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We live in a country where is is no order, no rules, the law is not working, the government is weak. How can someone come out demanding for someone’s head and the government did not pick him up??

This may not surprise me since bandits are sending their faces while brutalizing innocent citizens.

The country is doomed!!!

Chingyyy878:
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later.

Thanks!

God blessed you with this advice

pansophist:
In as much as he doesn't mind if his wife has her ex picture on her profile photo on WhatsApp.

This is true ? Would he accept the new wife to use her ex pix on her wall papper? He should try and move on and at least he can have her pix in his gallery

Hmm

My Q is, do you have to think twice. You were polite in the chat upon the pains he was telling you that you aint serious ?

What is there to think about.... What the heck you wanna go and do there. The so call boss needs to apologize and you have right to sue him cos his mistress has the key through him and she knew of the money through him

Walk away you will get another job

Shits happun sum tymz buhh shitz shul not happun hul de tym.

This KRIPTO ehhhh aswear na scam most times and this shit would affect this G.

Op no be naija boiz show de guy how to balance well.

devilmaycry:
One is dead
The other will eventually spend plenty time in jail
While the said girl will continue her nonsense life with other guys
Niggas need wise up

This analysis make sense......*ONE DOWN THE OTHER LIFE IN PRISON* the puna go de f##k by some cool dudes

YOU ARE A BASTARD is not an insult !! She is telling him de truth, she don't know his father. He should stand up and be a man to prove to his mother that he can make it in life irrespective of not knowing his father. Stop supporting bad energy by this TAUT call a son

Let him rod in JAIL

Profperfect:
after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

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I understand that you have same problem like NIGERIA, First of all what's your relationship with Buhari. You are the only Idiot I ever know who is in a relationship.

Kwantinio, hope you get BP test kids!! be checking your BP cos soon one carpenter will make coffin aswear. Nonsense

Lastly brov, relationship is mean to enjoyed and not to endured.... You get dis part 〽️ n you get wisdom dude.

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Una no like her, why not sent her back to her people??

If you can't take care of her then let her go for everyone need a touch of love, if you can't give her love send her back to her people

dboY1123:
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These days, nothing bothers me again, not even life or death, I still have a father but it doesn't change things..

I'm the second to the last child, my Mom died in my hands, I felt that's the end of the world. Bro I almost gave up BUT trust me, TIME IS A HEALER.

Her memory would never wipe off but the pain will go down. Just move on and push on with life.

Even in death, pls make her proud

Onepointfiveodds:
We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.
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Boss, it doesn't mater who is right or wrong. The evenue, manner, approach and her mood at the time you are calling her attention to correction matters a long way.

You might be right but to calm situation you've to be polite when present the correction, you don't expect her to feel alright when you don't praise her when she did gud and be expecting her to be ok when all you do is to complain, common. She might feel bad base on how you present issues. Don't forget dat no one is perfect neither does that mean dat you don't offend her in anyway.

Try n know her some more n tolerate something's that never hold waters n accommodate each other.

Lastly if you don't give out respect and love brov, don't expect love n respect in return but instead you will be seeing fear n tern it as if your wife respect u n don't be a monster in your home.

Observe this n thank me later
Don't be bossy or Mr rightq

You made the greatest mistake, yes it hurts when the one who mean the world to u walk away. But time is a healer ........ People are fighting to have gud health n to live de sick-bed n you are fighting boifriend for love.... To bad on your decision ...... Now the boyfriend is parrying with another lady while your own part of the story has come to an end ......


Too bad on your decision

Pick your wedding month/year by faith, and God will answer your prayers. AMEN!!!

Mine is December 2022.. ���

For her to think twice about this option, it mean she has a chicken brain.

Nonsense... Boi-friend rubbish

This even de vex me aswear.

olaszydaruma:
I'm having this same thought lately as I'm in a lot of mess

Every problem has expiring date. Table de turn. People are spending millions just to have good health.

Suicide is not and never the option.

Delete that thought from your mind. Hustle for 50k process passport keep cool apply for Visa and once it's approved brov money will come out and boom the past is history.

LoverJoe89:
Dear NLs,

Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.

When jesus was saying " It is finish " he was actually talking about your brain...

tnerro1:
Your brother is somebody’s wife

Or somebody’s son has found your brother

Aswear, Dem de nyash ya brov kpakpa kpa for nyash. Someboriz son don fyn your broda

EmperorTolson:
Imagine that a student beat his lecturer to stupor for throwing mug at him.

What do you think will happen to that lecturer if that same student was rusticated cos of the said lecturer?

My thought as well. What will be of the lecturer if the insane addict should be dismissed from the school?

This guy need to sign life sentence if anything happen to the lecturer in case he is dismissed.

The lecturer need immunity against any decision of the school.

Haakeem:
she should try this method and also apply prayers..........

Void bladder before bedtime even
when you don't quite feel the need to
go..

Set a nighttime bathroom alarm to
urinate in the middle of the night..

Protect your bed with special mattress
covers..

Wear absorbent briefs during the night.

Just let her set alarm to wake her twice in the night and boom she got use to waking up in the mater of two months, or someone should be waking her up on a set time and all will be settle

MisterKennedy:
Please has anybody ever experienced pile?
How did you get rid of yours?

The worst part now is that the pile comes with pain now. It almost feels like there's pepper in my anus.

