taking alcohol? Do you know that many ladies are in hell today because they felt that it is not just possible for them to stop wearing earrings and since they have been told that earrings wearers are not believers, they simply gave up the zeal to be born again and end up in hell.

this article shall address many issues and many people will discover what exactly translate to sins and what we have as bad habits which are not sinful to GOD if done the right way.

Please if you have a contrary opinion be ar liberty to share but only with vivid quotes from the scriptures and not by mare logic.

So i ask; Is it a sin to smoke,to drink alcohol,to wear jewelries? Is it a sin to self service? for ladies to wear trousers? for women to perm their hairs,use hair attachments or draw tattoos?

I will address these one after the other but whatever i will write on,i would like you all to read this passage from the bible.

"When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures,idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division,envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
(Galatians 5:9-21)

Christianity EtcRe: How Could A Loving God Send Me To Hell? by Toks2008(m): 12:30am On Sep 06, 2015
God sends no one to hell because he has provided a way out.

Hell was made for Satan and his angels but its totally up to you to decide if you want to go there or not.
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 12:21am On Sep 06, 2015
MsBliss:
Oh thanks for the compliment sweetheart #smiling
Awwww!

Epic
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 12:17am On Sep 06, 2015
Small time they will say dem no se husband marry.

Abeg wet-tin be this?

https://www.nairaland.com/2578531/female-photographer-uche-odoh-flaunts
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 12:11am On Sep 06, 2015
MsBliss:
Ayam a cold chic.

Hot chic ko...cold chicken ni
oh oh now you are not hot lol!
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 11:56pm On Sep 05, 2015
CUM4WHAT:
Absolute NONSENSE
You don cum again. Dem send you?
Romance5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op):
You don't need a pretty face or a curvy body to make a cute responsible man fall in love with you.

Any man whether responsible or irresponsible,good or bad can get attracted to a curvy pretty chic at instant glance but that is where the danger lies because even when most men are only willing to have a taste of your curves,most outwardly pretty ladies tend to fool themselves with the fact that they are getting attention from many men because indeed that is where it mostly ends.ATTENTION.

Have you ever bothered to ask why the not too outwardly beautiful chics are getting married quickly and also getting hooked to super cute responsible men while most sweet looking chics keep jumping from one man to another?

Have you wondered why many ladies with costly Brazilian hair and sophisticated looks keep losing their men to ladies on low cut with simple looks?


Here are some reasons and i hope it makes sense to you all.

1.Arrogance: The supposed not too beautiful ones with simple looks are humble.submissive,non abusive and level headed while the supposed outwardly beautiful ones can't just seem to pipe down and be serene with the men in their lives because they always have the subconscious believe that men will always come for them just to realize too late that most of the men that come for them do not actually come for them but for their body and of-course after having their way with them will likely dump them and move on to the next available sweet chic around.

2.Highest bidder: Many ladies with hot bodies tend to have this subliminal feelings that they are too hot for just any man with little cash to have so they tend to hope for a rich dude to buy them and they unfortunately realize too late that a rich man has enough money to buy as many hot chics as he can afford and once the guy has spent a ample sum on her if she is lucky to find one, she will be relegated and a new chic will definitely come on board.

3.Excessive body flaunting: When you flaunt your body as a hot girl,you are simply acting like a decoy and we all know how people treat sample products,they are showcased for people to see,touch and test and when its time to buy the actual product, we tend to demand for the ones sealed in the carton so the more you flaunt that sexy curve the more you are passing an indecent message to the guys.

4.Attention lovers
: Yes its quite fascinating to be admired and wanted by many men and this feeling can keep many hot chics unmarried for a very long time because the admiration they enjoy from men is so overwhelming that they can't just imagine giving that up to be with a man.

5.Being too picky
: I will not blame any hot chic for this but then many of them just don't know when to back down as they wil be bent on having a dude to compliment their hotness but unfortunately it does not work this way in the real world and they tend to realize too late and just pick any available one and this is why you see many hot chics ending up with guys that do not match up at all and this is because they have given up sweet guys hoping to get drop dead gorgeous ones.


