₦airaland Forum

mi2009:
So he could be trying to turn me into his at-home-lover. That could be true, and yet the way he looks at me is diferent than before. It's warmer. Men are funny. You never know what's on their minds.

you're already his at home lover.

Maybe he enjoyed the previous day's sex, or he just got a promotion at work. Or he just got a new niece/nephew.

Any number of reasons.

However, before you start thinking of spray painting your name on his living room wall, remember the bolded portion!

Dont be surprised if he also looks at someone else that way. I'm not saying he's cheating- just that maybe its his nature to be warm and friendly. Some people are like that.

I've never heard him speak any Yoruba words but he was great in The Mummy 2.

Is he a pilot or why is he featuring in so many flight related roles.

interesting question.

I could, but it depends on the man. Though I wouldnt tell him I love him oh. I can say I like him however.

For a naija man, its better to let him feel he's the one doing the chasing even if he isnt. Naija women (and women in general) have perfected this art.

banom:
That is what happens when pride and pompousity set in, if some people did not start buying  Private Jet with poor peoples money, the government wouldn't have noticed, Person don fu***ck him collegues up.


@ Jakumo,
Tpia is a very ugly gurl, if you are serious, you can come i have many REDEEMED girls for you ,only that they are now poor, somebody used their TITHES & OFFERING money to buy private jet.

you should know ugly, seeing how its your trademark and copyrighted by your face you.

see how these two orangutans jack in the boxes- monkeyman and emekraze- always pop up anytime their name (racism) is mentioned?

The wicked run even when no one is pursuing them!

I don talk am!

let me not start telling horror stories here.


If i say my friend or my cousin people might think its me

haley:
at this junction with all the reply coming in now , i dont know how to defend myself on my kind gesture to kola

i want all those that are critizising me to know that all i did , did out of the love i had for him

i did not do all this just because he promised to marry me

at least i wasnt a kid when all this happened

i knew what i want and i went for it

i neva knew it would turn out this way

pls stop condeming me ,

i ve had enough for the past one month now after getting to know about his marriage

once again, sorry for what you're going through, but the reason people may be sounding unsympathetic is because its not the first time we've heard such stories and it wont be the last.

Many men do not marry the woman who helped them through school. Even if they do, most times their hearts might not be in the relationship and they end up emotionally absent sooner or later.  And as a Nigerian, you know the high importance men place on being the head of the home.

So, unfortunately, blowing money and feelings on a man doesnt always buy his loyalty especially if the feelings are mainly one sided as yours seemed to be. 

I dont know if it was this nairaland or somewhere else that I read a story about some girl who said she dated a sugar daddy in order to help her boyfriend through college. All with the boyfriend's full knowledge. Yet as soon as the guy wrote his finals, he dumped her without much ado.

Its always dangerous for a woman to have more love for a man than the man has for her. You'll get someone else, dont worry. Just chalk this one down as life experience.

Nezed:
methink, its a gud thing he did not marry her cos, he will just be marrying her out of loyalty/duty, not becos he loves her, and Boy, he will hate her for that!
Let her marry a man that ADORES her, u know, treats her like a woman!

thank you!

chaircover:
Hi Tpiah, Maybe I didn't phrase that properly.

What I meant is that when it comes to the kitchen there is no compromise.

Hubby & I discuss the design & furnishing of the other areas of the house and both reach an agreement. We both have different tastes & styles e.g he is a laminate flooring guy & I'm a carpet girl.

so sometimes he compromises and sometimes I compromise. . . . . But as for the kitchen; No compromise

oh, ok.

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kola was in school for two good year and cant even boast of a single spoon in his room not to talk of pot and he survived for good two years, I was the one paying his school fees , hand out, I cook for him , wash his cloth, in short I never let him feel that the parent cold not help at the time he needed them most,

in return for all my gesture , kola promised that he will never betray me and that he would love me for the rest of hs life


I was so much in love that even when he offend me , I will still be the one to apologise to him

and you seriously expected him to marry you?

