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If I may make a suggestion, Justwise can really help with this as it would ACTUALLY impact the lives of many Nairalanders, as in actual impact not fugazi. Can there be a way japarians are encouraged to share hints to openings that can be filled when they are leaving. Eg. Head of Audit position vacant, send email/CV to so so and so. Wish you luck.

Do you know how many Nairalanders will be blessed by posts like that? Of course within reason and with privacy like I explained in the example. Should be a pinned post for maximum visibility, and to encourage japarians to drop updates in good time. Cheers

Seun

justwise:
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Exactly why i called it careless comment because nobody cares about facts anymore. Just random online post.

I do hope that those planning to relocate will do the dd and not base their decision on these careless comments here

yen yen yen, everyone else makes claims, only you speak facts. Over 200 that followed your kin advice, that is their reality. Many that will follow it will still find it to be the reality. If you ain't a nurse or top tier in tech or finance and you're heading or have headed to the UK on study visa hustle, come back and shame this post, with a job tag other than care worker, security, or sales boy/girl. Cheers

What Pocohantas said as related to the bolded is true to a T, as seen in my circle too.

I'm sure this Buffoon actually slams his head on the ground 5 times a day. The way the world is these days, it takes great strength not to just become atheist. The devil is in charge now, that is my conclusion. The Bible did say he (the devil) would be in charge for a while building his army and winning much of humanity to his side. It is playing out to a T. The world is bleeped!

justwise:
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You have contacts of over 200 people who left Nigeria in the last 1yr and they are all struggling? Let me ignore my thought about that claim and ask you this? Do you know how many years it takes an average immigrant to settle in the UK?

to your first question, I won't call it struggle, I would say that is their current reality, and it is something I wouldn't want to be my reality. To your second question, don't know, don't care. Why should I? I'm in Nigeria, 'innit'?

HRprof:
I laugh at the bolded abroad don’t Favour me but I travel abroad on holiday every year. I’m not discouraging anyone not to Japa but majority of Japa don’t have plan or skill needed to survive abroad and don’t want to take advise but go ahead to disgrace Nigeria abroad very soon even African countries will ban Nigerians from entry their country.
I repeat you have not travel to western world before that why you can not comprehend what I’m saying.
All you want to hear is that abroad is heaven sorry is an illusion to think so. Have a nice day

almost my entire undergrad class and MBA class contacts don dey UK with more billed to move..99% obviously with the study visa. I want make everybody wey wan go sef go, more opportunities will be available to those here that need them. The japa japa noise is what I'm sick of hearing. Everywhere you look to/turn to nowadays all you hear is japa oo. Lol. Na real wa! Lol

justwise:
Damm!! i read posts here and keep shaking my head at the level careless comment here.

So its only care job are available to people relocating to the UK? Even in that care job do you know how many jobs that are available within that sector? People don't see one another?

Some of the things people living abroad tell those in Nigeria is just away to avoid financial demand or other favours because if you paint a rosy picture the begging plate is out.

Definitely not everyone relocating will succeed because of poor planning and over expectation.

not a careless comment. She has friends who have left for the UK...as do I. Aside two, that got jobs from here, one as a Nurse and the other a radiologist, everyone else I know who has left for the UK on this study visa as dependant in over a year now are either working at the cash register, doing security, bagging products at a factory or doing care job (you said many sectors, well they are not in management, they are actual caregivers, trained to help out, administer drugs etc). Her own na 80%, mine na cool 99%. They keep encouraging me, and I keep hesitating cos I just can't do that. And yes, they also hardly see or have time for one another..as one person dey close for one shift, the other dey resume him/her own. Majority of ppl are leaving, and they still communicate with us back home, so it isn't hard at all to see the patterns and know what's what. Everything Poco said is consistent with what my contacts there are experiencing to a T. And I'm talking about over 200 people.

