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When has black people become Arab or shia Arab

true sha.

black people shouldnt get in the middle of these arab conflicts but as usual, this kind of advice is simply water pouring off a duck's back.

It's one thing to hold personal religious views, but quite another to carry middle eastern/arab wahala on our heads as we are wont to do.

LagosShia:
please elaborate.

you know there is intra-religious conflict in nigeria right now.

You'll have to ask the nigerians around you.

LagosShia:
why does muslims going to study outside cause more conflict?

i was referring to the topic itself, not the fact that students are studying abroad.

LagosShia:
ok.that is your speculation.

no offence if that's you or a friend of yours.

its just the easiest description outside of saying the guy with the yellow jacket.

and he does look congolese imo.

the others also could be from anywhere.

dem say leave wetin dem write for moto, enter moto.

not that i'm encouraging illicit s.ex, but you get my point.

why look a gift horse in the mouth after all. Dont you people say you can shag anything in skirt.

4 cars?

did the supreme court really nullify the elections of five governors?

timing.

although he sleeps with LovePeddler almost on every weekend)the only he said is that,they hardly talk about anything,they only Be Intimate and more sex,


How do you date someone for 8 years and you just suddenly  want her to leave you in one day,especially a lady going 30?

This lady is not Ugly,she is not fat,she has been very faithful to the guy(according to him),


She stood by Him when he didn't have a job,

@ bolded

for emphasis.


as per job- i guess now he has a little cash, he's now affording p.rostitutes.

might be better if he quickly breaks up with the girlfriend before he gives her multiple stds.

are these students based abroad, because things like this tend to cause more conflict in nigeria.

many of them dont look nigerian though.

the bald guy definitely looks congolese and the others could be from anywhere, really.

anonymous6:
oh that's interesting, I would like to see the links because when I read the article I agreed because I rarely encountered one in the US either.

I wonder why?

just their nature, i should think.

even in nigeria they're the same way.


they're in the US also but i dont think they mix much with southern nigerians possibly because of compatibility issues.

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I mean 6 girls, not 5.

From what i observed, most times the boy is #3. Sometimes the boy is #2. In nigeria, the wife tends to start feeling a bit desperate after 2 girls. If a boy comes along then, she breathes a sigh of relief.

If #3 is yet another girl, panic mode may set in.
Should #4 be female, desperation may start rearing it's head.

When #5 and #6 turn out to be girls as well, all gloves are off. The relatives and people start taking, proferring "solutions" such as why not marry another woman who will give you a son, this your wife who cant whatever, etc.

It takes a strong man (most times a sound christian though could be anybody with a strong character) to resist all the naysayers.

But left to me sha,omo lomo nje. Childbirth is no walk in the park so only an ignorant person would act as if its not the same process of pain regardless of the child's gender.

But in any case, with prayer God can grant you your heart's desire if its a son you want, and according to His will.

There are people still believing God for children- lets not look a gift horse in the mouth.

True, it might be depressing to have only girls if you want a boy, but the most important thing is how the kids turn out, not just their gender per se.

Some people tend to have only boys while others have mainly girls. No biggie imo.

But for most of those who want a boy and are having girls, i've noticed sometimes, the boy could be either #3, 7 or 4 by birth order.

ie if you keep trying, the boy could come after 2, 3 or 5 girls.

I've heard of women who had up to nine girls while looking for a boy though.

In any case, check your mother's side for a general idea of the overall gender ratio of your kids might be. Not set in stone but it might apply for males (check your maternal side) and females (check your paternal side).

Am i making sense cos i'm not sure.

LagosShia:
i dont think if i as a muslim (God forbid) wants to become christian any persecution will change what is in my heart.

pray you dont find yourself in certain situations.

i really felt for the guy in question but there was just nothing i could do.

it was really bad.

but God knows the end and the beginning of a matter sha- that's all one can understand after all is said and done.

if i give details someone would probably know or find out who i'm referring to.

some black men.

una sha no go destroy africa.


how can you pay $26 million just to marry a woman?

and this union signifies nothing more than more wars in the offing.

are supporters of APC going to start invading nigeria now?

lord please have mercy on nigeria.

i havent read the write up yet, but nothing justifies these bombings.

boko haram is blaming theirs on religion.


what is MEND blaming theirs on?

timbuktu loun loun.

unless the church was overseas sha.

Thanks.

Will think about your answers.

Yes, i think somalians who convert to christianity have to flee in order to avoid being killed.

I used to know this guy (non-nigerian) who wanted to convert to christianity in his country. The persecution was so bad he had to return to Islam.

True story.

You're on point.

They do tend to keep low profiles.

Moremi2008

i'm saying what i know.

Condoms are only effective if they're used and used correctly.

If you are plied with drink and have unprotected s.ex while drunk, you can get pregnant.

These days guys are even more savvy than girls when it comes to plotting ovulation cycles. In nigeria its not commonly done but it is overseas and the world is a much smaller place now.

You can say birth control- well maybe, but you're still exposing yourself to a risk of stds.

I fail to see any way in which the girl is a winner here.

And my post shouldnt be used to cook up some sob story later on, thanks, @ whoever.

I am speaking of things i know.

^Do you know her?

@ topic

just one of those WWIT (what was i thinking) things that you show yourself or your grandkids in the future.

i've removed myself from this chioma matter [na she understand what's going on] but can someone please advise these young girls going off to school, to stop engaging in illicit s.ex especially in nigeria.

there are men out there waiting for you to show up so they can get you pregnant and vamoose.

i've said my own oh- she who has ears let her hear.

eni a wi fun oba j'ogbo.

and if you no wan hear then nothing spoil either. Na either pregnancy or abortion go finish am, not so?

life is a learning experience.

in the olden days, girls did not get pregnant from october rush, but these days they do.

Seems false.

^Yes, hi ham also british.

His there hay problem?

Lol.

Abeg oyibo na your native language?

Has your father offended you?

@ topic.

What were they selling, and why cant they sell it in yorubaland?

Makeovers are fun.

I'm also wondering what's going on.

Are you trying to declare your love for mukina?

Please open a thread in dating section if so.

Whose quote is that btw.

Cant view it properly right now.