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cococandy:
Do you even know the meaning of vulgarity?
Because this one doesn't match your opinion, it is vulgar Abi. Were there any cuss word or censored words in that post.

This your opinion is like saying there's nothing wrong in slave trading and expect to be lauded for it. I can't sugarcoat how annoying it is so pls forgive the directness. You expect me to tell you "Oga pls ejoor child labor is not good"

If you don't see anything wrong in hiring children to work for you--a situation in which they have no choice but to go with whatever you and the seller decide to do with them, there's no gentle way to tell you except bluntly.

Child labor is wrong
It is wrong
It is wrong
Wrong wrong wrong.

Many people didn't know better and used to do it. Can't blame them. But that time has passed. I'm surprised all the campaign of child's rights organizations all over Nigerian is not affecting that many people. Now anyone who's doing it can't claim ignorant.
What will happen before that will change?

It's disheartening that you're a young man who should know better.

By all means, dislike adult maids if you want but the solution is not using children instead. Prepare your mind to work with your partner and keep your home as you want if you can't hire an adult maid.

now you are communicating without using harsh words like nonsense...

Well if employing minors will translate to childs labor then forget getting a maid.

This is not about discipline please..men are visual and i dont expect many women to understand this.

ORALL:
The bi.tch is probably in. Her periods...PMS behaviour,pardon her

lol. that bitch word though

Onegai:
sorry but out of all my siblings, this is the only one I can vouch for. His mentality is so not typical nigerian guy, he can't date or befriend Nigerians (he genuinely tried but kept getting appalled at what he saw in the community). He even thinks I'm too conservative (and this is a guy who was one of the few Christians I respected in this world). He knows cheating happens but he's just ashamed that fellow men keep justifying and expecting women to accept it (he believes strongly in personal responsibility).

I commend him but i can say same for myself and i pride myself as a man of honour and great virtue but nvertheless i still maintain that we never can tell what we are capable of doing or not doing until we are faced woth the situation

SAMBARRY:
see excuses and justification to sleep with housemaid?

How low can some men get. Doing house chores turns him on

come to think of it.

A maid washes my cloths and that of the baby

makes my food

runs errands for me

Always at my beck and call

makes the bed
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.
.
.will it be out of place if i start admiring her?

cococandy:
A minor can't work for pay legally.
So whoever you're paying to keep her as your maid is exploiting her with your help.
I'm sure you won't like to give your own child out to work as an underage maid to anyone but will encourage others to do so to children of poorer parents who are ignorant and greedy and won't mind using their kids to survive.

The earlier you learn that self control is the way out, the better for you. The solution is not using children as maids. It's for those guys who have minds like yours to learn to control themselves.

I don't know what's all these nonsense one reads here everyday. We are talking of how to move the country forward and you're busy propagating child labor because in your mind all men lack self control. If the ladies insult you guys with that phrase, you will start crying. But here you are lending credence to the generalization that men have no self control. Are all of them like you?

Do you all sleep with your female classmates and female colleagues because you come in contact with them everyday? So a man can't have an adult female employee without thinking of sleeping with her? Do you hope to one day employ people as a boss or will women be out of the question because you don't trust yourself around them?

What's wrong with you self?

This is not one of those topics that one will be like just ignore them they are talking nonsense. You're actually here propagating child labor. An offense for which people serve jail time in saner climes.

Pls stop this nonsense. It's enough.

i will not give you another luxury of having me respond to your comment if you dont learn how to articulate your opinion in a non derogatorry manner.

I wrote my opinion and if you have a counter opinion please articulate it in an intelligent andd intellectual manner without hyperventilations and vulgarity. We are not in a beer parlor.

SAMBARRY:
so the phenese is that uncontrollable?

Not that the man will just see a maid and just pounce on her but when the made starts doing the vital duties of a wife,apparently the maid should get what madam gets.

Omotayor123:
And yet one of my friends is insisting she can't get married without having a maid... Smh!

Nice piece OP.

Imagine a lady bringing home a maid that is jut as sweet looking as you lol.

Onegai:
God bless you. Child labour rather than self-control.

I scared my brother's gf by showing her NL last month. See panicking! My bro had to tell her "I'm different from these guys"

Some guys will always say they are different until they come face to face with the situatiion.