Dirtyyansh:
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This is just a baseless argument. Man-made death in Nigeria is more than what you have in the USA, even with all the noise in the mainstream media.
Life is tough for the majority here, and everyone works around with their eyes at the back.
Travel to these countries, and experience what life is, and tell me if you won't change your mind.
I am done engaging you!

you asked for facts. He gave you hard facts. You come dey vex. Eyin eyan yi, e funny gan ooo..lol

HRprof:
Unfortunately you don't listen to foreign news to know what have been happening in western world. In Nigeria, everyone is a news broadcaster both fake and real news especially when is bad News. Anyways , At least you know about gun violence in US and you think you can not fall victim or better than those who did. If you want to Japa kindly do that with sense and stop using insecurity as excuse las las na money you dey find go there. for your mind abroad na heaven

the guy see the fact vex ni sha..lol

Gerrard59:
You are the in the Travel Section of Nairaland, so what do you expect? Pictures of food and whatnot? Or you wanted travel tips to Gombe and Postiskum?

comprehend my post bro. I said that those 90% FEEL ANYONE NOT CONSIDERING JAPA is missing it in life. That is brazenly abnormal. To put it in perspective, I'm very sure the people in travel section on Reddit do not think of travel that way. It is a travel section, not that deep, anyone can travel, ko kan mi

Gabless, he is not fully grown or ready to take a wife yet, let him be. Saying thank you or not, no be the issue. The issue is he sees nothing wrong with being crass with his would-be in-laws, and he hasn't even taken the bride yet. Not a good look. When I was about to get married, I wasn't agreeing to everything my in-laws tabled/ required/ suggested. I was prepared to compromise on some, let my parents handle some, have my way on some, but in all this there was no bickering or arguing with the in-laws. That is in very very bad taste.

pocohantas:
Honestly, this is their business not any of mine. My parents trained me in Nigeria and I am not dead YET. It is okay to sell off everything for the sake of their kids, but they should also know it is not all milk and honey.

lol. For at least 90% of those in this travel section, if you are not considering japa, they have this conviction that you have missed it in life. It's all good sha. We go dey alright las las.

sukkot:
yeah i totally understand. the golden era of nairaland is over . well the site is still useful for a few things. i got my mechanic from this site . stay cool bro . catch you on the rebound

I just read this thread. We share same thought process (about whites, spirituality and some other things you wrote on), I think. Love the way you handled the bullying too. Some characters would rather die than admit they are wrong even in the face of facts. Just a little power (which isn't really power sef) and peeps will do and undo cos you 'dared' to disagree or dared to still do well in Nigeria..lol. Cartalk section is another case study. Cheers

Omo! The look (as captured) doesn't just speak volumes, it screams volumes. Lol

Flora2Sweet:
Stop spending for a Lady who u're not married too yet...

Even if u must, don't spend above ur means...

simple as ABC. Food, flex and tins..anything wey pass these three, you dey overdo.

feminist35:
You'll earn $1800 in a few minutes? Why are most Nigerians like this when it comes to abroad matter? You think they pluck money on tree? $1800 is well above someone's salary

lol. Na so we see am for here ooo. The blind infatuation strong gan.

yinkabeauty:
Treadway dogchild bastard , na ogunlade go kill you , kill your family members , useless, jobless ,HACKER BOY, noted！ they will trace you , if you don't leave the number open or supply more numbers or even address , na ogunlade (god of iron) go kill you, thunder go fire your mama where she is, even in the grave, iam not a worthless idiot like you , but what i know for sure is that they go get you, WE GO KILL YOU！

just call! Worthless irredeemable peasant. A syphilitic chancre is better than your worthless existence. A rabid dog like you should be institutionalised forever. Call the number, they have your bed. I'm done with you. Ciao!

yinkabeauty:
lick my as.s , this lost animal that is not even fit for a Zoo.

bark your sorrows away Yinkusdoggy

yinkabeauty:
omo ale ni iya to bie lomo , oloorun ni iya e, i thought you are even reasonable a bit, your madness is now beyond doubt.

first and fore most , your head should be reset first, this idiot can't even stand me , you are too low for me, the way you reason suggest you are inconsequential, it's my boys that will flog you, tie you and put you in a booth drop you in lagoon or pieces your meat for boston and celtic our dogs here , your meat won't last two days .

bark bingo bark! Hehehe.