My advice to ladies generally whether hot or not is Just to keep a level head and be humble and trust me, even the most handsome and responsible men will come begging to have you for keeps.

Its never about outward beauty but its all about the beauty of the mind and even a man who have sworn to date or marry a super curvy chic will melt if he comes across a humble,submissive,non abusive straight shaped lady with a quality of a real virtuous wife.

Guys are wiser now and a reasonable man will not mind to marry a humble respectful ugly lady rather than have a manner-less and sharp tongued sex symbol as a wife but would rather bleep and dump such.

Hope this helps
Christianity EtcRe: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Toks2008(m): 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)
Self servicing is a rather complex matter.

The Bible is totally silent about this matter but then I always ask; when you masturbate, what do you think about? This is where the complexity sets in.

I really don’t think a single man or woman wil be thinking about a football game or a tractor when self servicing but probably about someone who he or she is not really married to which makes it lusting which translates to sin..

Married people who self service thinking about their hubby or wives may really be practicing a sinless act but I believe it will be unwholesome to self service thinking about an illicit sexual act.

Nevertheless, this subject remains one with strong debate where some believe that as long as actual sexual intercourse is not involved, it is sinless and harmless but this is my take on the matter.
RomanceRe: Discuss Your Relationshp Issues Here With Mature Minds. by Toks2008(op): 11:10pm On Sep 05, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)
Self servicing is a rather complex matter.

The Bible is totally silent about this matter but then I always ask; when you masturbate, what do you think about? This is where the complexity sets in.

I really don’t think a single man or woman wil be thinking about a football game or a tractor when self servicing but probably about someone who he or she is not really married to which makes it lusting which translates to sin..

Married people who self service thinking about their hubby or wives may really be practicing a sinless act but I believe it will be unwholesome to self service thinking about an illicit sexual act.

Nevertheless, this subject remains one with strong debate where some believe that as long as actual sexual intercourse is not involved, it is sinless and harmless but this is my take on the matter.
BusinessRe: Forex Trading - Season 15 by Toks2008(m):
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I posted the system activity here sometime back but unfortunately there was an update on mt4 build which affected the activities so i had to do some adjustments and now back to trading with the system.

Now im not selling anything here but rather making it open for you all to observe for this month and give your feed backs.

The system is an intraday system that locks 30pips with maximum of 40pips and opens maximum of 6positions a day.

Here are the rules of the system.

Rules of trading:

The system is ideal for scalpers aiming for 10pips,very short time trader aiming for 20pips and intraday trader aiming for 30/40pips maximum.

1.Maximum of 6 positions a day which opens and closes before the end of the trading day and each position that comes up aims for maximum to of 40pips but locks in 30pips.

2.You can only have maximum of 3 positions at any point in time during the trading day.

3.Just wait for a trade to come up at anytime during the trading day by checking just before the close of 30mins candle stick at anytime during the day and place your position in same direction of the open position.

4.You can adjust your tp to 10/20/30pips but do not alter the stop loss.(there is a micro lot that comes up with the main positions to show the 10pips/20pips profit feature)

5.You can enter as many as all the positions as they come up each time aiming not more than 10-30pips.

6.When you see a pending order come up please place same with making sure you set your tp at 25pips maximum.

7.Use good money management and you can get the best result if you only keep to simple rules and use a separate account to trade this and must be an account with leverage not more than 1:20 to avoid greedy lot trading.

8. Enjoy your profits.

Happy trading.

As a practical oriented trader and signal provider,i do not indulge in paper trades so follow the real time live trading activities here.


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then you will see list of servers so scroll down to add new broker server then copy and paste NewForex-Live.

Click scan and the server will be included then enter the account number and inv password and you will be able to view the account activities or you can go to google,com and download newforex mt4.

Please lets observe together and im not promising anything at this point.

Thanks and happy viewing.
Christianity EtcRe: How A Mammi Water Almost Ruined A UNILAG Student by Toks2008(m): 6:59pm On Sep 05, 2015
mowah:
Well, as we all know, not all that glitters is Gold, here is a Testimony of a unilag student named David, surname withheld at an MFM church.

