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I wonder why big booty disgusts me.

Just have a moderate round onion booty and I'm good.

3gpvids:
Fcck is now a general topic

just imagine fcck ...hian

As simple as it sounds, it rules the world.

It can bring down Empires, make a woman leave a billionaire to be with an okada man, it has killed many and it has liberated many. Please don't joke with it.

Datboredberry:
How about you add the point that not every woman has those perfect bodies of pornstars... Brazilian butt-lifts and Silicone tits...

All you've written is to massage the egos of depression, insecure men...

It's good... But you helped only one side... Which doesn't help in a long run

Wahala dey o

OK I will

Lalasticlala i believe this is very insightful.

SocialJustice:
Direct primary has to removed for now to allow the rest of the bill scale through, hopefully the next dispensation will make direct primary a thing.

Then we should start preparing to have another terrible leader for the next 8 years.

SocialJustice:
Did you see the YIAGA townhall meeting on NTA this evening?

Jega said political parties do not have a register with which INEC can conduct direct primaries.

Unfortunately we will continue to fool ourselves so let the party continues.

It is apparent that they don't even understand the concept of OPEN PRIMARIES cos what they have in mind is closed primaries.

Israeljones:
This is the only big advantage being mention.... Is cost of election not already high..?
I just hope someone can tutors us more on its disadvantages

That was the reason Buhari even gave.

PHIPEX:
1. If you make it compulsory the political parties must change their own constitutions to reflect it. This will take over a year to happen and undermine 2023 election
2. It has never stopped electoral fraud, eg Anambra APC primary election
3. INEC does not have the fund to conduct such across the country for over 80political parties
4. The parties don't have a reliable register of members, every tom dick and harry can still claim membership and vote
5. Anyone with enough money power can still bribe his way through and win.
6. The countries we are emulating are yet to make it compulsory because they know the challenges involved.

Did you really comprehend?

Open Direct Primaries is not as difficult as you presented it. You just illustrated closed Direct primary.

yaki84:
Ur opinion is trash and shitty, am sorry for beimg blunt.
Direct primaries won't and can't stop godfatherism, if it was to stop godfatherism ambode wouldnt have lost his primary election to some unknown sanwo olu.

No matter how we paint direct over indirect, this is Nigeria where anything and everything goes. The only advantage it has over indirect is, the electorates will be quick to benefit from electoral funds rather than wait till election day when its constitutional for votes buying.
Thugs will be paramount also in this phase just to scuttle some candidate's chance of winning.

If you went through the history of the comments you will understand better.

Go back and read.

ba2remagaji:
WHAT OF THE DISADVANTAGES?

Cost but I prefer we have a costly process that is more credible.

AbujaCitiBlog:
Direct primaries is the heaviest scam in Nigeria APC tried and we know the result. Andy Uba the APC candidate scored 230K plus votes to emerge the party candidate but couldn't score up to 50k votes in the general elections. Even a child knows that the APC direct primaries was cooked and doctored to satisfy one candidate. The same thing in FCT in 2019 primaries. One famous politician score 1.4 million votes in a Local Government in Abuja, a place that has less than 100K registered voters.

Please, OP stop promoting what you don't know!

Relax, cos electronic transmission of results will make it difficult for any form of manipulations.

dre11:
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https://www.thecable.ng/tinubu-why-i-believe-ill-win-presidency-in-2023/amp

Go and rest. The masses won't support you. Star boy we know. Maintain your position as a king maker cos it is even a taboo for a king maker to clamor for the position of a king. Stop disgracing your exalted position.

PHIPEX:
This National Assembly is wasting our time and an opportunity to make reasonable progress with our electoral process. This direct primary thing is completely uncalled for except for their selfish gains.

Even America does not practice direct primary for primary elections.

It is the way forward.

https://www.nairaland.com/6941217/opinion-positive-effect-open-direct

lalasticlala:
A Town Hall Meeting to discuss key provisions of the Electoral Bill 2021 and their implications for election management, election security, electoral integrity and voter participation as well as legislative and executive action required to conclude the amendment process is ongoing.

On December 21 2021, President Buhari declined assent to the Electoral Act (Amendment) Bill which is designed to increase participation in Nigeria’s electoral processes by making it more credible, transparent and inclusive. The signing of this bill into law is critical to increasing citizen participation in democratic processes as well as guarantee the credibility and transparency of our elections, especially as the 2023 General Election approaches.

This Town Hall Meeting discusses the Electoral Act (Amendment) Bill and what the National Assembly must do to ensure becomes law as soon as possible.

Who is watching?

I have sent my contribution as early as 9a.m today.

I watched a program on YouTube where the issue of pornography was discussed and i find it interesting to build on what was discussed as i strongly believe it will be of great benefit to everyone.

