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Omotayor123:
Chai... Wetin I do you na No vex for me Biko...

You dey ask abi.continue asking.

Just thank God that you are intellectually sound else i for write you something but honestlyyou are acting in an anti social manner and i expect something better from you.

Omotayor123:
Hmm.. My main man

So on point..

Tayo abeg no comment for my thread again. You are anti social.

You want me to beg you before you communicate abi. You know i won't.

Desperate for a husband


For many years i never knew how ladies in their very late 20s,early 30s and late 30s feel when it comes to the issue of settling down with a man until recently when i had the cause to really get close to many of them.

Yes many of them will always insist that marriage is the least of their worries but deep inside,most of them are hoping desperately to have a man to settle down with and my acquaintanceship with some of them made me decide to write this short piece hoping that when they see and read it,they will come to understand that their desperation is self inflicted and until they learn to put themselves at a vantage point,they will only hope and wish for a long time that a man comes their way.

I have witnessed many deliverance session for ladies all in the name of looking for a husband but after a close look i come to realize that they are their own problems and this is as a result of the society that have brainwashed them and rather than dealing with the problems,they end up running from from one prophet to another and from one deliverance service to another and some have become a shadow of themselves as they turn to emergency sister dressing like masquerades,going without earrings,make up and even on low cut all in the name of looking for a man.

Please when next you see such ladies,help me inform them that deliverance won't solve their problems and even when we know that there are spiritual hindrance to getting a spouse,most times what we need is a re orientation of our minds,ways of life and culture.

1.Many ladies will not say yes to a man if you are not ready to do traditional wedding,legal wedding,white wedding,blue wedding... Please tell me how easy you expect to find a man in this harsh economy.

2.As an Igbo lady,you are naturally at risk unless you drive it into your man's ear that in your own family they don't ask a man for crazy bride price otherwise you will only see men come into your life without discussing marriage and you will think its a curse from the village but its only as a result of the funny belief that Igbo ladies are expensive to marry.

3.How many ladies can start a life with a struggling man? I guess part of the prayer point during deliverance is that GOD should bring a ready made man to propose to you.Mumu

4.Funny doctrinal belief is another hindrance and many ladies who run to conservative churches in the bid to have a man end up in more bondage.I had a lady friend in her 30s who i admire so much but she goes to one of this conservative churches and there was a time i was so sick and i was expecting her to visit but she never did and when i told her i was angry,she was so quick to say she can not visit me at home and i was like FOR REAL? Even a sick guy? i even told her that she would have at least come in company of a friend and i lost interest in the friendship instantly and i wonder how she will get a good man with that mindset.

5.Rough past is another hindrance and many ladies just believe that if a man loves them the past does not matter.

6.Lack of wife qualities is another issue and i wonder how a lady who does not have the required quality to be a mrs to a man will be desperate fore a man because even if any man comes,he will eventually leave you until you work on yourself.

The bottom line is that many ladies we see in churches today who tend to be looking for a husband are their own problems. So stop been desperate and work on your mindset and you will be surprised that in no time,a good man will walk into your life and marry you.

You enter room with a man and you claim he wants to rape you or probably raped you.

Ladies deceiving themselves since the times of Adam.

natas22:
The hands of my sai buhari not that clean, if it was he would have not sent that message to obj

Guilty conscience

www.

I pity people who believe all these news.

Before i believe any news i always wait for sometime because the press can make you believe poo.

igahdavid:
Nigerian women are really hard working

God bless me so that my wife will never have to strugle but enjoy my wealth.

obilewon:
hello Toks2008, my name is obinna.. this is my email anyokuobinna@yahoo.co.uk. please send me an email i need to have a chat with u... regards

Check your e-mail

Happiness87:
If Mikano is owned by Atiku, he will mount pressure on Pmb to ensure power reforms fails, so His company can sell his generators.
note: not only Atiku, there is Perkins etc.

Dangote will ensure he remains the major distributor of cement, that is how many cement factories were shut down eg, Eagle cement, ibeto cement etc.

petroleum inporters eg Oando owned by Tinubu, will ensure that we don't have refineries working at full capacity, so that his company can benefit from subsidies, and sales of fuels.

the list continues, ine reason Nigeria is a zoo

I am impressed by your intelligence

idongesit88:
This is naija, always comfirm urself after shaking with people u barely knw, even d 1s u knw, people are wicked

Me i no dey shake hands with anybody againnot even with people i know. Trust no one.

Its even good that these victims detect on time and i wonder if there is a new improved one that makes it varnish after two days..

This is why i love these western worlds,they don't give up.

makeitsoon:
Stop talking trash, they are all scams!

Are you a newcomer or you are the owner of the site? This is just like PennyWise of 2005/2006 era. Be wise!

this is why with people of your mindset you will spend all your life working under a company and fighting for salary increase.

If you ever have a little iq you wont imply that i talk trash rather you will discuss intelligently.

Before cyber crime became a known thing i knew about it and if you think everyone is a scammer probably like you or your cohorts then you have missed it.

People like you will alays be spectators and can nver get to any enviable heights in life with your myopic mindset.

Ilets assume you were right and i own the site,does that note state a fact that im an intelligent man? keep living in the grave while smart minds rule the world. Ode

Omotayor123:
OK.

Please remove the quote o

im taking off the number lol i just put it thre for u so im expecting your watsup message.

Omotayor123:
Oh... Thanks sweet. *Blushing *

Sweet indeed,i asked for number you no give me and i wrote my number for u to add me on watsup you refused.

here is my number again and i will remove it after 1hour so save it and lets chat on watsup

If wwe apply bodmas the answer is 5

Omotayor123:
Hmm

You look amazingly gorgeous in your profile pics. That braids so on point and your face so innocently adorable hmmm.

