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Events › Re: Wedding Of A Nairalander With A Nairalander + A Nairalander Mc by Toks2008(m): 10:57pm On Jul 19, 2015

Most couples are so so overwhemled by a wedding ceremony but often forgets that its one thing to get married but staying married is the real deal.

Wishing them enough strength to tolerate shits from each other and enough Godliness to forgive each other whenever the need arises.

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 10:19pm On Jul 19, 2015

lastchild:
you are wrong to say that every single lady @ 35 should trace her past and see that their problem is not spiritual

I have a cousin whom never got "hello babe" from a man before,her case is known to everyone,her past has nothing to do with it,its total spiritual,the parents went to a wrong place to seek spiritual help,the woman while trying to negotiate with the spirit invited more spirits through burning of incense

She went home and became worst,thank God that apostle suleiman delivered her and she became free

Now married with a child(though she lost him 2 weeks back)

There's something called spiritual wife and husband,everyone in my family know how far,we are all fighting our own differently, a problem caused by my grandmother whom worshiped marine spirit

Mayb you should relax and read my post again.Many and every is never the same.

I also do not see where i debunked the possibility of one having spiritual husband or wife but my point still stands...MANY OF US ARE OUR OWN PROBLEM.

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Officially Married? Changes Ig Bio To Mrs Tonto w.c Dikeh by Toks2008(m): 4:50pm On Jul 19, 2015

NeuroBoss:
She put MRS for her papa name? This one na strong thing o

Some yeyebrities dont drop their known names.

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Officially Married? Changes Ig Bio To Mrs Tonto w.c Dikeh by Toks2008(m): 4:47pm On Jul 19, 2015

SuzieeDee:
Tell me about it

no mind me

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Officially Married? Changes Ig Bio To Mrs Tonto w.c Dikeh by Toks2008(m): 4:46pm On Jul 19, 2015

cowgirl9090:
you are not married and you add 'mrs' to your name¿ that's how ladies unknowingly attach spiritual husband to themselves.

The witches from her village don dey follow her

And i pity those wey dey change their social media status to engaged

Engagement is not marriage and you are either single or married,no inbetweens.

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Officially Married? Changes Ig Bio To Mrs Tonto w.c Dikeh by Toks2008(m): 4:37pm On Jul 19, 2015

SuzieeDee:
If she like she shud add ES to the MRS, Since is not mrs tonto bonconlkic or mrs tonto makuewe she is single to me

Hmmm interesting to read ladies view.

Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Officially Married? Changes Ig Bio To Mrs Tonto w.c Dikeh by Toks2008(m): 4:36pm On Jul 19, 2015

icebebe:
She's claiming d title Prophetic ministration

You are so mean habba. She is a sweet chic and many guys will go for her.

Family › Re: My Husband Is A General Overseer But Sleeps With His Prayer Partners by Toks2008(m): 4:32pm On Jul 19, 2015

wettin concern court with bride price?

They should just dissolve the marriage if that is what the woman wants but she should be ready to remain single for life or pray to find a widower to marry her and be faithful to her alone because most men cheat on their wives.

Any wise woman will not divorce her hibby based on adultery because they always realize too late their mistake because at the end of the day,these women usually end up frolicking with married men thereby commiting same offence of adultery with another woman hubby so who is fooling who?

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 4:10pm On Jul 19, 2015

MarryMeee:
i never abused you. You simply cannot take the truth. You keep meeting the same women because clearly the problem lies with you. If you change the right women might start liking you.

MarryMeee:
thats the advice you should be giving yourself if you do something about your arrogant ways. May God deliver you so you can get your heart's desire

you dont even know wat been abusive means.

And Apparently you talk as if you know me.

NEWS FLASH~I am a guy who extols sexual decency to a very high level.I am very careful and picky so that when i get a lady of my choice i will remain sexually faithful to her alone.

