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Romance › Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op):
pocohantas:
1. A wife's role is to support not to provide.
2. She expects her husband to be a major provider.
3. She can't be sexually available for a non-provider husband.


Anyone arguing this is being unrealistic.

If men wanted women to be providers, they won't expect providing women to hide it from the public. Neither would they call women richer than their men, the HUSBAND. Tell me about "na she marry man keep for house".

We all know the truth. But let's argue...

Quote me when you are knacking your wife without providing as an able-bodied man.

✌️✌️✌️✌️
I'm not married.
First of all, I honestly was not really aware of the kind of reality I was going to face as I grew up. But no qualms we meuve.
I try my best to adjust to fit in. If a man earns 50k and a woman earns 50k from what I've seen in the past. Both contribute to the expenses in the house but the man earning 50k contribute more.
The woman spend more money on her self but to me it's not bad tho.
When she gives birth she'll spend on the children also.
What I'm trying to tell you is that, the man will always show more care and spend more even of the wife is contributing.
Once a lady start contributing more than the husband, it'll become a problem because she will become rude to him.
So in a relationship where both party support the piller the man does more, now this one is not even ready to support any pillar.
The only support I could see from her write up is the "kpa! Kpa! Kpa!" Support.
That's ridiculous if a lady thinks that's the best they could offer in a relationship.
She say can't give sex to who don't give her cash for feeding!
Stop twisting the rubbish talk to look nice.
Her comment was a reply to me in another thread where I said " if a man can feed himself and his parent and children, any other billing is secondary and not necessarily but he should attend to some".
She picked offense because I did not add wife. So a man who provides food in the house for his children will need special provision for wife feeding also?
Is it a curse that a lady should not be able to feed herself b4 marriage?
Is that the reason why many ladies are so excited about wedding? They've seen where mount their liability.
I was working in one company one time. There is this warri lady with unruly attitude. Always forming rubbish!
When she came late to night duty one time I wanted to talk to her despite knowing how rude she was.
My guy in the IT department shun me immediately.
I couldn't talk to her about how she took her job and why she needed some adjustment, not quite long she got sacked.
I met her boss and those ones told me they've cautioned her severally but she was adamant, so the management did as it was supposed.
She has this gang of friends where they discuss Tonto dike and co. They see those ladies as a role model.
When she got sacked she was bouncing like she never needed the salary.
I looked at her and shaked my head. "What a shame, your broke ass came to apply for an average pay job to your self and her family but her stupidity got her out of the job, now she was bouncing in shame. She could only deceive her fellow ignorant fellows because I knew she was crying deep inside her".
I told someone that this girl will go back to the street to put her broke ass bills on innocent men now that she's jobless.
Not long after her sack she got married.
Now everything was making sense to how I imagined it. She found who to take her liability in exchange for sex.
Marriage is and life is give and take. In this present world where s*x is cheap, you can say s*x what you have to offer in marriage.
Romance › Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 9:43pm On Apr 10, 2024
Proserpina:
What's a man who doesn't have the intention to provide doing with any lady at all?

I can't believe we are even debating this at all. I know y'all have set the dating standards so low for yourselves here but I didn't know it has gotten to this

So a woman should prepare to feed herself while being married? I really fear for women who will end up with you lots.
Madam, Without a man.
Why can't some ladies feed themselves?
Is that why marriage is always like world cup to some women?
Because they're liability?
Tell me what kind of support does a lady who can't feed herself b4 marriage give a man?
Romance › Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 7:25pm On Apr 10, 2024
This is the reason why many stvpid boys are taking responsibility of a father for a girl not even married to.
Romance › Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 7:23pm On Apr 10, 2024
Proserpina:
Read the lady's post, she's never against support or contribution but what she's against is this "the moment my feeding is no longer my husband's problem" i.e the husband is not providing or bringing anything to the family.
A woman can support if she chooses but it is not her duty to provide for the family. Let's get that straight.

In the lady's case the man doesn't nothing but wants to enjoy benefit of marriage? That's her point.

Well on another thread a guy like you said we should focus on our beauty grin grin grin. We shouldn't drag the "provider" title with you men grin
What support can a lady who can't feed herself give to a man?

A lady who can't feed herself without a man is useless to herself in the first place.
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor, Junior Pope Is Dead by tollyboy5(m): 7:10pm On Apr 10, 2024
Kelklein:
When in a local river or any river, life jackets should be a must..

Like 'who does that'.. (in this case, 'doesn't')🤔🤔

Now that it is confirmed.. we pray God for a peaceful repose of his gentle soul 🙏🏽🙏🏽.. I was a big fan and follower of Pope..

