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where are the two ghanaian contestants from.

so, she's supposed to be his eldest child, older than the son who wasnt in the will.

what's the age difference between them, and what's the story behind how ojukwu met their mothers.

how many northerners actually have southern blood- we keep shouting hausa fulani, is this term actually a synonym for vast numbers of untraced southern input as well.

isnt that how murtala mohammed was also a northerner of southern descent?

and now what happens with the ogwashi uku carnival coming up on dec 24th:

http://blackdrum.tv/events/The%20OGWASHI-UKWU%20carnival%202012/44.html





una no go return the 82 year old grandma sharp sharp?

jidegirl12: Tpia so are they babies that need a open house at camp abi? .... these are possibly grown a$$ married women / moms you are making lame excuses for ... So they can't hold their ecs tasy to get laid ehn?.... yada yada ..

i also dont know why their libido cant endure the few weeks of camp.

but whatever it is, the husbands should just follow them if it's difficult for them to resist the don juans there?

.. I'm very disappointed with these women I tell ya .....


Enh en now I see why men here raise high brows when there's discussion bout women and independence.

i dont usually put mouth in such doings, but sometimes all this stuff simply isnt worth it, imo.

bjcole: I know a woman dat d husband didnt allow 2 do more than NCE, d woman said her husband was tired of coming 2 beg lecturers or giving money 2 sort them, so they can leave his wife alone. D woman also said most of her friends were sleeping wit these lecturers. I knw a lecturer then once he wants u, u cant escape it whether married or not, else u carry d course. Someone said if God does nt destroy dis world, he wud ve 2 apologize 2 sodom & gomorah. This blood of Jesus let it not just finish one day.

i find it extremely hard to believe a woman has absolutely no way of discouraging a lecturer or any other male, from coming on to her.

1. why is she hanging around friends who sleep with lecturers?

2. does she dress seductively

3. is it too much for her to make herself unattractive to these pursuers so she can get her degree in peace? Reduce your makeup, whine about money and everything in general, do suku [or whatever reminds him of his grandma], etc etc.

4. is being pursued by males more important than herself and her husband having peace of mind?

why cant these women's husbands be allowed to visit them in the camp.


separate quarters and all that.


there seems to be something about the place that facilitates all these.

or perhaps married women should come from home. Separate regimen and all that.

the number of threads discussing this issue are so many, there must be a problem. [understatement?]

**wonder how i would have coped in that chadic region had i gone there**

Parents who are willing to share quality time with their children, knowing we all have but a short time to live. Parents who value their grown-up children, and are their friends, as well as parents. Parents who encourage their children to be able to discuss anything with them, regardless of what trouble they may be in.

the things you listed here are totally different from the playing defined by the op in his first post.


parents can do and be all these without compromising their values. Some kids do better with strict guidelines, while others dont. There's no universal panacea, imo.

as per discussing anything, sometimes its not necessarily everything that should be discussed- its not all the time that a parent can be 100% involved in a child's life. They will leave the nest sooner or later, and that's when the parent finds out what kind of foundation the child has.


and after all is said and done, nothing beats prayer!

Siena: Parents who are not afraid to show emotion around their children, regardless of their ages. Parents who are willing to share quality time with their children, knowing we all have but a short time to live. Parents who value their grown-up children, and are their friends, as well as parents. Parents who encourage their children to be able to discuss anything with them, regardless of what trouble they may be in.

Those are the kind of parents that will play with their twenty-year-olds.

so a 20 year isnt supposed to have their own social circle, but should be waiting for the parent to play with them and start whining if they dont.

at that age, i wasnt interested in playing with my parents- i wasnt even playing at all, not sure why a young adult would be reliant on kiddie games for social stimulation to begin with, instead of dating/making friends and discovering the world like his or her agemates, but maybe i'm missing something. . . . .