Which man will accept that he has the tendency to cheat on his woman? how many ladies have used that phrase...my man is different...just to realize how myopic they have been.

A man no matter how highly placed can decend so low as ladies put it to sleep with a dirty looking maid if she is allowed to do stuffs that madamm should do and that is the message im passing accross.

fr3do:
This houseboy, housegirl norm is modern day slaves!
A matured help can always be employed to work part time.

The business of paying for and rendering help can become a big industry that can provide much employment.

Slaves are bought and not paid wages but made to render services MANDATORILY but when you take up a task and you are paid for it then its no longer slavery but a job.

Mindfulness:
Which assertion?



Neither does her age (13-15 years) guarantee that a man will stay away.
And it is also wrong to say that a 13-year-old girl does not have any "visible sexual features".

i was actually trying to point out that 13 to 15 are still minors and only a beast of a husband will stoop low to this level and if you see a 13 yr old maid with fully developed sexual features you can always go for another one.

Mindfulness:
So the solution is to employ kids instead of sending them to school so that men are not tempted because they are weak polygamous by nature?

Lets face it. Not everyone will attain a higher form of education and life sometimes put us in situation we never wished for so this assertion of yours is not really applicable in this situation.

A maid today does not mean education will stop.

SAMBARRY:
I taya o.na every thing them go dey quote Bible for.

Kotokoto

lol! the bible was not quoted to justify the act dear but to state how ridiculous it sounds.

THE MAID FACTOR...A must read for every lady

I just got a disturbing news from my neighborhood about a man who just got their house maid pregnant and this is why i decided to write this article for everyone to read but before i continue i will like to quote this scripture not to justify the act but to lay emphases on how strange it is:

"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

I get so surprised when a woman finds out that her hubby is making out with a maid and she uses words like "How could you? a COMMON MAID"

Now ladies open your eyes and widen your reasoning faculty and get this straight.

Men are visual,we think about sex way more than you do as women and we are very polygamous by nature meaning we naturally love to be with as many ladies as possible but if you find a man who is decent and disciplined then such a man is a rare breed.

The Nigerian mentality that your level in life is determined by how much money you make or your educational background is quite honestly annoying; every occupation should be accorded it's dignity, housemaids offer an essential service to the society and should be respected as such.

That stated, when a woman fails to realize that part of the seduction process involves the respect and care she offers her husband I.e in the little things she does, like making him food, paying attention to his attire, etc if she totally reneges on these duties and leaves it to the housemaid, she effectively sets up her husband to be seduced by the housemaid; besides, a housemaid is so awestruck by the attention she receives from the master of the house, she is willing to submit to a lot of things madam no longer deems necessary and if you're a man, you know there's nothing more flattering nor seductive than a willing woman....

In short, it is my opinion that when a man begins to cast a lustful glance at the housemaid,in most cases it's a symptom that madam is neglecting her duties somewhere.

Wait guys, i am not promoting randy lifestyle or justifying the shameless act of sleeping with a maid not because SHE IS A MAID but how can you have your wife in the same house and yet sleeping with a maid? This is arrant nonsense i must say

But then to the women, please if you must get a house maid, do not go for the type with conspicous sexual body features.

Lets leave hypocrisy, if my wife brings home a maid that has sweet curves, i will call her to order and ask her to send the maid back. Prevention is better than fighting temptation.

A maid is human, a maid was born the same way you were born, a maid has the same feminine sexual features just as you have and even usually younger,Stop employing matured maids if you have a man at home to prevent unpleasant situation.

If you like ,start saying you trust your husband, he can not do this or that but by the time it happens, don't say i have not warned you.

Be wise

Omotayor123 you are naturally adorable,lovely skin,sweet innocent face,nice t*ts,lovely lips with lovely dentition of white teeth coupled with a graceful figure.Only you.

1stHola:
See hin ogogongo

At his age in 1975, he became a governor.
In 1983 again at a very young age, he became the head of states

Now in 2015, he his now the president

WHEN WILL IT BE OUR TURN

He was a governor in 1975 when i was born and they said im the future geneeraton,the leader of tomorrow and now at 40 that same man is stll the president.Hmmmm

When exacttly wll iit be the turn of my generaton to rule ths country?

I know one day we will get there.

EnlightenedSoul:
LadyBoss has been gone.