Plus.. Nollywood should consider organising
a national day of prayers.. AGN, take note!!!
This is pure failure of the Niger Delta region. If you board boat in Lagos you'll be giving life jacket
Politics › Re: Usd Is Fallen Yet Our Greediness Is Killing The Economy by tollyboy5(m): 7:03pm On Apr 10, 2024
Kpompey why are you wasting time with someone that is not a Nigerian and has never wish Nigeria well not until Peter obi decided to contest.
Peter obi lost he has returned to default mode.

Iykopee:
Peter Obi has been donating money to groups and peoples. The OP said, show him thièfnubu's project in another zone of the country not nonsense donation that went into ones man's pocket straight up.
Politics › Re: Usd Is Fallen Yet Our Greediness Is Killing The Economy by tollyboy5(m): 6:47pm On Apr 10, 2024
Iykopee:
Go and force people to start reducing pricing to accommodate your inkling for cheap goods produced @ exorbitant costs. Bye bye
Stop using fuel price as an excuse for greed. There have been a balance in fuel price before this sudden surge in price value of goods.
What lead to the surge was exchange rate.
Why it is not reflecting is pure greed.

Ibeto, dangote, bua, elephant etc are same gang of crazy greedy men.
Politics › Re: Arewa Influencer, Waspapping Makes U-turn Praises Obi For His Borehole Projects by tollyboy5(m): 6:19pm On Apr 10, 2024
As lagosian base on what I've been seeing from my childhood till now. That borehole is very substandard.
Now I don't know how expensive boreholes are in the north. Because drilling here don't go so deep.

In my hometown in Lagos we can't tolerate that as a free gift.
But the northerners have to.
It's a mediocre free gift tho.
Politics › Re: Arewa Influencer, Waspapping Makes U-turn Praises Obi For His Borehole Projects by tollyboy5(m): 6:16pm On Apr 10, 2024
BUSINESSARENAA:
If am not mistaken, that person is our Sarraki on Nairaland here.
He's not.
He was suppose to appreciate it. Peter obi did them a favor
Romance › For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 6:07pm On Apr 10, 2024
This lady made this statement on a thread. I would love to know if that's how ladies think so I can also update Elon musk chip in my head with the latest IA grin
A wife’s role is to support and not to provide. The moment my feeding no longer becomes my husband’s problem, he ceases to be my husband. A man who is fking me must take care of me. He’s not entitled to free sex just because he paid bride price. He can as well collect it back and get the eff out of my life. The way I regarded sex before marriage is the same way I regard sex in marriage. Sex is sacred to me. You can’t be fking me kpa kpa kpa every night in the name of husband and expect not to care for me.

Career › Re: Court Declines Jurisdiction On Case Of Female Army Officer Who Married Foreigner by tollyboy5(m): 6:02pm On Apr 10, 2024
Namaster:
Women have NO concept of loyalty.

Imagine a whole MAJOR in the Military sponsored for PhD education in Scotland by the Military and she decided to ABANDON the Military and stay back with her Oyinbo husband.

ZERO loyalty!

Lesson for men reading this:

If a woman can fuuuuck the ENTIRE Military when it suits her, who are you?

NEVER sponsor the education of any woman. Not even your wife.
Lol the thing tire me.
They're only after gain and profit.
Politics › Re: Person Use Him Money Do Borehole, You Dey Beef Am - Rufai Slams Obi's Critics by tollyboy5(m): 5:45pm On Apr 10, 2024
Penguin2:
Don’t mind them

We have challenged them to show us the ones their urine dispenser did, they couldn’t.

Ngwanu, go and do it now, they still can’t because they are too wicked to.

Only cho cho cho, no evidence.

Ndi ala!
If it's about that don't dare. Tinubu as a Muslim does more charity deeds than obi.
It's one of the pillers of Islam.
Politics › Re: Those Who Criticize Desmond Elliot Are Praising Peter Obi by tollyboy5(op): 3:25pm On Apr 10, 2024
lexy2014:
that is not what I asked you.

maybe you should check your body temperature and give us the basis for your comparison.

Is Peter Obi a government official and is he using public funds allocated to hi office as a government official to sink borehole?

is Desmond Elliot using his personal money to build toilet and provide bridge for his constituents in Surulere or public funds are being allocated to him for that purpose?

where exactly is the hypocrisy you are referring to?
Whatever you deduce from my reply should be enough for brain capacity to answer your jamb questions
Politics › Re: Those Who Criticize Desmond Elliot Are Praising Peter Obi by tollyboy5(op): 3:15pm On Apr 10, 2024
lexy2014:
maybe you should check your body temperature and give us the basis for your comparison.

