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Funny enough I haven't eaten today.

Strange.

Story

They will never tell you the true story.

Dangote will not tell you how he made his breakthrough with the help of the Nigeria government.

Otedola will not tell you about the connections his dad made when he was Lagos state Governor..

Jimoh Ibrahim was telling the world how he made his money through organizing seminars but will not tell you the Koko.

I believe in hard work and I believe it pays but I don't like all these funny talks of starting a poultry with one egg.

fjjc:
No matter what people say about this guy, one thing is certain, his life has changed to what is used to be. He can only pray for.Sustainability.
Any man God don bless no man can cause

He should check into a rehab.

His health needs attention first cos he is looking like one drug addict.

May GOD help him

Angy55:
Shout out to Toks2008

Thanks love

Lies.

Let him break it down.

I'm very happy he is making money but make e no exaggerate abeg.

Happy birthday my Handsome Aburo

Happy birthday Aburo

Why am i not on the list? Nah ojoro jor

But why do some ladies get angry whenever they see threads like this?

Nice one but if his source of wealth is dirty i guess this is a wasted effort.

Vinnie2000:
So I visited my young Married friend and we were watching a movie where Christopher Okagbue (one handsome Guy that won GUS in 2012 or 2013) showed up..
Suddenly, my friend's Wife said 'Oh, see my Crush'..

Was surprised. My friend Did not say anything!. Whether he was Angry or not, I don't even know!..

But I was really Surprised and somewhat Confused!
Because some Singles Might have the likes of Genevieve, Nancy Isime, Beverly Naya, Ronaldo, Wizkid, RMD, etc as Celebrity crushes!

After Marriage, Are They still going to be Crushing on these People?

But, Really. Is it Right or Responsible for a Married person to have a Celebrity Crush?

Please Move to FP for further deliberation on this Issue!
Thanks!..

No big deal.

A crush remains a crush.

Asa is my crush as well as Iyvone Jegede and many more but there is almost zero likelihood of me ever having any romance with them.

SMH!

I wonder how some ladies reason.

Now you know he is a narcissist. She must have seen the red light at that time but she was blinded Not by Love but by What she stands to gain by getting married to him and now after her eyes are clear, she is coming out to be a motivational Guru.

Please enjoy your single life in peace just that in Igbo land, their men stereotype a lot...they hardly marry divorcees or a lady who has kids but nit to worry...one Responsible Yoruba guy won't mind cos we are very considerate.


But she set sha come fresh join...Igbo amaka

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

Guy can't you just do something for a lady without expecting anything from her?

If you have the money to buy her a phone just do it but make sure it is a very good phone so that she will appreciate it.

But if you don't have the money don't sweat it. But please learn to do something for a lady without expecting her to spread her legs. That is maturity.

NwekeUG:
An American woman, Jayla Brenae, made her husband emotional when she made him realise that all his debts have been paid off, IgbereTV reports.

She shared a video of her surprising her husband on Boxing Day with gifts which included a shoe.

In the video, the man is seen unwrapping the gifts when he saw the shoe with the inscription; “debt free”.

Jayla proceeded to hand him a phone on which he watches a video clip confirming that she has paid off his student loan debt.

On realising what his wife had done, the man became teary-eyed and was overwhelmed with emotion.

She wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CX7RZXDjFNd/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9orbwohZEnM

https://igberetvnews.com/1410667/woman-surprises-husband-paying-debt-photos-video/

Some Naija girls won't like this cos it is totally not their nature.

newswires:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ANJbHBYh4AM

Veteran Nigerian singer Asa picks Wizkid over Davido and Burnaboy!!!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CYETLEMJDes/?utm_medium=copy_link

Asa my crush.

I just love her... A legend in her own class.

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

Very very sad.

Please move on and thank GOD for the expose, cos you for just enter one chance.

To find husband no easy o

Loreettaa:
Noise

You no well.

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

I don't support her actions but there must be another reason asides the excuse she gave and that we may never know.

If she was indeed a Virgin then she must have committed adultery first before knowing that another man is better.

Well some people just write fake stories just to make front page.

Bloody Samaritans

Was it not on camera that one of them confirmed it?

Set of unserous elements.

Loreettaa:
Married man, what's your bloody business what people do with their privates?
Are you ready to divorce your wife or what? Hunting for a new one?

OH I just checked and realize it's you..

We have discussed this before, if you want me, I'm all yours... Remember what I wrote on the other thread... Marriage is an achievement for ladies but it is only a title for men.

Don't worry about my marital status, if you Wan do make you do... I will pay your bride price regardless and you will experience heaven on earth.

fati2001:
NO BODY SHOULD CHOOSE FROM ME.. I CHOOSE BY MYSELF


AND VIRGIN MEN ARE EVERYWHERE JUST AS WATER, AIR, FIRE AND SAND

Nah one sharp bad guy go marry you laslas cos ladies love bad guys.

Loreettaa:
Take several seats. Aren't you married? Your business should be what's between your wife's legs and not mine.

Who are you for me to worry about? Stop feeling too important.

Focus on the subject matter.

fati2001:
yeap ,IT IS NOT A CRIME..


SINCE YOU GUYS ASKED WOMEN ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL HISTORIES ...


