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Sports › Re: Marc Batchelor Shot Dead In Johannesburg by tomju(m): 4:55pm On Jul 16, 2019

Meaning people don't get shot in America and Europe? Must you comment?

namiji2598:
It seems Africa itself is a sh*t hole

RIP

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Family › Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by tomju(m): 7:28am On Jul 16, 2019

The foundation of a child's upbringing is cardinal in raising them up properly. As a parent, how solid is your spiritual foundation. Are you are Christian? Do you study the bible with your family? Including your wife and son? I noticed you said maybe the maid taught him the "nonsense "! But I tell you who taught who anything is immaterial right now. What should be paramount in your life is how to get your son back. How can you do that? Beating him is discipline. He has to know that what he did was wrong. But it doesn't end there. You must make him afraid of something. Naturally, children are afraid of being beaten. Some of them would say , I dont want to do it because my mummy will beat me. You need to instil in him a fear greater than just beating. The fear of offending God. Teach him how to see God as His best friend and a real person. Teach him how to talk to God in prayer. Ultimately, when he is grown and you are not there or can even beat him anymore, the fear of offending that His friend would scare him from immoral ways generally, not just groping. No one was born with good parenting skills. You must learn it. Talk to your son more. Ask him questions. Teach him sex education. Tell him what each organ in his body is. What it can be used for, when he is authorised to use it. How he should use it then. Why he should not allow anyone to touch his privates, Instruments if you like. Not even his teacher in school, doctor or his siblings, maid, mom or dad. You noticed I included the parents. Yes, your case is not parental sexual abuse, however it does exist. Your best bet is to inculcate in your kids the moral discipline found in the bible. Let them learn to trust and have faith in God now, it's the surest way of ensuring they live a good life. Some may consider it old school, but the truth is, families that rely on God as their foundation thrives well more than families that lack the basic teaching of God's word in their home. The responsibility of taking care of him is yours and your wife's. It's a shared responsibility. I wish you well. I expect you to come here someday and testify that he is making progress in his relationship with God. Enjoy your day.

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Christianity Etc › Re: COZA Scandal: "I Assure You That We Are With You" - CAN President To Members by tomju(m): 11:26am On Jul 15, 2019

I will tell him to go and defend himself. I will not support or defend him. Let him prove his innocence. Rape is a crime against the state.

Jwonder:
Hahaha Feminist are already crying on Twitter! How do you expect CAN to disown their own just because of an allegation without evidence, all those crying more than the berieved let me ask you one question, If a lady accuse your brother or father of rape without providing any evidence, will you Abandon him ?.
Btw it's over a month now, what's stopping the Dakolo's from taking the matter to court?
If you must reply me, put on your thinking cap, set aside emotions and reason like a human with Brain. THANK YOU.

Politics › Re: Governor Udom Emmanuel Swears In 19 Commissioners, Special Advisers (Photos) by tomju(m): 11:17am On Jul 15, 2019

Are you not from Kwara? Its the same thing. You guys are beggars. You beg for a living. grin

Kittex7:
Shut up there Maram/Madam. Brola/Brother. I'm not from that Ilorin village

Politics › Re: Osinbajo Firm, Simmons Coopers Partners Linked To N100bn Alpha Beta Scam - Punch by tomju(m): 4:53pm On Jul 13, 2019

doctokwus:
Osinbajo corrupt deeds started during his tenure as justice commissioner under Tinubu who is known to be the owner of apha beta that has been a conduit for the bleeding of Lagos State.The corrupt deeds osinbajo did as justice commissioner maybe mind boggling if fully exposed.That of Tinubu would require a separate book.
Short of sounding like a broken record,but the challenge I put forward several times has not been met and my assertion is just being proved right day after day:
'Anyone should show me one member of the presidency and the cabinet that doesn't have a proven present or past corruption scandal on his or her neck,including the dullard-in-chief and the VP.