Below are seven reasons you should disconnect yourself from Pornography

1. IT DECREASES SELF ESTEEM IN MEN In Porn videos, the average size of the actor's vital part is between 8 to 12 inches long but in real life, the average size is between 5 to 7 inches long. The actors are recruited because they have a larger than normal size and this must never be seen as the norm because only less than 5% of men world wide have a size longer than 7inches whilst the remaining 95% are between 5 to 7inches size when erect.

So this is a takeaway I want you to have that pornography consumption decreases self-esteem in men because they tend to compare themselves with the porn actors when it comes to penis size and even men with perfect size will always see themselves as inadequate because they just can't help comparing their size with that of the freaks in the porn video. The simple truth is that a lady in the real life does not need an extra big penis size to enjoy real sex and several researches have proved that an average size is preferred by most ladies.

2. Most Women are not interested in the extreme acts you see in porn videos like aggressive, rough, Anal, gang s*x and several other types of sexual acts that are not realistic . The act of real sex in real life is that of connection, understanding , comfort ,pleasure without body twisting , true feelings happiness, fulfilment and lots more so you do not bring the act you see in porn to real sex in real life.

3. UNREALISTIC LIBIDO The instant turn on and readiness for sex and the longevity of the intimacy is totally unrealistic. The reality is that these actors are mostly on sex inducing products that give them the instant kick but in the real world it does not work that way all the time in fact most times people in the real world need a lot of time to get in the mood because in most cases, most people would have had a busy day and will need time to rest and get into the mood and sometimes many people are weighed down by so many factors that mitigate against having sexual urge hence the need to have a longer time to get into the mood. It is not also realistic for a sexual intimacy to go on and on as seen in porn but as i wrote earlier, these porn actors are induced in such a way that they can have instant attention and also go on for several minutes but in the real world, any intimacy that lasts between 3 to 6minutes is perfectly ok. This false representation as seen in the porn world is the reason why many ladies erroneously believe that their partners have sexual problems but this is not the case.

4. Pornography is basically performance oriented which means this actors have one primary goal which is to perform for the viewers whether they are in the mood or not and to impress the viewers because that is what they are paid to do. In real life, intimacy is never about performing to impress anyone but it is about connection , getting ready, being in the mood, enjoying the company of the person and it is about feelings which is subject to several factors hence intimacy must not be satisfying all the time and the two people involved must have an understanding in that regards.

5. Pornography create anxiety, Shame and sometimes depression as a result of an isolated life created by porn addition. Viewers tend to fantasize about an unrealistic act thereby drifting away from the reality of what intimacy stands for. The more you watch porn the more you get isolated from the world. Real sex is supposed to bring you to connect with a real person in a real-world that will most likely literally lead to real sexual relationship. Porn Sex in most cases lead to sexual dysfunction in men as a result of addiction to fantasy sex and for the ladies, it usually lead to lack of interest in any man that does not fit into the image of the actors in the porn scenes. Men in the real world ae not porn stars and you should not expect them to be.

6. Most Ladies in the porn videos are not what they seem: many men are usually carried away by the curves, boobs and booties they see in porn and they always expect to see same in the real world but this is not so. Most of the ladies in the porn videos have altered bodies just to make them more acceptable for the job. In the real world, guys must learn to accept ladies the way they are without having too much expectation or body shaming them.

Most ladies you see in the porn videos also use enhancing products to increase their libido and also reduce the pains they go through which is why they can indulge in sex with multiple men, appear to enjoy the extra large organs and take several positions effortlessly... But please that is not the way it is in real life so no man should expect a normal lady to do same acts as this may lead to unpleasant consequences.

7. Porn is fake and none of it is real .Most of the actress don't want to be there and they hate what they do . Many of them when interviewed have expressed how disgusted and depressed thy feel after they put up a performance. So why use a fake life as a comparison to the real world.


Hope this helps.

lexy2014:
How did u arrive at d conclusion that osinbajo is "the one many well meaning Nigerians"?

Go and look up the meaning of many.

The first and greatest one is my salvation.

The second is the Supreme Court changing the law of an entire country in my favour.

ayindejimmy:
Which NASS?

Is it this rubber stamp?

Direct Primaries was used to unseat Ambode in the last election even thou most Lagosian supports him. Nigerian politicians know how to manipulate every good intentions

On the contrary, party members don't like Ambode for reasons best known to them...

This is why I wrote that we don't need just direct primaries but an open type which is usually very very hard to manipulate.

Analyst7:
Funny how alot of people that castigate osibanjo on his shortcomings are the ones hailing him right now...it just shows why politicians don't give a fucck when we castigate them because they know we're two mouthed

Let me tell you how this works..