Im not desperate at all cos as a man i can marry even a 25 year old lady at 50 so leave me out of your historical,rethorical and ecclesiastical mumbo jumbo.

if many unmarried lady at 35 should close her eyes and focus on their past,they will realize that their problem has nothing to do with spiritualism but they are the architect of their misdemeaneur.

For many guys as i hve stated,its pure finance that is the0problem and no thanks to the same clueless ladies who insist that a man must spend through his nose in order for them to be seen as a mrs and these same ladies at 35 will atribute their singleness to witch hunt or spiritual husband.

Abeg make i stop here.

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 3:10pm On Jul 19, 2015

MarryMeee:
i spoke the truth as is it. God will not give a soft spoken woman with a good character to an arrogant man unless he wants to destroy her. It can only explain why you only meet those that are of your kind.

God will continue to save his best for those that deserve it. Take it or leave it, i will not lose out because you decided to be ignorant.

You can only feel insulted if i spoke the truth. Thats not my problem. You know very well time is not on your side.

hmmm i really feel for you.

Dont worry dear just keep up with who you are.in due time the right man will walk into your life.Pele

Do have a splendid sunday.

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Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 2:54pm On Jul 19, 2015

kahara:
Hahaha! Easy bro. Here d e-war is real n blazing. The only armor against verbal bombs here seems to b hitting back wit ur punchlines or ignore such attacks n move on. That is wat i do myself.

The op needs a change in atitude or remain single forever.very abusive habba

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 2:49pm On Jul 19, 2015

sonofananimal1:
YEA!!

THE TRUTH IS THAT OUR NIGERIA WOMEN HAVE LOST THERE VALUE IN LIFE , THERE ARE NOT WHAT YOU THINK THERE ARE NOWADAYS, EVEN THE YOUNG ONES TOO HAVE TALKING THE SAME LEAD OF MATERIALISTIC SELF CENTER GREED AND SO ON.

the worst part is when they now realize they are getting old,rather than adjust their ways of life they will start looking for deliverance in churches and by so doing put themselves more in bondage with the funny doctrines of no trousser earrings and even mandating them to go on low cuts.

there was this 30 year old single mother i really liked and i was really so caring to her but there was a time i felt so ill but she nver came to visit and when i showed my anger she was like her church forbids her from going to visit guys at home and infact she will nver visit any guy at home again and i was like oops,not even a sick friend? cant she at least come in company of a friend to prevent her indisciplined libido from overcoming her?

I lost my interest in her immediately because i was like this lady has sold herself to more bondage.

While many ladies think they are plagued by spiritual nonsense, they are infact theit own bane.

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 2:06pm On Jul 19, 2015

kahara:
No i cant be a celibate! But the hard conditions in d country hav forced so many single men to shy away frm marriage. Women should nt b blamed much fr nt getting married. It is we d men marry dem n nt d oda way round. Bt in a situation whereby an average naija man cant boast of five hundred k in his coffers. Marriage to him looks like a mirage. Wateva affects men equally affects women.

Exactly the point i made before this frustrated marrymee op started raining insults on me.

I just did a little findings on her profile page and realized how loosed or ignorant she has been opening a thread that says my vigina is on fire...now i see where her problem emaniated from.

FYI with this abusive nature of this marymee or op i bet she should be ready to remain single for life.

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 1:57pm On Jul 19, 2015

MarryMeee:
well you have a terrible attitude and im not surprised you never come up women with a good character. A good character attracts wants another good character. There you have it, change your ways and your results maybe be different, keep your ignorance and you will remain where you are.

God will never take a woman he fearfully and wonderfully created blessed with a good character and put her in the hands of a man who will depreciate her value to his level.

Ask God to deliver you.

The more you write the more you make no sense.

this is why i get fed up with most naija babes,they lack intelligent acumen to communicate effectively.

Why these insults on me for petes sake?

why are you so bittered?some men will not mind to marry a LovePeddler and some will prefer a virgin but for me i wrote that i can cope with a lady that have been with at most 3guys so do you have issues with that?

i wrote that im looking for a faily used lady cos many ladies are terribly used and you start insulting me.Are you for real.

