₦airaland Forum

TheWinterBird:
The man just didn't like her enough. An oyinbo man will take care of you well if he likes you.

Where?

victorazyvictor:
He was dethroned because of the rift between him and Ganduje.

What was the rift about?

It was alleged that he critises the FG's policies.

optionalY09:
Was Sanusi dead during Buhari’s tenures

He spoke now and that was why he was dethroned , is it not?

bigpicture001:
this is so much as to the ratio of 8:2. this is a well paying sector of the economy and guyz also hustle for jobs and again there as much men as graduate as there are ladies..

...but why are our banks employee sex discrimination so high and alarming to the very unbalanced ratio...?

any reason people..?

Actually, HRH Sanusi Lamido Sanusi mandated a quota for female employees in Nigeria banks. In addition to other factors, that has contributed to the rise in female numbers in the banking sector.

Metrofox:
you just confirmed your lack of an education because only an aboki would think that everyone who is not a fellow aboki is an igbo person, you have to explain how I am an igbo man. you support people who herd roam around with cattle, maiming and killing other people on their land because you think you are superior to others just by existing, you kill pregnant women and cut open their stomachs on their ancestral lands for no reason and you have the guts to call other people illiterate and immoral. The audacity! is clear who the animals are here, a bunch of retarded incels that f%%ck their cattle in the bushes and think an animal is more valuable than a human being. Jokers

worthless Igbo denier ... it is not hard to know an Igbo person and you tick all the boxes ... olodo

werey wan disguise... mtcheew

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

While she is an adult who can go wherever she wants, let her know that she is undermining your role as a man to provide for and protect her.
If something were to happen to her and you don't even know where she has traveled to or don't give her permission, then you would look foolish and irresponsible. Let her understand that in very clear terms, and if she still insists on going places without your consent then stand your ground and don't tolerate that nonsense. She is attacking your basic manhood.

You may also be a candidate for a child DNA test cos she may be fvcking someone else.

She is disrespectful and not well raised as a woman or maybe you are too weak as a man who easily can be manipulated or overridden.

you have potential high BP with such a woman!!

Gandrova:
Pls kindly get his book written by him: Accidental public servant
He has an Architectural firm that was into designing of estates, before venturing in politics.
Kindly buy the book or download it.

Don't mind him ... El Rufai was a millionaire in the 80s.

I am not saying he did not steal ooo

Metrofox:
Basterd uba nka, what makes me igbo..fucking illustrates, everyone who doesn't agree with you is igbo. No wonder you only live in peace with nama,subhuman

There is no agreement or lack of it here ... only a worthless deluded Igbo man thinks that just by being born, he is smarter than everyone else.... How is Aboki less smart than igbo when Ibgos are perpetrating the worst foolishness and superiority complex than even the most illiterate, immoral creatures? Who on earth believe that cheating is smartness and money is god? An animal is better than anyone who believes getting money by all means necessary without recourse to any moral bearing. bastard Igbo, chest beating illiterate

Metrofox:
how I go dey teach aboki him own work ? Ode

Very stupid world view by the most foolish deluded tribe of backwards thinking, cannibalistic barbarians.
Does being born an igbo automatically makes you wise or even anything at all?

If it does, then it can only make you a deluded criminally minded drug pusher and cheat!

Aboki ko, ubanka ni

rockok:
A polytechnic. By mainly fellow students in the hostel and around the campus for my looks and that such kind of looks doesn't deserve to get what I want. This is the worst kind of bullying I have ever received. It has reduced my confidence and my ability to study. I used to be a programmer but they eventually spoilt my PC I believe. And you know I need to be okay to work with a PC especially Since I was interested in Algorithms and problem solving. I am not the same person I was before. This is the worst academic environment ever. I just wish I could leave and find my true self again

Avoid cultism but show people that you be real were... fight back and stand up for yourself

budaatum:
You may think you are talking about your wife whom you hope becomes the mother of your child but I must warn you that you are actually presenting yourself so satan meddles in your future which will be shortened thereby.

A so called "strong woman" is a tout, raggedy biatch.
The strength of a woman is in her being a woman, a real woman not a badly raised misfit.

kingthreat:
Sorry but what has she done to deserve the reputation of a SAN.
We know what likes of Ozekhome and Gani did to elevated to the SAN level but now being married to a top lawyer gives one the access to become a SAN
Femi Falana keeps deceiving the world that he is a human rights activist. He is one of the problems of the Nigerian system.

SAN is not an 'award'... it is a result of impactful law practice.

GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

Just do it

ademola2017:
In 2017, i expressed my deep concerns on nairaland about my now ex wife double dating game before we got married, her attitude towards me and how the relationship was one sided.

I got several advices to let her go but decided to give the marriage another chance but it eventually crashed in March 2022. We did all we could to save the marriage but to no success. We were done patching. No child was involved and absolutely nothing to show for the marriage after 8years of being together. I still feel the pain but it gets better everyday.
I credit myself for not cheating on her till our last days together and even months after our separation.

