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sir t:
If u are legally married, then u are free to do anything.

cool!!!

but the "anything" sounds overwhelming

can u expantiate further on that?

@poster

can't tolerate either!!!

sir t:
@ ibkaye

Cannot sleep with my boyfriend either, I hope everything now falls into place

Are you sure?

@ All, It depends on your moral standard, but

Religiously and morally, It is not good. Pls dont ask me why

sorry, but i'm gonna ask u, WHY?

i mean, even with ur spouse (that is, COUPLES)

spikedcylinder:
And what if its not true? Its not like he's having sex with her or anything. . . .

Exactly!!

that's the more reason why he needs to confirm from the lady.

I mean give her what is called "benefit of doubt"

coffri:
@ House

Cant understand Why He SEALED HIS HEART. Its really affecting us

He has once been in a relationship for many years before the lady broke his her (Her REASONS: He dosnt call many tymes, He forgot her B-Day) are these reasons strong enough.

Like she is into another relationship now.

Ever since then he has not been able to love again.

Now he have me , really like me, Cherish me, calls m his Princess but cant LOVE me, so Painful

, He said He knew that i LOVE Him so much but the problem is He cant really love again.

What can he do? and hw can i help him? , I don't want this to crash cos i really LOVE HIM SO MUCH.

i will say u give him lil' time for his heart to mend (since u said he's presently heart-broken)

let me tell u, it's not a nice thing to get heart-broken and if it happens, it takes time to find the courage to love again. So, i blv that's wat he's going thru.

I believe u can help him to love again (that is LOVE U) by making him understand that true love still exists.

best of luck dearie.

ezinne1212:
I agree. Usually if a female is being impersonal as opposed to being coy she's restraining herself from lashing out at you, so if she says no then bounce. You'll find someone else you're attracted to.

that's true. I see no sense in forcing urself/someone into a relationship.

Bro, go out there and do GUYS proud, there are nicer babes out there waiting for the right guy to come around. Just take ur time and u will find true love

best of luck

used to have a girlfriend, I loved her very much. But after a few years we both lost contact and when I waited for a year and half for her with no words coming forth from nowhere, I met another girl and we started a relationship. The relationship, however, is still on going. Last week, I met my former girlfriend, we talked over stuff that happened between us and how we lost contact but she wasn't really happy I have another girlfriend now but later claims she understands. Right now, she's in town and wants to start a program which is going to last for about 12 months and she needs a place to stay for a couple of weeks until she sorts out her accommodation problem. I have talked it over with my girlfriend about it but she doesn't seem to have anything to say, she said I should do what I think is best. Do you think I should let her stay until she's on her feet around or should I decline her request? Please this is a pressing issue.

dont ever try it!!! cos it can be very damaging

dont tell me u didnt deduce anything from ur babe's reply, i'm sure that question of urs didnt go down well wit her.

i understand ur feelings toward ur ex (i mean helping her out) cos u might hav shared somtin special in the past but ex can be destructive oooooooooo if care is not taken

just be wise abt ur decisions and consider ur new chick cos she doesn't deserve to be treated badly.

best of luck

Personally, i cherish virgins cos they are hard to come by.

I'm dating one presently and i adore her a lot.

So, guys, if any of u hav a V as a g/f or spouse, pls hold on to her and treat her right.

P.S: They end up being faithful partners

@ibikaye

Weird

Can u explain wat u mean by that?

i see no reason why one cant hav a bath with his g/f or spouse. I will gladly do except if we havent done the real thing (i mean sex).

Some ladies still feel shy about it anyway. I've dealt with a lady like that. She wil gladly do anything wit me in the bedroom but will always recoil outside of it. So, it has to do with whom one is dealing wit and the level of understanding.

Fine, when u hav sex u tend to see everything due to the frenzy but it doesnt stop the shy type (i mean ladies now) to recoil at having a bath with the b/f or spouse after sex. They just cant stand the fact that their b/f or spouse will be starring down their body (i mean appreciating them).

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did u sleep with ur bf with ur clothes on?

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some tribes practice that. i mean wives hav fun with their face covered. Funny isn't it?

Michael Jackson (R.I.P)

My favourite songs of his are:

1. Thriller
2. Beat it
3. Speecless
4. Earth song
5. Rock my world (It's so amazing nobody mentioned it)

Point of Correction: It is called "EGBERE" and not "AGBERE".

[s]Its a small animal with large eyes and cries like a baby hence the name. Anyways google it [/s]

Furthermore, i dont think egbere is an animal, it looks more or less like a normal human being but with different features cos they are believed to be very short (bush-baby) and move around with a small mat. They are also believed to have mysterious powers but they hardly harm anybody provided they are not disturbed.

Moreover, some people beleive "egbere" is mythical and fictional but personally i believe they are real but i've never seen one and i dont wish to.

my belief is that true love does not fade away come wat may.

When i say true love, i mean "bone of my bone" and "lesh of my flesh".

it renews itself and lasts as long as one is alive.

For real.

@poster. Like som people said, it's better to hear her our b4 he (i mean ur friend) decides on wat to do and since ur friend is in love with her, he can as well advise her to get treatment. (that's if she's infected).

On the other hand, if the other guy is trying to fool ur friend so as to get a slice of the action, then he will be exposed and ur friend will be with the girl of his dreams.

all the best.

@poster, it's really a hard decision to make. speaking from experience, i dont think it's advisable to go back into the relationship cos it might evetually end badly.

What assurance do u hav that she wont walk out on you again? and how sure are u that she aint coming back cos u r doing great at wateva u are doing? I will advise you look for a new chick and start afresh.

To end it all, dont forget the saying "Once beaten, twice shy or should i say forever shy, "

Best of luck.