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namedonfinish:
Oop, my bad.. Sowi dear, after i went offline did a little investigation n i discovered that ur supposed anut is actually ur mom, so i see d reason y u are so pained. Bt dear no need been agressive, i already discovered who ur fathers are, so tell ur momma to reach me so i can give her d address of the three men who slept wit her in two days twenty years ago in the traquil city of Ibadan.. And as for u, stop blamin ur momma, she was only tryin to set a standard for u...lol...
Pls in case u need a job, contact me so i can get u one, cos my cute princess needs an after school nanny while am away @ work..
Also pls tell ur momma to teach u some manners so as to make u marketable for marriage.. Cos u sure dont hv any.. Hugs n kisses to u to alleviate ur miserable life..

dunsman:
Opp all these one wey u write na thrash, my advice to dem is dat dey should get married. Lobatan

Moana:
how will they get married of they don't know how to handle themselves well first?

remsonik:
Oh so you know where your child's father is and he didn't take responsibility for his daughter, a slut like you yet you have let the op decided for you nothing good can ever come out of your life other than hop from bed to bed with a married man,divorcee or a widower.
How pathetic can your life get. Yes my aunt led a wayward life and she's suffering the consequence of her actions today. I really don't care about her,her child is a bastard same as yours!! Deal with it prostitute!!

xtervaganza:
what's wrong woth you? Are you having a bad day or something?




1st you said his post his trash and later you said he has good points? Which one do you want us to believe?



Are you on your period?



Lol

namedonfinish:
well, my dear i knw where my daughter's father is, unlike ur anuty who slept with three men in two days and cant even say who her child's father is.. So i guess ur family is yet to get over the pathetic incident.. Take heart and my condolence to ur family biatch...

Ndkings1:
The heart of man is wicked. That seems to be a common saying widely used by us. What we often do not ask is the action that prompts that reaction. I want to share my story so some of you out there will learn lifematics-101(Trust no one).
I have been married for 9years and after much attempts to have a child of our own, 5years into the marriage we had a boy. It didn’t come as easy as I have just put it; by the way I didn’t state I married an Igbo man who had an identical twin and I am a (lady. That alone had come with loads of back and forth from the early preparation days of getting married to finally having a child. Some who have been in my shoes can relate better, I guess. Inter-cultural marriage isn’t always one smooth ride.
My husband’s twin was one man I always had high regard for, he was calm, ever willing to listen whenever my husband and the rest of the family came hard and blamed me for childlessness. Atimes I often wished I married him instead of my husband. That was how much effect he always had on me during those trying times.
All these while, my husband never had an issue with the closeness that existed between myself and his twin, infact he usually encourages him to come around and spend time with us; much to my delight considering he often gave comforting words whenever my husband chooses not to understand. There were days in which we just hung out and just enjoyed being happy. He makes some moves that I sometimes find offensive but my husband smiles and says he is my twin.
On this certain day, my husband went to work. I was home seeing a movie when my bro-in-law offered me wine he got on his way to our place, out of excitement I popped, had few shots while we giggled and laughed as usual. Few minutes later, I felt tipsy and tired, not too long I fell asleep. Waking up, I found myself in the bedroom naked, examined myself and realized there was a sexual intercourse. Sitting across me was my bro-in-law equally undressed smiling and said it was time for me to know the truth because he could no longer bear it and feels I deserve to know the truth. It was like the saddest and most disappointing moment in my life.
Before I could say a word, he told me all what happened. He told me it was his twin(my husband)’s idea to often switch places at nights. Apparently my husband had low sperm count according to his twin, as such could not father a child, that he often had sex with me at night while I thought it was my husband. While he said all these, I started adding two plus two together and it became obvious he was saying the truth. My husband sometimes wear a red boxers to bed and when we wake up in the morning I will find a black boxers on the floor and red on him. A lot of things started running through my mind and it began to make sense.
I broke down and couldn’t stand it. Called my mother on the phone and told her I was finished. I couldn’t tell her what had happened and suicide became my next option. My husband had ruined me, he had made me worthless, life no longer means anything to me as I now see myself as a piece of sh*t.
Suicide was all I thought of, the two closest persons to me had passed me around like a used sex-toy. I have left my husband’s house and moved on with my son, whom I am not sure of whom the real father is. Trust nobody. Life is cruel. My story

iceberylin:
A girl will only hate you if you dont give her Attention

I wont tell long story here because there is no need..