After several months of being celibate, I had sex with a young 25year old lady. I met her through a family friend 2 months before she got pregnant

Just one intercourse, she became pregnant. At first, i doubted it because I laboured very hard to father a child for 8yrs and with just one sexual intercourse, someone is carry my baby?? with me being very knowledgable about calculating ovulation dates and timely intercourse, it conformed so I had to accept the pregnancy as a sign from God.

Deep down, my new partner and I do not love each other but the respect for each other is on point. We have ZERO expectations from each other. We communicate well and have started living together in peace. No arguements, no drama and no issues at all.

I changed my mindset by taking her as my younger sister and she does same by taking me as an older brother.

It feels strange to be at so much peace with someone that I dont love at all. Our baby is coming and I am scared things may change when the true reality sets in.

What do you guys think?

Peace and respect is love, my brother!

Any woman wey give you peace na asset.
You don't feel any strong feelings because you are now experienced.

So take good care of your new wife and nack her very well like a "brother".

Your new wife does not yet carry much emotional baggage from previous relationships and may have been raised right. So enjoy her and give her another belle very soon after she don drop.

No devil like a troublesome partner... it is hell on earth.

Olosho broda

Lukepeter:
Elon Musk fan boy what is Elon musk trying say?

Yimmi should be a Google fanboy

RingRoadCartel:
And they claim that these people are normal?

I just went online to search for the girl. This is what she looks like. She go don enter their eye taya, and they just had to do this before one Southern brother notices her.

This is not the first time something like this is happening. One of their biggest fears is southerners coming to marry their beautiful women and showing them that life can be better. Islam thrives on subjugation, and their women are not spared.

One can only imagine the amount of gaslighting this babe must've received in the last few months that will make her dump a very lucrative career online and subject herself to marrying someone whom they must've recommended for her (highest bidder).

So the lives of southern girls is better because they can be prostitutes and be fvcked for money openly or what the he'll are you saying?

nairalanduser23:
I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.

Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.

She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.

I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.

How can I deal with this?

She has lost respect for you.

- Call her and address the matter with her in a firm manner.

- Check yourself and if you don't find grounds for all that nonsense.

- Walk away from the abusive relationship for the sake of your peace and blood pressure! It is verbal and emotional abuse aimed to eat away at your manhood and make you a useless dickless male.

Walk away... if you think the situation is bad enough. Otherwise, Out- quarrel her and put her in her place.

turmacs:
Those soldiers should be arrested and prosecuted. Why should they stop someone that wants to end their life in this miserable country? That should be a crime honestly. Someone wants to die and go and find eternal happiness in the great beyond, but you're stoping them, do you want them to keep suffering? Abi when you rescue them will you solve their problems? Please people have the right to do whatever they want to themselves.

I hope this doesn't come from the sincerity of your heart sha

From Primate to a Mammal

Foolish sombori

atiku4President:
What is wrong in buying a presidential yacht? Fake #RevolutionNow crusader.
You believe only you can save Nigeria and every other person is a thief. We have not forgotten the same people have used you in the past, and for the fact that you have been paid off and abandoned didn't make you any different.

Everything is wrong in this economy, everything

Rapture2021:
Before I say one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

Once a woman looses respect for you then it is the beginning of the end.

Check her mothers character and how she treats her Daddy.
Begin planning an option B to japa from her life if not you will die in misery and sorrow.

foolbuster:
Online keyboard warrior. Calling someone that attained status of governor of a state like rivers low IQ says a lot about your own IQ.

Please shut the fvuk up

Anybody can "attain" the status of a governor in Nigeria ... how exactly did he attain the so called position?
Thuggery, stealing, criminality... what is so special about being a crook?

turmacs:
Israel is a terrorist state and Homosexual country.. I wonder how they became God's chosen people. The God i know of clearly stated in the Bible that Homosexuality is a sin.

The topic here is WILL SMITH & JADA.

You can go and join hamas or mossad

Bigseven:
things of the Lord are foolish to the unwise. Marriage might not be a problem to you or your family. But trust me you don’t want to see a family that non is married and they are getting old or a family that a pattern is following them from generation to another, in some cases is premature death that runs the family. So when you see people doing things beyond the normal then you should either pray with em or align with em or keep shussshh and pass. Because you don’t have idea what is happening in their secret life though they look happy outside. Jesus loves you brother

Kai... most of dem bitches were busy doing hookup and being boss chick's... and dem don leave behind

HardBishop:
Islam and wahala. Thank God I'm not a Muslim

This is NOT muslim vs Christian or Jews issue. It is people, both Muslim and Christians being held in an apartheid by an occupying force.
They are fighting for their rights, land and dignity against the occupiers.
There are many Palestinian Christians

Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

A 31yrs old is too old for a meaningful relationship. She will just use you.

Don't spend money on a girl that you cannot afford to set on fire.

Bounce out of that relationship as if armaggedon is upon you.

seniorgozman:
My only problem with single mother is emotional blackmail

Emotional blackmail is the same or even worse than zamfara banditry plus IPOB evil!.

It is not fear. It is sense.

You have responsibility of her baggage without the authority over them, mostly, bustards!!

E don collapse tey tey with redmud, IPOB and UGM...

iCauseTrouble:
I just want to let the OP know that Ten Million Naira is just $10,000.

Please let her know!!