₦airaland Forum

foolbuster:
Online keyboard warrior. Calling someone that attained status of governor of a state like rivers low IQ says a lot about your own IQ.

Please shut the fvuk up

Anybody can "attain" the status of a governor in Nigeria ... how exactly did he attain the so called position?
Thuggery, stealing, criminality... what is so special about being a crook?

turmacs:
Israel is a terrorist state and Homosexual country.. I wonder how they became God's chosen people. The God i know of clearly stated in the Bible that Homosexuality is a sin.

The topic here is WILL SMITH & JADA.

You can go and join hamas or mossad

Bigseven:
things of the Lord are foolish to the unwise. Marriage might not be a problem to you or your family. But trust me you don’t want to see a family that non is married and they are getting old or a family that a pattern is following them from generation to another, in some cases is premature death that runs the family. So when you see people doing things beyond the normal then you should either pray with em or align with em or keep shussshh and pass. Because you don’t have idea what is happening in their secret life though they look happy outside. Jesus loves you brother

Kai... most of dem bitches were busy doing hookup and being boss chick's... and dem don leave behind

HardBishop:
Islam and wahala. Thank God I'm not a Muslim

This is NOT muslim vs Christian or Jews issue. It is people, both Muslim and Christians being held in an apartheid by an occupying force.
They are fighting for their rights, land and dignity against the occupiers.
There are many Palestinian Christians

Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

A 31yrs old is too old for a meaningful relationship. She will just use you.

Don't spend money on a girl that you cannot afford to set on fire.

Bounce out of that relationship as if armaggedon is upon you.

seniorgozman:
My only problem with single mother is emotional blackmail

Emotional blackmail is the same or even worse than zamfara banditry plus IPOB evil!.

It is not fear. It is sense.

You have responsibility of her baggage without the authority over them, mostly, bustards!!

E don collapse tey tey with redmud, IPOB and UGM...

iCauseTrouble:
I just want to let the OP know that Ten Million Naira is just $10,000.

Please let her know!!

garfield1:
Dankwambo is fulani

No

PrinceOfLagos:
The same Federal government paying Simon ekpa money to destabilize the south east

The truth will always come out

Gerrout... shameless lair!!!

ufotunang:
Federal government, national assembly should pass and sign a bill for states to have autonomy..state autonomy where states are in control of their resources and money they generate from the resources.. with this states will have enough money to do their roads...the federal roads, high way without waiting for the federal government to come and do it which can take many years before the federal government agrees to do the federal roads,. there is s lot of bad federal roads in nigeria...state autonomy is the solution

This state na just red soil full am ooo... autonomy go dey tricky ooo

hollywater:
May amadioha strike you dead dia. Na Una money dem take dey develop Lagos State? Until Lagos state stop receiving money from Abuja,i will not buy all these propaganda's.

But southeast is also receiving money from abuja na, abi?

okoroemeka:
not only southeast,all the region are all enduring rubbish but the only difference is that the southeast knows they are carrying rubbish the others pretend not to know and bury their heads in the sand like ostrich

Or may be other regions are focusing on solutions by doing whatever they can at state level to help themselves instead of claiming smartness but always self sabotaging.

ezegenigbonine:
Wetin concern federal road with state government ILLITERATE (ORODO), instead of blaming the federal for bad federal road, your stone brain and racism for easterners no allow you think before you type.

Many states in the North and other places have done projects on the so called federal roads.. they then get a refund.
Is it federal people that are using the road?
You people and playing victim na 5 and 6.

007kjb:
What is wrong in identifying yourself to people u are living with?

U don run carry am come nairaland make we now clap for you

Pray non of the youths finds this and trace it to you MUGU

Na igbo be non- indigenes pass for Nigeria.
Ythey should not start acting victims when other people demand same for them...

E go bad when ikwerre people begin do am for nyamuri for PH.. those once no know boundary.

This girl is always funny... good to know that you have a good relationship with my in-laws!
fine girl

pocohantas:
Excellent.
When I was younger, I didn't understand a lot of their actions. Now I am older, it makes me appreciate how much they sacrificed to feed us and pay our fees. I seriously wonder how our parents did it.

I don't shy away from their calls anymore.
Even if I don't pick immediately, I must call back.

It makes them very happy. My dad in particular would give you update on the whole LGA. Who knack person wife and who do juju. I look forward to his updates which comes mostly after their Sunday meetings.

while folks may have issues with their parents, I suggest we do as much as possible within reason, to ensure that we honor, revere, respect, and love our parents.
In my own upbringing, the blessing of one's parents is the ULTIMATE, and living in peace with them is NON-NEGOTIABLE.
The blessings of parents definitely attract the blessings and protection of God.