David is a 400L student of unilag and has been attending MFM youth church since he gained admission in 2011. He was a very active church member until sometimes in November 2014, it was getting close to the exam period at unilag and David decided to study at his favorite destination in campus which is the Lagoon front.

While reading in front of the peaceful water, he meet a very beautiful dark Lady crying, he felt sorry for her and decided to walk up to her. He later asked her why she was crying and she told him all that happened that her boyfriend dumped her. David as a Christian gave her some words of encouragement, preached to her and consoled her. They became friends, more interesting, he has fallen in love for the first time in his life. Unluckily for him a mammy water.

After their exams they became much closer and by february 14 2015. They became lovers. As the relationship grew the young Lady began to demand for sex but David was reluctant until one day he decided to forgo his church program to go out with the young Lady. He was drunk that night and had sex with the lady, you know what it means to sleep with a yemoja, David life changed, he started having sex with her more frequently, he never went to church, he started smoking, his friends started to notice his change and started advising him but he wouldnt listen.

Until July 2015. David fell ill. He went from one Hospital to another but they couldnt diagnose the cause of his illness. Until he started seeing the girl in his dreams he then went to the church for Prayers. The pastor Later told him to confess his deeds which he later did. He later realised she was from the marine world and had ruined his destiny. After seven days of Prayers he finally became delivered. I'm wondering what could have happened to the girl as David shared his Testimony on sunday. This story of David is lesson to us, Pray while choosing your girlfriend before she ruins you.
May GOD save us because no one is perfect in choosing.Absolutely no one and this sex thing is too deep because thats the greatest blood covenant ever.
RomanceRe: The Amazing diverse Beauty Of Women (Photo). by Toks2008(op): 6:50pm On Sep 05, 2015
mecussey:
their sound in bed is awsome.
Habba! sound kwpa!
RomanceRe: The Amazing diverse Beauty Of Women (Photo). by Toks2008(op): 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2015
angelofurlife:
lol
U go old waiting for the pinchur
You are on your own.
RomanceRe: The Amazing diverse Beauty Of Women (Photo). by Toks2008(op): 6:46pm On Sep 05, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
some guys are majorly into L shocked shocked they wouldn't date any girl if she's not L. A case of one man's poison is another man's food cheesy
Definitely
CelebritiesRe: Enita Odugbemi: I Thank God For Giving Me Very Big Boobs (Photos) by Toks2008(m): 5:47pm On Sep 05, 2015
yollychika:
So I shud scream to God fo giving me small ones
moderate fierm boobs the best.

anytn above 36d is iranu and abacha
CelebritiesRe: Enita Odugbemi: I Thank God For Giving Me Very Big Boobs (Photos) by Toks2008(m): 5:42pm On Sep 05, 2015
laurel03:
Ds is real Eru Oke.... Good packaging
Tarrrr
RomanceRe: The Amazing diverse Beauty Of Women (Photo). by Toks2008(op): 2:17pm On Sep 05, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
I can go for all but A, F, L and the two Us' #yuck!
A is ok and L is best for a guy i know.
RomanceRe: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Toks2008(m): 1:58pm On Sep 05, 2015
YourMain:
I'm sure you can work to earn money to achieve the lifestyle you want.

You never know what could happen to the rich guy you're not attracted to. He could lose his money then you'll have nothing.

A relationship should consist of both partners bringing something to the table. Go with the not so rich guy and work. That way you can eat your cake and have it.
In as much as i agree with your standview i will also advice th lady to look deeply into that not so rich guy personal perspective of life so that she wont just love a poor man without a zeal to survive.

There are many jackass guys these days who will not mind living on the lady in their lives.

Furthermore i belong to the school of taught which believes that my lady has no role in financial contribution to the home front.

I care less if she makes millions a month,its my responsibility to take care of her and the home and she should save her money or do watever she likes with it.
RomanceRe: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Toks2008(m): 1:46pm On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.
Yourr case is pathetic.