Another one who feigns ignorance about Ocean Trust Limited being connected to Tinubu and cohorts is Lying. These guys just got together and wrecked Lagos treasury.

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Politics › Re: Governor Udom Emmanuel Swears In 19 Commissioners, Special Advisers (Photos) by tomju(m): 2:59pm On Jul 13, 2019

Atleast the don't carry plate around Saraki's house to be begging him for what to eat, if Saraki is not feeding them no food. Like what you do in illorin! Life of perpetual servitude.

Kittex7:
South South peope. Yuncyion is their own pronunciation of junction. And PDP is their Religion. Akpabio sorry ehn. Take heart. APC not for Yuncyion people

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Christianity Etc › Re: Samuel Uche: Pastor Fatoyinbo And Busola Dakolo Rape Allegation, Foolish by tomju(m): 1:11am On Jul 13, 2019

Why wouldn't you admire it. Birds of the same feathers. Keep admiring until he rapes your daughter! Omo admiration.

Sunnycliff:
Only God knows the truth. I admire the silence of Fatoyinbo

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 1:05am On Jul 13, 2019

I am saying he is a cultist and rapist.

lexy2014:
This isn't about excusing or not excusing. Its about facts which so far u haven't been able to establish. Someone said he was a cultist & people say "that guy get mind oh"...automatically he is a rapist. So any person that has mind is a rapist. So if u say most cultists are rapist, then u are saying most rapists are cultists

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Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 9:54am On Jul 12, 2019

lexy2014:
Thanks alot for ur response. U are beginning to understand y i asked d questions i asked. 4d fact that a man said he was a cultist doesn't automatically mean that he is a rapist. Cultism & rape don't go hand in hand if not it will b indisputable that all rapists are cultists& all cultists are rapist. If they went hand in hand, then u can easily say a man who raped a child did it because he is a cultist. Do cultists rape, sometimes they do and they do so just like any other rapist who aren't cultists. Since we are in agreement about this, then we can't b 100% certain that Fatoyinbo is a rapist just because he said he was in blackaxe.

How few these exceptions are, I believe u & I don't no except u have done a research to have ascertained the "very few".

Hold on a minute. Ofcourse, by admitting he was once a blackaxe priest opens up another twist to his sordid tale. How do I mean? Let us dilute this to contemporary street way....you hear people say " that guy get mind o" What is the "mind" here? Is daring? Fearless? Courageous? All of the above? Do cultists "get mind"? I'm sure you'll say yes. It takes mind to do the shit they do! No matter your bias, you must admit that, only people who get mind rapes. Why? They damn all the consequences. Even if they may regret later, they'll first do it. You can excuse Fatoyinbo if you care, but frankly I feel he is an adulterous man! His sexual controversies are innumerable. What a "man of God." So back to my initial argument, most cultists are rapist because them get mind.

Celebrities › Re: Busola Vs Pastor Biodun: How Much Did He Pay You? - Nigerians Ask Kemi Olunloyo by tomju(m): 8:44am On Jul 12, 2019

Whether it was rape(which I believe it was) or consensual sex, or even fingering! One thing is clear Senior Pastor of COZA is an adulterous man! Believe him at your own peril. As for Kemi Olunloyo, she is looking for attention. Her type of "journalism" is going extinct.

Travel › Re: This Is Flooded Nkpolu Rumuigbo In Port Harcourt Not Atlantic Ocean. by tomju(m): 8:25am On Jul 12, 2019

Really? Ku tang aba! I thought Wike is working?��

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 2:07pm On Jul 10, 2019

In all theories, there are no exclusiveness. All theories has exceptions. For instance, a rapist was not born that way! Its a mentality he picked up along, that you can always get what you want, even if its forcefully. That is the theory of oppression. Cultism promotes oppression, especially of others who would not tow their line, belief system or even ideologies. Granted, many people who are cultist may join out of a natural desire to associate with some group, and may not necessarily be classified as "rapists" or "criminals" in that respect. However, the fundamental principle covering clandestine organization is their "living above the law" tendencies, not fearing the consequences. So rape and cultism or cultism and rape go hand in hand! That does not mean that all rapists are cultist and vice versa. They may be exceptions, though very few.

lexy2014:
Whether or not am a rapist or cultist isn't d subject of discussion. Whether or not I support cultist or rapist isn't also d subject of discussion. Unfortunately, these statements are typical of people who find it difficult defending their claims. So keep 2d discussion.