Some cultures in Nigeria have more reverence for parents and family than others.

TimT:
Behind every successful man, there's a woman... better think well...

That woman is usually his mother... don't be fooled!!!

Kobojunkie:
Your story deserves its own thread, it seems.

Typically, if a man and woman dey share bills, they do so with an agreement they share other responsibilities as well— democracy. In a situation like that when one partner loses a job, that one takes on full home-making duties(including caring for kids) to take the stress from the one who has to bear paying bills until he/she is able to get back on the ground again.

No woman EVER keeps to agreements...they NEVER DO.. their emotions controls them.

It depends on how how they feel at the moment.. it is their nature - it is not even a bad thing.

So don't count on your so called agreement with women because once hormones shake, feelings dance small... ALL AGREEMENTS GO OUT OF THE WINDOW.

she will show you Cameroon pepper!!!

Nursepepeye:
it's a serious crime to allow woman to pay Rent you hear me. 99% of women will insult that man before 6months. And it will lead to that marriage collapse.

Thank you, woman!!!

Kobojunkie:
Does your culture ensure you always have the money as the man to pay the bills, no matter the economic situation?

Ok

TimT:
You that is married for long, and you don't trust and understand your wife, I don't think I want such marriage...
I'll be fine.. thanks

Continue talking

zoghys:
How many years have you been married?. Anyway it an advice, you can either take it or leave it. Ire oo

Don't mind him... na small pikin

Kobojunkie:
Stop blaming the women for adhering to what has been culturally passed down from your ancestors. The typical Nigerian man enters into marriage to serve as the sole winner and in exchange he gets the respect and submission of his Nigerian wife. The woman is basically expected to surrender her self-will and even her dreams to exist under the man and in exchange he takes over responsibility for all of her financial needs and that of the family that results from the union. That is what is Nigerian culture and tradition to this day. Ask the man next to you if you are not aware of this. So, stop blaming the women for staying on script.

It is not Nigerian culture

TimT:
What exactly are u on about?
My own wife? Our house? So it's now a crime for her to pay the rent? Or pay our kids school fees? Will the marriage end?? Because of expenses?
Better marry who u both understand eachother oo... if not you no go value Ur Spouse... Coz Ur point I no understand

Don't worry . E go clear well well

vikstandon:
I never pray to have someone who would define responsibility for me. My God-given wife would fill in the gap, and would not cause my voice be heard on the street, but would deal bountifully with me for good.

I would pay my bills, even when she does you won't know... So take this your mentality to somewhere else.

Who no know go know... you go learn sense

HopeSpencer:
At a time when we just spent 4months out of 1 year rent, my wife asked me that we should move out because she fought with a co-tenant and said she didn't want to set eyes on the co-tenant again. I said I wasn't prepared for this as I needed time to gather money for next year rent. She offered to drop money from her savings. We got a new apartment. And she became my boss. Come and see humiliation. I wept on several occasions because I'm not a type of person that engages in physical fight. I don't even use abusive words. Whatever I say on nairaland is just catching cruise.

I looked for money and rented a room. I didn't move out my things like chairs, bed etc because my daughter needs them. I left forever.

She told relatives that I left our home and never looked back. Relatives reminded her that she told them she was the one paying all bills since the beginning and that she should thank God that the burden was removed. That's when I got to know about the lie that she was the one paying bills.

In my next life, I will prefer to be a gay.

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Your nyansh hole go tell you

Bigchristo:
You lack understanding to what I said in my first post, in marriage there should be full commitment between both so if one of them is using half mind then that marriage can never last that’s why there’s series of divorces and cheating, the man shouldn’t even emulate such footsteps of using half mind they should split, the bone of contention is that both people in marriage shouldn’t be having hidden agendas that’s what I meant

You are probably the one lacking understanding here.
I simply implied that the woman I not fully committed to the marriage and I used the metaphor of the woman giving only a "quarter'

Bigchristo:
So you are actually calling the man mumu for confronting a cheating wife? The man isn’t stupid enough to allow the wife to continue cheating under his watch is better they split being kicked out of the UK is not end of the world he can as well have a better life else were.. people like you used half mind to be in a relationship or marriage that’s why you are saying this, you sees it as a game other people don’t

Someone is using one quarter mind and you are blaming the man for using half mind?
In this context, FULL MIND is emotional and foolish

BriggsBryan:
Very sad story, however he can still remain in the U.K. on another visa route as he can clearly claim domestic violence case against his wife as she was cheating which may have caused him emotional distress. He only need a good attorney. We may help you my brother if you can contact us. You have a good case against her and Home Office

Legal cost is enough to come back and start over