Pls stop quoting me henceforth if you lack the intellectual prowess to decipher simple points and the intellectual capacity to communicate effectively.

if you have anything eating you up please deal with it and leave me out of your frustration.Your profile id though.

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Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 1:45pm On Jul 19, 2015

sonofananimal1:
BROTHER!! WE DEY THE SAME SHOE OHH.
ME NA SECOND HAND AND REFURBISH PRODUCT I JUST DEY MEET NOWADAYS OHH.

you are lucky sef to see second hand and refurbished one at that.

If you truly want to know a lady try and be a casual friend to her for some time and you go bow when revelations start pouring in.

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 12:15pm On Jul 19, 2015

MarryMeee:
so why are you still single at your old age? If its not your spiritual wife its because of your negative and bad attitude maybe.

Face the truth and deal with it. Denial is not good. May God deliver you.

Whats this one saying?

FYI im still single because all the ladies i have been meeting have been terribly used so when i get a fairly used one,i will risk it.

Christianity Etc › Re: To Those With Spiritual Husbands/wives by Toks2008(m): 12:01pm On Jul 19, 2015

MarryMeee:
not all of us will get married thats true but if you desire a family, its best you have it with a spouse. I never said success is determined by married but if you desire a wife/husband but you cannot seem to find one, there can be something spiritual blocking you from achieving it.

women are their own pitfall.

sexual indiscipline is the root cause.No man wants to marry a lady who have slept with every tunde,jude,raimi,emeka,jackson... its a total turn off.

i dont know about other guys but except i dont know,i can cope with maximum of 3guys wey don enter you before i meet you.Any more will be detrimental to my psycology expecially when as a man i have only dated two ladies in the past 20yrs so why should i monkey over a public toilet with exes everywhere.

If i wan marry LovePeddler make i know say na ashawo i wan marry.

As for the guys i guess its pure economy factor.

being single at 35 mostly have nada to do with anything spiritual.

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Celebrities › Re: Peter Okoye Goes Shirtless To Celebrate Mamas Artist Of The Decade Award by Toks2008(m): 11:00am On Jul 19, 2015

My best Nigerian musician.P.SQUARE ALL THE WAY.

Politics › Re: Standing Order Used For Saraki Election A Fake, Say Ex-senators by Toks2008(m): 10:58am On Jul 19, 2015

Bollove:
You folks behave more silly than necessary ...

what is fraudulent about Saraki's emergence ?
Is it the senators that nominated him unopposed ?
The manner he was elected unopposed
Or some agbayas that went to ICC to eat Amala and Ewedu instead of being in NASS to perform the duty for which their constituencies elected them
Or the fact that Saraki is politically and Nationally popular and matured than Tinubu

even where Saraki is removed ( which is impossible), election would be re-conducted noni and 49 PDP senators with his 8 APC members would give Saraki his victory. Moreover, Saraki could even get more numbers from APC members this time

You folks already lost this battle since "year 0"

Ode omo Yoruba alai ni'rori ..... PDP are in NASS to deal with Tinubu and His GODFATHERISM stance over National Assembly

Whats this one saying?

Whether saraki emerges in the long run is not the issue here,the point is right now as it stands,his emergence is fraudulent and even a kindergarten scholar won't argue this obvious fact.

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Family › Re: Housewife Caught Having Sex With Lover, Fined N50,000 by Toks2008(m): 12:14am On Jul 19, 2015

Phema:
Fined? When did adultery become a crime punishable by the law?

Naija, i hail thee!

You need to do more reading.

It is expecially in a case of legal wedding.