Toks2008:
Ok look at Golden circle international, a German based global cooperative network system that you will need to start with 54euro and when you refer 3friends your total initial start off of 54euro is back into your pocket.

Then forget you ever did it and give yourself like a year and watch what you will have in your account.

Many will say its network again but they will not mind insurance work that will make you walk the whole length and breadth of Lagos, they will not mind the marketing work of banks that will make them prostitute their bodies to met target and many bankers have dropped dead due to High BP of not meeting targets.

I strongly believe there is something fundamentally wrong with the reasoning faculty of many Nigerian youths.

What you may hate might be the passion of another.I do not agree to the unscrupulous ways of luring people into taking up the business but the business in itself should never be condemned. I have seen people becoming millionaires from GNLD and this golden circle cooperative system gave me the initial capital to start my company in 2001 before i had an accident that set me back.

Lets try and think outside the box and stop enslaving ourselves to the salary mentality.

Attached to this post is my members area in Golden circle showing my earnings in just less than a year

You can check my signature to read more about this awesome program. Better than stocks,or any form of MLM

Another screen shot from another registration i made with my own name and the one above is my mum's name as you can register with as many names as you want.

Just sign up with 54euro and sign up only 3 people from anywhere in the world and get back your 54euro and then relax and make good money. Wait for just about a year and plan for something reasonable to do with the money.

This is not a scam but a tried and tested system of over 30years in operation.

tishbite709:
I voluntarily joined KEDI HEALTHCARE, and since then, I have no course to regret. It's just a simple business plan, you BUY and SELL. Those that falls victim of those adverts needs to be enlighten that there is difference between being brainwashed and being a business partner

Ok look at Golden circle international, a German based global cooperative network system that you will need to start with 54euro and when you refer 3friends your total initial start off of 54euro is back into your pocket.

Then forget you ever did it and give yourself like a year and watch what you will have in your account.

Many will say its network again but they will not mind insurance work that will make you walk the whole length and breadth of Lagos, they will not mind the marketing work of banks that will make them prostitute their bodies to met target and many bankers have dropped dead due to High BP of not meeting targets.

I strongly believe there is something fundamentally wrong with the reasoning faculty of many Nigerian youths.

What you may hate might be the passion of another.I do not agree to the unscrupulous ways of luring people into taking up the business but the business in itself should never be condemned. I have seen people becoming millionaires from GNLD and this golden circle cooperative system gave me the initial capital to start my company in 2001 before i had an accident that set me back.

Lets try and think outside the box and stop enslaving ourselves to the salary mentality.

Attached to this post is my members area in Golden circle showing my earnings in just less than a year

You can check my signature to read more about this awesome program. Better than stocks,or any form of MLM

Olalekanbanky1:
My friend lost his gf all cos the girl was damn serious with the gnld rubbish and she eventually fell in love with a co-gnld marketer. Imagine!

Your friend must be funny to lose his girlfriend because of GNLD.

I am not a member but i believe that in life we must learn to allow people pursue their dreams.

We are too sentimental in N

lonelydora:
Thank God I don't meddle into any business called NETWORKING. No matter how they sweet-mouth me. I enjoy seeing my money working for me, and not depending on someone to uplift me.

I always tell people to run away from any job offer they demand money from you. Companies spend on job seekers and not the other way round. That's why you go for an interview in some multi-nationals, they pay your transport, give you tea and lunch, when yiu finally make it, they send you on training. They don't ask you for any form of money.

I am sure people will still fall for this even after reading this topic.

That is where you are myopic.

Life is network itself and even the job you suffer to get is all about networking.

The problem with many Nigerians is that they see network business as a get rich quick thing and that is where they miss it totally.

MLM or networking is taught in Harvard university and it is indeed a legal and formidable business. You just need the right attitude.

For instance the one i have on my signature is about raising substantial money for various purposes and its absolutely rewarding but when i tell people that within a year they could earn close to 800k or 1m with zero capital they are quick to say one year is too long and i always shake my head for them.

Nigeria youths will forever remain enslaved to the Just Over Broke(JOB) syndrome until they start thinking outside the box.

killercute16:
To me oh,this amount is small compared to some govt jobs and multinational companies,and moreover bank jobs aren't secured,they can sack you anyhow,anytime,anywhere......But anywhere you find yourself,give Jah praise.

I was making over 200k monthly for over 10years and it was still management for me but nevertheless i honestly do not see 100k as reasonable but in the absence of none i guess its manageable.

wrongnumber:
I just checked your pics too and i must say you have the type of figure i can remain sexually faithful to all the days of my life.

Please be my lady no kidding. i will marry you sharp shrp.

LOL! I think its better a guy marries a lady that turns him on sexually just by looking at her.

The point is if the guy truly cares you will come to love him even if you never did in the first place,that is how a lady is.

cuteshantel39:
Its better both love each other, the guy's love maybe greater than the girl's but she needs to have a little love for him. Someone like me cannot stay with a person i don't love no matter how caring he may be. I can't even sleep with that person

littlemistress:
bae is desperately seeking relevance

I dont think so.

She is one lady i respect. Down to earth and original

Taylor86:
grabs vaseline
Where's my laptop
*watching my favorite videos from xxxvideos.com*
Keeps face like okon calabar
cums and fall beside my bed
sleep don come

LWKMDT...
Honestly try comedy. you will make it.

powerfulsettingz:
Nothing but a poo factory

The law of diminishing returns have set in. Moderacy is cery vital.