What am saying here is about myself.. manhood is not just straight, it bent. .



Is there any harm?? Am single and never had sex before.. Still wondering, can I be able to locate the G_spot when the time reaches.. Please advice me if you have any valuable infos,, ladies if ur hobby get this kinda stuff, does actually reach that zone. .



Married with experience pls advice
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babyfaceafrica:
hmmmm....17 yrs...3 guys in 2 days....issorite

remsonik:
Op you have started writing trash again. I only agree with your first and last point,others I say are trash. Leave the advise for the married and single parents to do!!
You told them not to take responsibility for their child? haba bros why? What if the guy who impregnated them isn't capable to cater for the child financially? What if she doesn't even know who impregnated her?
She shouldn't be selective? Are you daft? So because she has a child already she's not eligible to have the best of life? She should start looking for divorcees and married men to marry?
I fear for all this marriage matter counselors on Nl o

remsonik:
Tueh!! I have an aunt who doesn't know the father of her baby till date,the elder brother is the one who Funke knows as her father. My aunt slept with 3 guys within two days like 20+ years ago in Ibadan on a vacation to a very older family member. She was just 17 then. Up till date we no know funke's dad o.
Some ladies don't know why some knows and d guy refuses to take responsibility.

tintingz:
abeg no vex jare, that's how i book space on every thread that's interesting.

So it might enter front page.

tintingz:
incase e enter front page.

tintingz:
incase sha

Aisha95:
Not that I can't! But I won't. Hell no! Why would a guy want to stick to such an out-dated car?
Is he too poor or much of a miser to get a new one? Or is he actually testing me?
I will refuse him blantantly on the very spot.

ronald4lif:
How can a man not refuse a child but refuse taking up the child responsibility? If a man accept a child as his he should equally take up parenting responsibility. Any attempt to jettison and reject his responsibility could mean he's denying the child and wouldn't end by him just coming to say I'm sorry and the child embrace him back into his life. Those stuff isn't as effective like you put it.

So if a woman shouldn't care for her child and take care of them because the father refuses to share in the child welfare then what becomes the fate of such child? Should the woman also abandon him because the man might just come years after and apologise to him? Don't get the logic.

ronald4lif:
I feel indifferent about the number 4 point. Why should a woman not take up responsibility of her own child on the grounds that the dad might come take him/her away from her someday? The chances of a child forgetting his mum who took care of him and see him through the rigour of life for a dad who abandoned him is very slim and unlikely. And even if that is to be an actuality it's not enough reason for a woman not to take up responsibility for her own child.

Also, I think people who think a man can just come back and apologise to a child he neglected and abandoned for years and the child accepts them back are living in the past. Most rejected children of nowadays don't ever want to hear about their biological dad and abhors the thought of letting them into their lives. They were just sperm donors, not their father. A father is one who loved, cherished and took up his parenting responsibility as one.

Princessderaa:
dix days matured men prefer single mothers to single lades.

baralatie:
with this comment you don't need zodiac sign.you only need common sense about women behaviour.

adebisicutie:
You call your self a Christian and yet you base your belief about a person you don't know on zodiac signs?

adebisicutie:
You call your self a Christian and yet you base your belief about a person you don't know on zodiac signs?

baralatie:
"if you dissect her?"
it will amount to nothing but a further degradation of the matter at hand.
marriage is a very powerful institution that can crack the best of individuals.there is no superman and superwoman in marriage only a " penultimate super of the super God".
I wish I kind digress and talk on how people get hit and find themselves hurt by a simple thing as forgetting a birthday or a simple thing as misinformation.
for pastor and Anita is was a trying period for both of them and I pray that they both find that missing fire between them but for any1 to single out Anita or pastor for "dissecting" is not a good idea.

harbeedaymee:
Aren't you silly? So she should die in the marriage just because she wants to obey doctrine. Your foolishness knows no bounds

baralatie:
what if I tell you that you are biased in your judgement about some1 you don't know in person

baralatie:
what if I tell you that you are biased in your judgement about some1 you don't know in person

ladyF:
It's the kids I pity. Caught up in all the mess

ramdris:
Gradually gradually ASA is trying to change from decency to indecency. Last tym na her leg during shower and now this.

Someone should let her know she is one of d few respected female Artist we all cherish. She should remain so.