Even if u say rape& cultism are synonymous because they are oppressive acts, it still doesn't automatically mean that a cultist is a rapist. If thats ur theory, that means that all cultists are rapists and all rapists are cultists since they are synonymous

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 11:35am On Jul 10, 2019

Are you a cultist? What is the motivation? Is it not to oppress people? What is rape? Is it not act act of oppression? As long as you continue to be interested in dragging this issue, i have no doubt in my mind that either you support cultist and rapist or you are one yourself.

lexy2014:
"Cultist& rape are synonymous"... that is d " what". U have repeated urself over& over again without explaining d "how". Pls oga, how is cultism synonymous with rape? How do they go together?

Is cultism synonymous with murder?

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 8:25pm On Jul 09, 2019

Cultist and Rape are synonymous-they go together. Why are you dragging the issue? Are you a cultist? Tell us,do you rape as well. Maybe you can guide us here.

lexy2014:
Ur screenshot doesn't answer these questions:

"How is cultism & rape synonymous? Is cultism & murder not synonymous? U never saw or witnessed Apostle Paul in d flesh how was he different?"

Politics › Re: Elisha Abbo Appears At Senate Investigative Committee (Photos) by tomju(m): 7:22pm On Jul 09, 2019

intimacy gadget-SLAP=ASSAULT=HIV=ELISHA ABBO. Only you! Hmmm

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 1:23am On Jul 09, 2019

lexy2014:
How is cultism & rape synonymous? Is cultism & murder not synonymous? U never saw or witnessed in d flesh how was he different?

Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Fatoyinbo Contacts Daddy Freeze For Interview, To Launch Attack On Busola by tomju(m): 1:13am On Jul 09, 2019

"We can also confirm that apart from the Busola Dakolo petition signed against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo, there are currently 10 other cases that the Nigerian Police is currently investigating that either allege the pastor misused his position of influence or sexually assaulted women. Our source suggests that the legal team at COZA is doing its best to suppress news of these investigations reaching the media and swaying public perceptions."
Bottom line is Pastor Fatoyinbo is an adulterous man! Garnish the story as much as you want....he has a case to answer!If not now, definitely later, either to men or to God. He will answer and pay his price. Time.

Christianity Etc › Re: Why We Can’t Jump To Conclusions About Rape Allegations Against Fatoyinbo —CAN by tomju(m): 10:17am On Jul 08, 2019

Why would you conclude? When Kemi Olunloyo says a member of CAN is involved or abi sabi werin we no sabi
Spill the CAN of worms grin

Sports › Re: Fulham Football Club Management Staff Arrive Akwa Ibom, To Scout Players ....... by tomju(m): 10:12am On Jul 08, 2019

flexyrule:
STFU Tribalist!

"The Yorubas sabi football pass the rest of Nigeria". That is why you keep failing your exams. Tell us the name of a football club in your Yoruba community that plays in Nigeria's top flight? In Lagos, none. In Ogun none. Oyo none. Should I continue? Where is Enyimba FC, FC Ifeanyi Uba, Abia Warriors, Enugu Rangers, Heartland FC? All in the east. Igbo land. Akwa United, Rivers United, Delta Force FC South South. So apart from struggling MFM FC and Sunshine FC in Akure what else? Lagos cannot even boast of 1 NPFL club. Bourdillon never think of owning one yet, until he decides nothing for una. So where are your so called yoruba players hiding? Better wake up and smell the coffee.

