eldoradoxx: Once the Aso Rock cabal call him inside and show him his dossier and how they will Bleep him and his entire business up if be doesn't step aside, he will announce that after his consultations which he had told Nigerians he was doing, he has seen the aspirations of Nigerians for younger people to take over and therefore sacrificing his presidential ambition for the future of Nigeria democracy and you guys will hail him as a true democrat. This was how Obasanjo got Odili to step aside for late Yar Adua days to the primary.
okpukpu: If Osibanjo isn't in support of what his partner in wickedness is doing, then he should resign and tender an apology to Nigerians. You just admitted that the vice president is pretending and cunning. Osibnajo is as guilty as Buhari.
You keep proving the fact that you don't know how these things work.
The reason he has the chance to be the president today is because he did not resign.
If he had resigned he may not even have a party structure to work with.
izombie: you people like to attack the messenger and ignore the message. Did sowore lie? Osinbajo has never said anything against herdsmen killings. Nothing against kidnappings. The man is just a statue
You guys have no idea how this things work.
It is a good thing that we have a reference to point at talking about when Osinbajo became the acting president.
That should tell any reasonable person that he is not a puppet in any way.
There is no way he can openly counter his principal but the body language is clear.
Moyinoluwa35: Mods pls help me out, am a shy type,i am desperately looking for girl to marry, am 23 years old, i have my OND and presently in 200level in open university reading economics, i presently work in civil defensce corps, am planning to marry in 2 to 3 years coming and i plan to relocate to abroad to do my master and stay dere, please some will think am forming, but is not everybody dat av d boldness to approach a girl, am damn serious, i stay and work in abuja, thank you all, pls if you av sum1 pls link me with d person, thanks and God bless
Iyaebe: Hml.The man looks vulnerable and clueless but the wife looks sharp, so she compliments him.Some people will still have problems with this harmless comment
Amb1045: This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.
He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.
He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.
What do you advise him?
You don't ask a lady for sex, you put her in the mood.
Right001: I usually frown at jokes or skit of comedians that do videos of soldiers been painted as a god and there by molesting civilians and people just laugh and say it just a joke. My brother and sister it may sound as a joke but it goes a long way because most military men watch this videos and feel like if I oppress the civilian then nobody can help then and also the civilian watching it will also think there are helpless before a military unknowning to him because that video just send an involuntary message to his subconscious. It is high time our comedian start doing jokes of military men been arrest by military police for abusing human right or military people been taken to court for molesting civilians. It is not about carrying of banner and start protesting about human rights but comedian videos can go a long way by enlighten the people without hurting or destroying the peace of the country. Thank you.
I thought I was the only one in this boat. So annoying.
chatinent: I don't really know how people keep choosing failures. Don't you all know it's still the same party...the same party will produce the same thing!
Raychee: That she has an affair with another man does not mean she does not love and cherish you.
I don't know where this foolish mentality of men emanates from. Once a girl sleeps with another guy GBAM! they conclude she does not love them then they dump her for another more terrible cheat...
May GOD give these guys insight.
Can you see how ridiculous you sound?
Will you just stop this foolishness?
What Is the basis for quoting me to write that rubbish?
Who is holding you not to sleep with all the men in the world.
Saying I sound ridiculous when in actual fact you sound utterly foolish.
That he has an affair with another lady does not mean he does not love and cherish you.
I don't know where this foolish mentality of ladies emanates from. Once a guy sleeps with another lady GBAM! they conclude he does not love them then they dump him for another more terribly cheat...
The term CHEATING does not have a Biblical reference point. Particularly, as the basis for your indignation is from a supposed Christian in perspective.
There are two sins in the context of sexual impropriety.
Which are Fornication which is sexual relationship with a female who is not your wife or exclusive preserve (Concubine). And Adultery vwhich is sex with the wife of another man.
After the imposition of Roman political, Social economic and religious rulership in Jerusalem. There was the apostasy of the Church and the departure from servant collective leadership ( The plurality of Eldership) to the Pyramid hierarchy structure of be Bishops ( Roman Catholic religious politics rulership)
We then moved to the White Washing of the Bible creating a schism in perception, which allowed for the imposition of Eurocentric based cultural norms and practices.