Sorry for your situation, but you should have just loaned him the money without expecting marriage in return.

Is this one of those nollywood threads?

[quote author=Akabi_boy link=topic=274873.msg3901756#msg3901756 date=1242917209]@TPIAH
Is that some form of encouragement to the women or what? no nookies on the side ahter marriage full stop.[/quote]no, its not a form of encouragement.

I'm just saying dont make a bad situation worse by capturing it on tape.

Same way people are advised to practice safe sex and use condoms.

naija women- if you're planning on marrying and settling down in the future, stop letting your boyfriends capture your unclothedness on camera!

Same goes for married women getting some nookie on the side- its bad enough as it is. Dont make it worse by featuring in a misguided porn shoot if you're not a porn star!

so you mean doubting.

its more convenient for him.

and you get to feel special.


na today?

the guy is obviously a seasoned player.

All our properties built/bought home and abroad after the marriage are in both names. The only thing I can say was my sole input is my deciding how I wanted the kitchens to be designed & furnished

I dont disagree with what works for you, and I know most of your posts are very sensible and well thought out, but personally, I dont think I'd be happy if my sole input to a joint house design was only the kitchen. Hypothetically speaking.

That's just me sha- I'm not easygoing by nature when it comes to some things.

Kuns:
Christianity is no match for our ancestors, shango the master of the mystery of thunder and lightening, that is why pastors are dying younger these days.

did our ancestors and sango not die?

ogaga, I didnt ask for a sermon-no be church (or in your case, coven) you dey. You're saying nothing I havent heard before. You're not the only satanist in the world.

I posted the words of a song and asked you to peruse them.

That's all!

God bless you!

Omonla:
Maybe if the title of the thread was "Are Nigerian Universities Populated by Fake Academics", the OP wouldn't be attacked as being tribalist? Personally, I don't care which tribe is being attacked by who, but  it gets old, this Nairaland quarrels for 'Tribal Superiority.' 

At the end of the day, do these quarrels put bread on anyone's tables here? Are you able to boast to a fellow American, Canadian, British person on the subway that "I had a tribal quarel with (insert tribe here) today, and God bless me, I won!!!"  (?)

By the way, has anyone noticed that the Hausas don't get tribal attacks on Nairaland often, unlike every other tribe? Could it be because they don't care what the 'others' think of them, therefore no one tries to thrash tribal propaganda towards them?

Could it be that Hausa's are not 'important' so no one insults their tribe often except for the usual "Hausas are not educated" threads? If that argument holds (Hausas not educated), one would wonder why Hausas have ruled the country for a large portion of Nigeria's life? Maybe they are more concerned about better things than empty insults towards their fellow Hausamen?

Or maybe Hausas are not educated enough to wage a counter argument when they are attacked on an anonymous message board? (Doubtful - There must be a measure of intelligence if they can ignore deragotory comments towards them, while a minority of them work their way into ruling the country while everyone else is quarelling).

That is the measure of a 'smart' tribe.

Many[b] bloody[/b] battles have been fought over Hausas and other tribes, here.

If you do an in depth NL search, you will weep for being Nigerian.

Right now is Yoruba bashing time. After a while, the pendulum will swing to another tribe.

No name and insult people wont throw at each other in the belief they're superior to everything in the cosmos!


Racism is a disease!

to the best of my knowledge, pastors overseas, pay taxes on their earned income (salary).

Jesus himself paid taxes.

[quote author=*Owen* link=topic=173006.msg3898062#msg3898062 date=1242851277]Lol,so now Jamie Foxx is going to play the role of Frank Sinatra in a movie just like he did in Ray?correct me if i'm wrong but isn't Frank Sinatra white? does jamie foxx have green eyes? [/quote]Frank Sinatra is ol' blue eyes.

But nothing a little makeup and contact lens cant fix.