Politics › Re: AFCFTA Trade Agreement Signed By Buhari: What You Need To Know About It by tomju(m): 9:31am On Jul 08, 2019

At least Dangote can now sell his cement in Benin republic .

Christianity Etc › Re: Why We Can’t Jump To Conclusions About Rape Allegations Against Fatoyinbo —CAN by tomju(m): 10:33pm On Jul 07, 2019

Guy, this is serious blasphemy o. Better delete this comment or else the wrath of God is real o. You have been warned. Jehovah na your mate?

Michaelkings:
I hate Jehovah

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 10:28pm On Jul 07, 2019

No. It did not. However, people are different. Cultist and rape are synonymous. The traits may linger! Just saying.

lexy2014:
What of Paul in d Bible that was a murderer? Did his past negate his ministry?

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 10:28am On Jul 07, 2019

Where is that Utchaychukwu the defender of the universe, abi na church. Come and see your "Egede Pastor" o grin

, we need the real confession......

EzegeNG:
Source:
https://zenithnaija.com/moment-pastor-fatoyinbo-revealed-hes-the-chief-priest-of-at-unilorin/

Christianity Etc › Re: I was The Chief Priest Of BlackAxe At UNILORIN - Pastor Fatoyinbo (Video) by tomju(m): 10:27am On Jul 07, 2019

Where is that Utchaychukwu the defender of the universe, abi na church. Come and see your "Egede Pastor" o grin

, we need the real confession......

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Celebrities › Re: An Open Letter To Akah Nnani, The COZA Member Who Betrayed Pastor Biodun (Pics) by tomju(m): 10:11am On Jul 07, 2019

Dear Utchaychukwu,
Your open letter did not address the fundamental issue of rape or sexual harassment and manipulation your pastor was accused of. Ese Walter-Sexual Manipulation and inappropriate sexual relationship(Adultery) 2013 , unbecoming of a "man of God".
Bukola Dakolo-Rape.(A minor cannot give you consent, if she does its called "consent by fraud)
Tunmise the anonymous lady(Rape in a foreign country where she worked as COZA staff)
Franca E (apparently a pseudonym) to avoid people like you "chopping her raw" -Former COZA staff who mentioned the name of a Lagos Hotel, booked for COZA pastor ,how he booked just room for both of them, how he tried to seduced her, how he took his pic in a towel with an erection blah blah blah.
There is yet another DR somebody...I cant remember her name now, the lady wrote how she turn down his offer to meet him in his hotel.
Oga, social media activist, would you kindly address these fundamental issues? Activism is not bias. Activism is about standing up for accountability, probity, equity and allowing the rule of law to thrive. That you choose to support your pastor does not make you an activist.,or even defender of the church or body of Christ! E-zealot? Maybe. Activists rise up to defend a course that favors the generality of the public. A course that is in the greater interest of humanity. Not a self serving Agenda of feeding one's "deflated" ego.
People like you are deceived into celebrating mediocrity and immorality even in the presbytery! Jesus Christ as Head of the Church is ashamed of people like your pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo and you his supporter!!!. No wonder the scriptures said, Judgement will begin in the house of God. If you ever support immoral behavior then you are like him, a loser, a rapist! Afterall, the lady involved, at the first instance (Ese Walter) spoke up when she was tired of desecrating the presbytery, whereas your "Gucci pastor" was enjoying the immoral affair, no wonder he said" its a new level of Grace! What Grace? Grace to be adulterous? (1Cor 6:9-10) Neither will any thief or greedy person or drunkard or anyone who curses and cheats others. not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,[1] nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. Mark you, he cannot preach to me, rather I will preach and teach him the scriptures. Yes, i mean it, I am very grounded in that. Anyone who cannot tell his brother when he is wrong that he is wrong is worse than an infidel.That is what you are. Pushing him to destruction. This is not about Ese Walter nor Busola or any other lady out there who is yet to speak up, who has so been abused by him, don''t get it twisted, its about a man who needs to honour the sacred institution called marriage or his ecclesiastical calling-that is if he genuinely has one!. (Heb 13:4) Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Can your pastor ever preach that? No, he cannot. Its only prosperity that he is interested in. Sad. All the women accusing him of either rape or immoral conduct cannot be wrong while just him "Angel Gabriel's younger brother" is right. Better go and advise him to seek the face of God and cry to him with a repentant heart before its too late. When David impregnated Beer-Sheba and set-up her hubby Uriah to be killed in battle, did God not forgive him? As heinous as that crime of Adultery and Murder was, God forgave David. Only God forgives but the world does not. Secular law,will take care of that. That is not my business. My point is, its better to have a clear conscience and a good relationship with your maker, than the glitz and glamour of being revered before men, and end up in destruction. Stop stumbling others within the church body. Now let's listen to Jesus. At Mark Chapter 9 verse 42 he said "If anyone causes one of these little ones--those who believe in me--to stumble, it would be better for them if a large millstone were hung around their neck and they were thrown into the sea". Yes that serious. That's destruction, you cant survive that.
I pray you get my drift. your pastor will never teach you this.
Enjoy your Sunday.
Ambassador Tomju-Defender of the principles of good morality and shaming of the devil. grin