This all was to demonstrate to you that when someone asks you to remove their goddamn username from your post, you do it. I was curious as to whether or not your peers would refuse a simple request when asked of them politely as you had. Now I see it was all you, although who the heck knows why tf?

Freakin' whackjob! Buy yourself a pocket dictionary, and re-learn the meaning of the word "respect", ya hear

Thank you!

Ladyboss has been gone??

Goddamn

Respect

Omoyi need iranlowo

i would not have responded but i honestly feel for you.Anyways go to page 3 and remind lady boss to remove your name stating emphatically that i made a mistake concluding that you are intelligent.

g nyt.

whobdisguy:
that's cos they've been humbled by time n experience. They are only looking for gullible guys like u to hoodwink. Once u give them d ring, their true colour go appear!

And i walk out of the union.Shokenah

RHEWBENYT:
life has thought me dat nigerian ladies starts having sense from age 26...!!!!

it depends on individuals and what we have passed through.

[quote author=RHEWBENYT post=36844372]life has thought me dat nigerian ladies starts having sense from age 26...!!!!

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Its only normal in most cases because the more we grow the more we learn

EnlightenedSoul:
Yeah, self-inflicted aggravation on your end. Simply delete my name from your post, and be on your way, wa7yahow.

And be sure to buy yourself a pocket dictionary.

i hve done that and i guess its apparent that ladyboss probably ignored you because its only saddists that will act as you just did.

please do me a favour and stop quoting me cos you scare me.

g nyt

EnlightenedSoul:
Clearly you are.

Erase my name from YOUR post on Page 1. Erase it.

Will you just mellow please.Whoever reads this will think i wrote an offensive thing about you so enough of your unwarranted aggravations

I will remove it right away.Iranu

Omotayor123:
Remove her name na... She already asked us to do Same...
BTW,

Aren't you participating in the wooing challenge

Wat?

she actually did that.oh my please which page again did i write that post so i can remove her name. this one pass my power but i cant start flipping a 10 page thread.

wooing xhallenge?

who i go woo self?

EnlightenedSoul:
I never asked you to bother yourself with other quotes (of which THREE are gone btw)! Are you really this thick??

Erase it from YOUR post.

Im very very thick and now that you say they are gone,i will check but if at least one is still remaining then i will conclude that you just want to bother me for no reason.

Cutehector:
I endorse this topic for front page!



Thumbs up

I will be glad to have this in the frontpage because it will save a lot of people from entering into one chance affair.

EnlightenedSoul:
Nacaladyahow waalan, you can remove it from YOUR post by modifying YOUR post, and deleting it from there!

i know how to ddo that from the main post but what about the 4 mentions? how do one remove that?

thats y i wrote that you let it go.

Benswaggy:
no mind dem.

They are like...i can get any man at anytime.

Omotayor123:

Tayo na laff u dey laff me? i don enter wahala o.

EnlightenedSoul:
Toks2008: Remove my name from your post.

Egbami o ara nairaland mo ma ri oran o

ok please teach me how to remove your name from the uotes made by other people with your name included.

saasala:
That shiit wasn't even written by you. I have seen an exact write up before on this forum. You definitely stole someone else's work. This is pure plagiarism.

Lol you dont even know me

im a writer that never runs out of ideas and if i write an article everyday of my life i will never run out of ideas.

if you dount me visit my profile page and you will see creative writing and if you visit my fbook wall you will see countless number of writeups that will wow you.

Many times i have seen my very own write up on other platforms but i just look away.

And conclusively it is even allowed to modify or redefine an article based on the one you see somewhere so its really no biggy if i formulated a write up from an existing one and thats what creativity is all about so continue with your unwarranted antagonistic disposition.

One person writes why sex before marriage is bad

Another writes on why sex before marriage is good..

this is called creative writing and no one should trash down another but present intelligent stanpoint like the lady you quoted did. i repeat,bad belle does not pay.

saasala:
Spot on. That dude wrote sheer balderdash. I wonder why he got so many likes

See your sef?,bad belle, people like you are stating intelligent diverse opinion na grammer you dey blow and number of likes dey vex you.

You will make a terrible discussant walahi.

Beamborla:
At this junction, i should ask you if being advanced in age automatically makes one matured?

Yes it does at least 7 out of 10 instances.