You and your brother needs serious re oriieentation and i must say you are not ready for a purposeeful affair.

What defiines riches?

is it money at hand or the potentials in us?

A man of great potential is a million times better than a circunstantial rich man.

A rich man can lose his riches and will nver rise again but take eveerything from a man of vision and great drive and he will bouncee back

Anyways this type of thread can only be seen on a Nigerian forum and posted by a typical money monger lady.

Iranu
Christianity EtcRe: I Sold My Son To Buy Cocaine –bishop Peller (Pictured) by Toks2008(m): 1:38pm On Sep 05, 2015
Seunaj05:
Great lesson for our young timing youths. Addiction is soo bad that it only takes divine intervention to be free. WARNING!! addiction is better PREVENTED than controlled. Thank God he met Jesus, The CORRECTER and the CURE of addiction. Lord Jesus, I have this addition, I cannot just help myself, help me (amen)
It usually sstarts from cigerette then to weed and on and on
RomanceRe: The Amazing diverse Beauty Of Women (Photo). by Toks2008(op): 12:26pm On Sep 05, 2015
angelofurlife:
Am a B
Pinchur or idonbilivit
RomanceRe: Dear Men See Things That Make Women Want To Have Sex With You (see Here) by Toks2008(m): 11:39am On Sep 05, 2015
realuz:
You Must have Heard “Not tonight, honey” a few too many times lately? If it’s just not happening between the sheets for you and your lady, it might be time to learn what really gets her psyched for s ex. While guys are generally up for s ex whenever, wherever (regardless of the situation), women tend to need a bit more inspiration, according to Cindy M. Meston, Ph.D. and David M. Buss, Ph.D., psychology professors at the University of Texas at Austin and coauthors of Why Women Have s ex: Understanding s exual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between). For a better understanding of how to get her in the mood, consider the following eight factors that Meston and Buss say affects a woman’s lib ido:




1. Her man’s appearance
Men are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, bo dy and movement as well, say Meston and Buss. “s exually, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. bo dy-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio s exually attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be s exual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym.

2. The time of day
Meston says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have s ex when they feel their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel s exy — and that may or may not be at night.” In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!

3. Certain smells
Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it comes to s exual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various glands in their bo dy — can influence a woman’s desire to be s exually intimate with a man. Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important role in determining her willingness to have s ex with a man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically healthy, strong children together,” says Buss.



4. Her guy’s choice of words
Often, what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.
To score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can often be s exually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a s exual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.



5. The need for revenge
In their research, Meston and Buss found that many women had “revenge s ex” with someone other than their most recent dating partner to get back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,” as some women put it. “Some women hoped their ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt, and other women said they didn’t care if they found out or not — they felt better just knowing they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is the need for revenge such a turn-on for women? “Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss explains. The first function is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop picking on victims who retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their illicit activities when the other person retaliates in kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation management,” says Buss. “Women who are scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social reputation, whether they are cheated on or dumped. Having s ex — especially if it is with someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.

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That number 5 tho

I guess only a lady with a slutty mindset thinks that way.
RomanceRe: The Amazing diverse Beauty Of Women (Photo). by Toks2008(op): 11:16am On Sep 05, 2015
Vikky014:
A IS EVEN FATTER THAN ME. I NEED TO FEED MORE
lol! please do
CelebritiesRe: Sir Victor Uwaifo, The Nigerian Musician Who Saw A Real Mermaid by Toks2008(m): 11:10am On Sep 05, 2015
Rotimi47:
Mermaids are real as I heard stories from a guy whose cousin saw one & he almost died, likewise a local documentary made in Lagos had typical local fishermen interviewed on the issue of mermaid & they responded saying they encounter them once in a while & that 2 kinds exists, the wicked ones who don't like humans & as such attack them & the good ones who help them catch lots of fishes. As for me there is no good mermaid as they're all demons.
No no they are not demons but simply aqua beings just like we have land human beings like you and i.

Remember that GOD also created living things in the sea and they are probably one of those.