Biblical Marriage is not a partnership but Leadership by men. Many have abrogated this responsibility in the name of misguided modernity. The wedding ceremony is not Biblical it's cultural adoption. And not based on scripture but culture and the vows therein not scriptural and therefore not binding.
Therefore if it's not scriptural then it's not tenable.
The word of God is absolutely infallible. God is the same yesterday today and forever. Hebrews 13:8 Numbers 23:19 NKJV “God is not a man, that He should lie, Nor a son of man, that He should repent. Has He said, and will He not do? Or has He spoken, and will He not make it good
Men and women are not the same in the Bible and are not equal. That's a Biblical FACT. The Bible in it's entirety is patriarchal and is an affront to modern day idealogy.
David a man after God's heart, had how many WIVES and CONCUBINES❓ yes this is true. God even through the Prophet says, I would have given you more if you wanted. Abraham a friend of God how many WIVES and CONCUBINES ❓❓
Luke 16:17-18
17 And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail. 18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery
I see no reason why he should be told to even step down and or pay penance. As some are saying, he did not commit adultery or Fornication and if this Woman is his exclusive preserve then she is a Biblical defined Concubine.
From my personal perspective I do prefer one man one wife and have no desire for a concubine because the other option is is fraught with many issues and l am not wise enough to take that option. Finally God's chosen one is lsrael ,who was birthed from two wives and two concubines. Let's be careful with what we think is God's will it may be sincere ignorance.
"Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,"
You see, the issue is with different ways the scriptures present messages and that is because of several interpretations or versions.
Some Bible scholars believe that this part is only instructive without any form of condemnation or sinfulness if an overseer marries more than one wife..
*Note the word used* FAITHFUL TO HIS WIFE.
I have written many times that marriage is always expressed in the singular form so in essence, that scripture could as well mean "faithful to any lady that is a wife to him"
Now shall we say a polygamist can not be called to be a General overseer or deacon? Shall we then say he must DIVORCE his wives and stick to one thereby going against the commands of Jesus as regards divorce...
So the summary is that Paul was only instructing deacons and G.Os to be faithful to the woman they are married to regardless of the singular representation cos a man usually makes marital vow and contract to one lady at a time.
And Yes a lady can choose to be as long as she is ready to bear the consequence just like a man will also bear the consequence.
Meaning if as a married man I choose to marry another lady, the first wife is free to go or remain if she so desires and in like manner, a married woman who chooses to be with another man should be ready to leave her husband. Simple logic
baby124: The Hausa lady that murdered her husband for cheating is a Christian? Not sure these ones are Christian either. As most men can’t stand cheating, same with women. Don’t think a woman should be able to take cheating or you are playing with your life.
Not every woman will react so obviously. Some will kill slowly with poison. Very little percentage of humans can truly forgive cheating. Don’t underestimate anybody, thinking you can somehow condition the human mind to accept bad treatment. If you know you cannot take it, don’t dish it.
I dont know what you mean by cheating. It is a useless word to describe a man's choice to be with another woman.
Men are polygamous..You either accept this or remain single. Marriage no be by force..
youngreezy: Na there type dey Instagram dey shame men with small prick...I don see them taya na,na why all these girls wey dey for bad girls online no dey move me again.. majority of them na mouth Dem get once you spread there leg insert the head Dem don begin dey shake dey beg say e dey touch there womb....and to the useless simp of a man,50k for ordinary toto?!! something wey em no fit give em fellow man oooo.....I'm speechless
90% of ladies can not handle any dck above 7 inches. Forget their bragadocio.
Rita005: Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states.
Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride).
A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind.
According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence, her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation.
Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.
I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.
Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in. Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet.
To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared. please I need advice on how to handle this situation.
Thanks
Bla Bla Bla Bla!
You are in love with a married man PERIOD!
Marry him if you like, there is no crime in it. Polygamy is acceptable so stop fooling yourself waiting for him to divorce his wife cos you go wait forever.
The kind of guy ladies usually love is the type of guy most ladies want yet they will foolishly expect the guy to marry and be faithful to only them... No be juju be dat.
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