Now watch him bark for another 24 hours folks. Hehehehe

He no get the will to resist. And the barking begins in 1, 2, 3....

yinkabeauty:
Christ came to the world because of me , he came to redeem me , i am redeemed ,i don't think you are 'cos you judge and condemn with inadequate capacity and knowledge.

He loves me irrespective of my status because he knows my heart and knows better, he defended me and fought for me when religious sadducees and pharisee came for me , he eventually died for me on the cross and rose from the dead.

Jesus is still healing today , even if he is not physically laying hand on people today.

LGBTQI would have been some of the ones he would have embraced and heal today at least the psychiatry aspect, even biological aspect afterall it was recorded that he restored vision with wet sound , so he can do all , he can restore while intolerant bigot and uneffective personality like you can only kill.

I am mature , i don't take pleasure in abusing people , i am reserved , i am open-minded and i m exposed to some facts , so a lot of phenomenons don't move me but it's closed minded, unenlightened, extremists and intolerant people who are limited by their predicaments who usually attack first before i react in any form and it doesn't matter if it's online or physical.

lol. Were! Digbolugi! You can only bark like a rabid dog online, all noisy barks and no bite.. I'd love to see you try to attack someone like me in person, I'd gladly beat you to death with my bare hands and send you to Hades in 2 minutes or less.

PVision2020:
Lol...the criminal just did a big societal wedding 3 months ago to impress his kinsmen. The weyrey dey press his village people neck with proceeds of crime.

lol. As e dey so many people dey tap his blessing..the tin funny gan aswear. Lol

JLINKSHOMESinv:
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Milage 1789.9

Owner is relocating to UK

correct the mileage. It is 58112km as seen in the picture. The 1789 is trip A. Happy sales. Cheers!

hayjayman:
Shutuo, bloody scammer.. It would have been better you keep quiet, even if it not back door.. Do you want to encourage people getting road worthiness without physically inspecting the vehicle.. And you see accidents in the roads, and you will be blaming the devil...

Please note, no one should engage this guy for road worthiness certificate without inspection.. He is a scammer and bloody liar, he will only get you into problem... When you get your road worthiness with physical inspection, you will know that its worth it, because those inspection officers will reveal to you the issues with your vehicle, bith major and minor, and will advise you accordingly, if the issues don't meet up to certain standard they won't issue certificate, if it's a minor issues they will inform you to try and fix it before it causes a major damage.. They will even tell you what your mechanic will not tell you..

wrong. I have also used his services and have been doing so for over 3 years. He is no scammer. That you can't explain how he can still get it done doesnt make him a scammer. This is Nigeria, with the right relationships anything is possible. This doesn't mean your submission on the standard protocol for LACVIS is invalid. Cheers

SlyFoxx4Life:
Don’t mind him. Just keeps rambling but will never admit transgenderism is a psychological and not biological phenomenon. Personally I believe it’s a mental illness. The funny thing is I’m not like most people that want them criminalized or prosecuted by government.. I honestly don’t care about them. but that won’t stop me from calling it what it is.. a mental illness that is proliferating because of the collapsing value system of the west.

those are my sentiments exactly. Cheers

SlyFoxx4Life:
You rambled on without answering the question. If it’s such a “natural” feeling then why is it so regional? Even within countries that generally permit it, it’s distribution is concentrated in certain regions that actively promote it. There is no law stopping or suppressing a transgender kid in Ohio from coming out as transgender. Yet all the trans kids tend to be in states like California.