(me sef i need title)

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Celebrities › Re: MC Tagwaye Builds New House (Photos) by tomju(m): 11:13am On Jul 02, 2019

Here, i no understand. That balcony looks like a hall way lol

daddytime:
Beautiful...

Na the mansion I no come understand.

Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Poju Oyemade Reacts To Biodun Fatoyinbo's Rape Allegation by tomju(m): 7:38pm On Jul 01, 2019

The allegation is weighty enough to step down!Stepping down is an honourable thing to do to control the damage. It has nothing to do with guilty or not guilty.

thesicilian:
So you mean to tell me that you didn't even hear the full story from one of the parties involved, not to talk of both parties, before you started making calls and calling for the pastor to step aside? That is disappointing coming from a supposed Man of God.

One thing I've noticed so far: Those who are truly open minded about the whole issue, those who do not want to support either party until they get the full story, have decided to remain quiet either for fear of media backlash and possible accusations of their own, or simply because they do not want to get involved.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Biodun Speaks Amid Rape Accusation, Tells Members Not To Fight Protesters by tomju(m): 10:31pm On Jun 30, 2019

Ofcourse. It is well with him also well with the one he raped. Everything is well. Lets live as nothing happened! Bloody hypocrites and Charlatans on the pulpit. Shame on all of you. It is well kill you dia.

lionD:
Man of God, I've prayed for you. It is well with you even in the presence of these trials. The Lord will vindicate you and silence your accusers. You shall not be put to shame or humiliated, because of the mercy of God. Do not be discouraged, it is well with you sir.

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Sports › Re: AFCON: Amr Warda Sent Home From Egypt Over Leaked Chat With Women by tomju(m): 12:31am On Jun 27, 2019

Please what is a rod?

Dechymmytv:
and who told you I don't receive a good rod...? This useless pervert

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Celebrities › Re: Soyinka: N6 Slams Tonye Cole For Disrespecting His Wife With Kenya Moore by tomju(m): 7:23pm On Jun 24, 2019

What/Who is N6? The name of a new Nokia Phone?

Celebrities › Re: Actress Ini Edo Stuns In New Pictures by tomju(m): 2:24pm On Jun 20, 2019

When will adults understand the difference between Cross River and Akwa Ibom? Cross River-Calabar,Akwa Ibom -Uyo..you can be singing it until its clear.
[quote author=mohammedisa27 post=79510954

She s from Akwa ibom.. Not Cross River
Hahahahahahh[/quote]

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Romance › Re: Lady Rejoices And Praises God After Her Boyfriend Proposed To Her (Photos) by tomju(m): 12:43am On Jun 20, 2019

Just a proposal you write a sermon! If he marry you finish after wedding proper wetin you go write? Novel?

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