No one said all parents have to be the same, so I can't see why you're so defensive. This is a Discussion Board, and this topic isn't about what's right or wrong. It's about differing views, what's so difficult to comprehend here?

what exactly do you find offensive and infringing on your own right to free speech [same as everybody else's], in my post?

All parents do not have to be the same, end of.

a parent playing with their kid/s till age 35 doesnt mean the one who instilled stricter values in their own children, is any less loving.

key word here is moderation- too much of any extreme is bad.

looks nice.

The bible does say prepare for war.

striktlymi: Good afternoon,

There is really no need to take this too personal. But if you talk about greed, one might tempted to ask who the greedy one is.

I think the greedy ones are the bad belle folks who are always greedily eyeing other people who God has blessed.

They cant ask for their own blessing due to their evil hearts, but must constantly try to pull down others who dont fit their criteria of " if you're a minister you must be poor"

Demdem: probably because i know am not perfect myself. its a conscious decision of mine and not a mistake.

You are not perfect means you never use a condom when engaging in casual s.ex?

Or your lack of perfection means various women pop out babies for you round the clock.

Not being perfect means you impregnate your baby mama YET AGAIN while planning your wedding to another one?

I'd have thought deciding you were going to get married would lead to you including condom prices in your expense calculations.

As to what christianity has to do with all of this, is yet to be explained.

who am i to question his xtianity

and what is wrong with questioning his christianity?

he's the one who should explain why he considers himself a christian in the face of overwhelming evidence debunking that claim.

i think this topic has been done before anyway.

i distinctly remember a thread discussing how anambrarians were traditionally known as the people who look down on others, and i think i asked on that thread, what was their origin,in order to have an idea why they had this moniker.


origins can be important in understanding people's behaviour sometimes. For example, you expect a somali to look down on others [its their culture], just like you expect an arab to be arrogant.

if, however, you meet members of such groups who do not display those characteristics, then its usually due to migration [disconnection from their roots], mixture [perhaps] or personal matters, among other things.

now, with all this oil stuff coming to the forefront, of course there's going to be a power shuffle and change in [or return to] intercultural dynamics.

of course i could be wrong!

hmm

tpia@:
nigerians used to pray for their enemies to have long life.

however, sometimes these enemies do need to fall back and stop constituting a nuisance.

i was just considering this the other day and was rather amazed to realize these days, you see your enemies hanging around you as if you're the source of their salvation. You consider somebody your enemy, yet you still hang around the person as if common sense has evaporated from your body.

because you're trying to harm them- is that the reason for staying in their face?

better repent [if you like of course].

like i said

1star4ever:

I live in a world full of haters[enemies]. I see them all the time. They see me. I make it clear to them that I know and that I am ready for war when they are.
They smile, I look the other way and keep it moving.

you're wise.

he really has time to be responding to all these greedy people.

tpapi: Sorry to derail,is it possible to delete my fbk acct,if it is possible I will need tips from nlanders,thank u

its easier to delete your facebook account than it is to delete your nl one.

its a bit difficult to tell igbos apart because there doesnt seem to be particular looks specific to regions.


meaning their varied appearance seems to be spread uniformly across the areas below the niger.

i've tried to get a lock on which feature is more common to where, but so far havent had much success.

just thinking out loud.

hire a bouncer to follow you around to church and handle whoever wants to give you a hard time.

very satisfying even if unscriptural.

not sure who is caring about all this info, really.

i guess some nlers?

i'm really not convinced you're ok

@ op.

something's off.

crap.

if it seems too good to be true, it usually is.

beware of freebies.

@ topic

imo, i think the issue of traditional enmities isnt one that should be swept under the carpet.


if you're going to do that, you might as well consider yourself lost, and free fodder for when they begin to stalk you.

unless, you somehow find a way of completely and totally cutting yourself off from your roots.

jesuspikin: these forces and their human agents are there and victory is sure through faith in the word of God, ignore them at your own peril

thank you.

i absolutely agree.