Romance › Re: ‘ladies, Beware Of This Kind Of Man’ by Toks2008(m): 5:47pm On Jul 18, 2015

crowther15:
Source: http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/07/ladies-beware-of-this-kind-of-man/

From what i just read i will advice the lady to give him another chance because we all deserve a second chance.

i have done same with an ex,i dated her for 6yrs wthout sexual intercourse then she went to serve and she started misbehaving.

i was like o ti o,how will i just let her go wthout popping her cherry.

so i invited her and injected a juice i gave her with strong sedative.

she take am finish kon lie down and as weak as anything but bliv it or not,i no even get mind remove her cloths let alone sleep with her.

i just slept by her side and we woke up together then she went home.

i confessed to her anyways but the rest is history.Six years of no sex affair and another man will reap the fruit.

This is the problem guys have wth these so called virgins,you become patient with them but at the end na another guy go pop am and she will be shedding oriburuku tears.

Nvertheless i will nver support this crazy act.

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Romance › Re: How Some Men Look After You Start Dating Them(photo) by Toks2008(m): 1:35pm On Jul 18, 2015

RichDad1:
Perhaps you've been saying the wrong men.

I guess the OP meant after you marry them.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nnpc Graduate Trainee Pay Package by Toks2008(m): 9:17am On Jul 18, 2015

aameyah:
Over to us for what?

We that didn't know where and how to apply and you that has used long leg to enter NNPC, who suppose know salary scale?

A beg shiiiifffttttt, let me pass....

Best response to a dump question of a useless thread.And to think this made front page.smh

Romance › Re: Hilarious Response A Girl Gave Her Ex BF by Toks2008(m): 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2015

butterflyy:
₪ό̲̣̣̣̥t in your wildest imagination

I will refrain from saying TRY ME.

Culture › Re: What Is The Bride Price In Your Own Hometown? by Toks2008(m): 5:01pm On Jul 16, 2015

Foolishness is when a lady leaves a guy she really loves and also loves her and ready for marriage but does not have money for big marriage ceremony to be with a guy who may not really love her but will gladly say i do to him because he has the money for marriage ceremony.

Many ladies in Nigeria have mistaken marriage proper for marriage ceremony as they take the latter more important than the former.

Ironically many ladies have no business being single at 30 not even at 27 but many of them have foolishly dwell on a picture of flamboyant wedding which is perfectly ok but they make it a must before they can actually see themselves as married.

A couple can have a very low keyed wedding ceremony and latter when the money is available they can do a super expensive ceremony but its so so unfortunate that a typical naija girl at 25 will have a guy at 30 wanting to marry her and this guy actually have a roof over his head but because he has no money at that point to organize a big time wedding,our gullible ladies will say HE IS NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE yet he continues to bleep them front back and center and when he is probably ready for marriage ceremony,he dumps their silly ass after sucking the whole nectar in them and they will start crying fowl that one innocent person from their village is after them.

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Culture › Re: What Is The Bride Price In Your Own Hometown? by Toks2008(m): 4:41pm On Jul 16, 2015

Chigold101:
lolzzzz you dont know anything at all.

My wife is from Orumba North & I am from Aguate... All in Anambra state. Everything I spent both bride price, food & drink for my trad is about 40k. Incluiding the vehicle that transported my kindred to the place.

Most times i blame guys for their predicament. When you are dating a girl and you are buying her all kinds of stuff. Puffing up trying to impress both the girl and her family. Why wont they bring knife to slash off your head.

I also blame ladies who become very weak when they face their parents. They forgot that after paying heavy amount of money, na she hunger go fire.

In my family we collect 8k for the father & 2k for the mother... Thats 10k... Only soft drinks and non alcoholic wine.

Good for you.At least they considered you fairly,many will not.

