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Cutehector:
Lubbish...

This is why i desire just one sweet chic and bone the rest hoping she will be faithful to only mee too. Me i cant stop giving head so my best bet is to be faithful with one lady and if i get thhe virus from her so be it afterall all die na still die

osile2012:
OP thanks for your effort to write this. However, i think all you wrote up there are lies and invalid.

REWARD: So God now counts the number of sex they have to reward them ? Does he reward them based on performance ? If the man is better in bed will he get more reward? If God reward every married man and woman for each sex, then i see no reason why married people should suffer.

SWEETNESS: Another pure lie, who said its sweeter when married ? You and i know everything is sweeter when restricted. When i was young i used to steal my parents car to go out for party. Even though i was punished later, nothing compared to the feeling. As i grew older, my parents now let me have access to their car. When i am sent on an errand i feel tired and reluctant to go with the car. Even now that i have mine by the grace of God, I still find it hard to drive to some places. But when i use to steal the car, there is no limit to where i could go as long as i had fuel. Same thing happens with sex. The sweetness is in the stealing, when you have a girl that has a curfew at home, and she just manages to stop by your place on her way to an errand. I cant explain the sweetness of the s e x. But when she is now living with you or comes for a weekend, you might get tired.

REWARD : Long life and prosperity have nothing to do with marriage and sex. I knw single people who are more prosperous than married and also live longer. Even though they have sex outside marriage. What of married men that work for single people? Why haven't their marriage sex changed their condition ? Dont you know of couples that die a week after their wedding? Why didnt their marriage sex keep them away ? All those armed robbers and kidnappers you see, where born out of marriage sex.

FRESHNESS : This is another misinformation . People tend to look alike if they have constant on protected sex with their a single partner. Secondly, environment is another factor. You dont expect a married man having sex in 1 room in ajegunle with 2 children, no fan and mosquitoe to look fresher than single guy having sex in a luxury appartment in lekki .


So Just tell people not to have sex outside marriage because that is the will of GOD nothing else.

Devil's messenger No wonder you use red letterings

whitewitch:
@OP add marriage sex is very very sweet bcaus u dnt use condom, u go 4 flesh 4 flesh, but fornication sex is not sweet bcaus u use condom.

This is why i hardly hardly fornicate and you will never see me patronize whores,pay for sex or woo a lady for the sake of sex,NEVER because i will never use a condom fooling myself that im enjoying sexual pleasure whereas all im enjoying is psychological pleasure as GOD never created sex to be done with the so called condom.And unfortunately its so baseless for me to use a condom if there is no mouth condom because me i can not do without giving a head so for me condom is a no no no meaning illicit sex is also a big no for me.

I tell guys that the day i will lick a candy with the wrapper and will enjoy the taste of the candy,that is the day i will start using condom.

I will rather stay put rather than have sex with condom so if i must make love to any lady i will know im risking it and she must be the lady im likely to marry and if pregnancy comes in,i will take it with all gladness. I hate illicit sex and i abhor fornication.

Gurgle:
Number 5 tho

That number 5 is so true and if you look at some ladies especially who have indulged in illicit sex with lots of guys in the past,you will realize that they don't look fresh no matter how they try to make up and i wonder why that is so.

A 30 year old lady who is sexually decent will look 22 while a 25year old lady who have slept with dare,Emeka,Peter... will look far older than her age.

Even guys too and thats why i look 30 even at 40 *winks*

Nnemuka:
5 is better.... or wait till her ovulation day, she will gladly do it herself.

This ovulation thing is funny though.

A lady suddenly starts thinking about sex and visiting a guy...very strange

it depends on the bra size in relation to her bustline but the easiest way is either to tiitlt up the front cups or release one bra handle from one hand and you will have your access.

fckmn24seg:
It can never make front page

You have no idea how junky nairaland frontpage cam be.

xtervaganza:
Done it countless times but it ends there.




I've not sent a message to anyone of them.....well I reply a few from them sha

Cool.that sending of message though...

If i like her pics i just state it openly.

eyeon:
I DO. TO CHECK HER PICTURE AND SEE IF SHE'S BEAUTIFUL; TO CHECK HER PERSONAL TEXT AND HER TOPICS... ALL DEPENDING ON HOW WELL SHE WROTE IN THE QUOTE. NO BIGGY!

Exactly

Omotayor123:
kind of guilty too.