Though I also wonder why Jamie Foxx got the role?

some Nigerians act like they were raised in the jungle or under a flyover (likely enough to be true). Is this governor just finding out?

My worry this morning is not about my political status, but when they spill over into my private life and where my children became the object of ridicule, that I will not accept. I care for their life and their future, I won’t mess them up, I will rather step down to protect their reputation,” Lamido said.

I see this crazed orangutan is a glutton for punishment.

will be back.

In the meantime, look for more stuff to post.

eddy1977:
Dear all
from my experience, i have come to beleive that the best place for us africans of subsaharan descent when choosing to relocate is the land that is controlled by caucasians of european descent. its obvious that white people regardless of the race card, will eventually live peacefully with us. the kind of racism you meet in non white countries is way different. for example in asian and arab (even northern africa) countries,your very presence there is a national concern. so if u r serious about relocating, remember these advices: choose pure white countries. you may encounter difficulties to penetrate but before sunset you will smile. stay away from the rest.

now the floor is open. whats your take on this.

Maybe what you mean to say is ex-colonial countries which have a known history of interacting with blacks.

That covers most of Europe and the US which didnt colonize Africa but still has African interests in any case.

I dont like the kinds of unions where the kids will start wondering why their parents dont look "normal" like other people's own.

The guy should have stuck with his first wife who probably complements his look. He dresses in hunting gear, she ties hunting wrapper. And things like that.

Not dressing in warrior outfit while your wife puts on an evening gown.

anyway, na them sabi.

Not my portion in Jesus name. _{abeg make I rebuke that kind thing.}

its a free world and I dont see why you're so defensive about being a satanist? You're grown and are free to make your own choices without apology to anyone.

There are tons of threads in the religion section opened specifically for satan- your own isnt new so whats the problem.

michelin89:
You are good at lying. If it was general why quote me specifically?

Anyways you are on your own!

And keep on posting your usual cry on the Complaints thread. Na you know.

Haba, at least me i get life out of here!

more like you have an innate craving to be the center of attention. I quoted you specifically because you were the one in love with satan. Did you see any other post on this thread with such massive admiration?


Its good you have a life out of here! Most would assume otherwise from your NL lifestyle!

Fhemmmy:
it is rather sad that some people allowed themselves to be used by the big wigs, however, the govt needs to find a way to deal with the request of the people.

from what most people have been seeing and seen in Nigeria, there's nothing that can be done to satisfy Nigerians.

A lot of the states are slowly gearing up towards making an attempt at development. But nothing satisfies people.

The problem is innate, and one cant help but wonder where and how it began. I dont believe it started with Nigeria's creation. Rather, it was halted by it, and continued as soon as the Brits were gone.

I dont know if solely blaming Europeans for Africa's problems, is on the mark either.

michelin89:
Sorry but i don't believe this a bit. You are scary, for real.

Keep a distance!

*Disgusted*

the questions werent for you, sorry.

I simply used your post as a basis for asking them. And its not the first time I'll ask the same.

I know you love every single bit of attention you get!

Our people never get tired of war, it seems. That's our lifeblood and the values instilled in us from right within the womb.

Expect retaliatory attacks, more kidnappings, and further punishment until something gives somewhere. In a vicious cycle.


and as usual the small fry fight and die on behalf of the bigwigs staying behind/elsewhere in wealth and safety. If it isnt one thing, it'll be another.

michelin89:
I made that post two years ago!! Are you ok?

if you dont want people to know your religion, then you have the delete button at your witchy fingertips.


my questions were general ones not directed at you.

michelin89:
Ahahahhha! Why are you troubling yourself unnecessarily? We quarrelled, fine. Who cares? I do that all the time and life goes on. Go on too and stop acting like a drama queen.

you have the right to delete posts you feel are insulting to you.

Likewise, I have the right to point out the fact that you dont delete your own posts where you insult and curse others as if you're the only person who knows how to do so?

You think you're smart, right?