Each time we choose who we want we usually choose the best bad choice.

There is no Saint anywhere but unfortunately we usually go for the one that is fair amongst the terrible choices shey you get.

Osinbajo may still perform woefully but it is the best choice we have at the moment... Not Tinubu, not Atiku and I don't see any other worthy south westerner.

ekukeku:
Osinbabo should just go & be sleeping
He is our president already
Don't tell m anything else o

LOL you are so ignorant.

The NASS must give us an open direct primaries or Tinubu wins in an indirect primary.

Elections are not done online. Many people showing love for Prof online don't even have voters card.

Lovenorth:
Yoruba Christians are not the only people in the Southwest so Tinubu should be given a chance to develop Nigeria

Give him the chance to develop your town.

Ebunoluwa2020:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/01/osinbajo-growing-campaign-tinubu-camp-fumes-over-buharis-silence/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Una go wail tire.

Tinubu we don't know, Star boy we know.

Let us have two professors for the first time. We are tired of having Dullards and area fathers as leaders.

Tinubu should rest. We respect him but we prefer him to maintain the position of a king maker.. He is too old to be Nigeria CEO. A man who can not be truthful with his age can never be truthful as a president.

Lalasticlala I believe this makes sense.

Happy Sunday.

ayindejimmy:
He's in a dilemma.
If Tinubu does not willingly step down it'll be hard for Osinbajo to win the primaries against Tinubu.
Most Apc members owe Tinu.bu one way or the other, that's why you see them shouting Tinubu. If Tinubu does not willingly step down 4 Osinbajo I'll advise Osinbajo not to go against him in the primaries because he won't win and it'll be a dent on his image. Nigerians want Osinbajo but APC members want Tinubu for selfish reasons

If NASS passes the electoral bill with the inclusion of Direct primaries and they make it an open primaries and not a closed one.... Osinbajo will win Tinubu hands down.

An open direct primary is when registered voters vote to elect a flag bearer of a party and not just the members of the party or few delegates as it is done in an indirect primaries.

NobleRace:
His days as acting president already proves to us that tough he's with Buhari, he's not like Buhari.

Gbam!

The issue is.. Will Osinbajo be bold to come out?

He is the one many well meaning Nigerians want. I hope he doesn't play the foolish card of loyalty to Tinubu by not showing interest cos that will be a slap on his image and a huge disappointment to Nigerians.

ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest

Open up to your uncle and ask for his forgiveness though I don't see why he should care what you do with your dck as long as it's not affecting productivity of the company.

If you are really doing a good job, he will forgive you and you won't have to bother if the lady latter tells him.

Amotolongbo:
Surely, I agree with you on that.

If you go back to see where I mentioned Buhari and other APC governors who were nominated based on direct primary, it was on the second point where you said “it will increase productivity”.
Nigeria’s problem is so complex that on can’t generalise solution.

All the same, your opinions and suggestions are good and if we all are ready to make the nation great, the country shall be great

Yeah it will increase productivity If direct primary is added and signed permanently into law.

For now it is just a random process that is implemented based on random decisions which is why they may choose to use it at a time and then use indirect when they feel. It is necessary.

Amotolongbo:
Why are you struggling to make sense young man?
A low IQ person still has a better understanding than you.
Nobody is arguing if Buhari was a consensus candidate or not with you.
Did direct primary election hold for the APC presidential candidate or not.

You believe in Law and not what Garba Sheu, tell us which Nigerian law stipulated a consensus candidacy for APC presidential candidate.

Na wa for these small small children o

In 2014, Buhari won through indirect primaries but won with direct in 2018 and that is because the APC members across the country love him as their choice.

See the problem with us is that many people don't vote either in primaries or general elections but they are online showing preference for a particular candidate.

Amotolongbo:
really?

Please aren’t you a Nigerian?
Perhaps you’ve traveled out of Nigeria for long.

We see how electorates are bought with money in the states and federal elections in Nigeria. Or am I missing something!
Bullion vans election is still fresh in our memory o

Nobody is saying money will not change hands but it will not be as easy as in the case of indirect primaries... This is simple logic.

Amotolongbo:
Please don’t get it wrong!

APC members didn’t like Ambode, not Lagosians
Ambode issue was a party issue

Exactly my point.

You see those Lagosians, they don't even have PVCs or belong to any party. They are online showing love.

Amotolongbo:
So Garba Lawal who spoke for the presidency didn’t know what he was saying when he said “APC direct primary election” ?
Who am I to believe, you or the spokesperson for the President?

Direct primary is the game of moneybag. Indirect primary is the game of power brokers

They will bribe tire. Maybe it will be their game on the local government level but not state and federal and not even at this time and age.