Guy just buy Irish potatoes, peel it wash and be chewing it for a week. Then come and thank me letter. It works for me and till date no pile

gulfer:
Not an option, there's a silver lining in every dark cloud �️�️

This is thick and I concure to you. To every negative action there is a walking shadow that is never visible to anyone else. A hidden truth is unknown.

If my wife should live me and I'm not guilty of our been together OMO !!! Nothing go shake me. She showed her unfaithfulness. Except this guy is involve in an act that was never disclose. I asked myself that I live a happy life before meeting her and this should never be a problem when she walk away.


LIFE GOES ON....

NaijaGoBetter20:
Two of my friends (who worked with different companies) resigned from their work recently, not because of their salaries but their claim was a bad boss and toxic environment.

My question is that which one should come first salary or the environment?

All bosses seems to be tough to protect their seat, some subordinate once the boss is simple they miss use been lenient to play and fun.

Manage your boss and put food on your table.

No boss stay for ever or rather look for another offer while managing your boss but never quit for nothing to rely on.........

FalseProphet1:
I see you becoming a petty thief and pick pocket, I see a mob chasing you to lynch you after snatching the empty purse of a broke slay queen, I see you running faster than usain bolt for your life only to find nothing inside the purse, I see you surrendering your life to Jesus after hunger must have dealt terribly with you, I see you preaching in parks and collecting offerings, I see you opening a church and impregnating 14 female members of your choir.

This I have seen.

This one chock ohhh but wallahi o no understand the whole stealing thing and why him de collect slap from him Mama. Bro you never talk true for this story aswear

armstrongadeola:
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Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

You are fortunate to have a wife you do trust. Bros we all do this skits she did. She felt the ATM and alert is with her and it's all what she handle.

Believe me she is not a cheat and don't take any drastic action but when you are home call her and seat her down and tell her never to make you loss your trust on her. Cos na little lies bring YAHOO Yahoo ohhhhh

DICO111:
Yesterday I went to the bank to get money that my uncle who is staying in the United states sent to me for use in paying for a Hisense deep freezer which I already told him the market price. He sent the money through western union and it was $400 in total.
I was robbed at gun point in a cab on my way to beurue de change to change it to naira.... I have been crying since yesterday, dont even know how to start explaining everything to him. I'm so confused.
Even going to the police is not a viable option because I dont have any reasonable information to give. Please someone should advise me on what to do because my mind is blank at this moment.

Possibly you are one of the showcase ganhh, may be you discuss or talk about your transaction thinking you are catching your cruise n unkown to you you sale yasef by yasef. Next time wise up man n never let same shit repeat itself. Call your hunkle n let em know that this is Nigeria where buhari is still in power

falcon01:
I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends?

I concur with you brov, what kinda stupidity is this!!! You date a total stranger for just 8 month and boom marriage, this ain't de problem. She control you?? What a shame on you. She made you do court just because she never trust you and as mumu as you be you consent to what she insist. She hide the utmost part of her having 3kids, Bros we are in Nigeria where law never exist. Even if the court supperglued you don't tell me you don't know what to do. He is a CAPITAL FOOL and a disgrace to men. May your MANHOOD live long seems your brain is in your dick.

[quote author=JustNumb post=106491601][/quote]Bro this is simple, you have tried, keep calm. Be an FBI on your own, get the wife's number,get all her social media handle and get his as well. Get their home address and church address.
Then pick your wife's phone and drop him an online massage then you tell him to use his recharge card and call you are else all will go loss with both families. Aswear keep calm but be sure you take charge of all conversation

johnsonmartina6:
She said she wanted some space because we had some quarrel,, i gave her the space and added another extra week,, now she cries of heartbreak on her WhatsApp status ,, i don't understand,,, what should I do

On her statues and you are here with no shame.

Oga give us space as well.

Wetin she de find weh she need space.

Give her more space for her to see your value, guy TUISH your dressing and use nice deodorant and start updating your status with no worries showing that life is better than when she dey.

Trouble her with your status " Some ladies are bad luck" " You wana grow drop that bad luck" trouble her till she call your line

neonly:
All she is interested now is her own career
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flag for me
What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head
the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on
But my children what will be their fate

The truth is always bitter, the truth is marriage should be enjoyed and not to be endured. How many years are we going to live and if you didn’t catch your cruise by doing what will give you joy when will you have your joy to the full. Time is a healer but let me not lie to you, only age that will humble her by then you aint gonna be catching your cruise.
*ADVISED*
Get a time by weekend, clean the house, living room, kitchen and tidy everywhere. Walk up to her and called her by the special name you use to call her and ask her what she will love to eat. Prepare it and set the table. After the meal be sure she is in a good mood then seat her down. No fighting no hash voice just be you on self-control. Ask her where you have gotten it all wrong. Speak the language of the heart.
*CONCLUSION*
Her stance on resolving or putting blames without resolution on the burden of her heart determined your final decision. Don’t stay and be emotionally sick. This is a one-way traffic. Let it work or it end and move on.
Does your wife earn more than you? Stop borrowing money from her and pay the house bills assuming she didn’t earn a penny.
In conclusion pls be sure blames are not from you, and if you are doing things that are wrong even in the hidden, pls STOP IT

Get a CACTUS plant and drop drip of the white water on the peel wound. If it didn't work for you then conduct a diabetes test

One EFCC official now don cross leg de follow this thread, next them start looking for you, next you have to produce that woman, next and booom them go pick her pikin and for you na bailing go free you.

Maka mind my bizinez