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Hmm....a "soon to be" runs babe.

Listen, this is just the beginning, your are a late bloomer. In my experience the attention confusion starts at 15, so 19 seems late to me.

Look, you are being washed. They all want to sleep with you. As in, " chop clean mouth".

I want you to focus on yourself, if in school, read, make the best grades. Ignore your peers and men. Do not waste your potential on men.

DollyParton1:
I don't know how one can be a good wife/mother if one is unhappy with the way one is being treated.
Feminism is not selfishness. Its simply says don't loose yourself.
Putting others first whether in marriage or out of it, a basic code of life.

How? Two words: matured communication.

DollyParton1:

This is the problem.
You lot refuse to understand what you are fighting against.
You have failed in this major law of combat. ... know and understand your opponent.

Look, I know how many "I will show him" kind of wives I have encountered. Some of whom married very good men.

I know there is a risk in surrendering your will for the good of the collective. That is why you need to choose carefully before settling down.

Because once you have entered that lane, you no longer come first. Your husband, kids, should be the priority.

You can be a feminist outside your home, but once you get home, the feminist cap gets dumped.

Marriage is a union. The minute you are married you become secondary. Whatever you wanted to become, whatever you want to achieve become secondary.

Your family becomes primary, you start thinking about how your decisions will affect them not you.

Feminism is a single's line of thought. Its all about me, me, me. My kids, husband can rot. It should be discouraged.

Even the average literate could detect the deception.

Those promises were made to the Nigerians that actually vote:

ILLITERATES!!

I personally believe that literate voters in Nigeria are very few.

Literate Nigerian by my defination, are educated Nigerians with zero religious or ethnic sentiments.

asalimpo:
you've not been to the village bf.
Visit your village and stay there a long time.

In the city, youths are thinking of how to make it. Pass jamb,get admission etc. There's a sense of competition and purpose.

In the villa, poverty and resignation fills the atmosphere.
Youths there just relax with aimlessness. Then sx.
It's just subsistence thinking.
You see a teenage boy who has 2 children from different mothers.
No money to even buy good bath soap.


Most city gals strt playing with sx when theyre out of their parents watchful gaze. Usually, late secondary school and university.

From there they degenerate.
Most villa girls, were into it bf they even knew it was bad.
Most married village women screw like dogs- esp if a guy from the city comes by.

Go to any village and see the number of young baby mamas.
All teenagers, some have as many as 3 children from different fathers.

I don't know how illicit sx can be decent.
Many forests and bushes in the villages ar sx spots.
Sx is easy to arrange.
Sx in church registery and car are edge cases. How often does sx occur in a church? Or even a car?


Village girls ar cheap. Gateman, mechanic, any city low life,knows a girl from d village is an easy lay, but the city girl will be a harder challenge. Bring a village girl to the city and bf u know it she's sleeping around.

I love this guy. You have said it my brother.

rayblast:
sorry bro she s not urs.. Her heart is wit anoda man

Exactly. The girl dy play both sides.

Mr op, ignore her. Stop apologising everytime, you are belittling yourself.

In this life no woman hates romance, except rape victims. Since that is not the case here, you are being played.

Going to share this here:

Couple of years back my best friend got this gist:

There was this very brilliant guy who also happened to be a born again type and a good friend of ours that was almost raped by a girl.

They were doing a general course at the time, she asked him over saying she needed private tutorials.
The guy says his evening devotion and heads there.

Getting there, she was on wrapper he couldn't tell if there was anything underneath as there was no light.

He brings out his material and was about to start the tutorials when it happened......she jumped on him!!!

Kissing, putting her oranges in his mouth, the guy fought for his life.

He fought her off, packed his books and ran for his life. Says he saw her the next day, she greeted and he just ignored her.

I laughed hard at the whole thing. Funny thing is the young man is still single now. And we secretly make fun of him for not tapping it.

As for the girl, she lives like nothing happened.

Pardon me, but they ar both very stupid.

1. The girl is very very stupid for insisting on a no sex relationship. She can delay the sex, but denying it is just stupidity. Not all men are animals but we have needs!!.

2. The guy is very stupid for not respecting her. Since he knew he could not agree to her terms she should have dumped her and moved on. Best thing to is to be patient what will be will be. Instead he disgraced himself.


Tell her continue what she is doing, but instead of denying, delay.