VIRGINS WISE UP DON'T BE A TERMINAL FOR A SCRAP CAR WITH A KNOCKED ENGINE


VIRGINS[MALE OR FEMALE ]PLACE YOURSELVES HIGH AMONG THEM FORNICATORS

OK for real I have a bestie who is a virgin and he is very interested in marrying only a virgin lady... Send me a PM and I will link you up... You know how difficult it is to get a male virgin.

fati2001:
[s][/s]


STILL POINTLESS


VIRGIN GIRLS PLS SETTLE DOWN FOR A VIRGIN BOY....

DON'T GIVE UR BODY TO A PERSON THAT SLEPT WITH THOUSANDS SOULS... [ MEN AND WOMEN ]

I'm enjoying this convo... OK so how will. You get a Virgin boy to marry?

Will you put up an Ad?, OK lemme guess... You will be asking any man that approaches you if he is a Virgin?

Babe abeg enjoy your day.

fati2001:
BECAUSE YOU HYPOCRITE SELF IS JUDGING YOU[/b]


SO NOW THE FORNICATORS ALL WANT A VIRGIN WIFE ,WHAT ABOUT THE VIRGIN MEN? I GUESS THEY SHOULD ALL RUN TO THE GIRLS YOU ALL SLEPT WITH....




KIAA DEVIL SABI WORK


I'M A VIRGIN AND CAN'T STOOP SO LOW FOR A MAN THAT HAVE TASTED ALL THINGS UNDER SKIRT DURING HIS YOUTHFUL ERA it
it is time for all the virgins to stand up [man and woman ] because this nonsense act is becoming unbearable

I knew you are not a male cos no male will reason the way you do.

For the last time, this thread is not about judging anyone but just stating the fact that ONLY VIRGIN BRIDES DESERVE A BRIDE PRICE.

If you are not intelligent enough to grasp sorry I can't help you and if indeed you are a Virgin and you remain so till marriage THEN YOU DESERVE A BIG BRIDE PRICE.

It is only sad that you may wait forever if you want a Virgin groom but you just might be lucky if you allow me introduce my friend to you. He is a Virgin but strangely he is about 40 years.

If you miss this opportunity you may never see it again o.

fati2001:
I KNOW IT IS VERY TO PLACE A MAN AND WOMAN IN SAME LEVEL WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUAL THINGS


WHAT A CLOWN




MALE VIRGIN IS SAME AS FEMALE VIRGIN...

I'm sorry I even responded to you in the first instance..

fati2001:
same as Men!

See anytime I see anyone pull this string I just laugh at the lameness.

Sexual immorality is a sin both for men and women but it is utter foolishness to place a man and a woman in the same level when it comes to sexual chastity.

And mind you, nobody is criticizing anyone... We are not condemning anyone... We only say that do not deserve a bride price.. If you are not intelligent enough to Gerrit then firggerit.

Loreettaa:
Another stupid take from a backward mindset. Lord knows I'll rather roast my hymen on the grill than date any of these paleolithic patriarchs on this forum.

If you call this backward then I can only pity you and your daughters if you have any.

That you have accepted sexual recklessness does not mean it is the norm. You are the backward thinking fellow. Please change your mindset.

Ask yourself... If you are a man, will you even marry some of the ladies you know for free?

Yes Virginity does not define a woman but it goes a long way to define a
Her marital worthiness.

We are not judging anyone but let's say it as it is.

khadaffi:
Everybody is fighting for his or her pocket. The reason OBJ is saying this is because he is a major shareholder in many Nigerian companies (PLC) and if Nigeria were to disintegrate today, the other party will also want their own people to head these companies in their country thus reducing his income and power. This man is wise and is fighting for himself.

At his age I think the most important thing for him is to leave a good legacy cos if he dies without rectifying his dented image, then the generations unborn will remember him as a mere noise maker.

He ruled for many years, organized a confab yet he did nothing just to come out and start writing endless letters.

What a shame.

siofra:
If you men will agree to no sex before marriage then women will stay chaste before marriage like it used to be in the old days. But you people will not agree.

Even me that wrote this will most likely ask a lady for sex before marriage but i will never Put a gun in her head or force my way in which means IF SHE SAYS NO, i will gladly let her be.

So please stop thinking this way.

siofra:
Thank you ma'am. As a virgin girl I appreciate this photo.

Nairaland men are so funny. They'll cherry pick only parts of the Bible that suits them. They'll insist on the part where women should stay chaste till marriage but ignore the part where Saint Paul says fornication is a sin irrespective of gender.

They think they have sense

Are you even making any sense?

How does this change the narrative?

nnamdi640:
A country where there is no true federalism is bound to break. You can't take the resources of a particular place and used it to develop another place of that country and left the place where this resources are collected to be deserted, just like the issue of sooth PHC is battling with and so called FG feel less concise. A country where a particular tribe dominate almost everything that have to do with power. A country were some side enjoy what is called quota system and so many more which can't be mentioned. I expected him to talk about this fake federalism been practice in this country rather than running his mouth saying irrelevant things. The root of all agitation in order to break away is as a result of not practing a true federalism.

My point exactly. And I'm surprised Obasanjo with all his years of experience as Nigeria leader can not talk about this but he is just rubbing the surface. Shame on him