Not always though

Thanks for your honesty.

The day i read your intelligent comment was the day i checked your profile pics.

I guess in my case its as a result of curiosity as in who be this babe making sense or making a mockery of herself.

Drhenrysaint:
My matured comment>
You see ur self doing dt wen u re SEX starved and jobless to worry abt none existing username. Most female moniker on nairaland are male. Eg INTROVERT

Nairaland teenagers don come again.

So in your world if you are sex starved you will start looking at profile pics? and i guess that just a click to view profile pics translates to joblessness.

Nairaland is indeed a place for comic relief.

freshness2020:
Everyone is guilty of this..the ladies are not secluded also.

oh so im not alone.

As a male,Whenever i read a comment of a female nairalanfer i tend to check her profile picture expecially if she quotes me or if i find her comment interesting but sometimes i just read a comment from a female nairalander and i find myself fighting the act of checking her profile pic.

Is anyone guilty of this too? if yes why do you do that?

Honest and mature response will be appreciated.

coolestrogue:
Thank God am a #virgin

me too

Most times we need delioverance from ourselves because many people are the architect of their problems.

While you were a young lady you lived a reckless life style and now at 30something you are seeking deliverance in order to get a hubby wheras its ur past that is hunting you.

Many ladies have prideful nature and they will be wasting time praying and fasting for a husband

As a man you lack financial wisdom and you start binding the spirit of lack and poverty

you are employed and you refused to improve yourself and you start binding your enemies because others who met you there have been promoted forgetting that they continuously added more degrees.

Nigeria economy has witch hunted many youths and unemployment is now the order of the day yet we will be binding and casting believing its one innocent person in the village that is after us.

yes i agree there are ancesstral curses but in many instances we are the root cause of our problems

LadyBoss1:
So we all know that some guys cant handle rejection well, Infact some take it to the extremes
We have seen and some have experience it, what do guys gain from retaliating or attacking the female who has rejected them, how do you recover from this.

Not interested : guys if a lady tells you this it is not the end of the world , even the most beautiful people, wealthy also get this treatment . The girl just ain't feeling you or maybe your just not her type . Move on so many worthy females out there

Exposing : ok you have made advances gone on a few dates and then she ends it ... So what! this doesn't give you the right to start giving out her number, details, address or sharing intimate secrets about her to friends or bad wishers.

Maturity: some guys are extremely mature this wont even apply to them .. They just lock off the girl and move on .. They don't even feel hurt these guys are sure of themselves, confident etc .. If you are not mature pls align yourself with some mature guys to give u pointer on how to handle things..
Speak to a friend thats in a long term relationship ... They might offer sound advice .

Emotional/Hurt: we all get emotional be it man or woman we just have different ways of exhibiting this. After rejection you might need some time to chill and regroup . If you don't take it easy u would end up lashing out . anger is a very powerful emotion and can make us do things we wont normally do .. ( try and control your emotions)

Self esteem : yes rejection can leave one sad , broken, or your not good enough . this can make a guys self esteem low.. snap out of it occupy your mind with other things .. Because once u slip into a pool of low self esteem u might drown in it.

Criticism and rejection are very much part of life - everyone gets criticised and rejected!

Note to guys : you have mothers, you will have female daughters one day .. Try and treat women how you would want a guy to treat your own . If the woman provokes u or brings out the worst in you move on its not worth it at all .. .. Thanks

http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-deal-with-rejection.html

Happy sunday
Cc lalasticlala ishilove

In my opinion,i believe if a lady says No to my advances,its not rejection in anyway.

It could be that she is already in a commited relationship.

If a lady is so single and yet rejects me i will also believe that i do not fit into the picture of the type of man she likes.

For instance there are some ladies i will never take a second look at and there is a type of chic i see and will make sure i approach if im single.

I hope its not a case of initial gragra but i wish them the best.
www.nairaland.com/2432231/how-avoid-falling-into-trap

fagbohun4j:
This op dey craze! Not even a sentence to explain how they got engaged in summary. U go blow ni o. I hope they last sha cuz dem go stil go for service o and boy nd gals aren't smilin in camp.

I hope its not a case of initial gragra but i wish them the best.

www.nairaland.com/2432231/how-avoid-falling-into-trap

adexsimply:
You sir, are the one with an "unfounded and childish theory". If you think "dressing modestly" will stop a sick r.apist from carrying out his sick act, then you're either not thinking deeply or you're just swimming in utter delusion.