This scenario happens a lot of times. Distance sets in and the girl becomes confused.She doesn't value you, she is being confused due to the attention she is getting right now.

Sadly, its in a woman's nature to be confused. I know because I used to be the "other guy".

Facts:

1) the guy has slept with her.
2) he is still in her head.

Deleted her from your life, if difficult get a good distraction
(Work, other women, friends, etc).

By the time her current infatuation clears, she will beg. This is where you will make your stand.

Why is nobody analyzing the court decision. I don't think that the parents should have lost the case in the first place. If the man's brother has no legal right to sell the property then how does the man have. His brother was designated as the will executor (this gives him the power to redistribute the assests as he wants whether or not he had a dialogue with the man). The man should have gone to court immediately after the house was sold and not so many years after his brother's death. I won't be surprised if money changed hands for this court verdict.

I have never been so pissed!! Who is talking about self control here?!! Nonsense talk!!
She got naked with him in the shower for Pete's sake!!
that young woman is wicked!! Very wicked!! She wanted to tame and control you. Most of them do it.
They will tempt and turn you down, making you look like a dog. Rubbish!!.
I get it they know we lose interest after getting it, but there are other ways to make men pay attention.
Women, hmm.....a neccessary pain.

Look, for all the kids attacking this young man, say the truth, he did not rape her.

Although I am not in support of sex on a first date, he did nothing wrong.

Women are such confused creatures. No Nigerian girl in need of sex will tell you to your face.
They all think we're psychic. It's crazy!!

Look, you have opened the gates, congrats. But talk true, you were after her body.

derespect:
Geology for Uniosun still makes sense ooo. In OAU, d best students in Geology graduate wt 2:2. There was a year nobody graduated (2010)

LOL. Seriously?. This is serious!!. Nobody graduated?. Haba!! LOL.

It's because most Nigerians are lazy. Students don't want to go beyond their handouts and lecturers have refused to upgrade their knowledge.

How can you garbage in garbage out and expect A's and B's in geology?.

Nigerian students should all learn to go beyond their handouts, browse articles, update the handout yourself with added sketches or equations.
You will be fine.

Young man, you are almost in the friendzone.

You've made it too easy for her. When women know they've got you they will misbehave.

Ask her out again, profess your love, say all the sweetest things for a set period.

If after that period she still says no, you run like hell.

Tell her you're no longer interested. Ignore her.

She will beg. Fact!!!

Once you've done this, ask her out for the last time.
If no again.

Forget her finally and move on with your life.

There are many fishes, woman never finish.

Young man, that girl is just confused. I Have itnessed this before.
What you should do is to demand her loyalty.
Ok, I see that you've done that by asking her to call them in your presence. Which she refused.


Leave her. She is too immature and won't change even after marriage.

When you fight she will compare you to them and insult you by revealing her regret.

A girl who doesn't know how to have boundaries is not worth it.

Young man, you are not a fool. you are a BIG FOOL!!

Women, men, its a never ending cycle of foolishness.

You got played, move on.

Womboh of all people?!! Na wa oh!!! Since 1969?

Know a lot of his mates that have decided to die in their bondage.

Better late than never.

So he changed his name to abubakar?... What a guy!!

Should have tapped that behind. Was too timid and respectful. Found out other guys were doing my job for me and it went downhill from there. Good luck with my replacements.

Father, give me someone who gets me.

Hmm..this your issues get as e be sha.
Why did she cheat? Money, or sex addiction?
Is she respectful?
Can she make you happy?
Does she love you?
Can she make you her priority?

I have seen a lot of this kind of case. She will definitely stop after marriage. But will you be able to trust her?

I have friends who are happily married to her kind. What you should do is demand f or an exclusive relationship,she is able to be able end her cheating ways for your sake, then marry her.
If durring this period she slips back, then run for your life.

EXPLANATION: we are afraid the satellite might have been sent to monitor our satellites.

The cold war continues.

Look, I used to doubt the authenticity of such claims until I met a Nigerian seargeant who fought Niger delta militants. He said the Shit is real. They would shoot their bullets would bounce.
Hand to hand combat was futile too because knives kept bouncing. His body hug kept his intestines in check if he would joined his mates in the great beyond.
Even though we should not believe every thing we hear, its safe to pay attention.

JUJU IS REAL!!!!