Secondly, ‘boy’ we are talking about freaking KIDS here. They are dumb, impressionable and highly prone to peer pressure. They follow the “trend” a lot because they have not yet developed the emotional and physical maturity to do what works best for them as individuals or even know what they want as individuals.

You now have grown adults in certain places actively telling these children that they are gay or trans based on some very confused juvenile phases we all go through.

Bro I remember when I was in primary school. I at various points had different close friends. So close that on occasion when I see them talk to another boy I start feeling jealous. I’m taking real jealousy like the kind I will feel today if I catch my babe literally fvcking another man. I had this conversation with some of my guys many years later as an adult and guess what, they all admitted experiencing the same thing at that age. None of us turned out to be gay. And those feelings were not sexual at all. We were just going through what is most likely an emotional development stage that is common to children at that age. Now imagine if we grew up in a society where we had irresponsible adults telling us that those feelings were indeed homosexual feelings (Never mind the fact that children of that age have no sexual feelings at all) then it’s very likely more than a few of us would have believed them which would have shaped our mentality and sexual behavior as we grow up until we fell so deep into that community and that lifestyle.

Bro kids are confused little creatures and need responsible adult guidance as they find their way through life. Adults shape the behavior of children more than you know and that’s why the phenomenon is so regional. You will never convince me that most of this skyrocketing transgederism In the US is natural. The patterns do not support this at all. This is very clearly “learned” behavior brov. There are many stories of people who were made to believe they were trans at a young age and they got sexual reassignment surgery, only to realize they no longer felt that way as they matured and became adults. (Read the attached article for this) if it was natural then why do so many people jump in and out of it as they go through life?

Bro stop arguing in favor of nonsense. This is nothing but wicked and evil adults preying on the very malleable brains of little children to bring them into this evil lifestyle. There is an agenda behind this whole thing in certain countries and it’s clear to anyone with a brain.

https://www.news-medical.net/amp/news/20191007/Hundreds-of-trans-people-regret-changing-their-gender-says-trans-activist.aspx

ignore the unwell bozo. Fact remains, it is purely a psychological thing. Pedophiles and Necrophile also think they can't help the way they feel. Check most pedos, they were also abused. They were introduced to the lifestyle by someone, and over time developed a hankering for it. No one comes out of the womb programmed to be attracted to children, dead people or objects. Also, there is the inferiority complex like the morbidly unwell yinkabeauty is glaringly displaying. Imagine driving around town and you see a nigerian man kissing and proclaiming to be in love with an electric pole, even an imbe like yinkabeauty will likely say this man don ment o, but let it be a thread of a white man married to a tree, they will see nothing wrong with that. They say open your mind, which is code for open your mind so we can dump shit in it. I have a friend in the states with a twelve year old boy going through it right now. Boy has a gay friend who is 'prospecting' him and filling his head with nonsense. Boy is now confused and has admitted to now having sexual dreams with the gay friend in question, all because of the exchange of negative impressions and information. They caught it early enough, or so we think. Maybe, maybe not. Did you read of the 'transwoman' that impregnated multiple women in incarceration? The sicko was legit placed in prison with women. It took him getting multiple women pregnant there before they moved him. Can a woman impregnate a woman? Lol. But if that same freak was roaming free, if you no gree call am woman, you are transphobic, but in incarceration he developed a new liking for pussy. Gays make other gays, pedohiles make other pedophiles. They are sick but don't know it.
In the early 2000's they tried to use science by claiming the brain structure of gay was diff, they were busted. About 4-5 years ago they double down and claimed there was a gene responsible, again they were busted. They will keep looking, but won't find cos they are looking in the wrong place. Like the man kissing and smooching an electric pole, they are not well, but they don't know nor want to accept.

yinkabeauty:
Shut up your dirty mouth ！bastard！you are the ignorant, closed minded and the silly one.