Is Peter Obi a government official and is he using public funds allocated to hi office as a government official to sink borehole?

is Desmond Elliot using his personal money to build toilet and provide bridge for his constituents in Surulere or public funds are being allocated to him for that purpose?

where exactly is the hypocrisy you are referring to?
What is worth doing is worth doing well. Substandard is substandard.
If someone can do substandard project because it's charity.
He might give us substandard when he get to power citing excuse that Nigeria has no money.
We don't need or want excuses.
Family › Re: Eid Mubarak From Me And Mine ( See Photo) by tollyboy5(m): 1:40pm On Apr 10, 2024
Wonderful family. Omo your wife go dey look up to you base on height difference lol.
Romance › Re: Lady Cries Uncontrollably After Genotype Ended Her 3 Years Relationship(vid,pix) by tollyboy5(m): 12:39pm On Apr 10, 2024
One of my guy was crying over this grin. I feel like make dem give am better slap cheesy
Family › Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by tollyboy5(m): 12:34pm On Apr 10, 2024
gaite:
I was going to reply this, but I can’t be bothered cos you’re slow.
You have nothing to say, God knows we both know
Politics › Re: Dealers Demand ₦850/Litre Diesel As Dangote, Marketers Meet by tollyboy5(m): 11:23am On Apr 10, 2024
wizelink:
I hope not after cut price the marketers start selling at a very high price because they want to make huge profit
That is their target bro
Family › Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by tollyboy5(m): 11:05am On Apr 10, 2024
gaite:
A wife’s role is to support and not to provide.
I see, you registered just to reply me. I feel maybe you're facing similar issues in your marriage also.
Seek counseling plz
Family › Re: 10 Lessons I Learnt In My 10 Years Of Marriage by tollyboy5(m): 10:52am On Apr 10, 2024
gaite:
A wife’s role is to support and not to provide. The moment my feeding no longer becomes my husband’s problem, he ceases to be my husband. A man who is fking me must take care of me. He’s not entitled to free sex just because he paid bride price. He can as well collect it back and get the eff out of my life. The way I regarded sex before marriage is the same way I regard sex in marriage. Sex is sacred to me. You can’t be fking me kpa kpa kpa every night in the name of husband and expect not to care for me.
S*x is not meant to be transactional. The culture of making s*x transactional has led some men to cheat unapologetically .
Because they could pay younger girls feeding money to have this same s*x.
Many women these days are s*x hawkers, the ones who called themselves ashawo are just being professional about it.
Many widow are s*x hawkers because they came to this life to be useless to themselves, and when the bread winner dies, their sense of entitlement is to look for the next man that will s*x and pay for their feeding, at this stage of their life some are after 3.
Only promiscuous married men is what they get and not young guys.
Infact no normal young guy will settle for less.
So ladies really need to add value to themselves, how can you come to this world just to look for a man to take up your responsibility?
How can a adult lady can't feed herself without a man lol.
That's so crazy, as for me I honestly don't understand.
How can you be a proud liability just because your spread legs grin
Don't you also enjoy the fun?
The reason why men will always care for women and children is because that's how nature made it. It's a pride to always protect those that rely on you, it's the same with many animals also.
But it's not an entitlement my dear.
What support are you giving to your husband when you can't even support your daily feeding?
Is it kpa! Kpa! Kpa! Support? grin
E go expire o! The younger ladies dey get more tight kpetus and twist on bed very well.. your husband go lose control when better babe give am style.
He go prefer to dey pay dat babe instead of paying you for expired stuff.
If sex is sacred you won't take it as an entitlement package to your feeding.
Please take care and add value to yourself, value no dey expire.
Technology Market › Re: I Need A Powerbank With The Following Specifications by tollyboy5(m): 12:33am On Apr 10, 2024
GreaterFuture:
Hello all.
Please I need a Powerbank with 45,000Mah capacity or more, and 67w Charging output or more.

Any Original, reputable Brand is fine. A reliable model.
I'm Ready to buy Immediately. If you or someone you know has for sale, DM me pls.
This should be laptop power bank. It use to be around 70k then don't know about now in alaba
Crime › Re: Man In Adamawa Stabs Wife To Death After She Seized His Phone (photo) by tollyboy5(m): 12:08am On Apr 10, 2024
Zooposki:
Ok, Abel was the first known recorded murderer then if he was the one that killed the animal.
But you know how to chop chicken and beef bah?
Anyone that can eat a killed animal can eat a killed human being.
Such person is a cannibal.
Crime › Re: Man In Adamawa Stabs Wife To Death After She Seized His Phone (photo) by tollyboy5(m): 12:05am On Apr 10, 2024
adecz:
Women,