Now you are getting it twisted.

Im not in anyway referring to rape because thats a totally different topic.

A rapist will rape a lady in full hijjab. What im implying is that skimpy dresses promotes lustful taughts simple.

Someone also made reference to india as the most prevalent in rape cases but i would re emphasize once more that the case of rape and skimpy dress do not correlate.

Rape is a crime that is commited by sex perverts but lustfulness cuts accross men in general and that is also a sin and that is the subject of dscussion.

a man with lustful spirit will still lust after a lady in full rain coat but when a lady dresses skimpily she will be causing even the pure hearted guys to lust after them.

anonimi:
The man who bungled Al-Mustapha's trial over Kudirat Abiola's murder, as Attorney General of Lagos, abi

The same useless man who provided legal misreading for then governor Tinubu's company, Alpha Betatocollect the state's IGR, not so?

This same lawyer who packaged Tinubu's odious pension, right?

The wuruwuru lawyer who shielded Sanusi from being probed of alleged FRAUD when he was CBN Governor

Abi another MC Osibande exists ni?




www.nairaland.com/attachments/2578649_osiosi_jpg71aedfd93cf882908381aff91ded278a

Who be mc osinbade?

And if you were referring to osinbajo then please give us substabtiated evidence that

1.He was actually instrumental to all you wrote.

And even if he did,it only goes to show how good he is in his job so i will need another good evidence from you that proves that his actions were criminal act.

Enough of all these beer parlour accusations

johnydon22:
It is not the woman's fault that you cannot hold yourself from acting on your raging sexual urge, it is your fault in entirety if you fail to know when restraint is necessary and how to employ proper self control.

Blaming the women for the weakness, silliness and the inability of man to have a self control principle is very wrong.

She has the right to wear what wants and feels comfortable in, what ever reaction you allow yourself in response to that is totally you doing and not the woman's

Please will you just stop this unfounded and childish theory of yours?

A lady who dresses modestly will do herself a great good as well as minimize greatly illicit desires from men.

Except you are a boy then i can excuse your rethorical theory but real men are visual in nature and skimpy dresses expose a woman s body which ofcourse will apparently give room to lust even if you are very disciplined as a man you may have to really control yourself.

ladies should at least help in this matter and always dress responsibly.

johnydon22:
We have always being taught that women's body will cause men to commit sin.

We were told that if women showed too much of their body it would cause men to do stupid things.

Lets be clear: A woman's body is not dangerous to you, her body will not cause you harm, it will not make you do stupid things.

If you do stupid things it is because you choose to do stupid things.

Do not blame the women for wearing what works for them and what they want rather blame the men who do stupid things because they cannot hold themselves from being stupid

Whats this one saying?

Xetima:
[size=18pt]Confused fellows. DEAD CASE!!! The Senate Standing Order (2007) DIED with 7th Assembly. Mtcheeeeeew!!![/size]

What exactly is wrong with some fellas?

Is it that you hate reading or you lack the intellect to assimilate and comprehend simple message?

Please relax yourself and read before making comments on a public interactive forum to avoid collosal embarrassment.

A standing order of a previous house can only be nullified or amended after a new house have emerged hence it means that the 8th assembly apparently must use the standing order of the 7th assembly.

Even an intelligent kinderfarten pupil wll decipher this.

sunkoye:
This is wia the Expertise of VP osibanjo comes in. He will tell them that a prof in law is now a no 2 citizen not just a commissioner.

baba oya buy the fight joor

Gbam.

A professor of law at that and infact the most educated vp ever in Nigeria history.

lagmostkuit:
I'm sick and tired of Nigeria!





Pls can someone take me to Togo?

We can settle in Benin rep together.Life is easier there so let me know when you are ready.

kally01:
On point

I wonder why the ladies will not be sincere and agree that many of them are guilty of this.

Captainswag225:
lol, which naija lady broke the o.p's heart? he is still hurting

Chai! how myopic.

Whatever went wrong with creative writing. I guess every song a musician sings is about his or life. Very funny and myopic.

LadyBoss1:
U aint answered my question when u ans i ans

What question was that?

LadyBoss1:
Abeg forget dat wan
Lol
Leave me joor .. Make list on guys nau st keast like 10 different topic showing us females ur flaws

YES OR NO

Do you own that figure? Any response asides a straight Yes means no