Has the west stopped or arrested your father from beign polygamous？you may be a product of polygamy and may intend to go into it , it's your problem and if you like you can back your polygamy with your religion that's not based on fair hearing but dogma , it's your headache. idiot polygamy is even reducing in the arab world. afterall polygamy is culturally accepted , some of your fathers in northern Nigeria still practise it, and your ancestors in the South west , Nigeria did so mainly for Agriculture.

The concern about polygamy is that you don't breed like a stupid rats you are and lack the resources to develope them , they will eventually constitute societal nuisance like you , almajiris, bandits everywhere.

Polygamous is your own headache, your only problem.

Can a black man identity as a white man or white man identify as a black man？ what's the big deal about that ？ didn't Micheal Jackson made such move？didn't Obama rule them and even did second term？while Trump was thrown out, ogbeni talk the real deal.

This bastard is telling me that Transgender, Intersex , other forms of Hernaphroditism, natural sexual orientation don't exist！？you better open your stupid mind and go and do your research, who is going to open your eyes and do research for you？ when you deliberately closed it to light, your heart of hatred won't allow you.

You can begin your research with ‘’sex allocation at birth‘’, a small help i can give your dirty head.

I am talking SCIENCE and this lunatic is talking POLITICS, telling me white people did this , they did that, are they the ones who blocked your mind from reading？there are even LGBTQI in Saudi Arabia and it's environ , there are even LGBTQI in your hostile family.

Your fathers were killing albinos hatefully and ignorantly before light came to them.

You are really a mad man like your parents and other family members.

Mentally unwell bastard. You are inconsequential.

franchasofficia:
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Thanks in advance bra

this guy no go kee me with laff o..lol. I like this tho..smart 'keep kwayet' kind of move.

yinkabeauty:
It's so silly of you to mock people for their natural status and it's immature of you！ do you mock the mad people for beign mad when they can't even reason with you？ if you mock mad people for instance, it shows you are the mad one.
You don't mock people for their natural disposition.
You mentioned that there is no scientific backing for LGBTQI , but you should know their is a scientific backing or explaination for Transgender or intersex at least and you should read it up, if you don't know , more research is still ongoing and there are scientific revelations pertaining to gays in general, just be open-minded and mature.

shut up with your unbridled ignorance. As for your tantrums, the mad ones exist in your home and among your kindred, and will continue to abound there. There is no scientific support for the lewd lifestyle. Show the scientific papers supporting it. Watch how this one will quote a blog.

Polygamy is bad, but LGBTQRSTUV is okay..imagine that. Who polygamists harm, or transracials. The white man says that blacks cannot identify as white, and polygamy is bad, but men can be transwomen, and vice versa upsetting the balance of pretty much everything. Sickos!

Mentally unwell people. Isn't it funny the sickos who painted polygamy as evil to Africans, see nothing wrong with LGBTQRSTUV! Awon were. Till date these sickos have been unable to prove a scientific basis for their psychosis. The few that came up with a shoddy research were busted and found to be using their status as doctors/scientists to further their anally suggestive ends. Na dem be pioneers of science, but they haven't found proof for their madness yet...the simple reason is they have refused to believe it is simply madness. Lol. The madmen roaming the streets also identify as something going on in their head, something only they can understand..or not. Lol. Their life, their palaver.

Justbehave:
Thanks I have noticed it too.

what's more, most are quick to say he abandoned his family without acknowledging the role both of them played in that. I wouldn't do that, but catch this cruise, while the wife was giving him hell (cos I'm sure that was why this guy ran), if out of frustration he got violent, same folks here will say why did he not walk away? I won't leave my house for any woman that long ever, but you raised a vital point, why didn't bros get a woman preggo outside in that time? As I always say, a key that opens many locks is a masterkey, a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock. This is one shitty ass lock. Men need to wake up and be aware. I like that the OP bit the bullet and decided to be aware than carrying on in deluded and willful ignorance.