Leave your men's phone alone,
because you go find wetin you dey
find for inside the phone and then what❓❓


A lady once said she will never try
to see anything for her guy phone because
she no wan cry ❗️❗️❗️😎😎😎


As a professional butcher, the man
think say him wife na nama 🐂🐮
Naso one man dey form bozz 4 him wife till he carry infection.
How he wan explain to him wife sey he get hiv?
Politics › Re: Those Who Criticize Desmond Elliot Are Praising Peter Obi by tollyboy5(op): 11:01pm On Apr 09, 2024
Blaze14k:
Do you also know obi can do this 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

Zoom in so you see the amount on the cheque 😂😂😂
But whatever is worth doing. Is worth doing well.
You know that right?
Politics › Re: Those Who Criticize Desmond Elliot Are Praising Peter Obi by tollyboy5(op): 11:01pm On Apr 09, 2024
chucks185:
see how you just waste your scarce time talking bullshit, thats the life of an asshole
Lol you're pained right? grin
Politics › Re: Those Who Criticize Desmond Elliot Are Praising Peter Obi by tollyboy5(op): 10:42pm On Apr 09, 2024
I've said it several times. Peter obi is just a regular politician but some of his fans just want to insult my intelligence.
Politics › Those Who Criticize Desmond Elliot Are Praising Peter Obi by tollyboy5(op): 10:37pm On Apr 09, 2024
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

If hypocrisy was a person lol

Health › Re: Lady Confronts Another Lady At A Gym Over Body Odour (Video) by tollyboy5(m): 5:15pm On Apr 09, 2024
The lady being abused is too slow, she should have giving her a dirty slap on the face.

Body odour is crazy tho, the day I almost suffocate because of it, I quickly saved myself.

I later called the young girl, I told her to go treat herself that i almost fainted from the oozing smell.
I explained things properly to her. She still like me till today lol.
Politics › Re: If MC Oluomo And Okonjo-iweala Were To Contest For The Presidency Of Nigeria by tollyboy5(m): 5:00pm On Apr 09, 2024
adamusuleiman1:
The real South Easterners not the make up fake post by OP below:
The OP is stvp!dly telling us igbos are the normal Nigerians because Peter obi lost.
Because south south and southeast supported Peter obi doesn't mean he's a better politician.

Peter obi is not a yardstick and anyone who use him as a yardstick should know that's the opinion of his village people not all Nigerians.

Now I will advise the OP to continue wailing
Travel › Re: CNN Reporter, Larry Madowo, Protests Nigeria’s $215 Single Entry Visa Fee by tollyboy5(m): 4:50pm On Apr 09, 2024
FreeStuffsNG:
“The visa itself costs $25, but Nigeria charges a $20 ‘processing fee’ and $170 for biometrics every time. My fingerprints haven’t changed since I was here three weeks ago. Why am I paying $170 to have them taken and to pose for a picture each time I visit? Isn’t that a standard part of admitting someone into a country?

“I love Nigeria, but the visa situation is showing me shege. It’s too much oo! Why this Shege Pro Max?”

Larry Madowo made some valid points and it's refreshing that we can get this kind of civil and intellectual feedback.
Thank you Larry for sharing this feedback with love.
Unpatriotic elements, criminal cyberbullies and trolls, take note of how you can make your point without committing criminal defamation and cybercrime.

May God bless Nigeria and the African continent. Check my signature for free stuffs!
You've successfully contributed nothing to the topic sofar.
You have no right to dictate how a Nigerian express his or grievance against the government.
Everyone has been pushed to the wall and if you're satisfied with that then good for you.
During the time of pantami we were all ask to go link our nin orso.
People like me already did nin years back.
Our simple request was for the so-called guy to make arrangements on how Telecom industry will get our nin details from the nimc people since they already have a database.
That would have been easier but no, they made it a drama.
This useless culture of capturing and recapturing or submitting data numerous times has being use to embezzle alot of money from different agencies in Nigeria.

When the people speak up against this fraud, people like you will come out to lambast sane minded people as not being patriotic for whatsoever reason known to you.

Too much fraud that you supported.
Politics › Re: What Can We Do About Iyana Oba by tollyboy5(m): 4:35pm On Apr 09, 2024
I was coming through igando, on getting to iyanaba I look around and was like.. this is another oshodi in the making.
From iyanaba you will get vehicle going to egbeda/ iyanapaja from there you can even travel out of the country since some, agbara/badagry vehicles are there.
For those going towards island can take mile, CMS direct from there.
Lagos state university is right at that spot, those going to alaba can cross and follow the market way.
More business are coming towards those direction, the government did a road without a bus terminal.
That's the new oshodi with homeless people already taking refuge under the bridge.

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