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Culture › Re: What Is The Bride Price In Your Own Hometown? by Toks2008(m): 4:40pm On Jul 16, 2015

huthority01:
42 Bitter kolas (Orogbo)
42 Tubers of yam (Isu)
42 Kolanuts (Obi abata)
42 Chilli/Alligator Peppers (Atare)
42 pieces of dried Fish (Eja Osan)
1 Dish of peppered corn meal (Aadun)
1 Pack of Sugar
2 Baskets of Fruit
2 Decanters filled with honey
4 Crates of canned or bottled soft drinks
4 Crates malt soft drinks
4 Cartons of bottled water
2 Bottles of non alcoholic wine
2 Cartons of fruit juice
1 Bag of salt
1 Bag of rice
1 Umbrella
1 Goat
1 Keg of palm wine
1 Keg of groundnut oil
1 Big suitcase containing clothes, shoes and hand bags including aso-oke fabric, 2 sets of lace with gele and 2 sets of ankara
1 Wrist watch, Earrings and Chains
Biscuits and Sweets
Engagement rings for bride and groom
Bible(for Christians)

Monitory / Fees

Owo Ori (The Bride Price) – Varies
Owo Ijoko Agba (Money for the elders consent) – N,1000
Owo Baba Gbo (Money for the bride’s father’s consent) – N,1000
Owo Iya Gbo (Money for the bride’s mother’s consent) – N1,000
Owo Ikanlekun(Door knocking fee) – N1000
Owo Isiju Iyawo (Fee for unveiling the bride) – N1,000
Owo Aeroplane (Bride transportation fee) – N1,000
Owo Iyawo Ile (Money for the Housewives) -N500
Owo Omo Ile (Money for the Children of the household) – N500
Owo letter kika (Letter reading fee)-N500
Owo Telephone (Fee to call the bride out) – N500
Owo Isigba (Engagement gifts unveiling fee) – N500
Owo Alaga Ijoko (Master of Ceremonies fee) – N500

This is why many Igbo brothers are dumping their own to rush for our beautiful yoruba sisters.

The Igbos should learn.Some igbo ladies even say our Yoruba ladies are cheap and i simply laugh.

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Culture › Re: What Is The Bride Price In Your Own Hometown? by Toks2008(m): 4:37pm On Jul 16, 2015

That moment when an Igbo lady says there is a generational curse that is making ladies in their lineage find it difficult to get married.
Please help me tell her that no matter the prayer and fasting,the curse will never go away until their tradition of crazy bride price is eliminated.

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Career › Re: Salary Of Fresh Graduate Level 8 At Nigerian Communications Commission - NCC by Toks2008(m): 4:32pm On Jul 16, 2015

As long as its under the civil service its 70k or thereabout with allowances

Romance › Re: 10 Ways Ladies Will Frustrate Your Life If You Are A Broke Guy by Toks2008(m): 4:26pm On Jul 16, 2015

tosyne2much:
Bro, you just said nothing but the truth

As a matter of fact, ladies who date for their own selfish interest outweighs those who date regardless of the weight of the pocket of a guy

I think the OP should change the topic to 10 Ways Nigerian Ladies Will Frustrate Your Life If You Are A Broke Guy because most ladies outside Nigeria will love you for you even if you are a road side mechanic.

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Romance › Re: 10 Ways Ladies Will Frustrate Your Life If You Are A Broke Guy by Toks2008(m): 4:24pm On Jul 16, 2015

Alejhandro:
My dear, its not all girls dat are after money okk. Though its very important for a guy to build his pocket but laying emphasis on it as d basis for a relationship is wrong. Some girls are not

My brother no deceive yourself o,most of the ones you think don't care actually do but are only waiting,hoping and watching the tick-tick-tick moments when they hope to dump you for a rich dude if you linger too long before making it..

Romance › Re: 10 Ways Ladies Will Frustrate Your Life If You Are A Broke Guy by Toks2008(m): 4:21pm On Jul 16, 2015

prettythicksme:
I FIT MANAGE BROKE HANDSOME NIGGA BUT I GO DEY CONTROL HIS LIFE btw broke guys are rare these days jare,all guys don buckle up!!

I guess im on a tight budget at the moment but dare not bleeping think i will be micromanaged by you or control me because that ain't gonna ever happen.

A man must be a man whether broke or not except he is a jerk.

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