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Augustwife:
I had to open a new moniker so I can rant in peace. My head is full, so it's going to be a long post .

I got married to the love of my life 2017 (we started dating 2009) and we have two wonderful children.
He loves me (I know for sure), doesn't cheat too and my in-laws are the most wonderful people on earth ( my mil especially).

We have a joint business but the bad part :he is addicted to alcohol.

He wasn't like this before we got married, he used to drink occasionally so I can't really tell how we got here.

It's so bad that he can't go a day without it. Once he can't lay his hands on alcohol he will begin to shiver like a malaria patient.

This addiction has gotten us into debts that I had to pay with my savings on several occasions.

I'm talking of debts of 120k, 167k, 136k e.t.c. He's takes several loans from loan sharks , drinks like no tomorrow.

He has wrecked ourbbusiness and only with the help of God was I able to rebuild It by taking loans and paying back.

We even decided he gets a job so he can be more responsible but after working for a year he had nothing to show for it.

Twice his parents had to take him to a therapist but it was all in vain as he would go back to drinking.

My head is scattered,I can't think straight, it's making me hate him. I tried leaving a few weeks ago , I went back to my mother's house but trust my mama, she begged me to go back and my mother in-law too.

I don't even know what to do, my mental life is zero, I have withdrawn from everyone, I'm practically in poverty due to this addiction
He is a wonderful man BUT this addiction is a very big problem. We have prayed, fasted, gone to doctors but it's still there.

I don't know what to do .

kokomilala:
@Toxay,I made a mistake with the date.Agreed. I was trying to lump a lot of things together. But I'm not uninformed about WW2 as you willfully try to make me look. In 1937,the atom had already being theorized. When the war started in 1939,the US had started working on the Manhattan Project,where Robert Oppenmeir was charged with building the biggest scientific experiment in history. He was racing against Hitler. A lot of dynamics actually swung the pendulum of the war. Few people saw Japan bombing Pearl Habour on Dec.7.1941.A lot more didn't see the French signing the Armistice- a humiliating truce forced down tbier throat.
The war threw up the US and USSR and the Third World. But I insist that it was the dynamic of the US that swung the war. It didn't want to enter initially,because it was just recovering from The Great Depression of ,I think ,1928,and Roosevelt felt it was best the US maintained its isolationist policy.

kokomilala:
No ! You're actually afraid of it. You lost roughly 26 million lives in WW2. But for the strange dynamic and dialectic of the atom ,exploded by the US on Hiroshima and Nagasaki, which swung the war against the Nazis ,you Russians might have been a conquered people.

leye4u:
Go and ask even the so call technology(IVF) fails .....no be automatic.

Yes but what does that even imply?
Cos your prayer alone will not do the trick

princeemmma:
as for the op, i don't know the reason behind her wife denying him of s*, i think that's the first thing he needs to realise before any other decision............ The wife might find something uninteresting about the husband, so the husband has a lot of job to do then............ Am also facing the same problem with my wife, and have found a solution and its working

Ladyhippolyta88:
Some women here also reason like them too.

Imagine thinking that because you are married you no longer have a right to your body. The person teaching them this is the genesis of all this issue.

princeemmma:
My wife lost her urge and sense of sex after child birth, so anytime i ask her for s*x, all she says is that am not in the mood, as a man i love my wife, and i don't really want to hurt her, so i try to understand her..... but what i always do to surpress her is by letting her understand that i can use the medium of her denying me of s*x to go and satisfy my urge outside, then she won't have a choice than to reconcile and rethink. But sometimes she does not rethink nor reconcile, so then all i have to do is wait until she is in the mood.......... and sometimes i entice her severally to make her come in mood

princeemmma:
Firstly my guy, you are not a real man for raping you wife. I am on your shoe, my wife denied me for a 2 solid month, i just hold unto myself. You should not see s*x as something really too important, see it as something just a bit necessary.

Secondly, you might have opened door for hatred in the heart of your wife, so you need to find a way to plead to her and beg her, because it might open door for something unusual too....


Goodluck my guy

Dagger111:
Pls, i have 4 Bitcoin, who is interested in buying for God's sake. This ain't a joke pls.

Nanavati:
if Chelsea win this game I will give out 1k each to 3people.....#mybloodisblue

OlawaleBammie:
Pls ignore my grammatical blunders, my diction is not that alluring.


I lives and work in one of the South South states, So this last Tuesday I just decided to pay a very needed visit to Lagos, on getting to Lagos I felt good and feeling alright.

But on Wednesday I noticed I was feeling feverish but I did count it worthy cus I don't normally fall sick and even when I do, I don't take drugs or concoction cus am sure it will peter away.

I was wrong tho, this fever had other idea so I had to buy some drugs (malaria, and typhoid wateva wateva) I used it as directed, I felt relieved a little but not totally.

And to the reason I created this thread .....

My right side of my body is feeling well but my left side of the body is not ok. this is what I mean

1)My left eyeball is paining me seriously .

2) My left ear(tru to the inside) is paining me

3)My teeth are not excluded, the molar, premolar, and the canine are paining me seriously but the right side of my teeth are good.