Do you know that we have sea lions,sea dogs,sea bat,sea turtle and so on so in like manner we have marine bodies but the ones i saw on You tube looks so ugly and scary

You can watch here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sy-ZtF2aB4Y
Jokes EtcRe: Photo: This Power Generator Seller Has Started Seeing The Effect Of 'change' by Toks2008(m): 4:42am On Sep 05, 2015
lilmizwierd:
the way phed keeps light this days is alarming 24hours 18 hours with the romantic bill of #1600
My generator is about to hit olx and
But amazingly in my area,power supply is still epileptic.
InvestmentRe: What To Do With 2.5 Million Naira by Toks2008(m): 4:59pm On Sep 04, 2015
fucklikant101:
Just got back to Nigeria few months ago after 7 years in eastern Europe, I studied there and worked 2 years there and saved up. Now I am in Nigeria, I know 2.5 is very little but at least it is something. What type of business can i start with this?

Lalasticlala pls help a brother out
1.I will take you up on small scale domestic gas refill plant/depot

2.You can also set up an office for a qualitative computer training and other businesses.

For more info you can call Diamond Field business concerns ltd on 08023146046
RomanceRe: Discuss Your Relationshp Issues Here With Mature Minds. by Toks2008(op): 11:42am On Sep 04, 2015
Kulas:
Hello NL,i noticed that i was having sex,real one with all the bouncing in and out.It was when my wife woke me up and ask me what is happening(may be the noise attracted her attention) that i m fucking in the dream.That was when i now woke up and realized that it was in dream,i thought it was real( in phyical).Please have anybody noticed this kind thing before,and what can be the cause and the solution as i dont like such.
While in Nigeria we often attribute spiritsm to having sex in the dream but in my school of taught its mostly a figment of our subliminal mind activities at work.

A sex starved man is prone to dream sex likewise an hungry man is likely to dream about eating in the dream.

"Occasionally, women and men may dream about someone they love or can't stand and are definitely not attracted to in real life. "Sexual feelings can be sparked by a range of emotions—including rage, which is a type of passion." And a passionate dream could signal feelings of anger—in real life—toward the subject of your dream. "It could mean you're angry at that person, and expressing your anger in your dream." But both say the bottom line is this: A dream is a dream. Don't get too hung up on it. "What's important is that women are able to separate their waking desires from their dreaming desires and know that their dreams don't have to dictate or suggest anything about their sex life so Shrug it off and move on.

If you decide to ask spiritualists then you should probably be ready to get reaped off when they ask you to start bringing this or that for deliverance.

Be as it may, if it keeps repeating itself then go for a spiritual counsel but for now just let it pass and pray to GOD against it.
RomanceRe: Sex In Dream,please Whats The Cause And The Way Out? by Toks2008(m): 11:40am On Sep 04, 2015
Kulas:
Hello NL,i noticed that i was having sex,real one with all the bouncing in and out.It was when my wife woke me up and ask me what is happening(may be the noise attracted her attention) that i m fucking in the dream.That was when i now woke up and realized that it was in dream,i thought it was real( in phyical).Please have anybody noticed this kind thing before,and what can be the cause and the solution as i dont like such.
While in Nigeria we often attribute spiritsm to having sex in the dream but in my school of taught its mostly a figment of our subliminal mind activities at work.

A sex starved lady is prone to dream sex likewise an hungry man is likely to dream about eating in the dream.

"Occasionally, women may dream about someone they can't stand and are definitely not attracted to in real life. "Sexual feelings can be sparked by a range of emotions—including rage, which is a type of passion." And a passionate dream could signal feelings of anger—in real life—toward the subject of your dream. "It could mean you're angry at that person, and expressing your anger in your dream." But both say the bottom line is this: A dream is a dream. Don't get too hung up on it. "What's important is that women are able to separate their waking desires from their dreaming desires and know that their dreams don't have to dictate or suggest anything about their sex life so Shrug it off and move on.

If you decide to ask spiritualists then you should probably be ready to get reaped off when they ask you to start bringing this or that for deliverance.

Be as it may, if it keps repeating itself then go for a spiritual counsel but for now just let it pass and pray to GOD against it.

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