4) My left nostril , I have catarrh in my left nostril and this mucus coming out from there smells, maybe offensively but I know it smells, thick and yellowish in colour.

Pls doctors in the house what could cus this, who have experienced this before??

Because me am afraid oo.

kikero:
Most if not all African economies fall victim to the IMF because their sources of income have problems.....

First, most African countries rely on selling raw materials and commodities to the global market

Second we use the income from the sales to import goods and services, including some that we can produce on our own at a value that is higher than our income

Third , we don't control the price of the raw materials we sell. Prices of crude oil are determined in London and New York

Fourth, we spend billions on subsides and other socialist welfarist projects which end up costing more than we estimated because of our growing population and low tax base

Fifth, we tolerate corruption, both at the low and also by the big men and women. And most of the money stolen comes from loans taken

All these puts us into deficit and into the hands of the IMF and the world Bank.

Nigeria is a classic example.

We could be free.from the IMF, but because it involves fighting corruption seriously.and cutting subsides seriously, and becoming an industrial economy which means an initial period of hardship, we refuse to take those routes.

Vickmanny22:
lol, van de Beek is actually a good signing and a good player as well, he can play any position in a three man midfield, he can play as a 10, an 8 as well as a 6, yes he can play as a defensive midfielder, what you seem not to know is that there a two different types of defensive midfielder, we have the anchors or destroyers who just defend and break up plays eg kante, casemiro, matic, while there are deep lying playmakers they are not so strong defensively but they help to control the game and instigate attacks, pirlo, pogba ( when he plays as a 6) Jorginho but there are defensive midfielders that are a mixture of the two, like fabinho of Liverpool. Beek can play defensive midfielder as a deep lying playmaker.

SenecaTheYonger:
I swear these guys can make a vaccine for HIV but they don’t want to.

Coronavirus is even more difficult than HIV vaccine to make, but because HIV doesn’t disrupt the economy that’s why.

ComeToJesus:
I'm helping you to locate the choices available to you. It's good you have chosen red wine. Enjoy your wine in peace and let us that pay our tithes and happily be the mugu in peace. It's not too much to ask for...

Alfarisiey:
with all due respect, among all the deaths may we all know one with sensitive or scientific evidence apart from the tally

wink2015:
CHRISTIAN DO NOT WANT TO TRUST IN CHARIOTS , HORSES AND OUR CORRUPT GOVERNMENTAL SYSTEM AS DISPLAY BY THE BUHARI ADMINISTRATION, NCDC, HUMANITARIAN MINISTRY ETC.

Those are all package with lies and deceit with an ultimate end to CASH OUT BIG to their own private and individual bank account.

Till date the federal government is still denying Nigerians access to the MADAGASCAR CURE.

Madagascar is already producing capsules as another innovation to the already liquid based madasgascar cure.

Yet NCDC and the rest governmental agencies is still waiting for WHO Guidelines.

ChizzyBuna:
My brother, I stopped responding to that boy. Something tells me that he is either 11 or 12 years old. His views are so naive

Anyone can register on nairaland. If only you can see the people u are arguing with in real life. You will be shocked that you even stoop so low to argue with them online.
You will be shocked you're arguing with someone in Jss1

Nezero:
It's a matter of simple English. It's a prerequisite to understand the physics and cosmology you are attempting to talk about. Try to improve yourself

Nezero:
You sound brainwashed to me too, or mentally malnourished.


I wrote that the earth is hanging upon nothing..
that means it's free floating.
You started arguing inanely that it is not resting
Who said it was resting? Why should I reply you on that.


I said it's not hung to anything . You started drawing knives over resting? What level of IQ do you use to communicate? Are we not saying the same thing?


Is the grammar too hard? I can't go lower oo

Nezero:
Out of point.

Nezero:
On the contrary it does circle and sperical are similar shapes. Many reasonable People are satisfied with the answer.

The Bible also says God is hanging the earth in empty space..

Job 26:7
7 He stretcheth out the north over the empty place, and hangeth the earth upon nothing . Imagine that and compare it to the popular ideas about earth and space.


The Bible never said the earth was upon water. It never said that.


The order of creation is real, the order of evolution is imaginary. I'm not surprised it both did not fit.


Jesus Christ testified to the existence of Adam and Eve, he testified to the flood of Noah's day. Early humans were intelligent and smart. They were not cave men. Evolution is full of missing links that will never be found. For six thousand years now, no evolution has occurred. But creation continues to operate.


I can recommend books that will explain the Bible's creation account to you. A lot of scientists actually believe in God and creation.

Nezero:
Isaiah 40:22
It is he that sitteth upon the circle of the earth , and the inhabitants thereof are as grasshoppers; that stretcheth out the heavens as a curtain, and spreadeth them out as a tent to dwell in


This scripture says the earth is a circle or sphere .


And the Bible did not say the 7 creative days are 24-hour days. They could be periods of millions of years



With a little patience you will know that the Bible is Accurate and reliable and far ahead of the science of its day.


The people who executed Galileo misunderstood the Bible like you

Nezero:
What is your source?



We know the Bible is true. We also know that Satan can use anyone online or offline to explain the plot wrongly and confuse people.

May you be rewarded for all your efforts