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MaxInDHouse:As usual you didn't take to read what I said I agree that people act based on what they think but not all the time that they follow through with action There may be people around you who sometimes nurse the thought of doing something very bad to you but have they done so ? Why? Even you yourself sometimes have negative thoughts raging in your head. How many of those thoughts have you followed though with action? |
LordReed:I think it can only work for a few. Your case is different. You already had the capacity to critically examined what you use to believe. So it was easy to make the change.. Most people here don't have that advantage .They should be treated as humans and not derided for having a belief in a god But I have to admit here that the op from what I can take from is post seem to be on the verge of abandoning his religious beliefs. Did you noticed the poignant questions he was asking all through. That is it the right thing to go to a slave camp to free slaves with insults? is it proper to use extreme mockery to teach others what they do not kmoe ? Forget the other things he was saying alongside it and just listen to him. I have not seen anyone responding to that but only focusing on the negative things he said and I have to ask why? The resident Satanist even ran away to create another thread just to counter him.Well, the op appears to be waking and I won't be surprised if he ends up becoming a non believer some day His outbursts to me are evidences of someone whose mind is gradually coming alive. Maybe your method his working. or not working. Only time would tell |
LordReed:Telling them so directly wouldn't change anything. They lack the awareness to understand what you're saying. They are indoctrinated and operating from that state. Psychological studies has demonstrated the fact that no one who is truly indoctrinated or brainwashed is ever conscious of it. They have been programmed to act in a particular way and can only change when the have been deprogrammed. So it is of no use . Or would you for any reason try to convince a suicide bomber who is at the point of detonating a suicide vest that it is unreasonable to do so ? And also wait to further call him a religion nutjob when you should escaping with your life? This an extreme example but I believe it would help you understand my position better A religious nutjob should be avoided at any cost. One can only try to engage the moderates. Those are sometimes amenable to reason. |
MaxInDHouse:It's only a mad person that would act out whatever thoughts that enter their head. A sane person would always try to edit whatever thoughts that come in to know if it is the proper thing to do or not. Not everything that we think about that we follow through. If it is as the way you describe it , then it would not be uncommon to see a lot of people around behaving irrationally and who knows maybe one of those of your neighbors and relatives who hate you as JW would have gotten you killed already. The bible verse you quoted is church theology. It has no basis in reality. |
MaxInDHouse:Calling others wicked because of what they choose to believe or not doesn't make you a good person. You don't automatically become a good person by labeling others as wicked. It is your actions that would demonstrate the kind of person you are. |
@ op I am afraid you're generalising. All atheist or non religious don't behave the same way. But I understand where you're coming from . It is obviously based on what you have experienced and observed here. But the truth of the matter is that most are behaving that way because they are living their lives based on borrowed behavior. A fake life. That's how I like to describe it. The foreign atheists whose behavior most of them are copying are from societies where nearly every single member is enlightened enough to know what is right from what is wrong. So it is expected that some, atheist especially, over there would mock you when you behave in a way they consider stupid or irrational .They expect you to know better than to believe in what they consider nonsense or fairy tales. But on this side, there's no enough reason for anyone who is fortunate to be properly educated and better exposed to go about looking for less enlightened members of his society to insult and abuse simply because these other people insist at a particular point in their lives that they are more comfortable in believing in something rather than in nothing. Well, I already mentioned that it is borrowed behavior. If not, what on earth would make anyone who claims to be a former Christian or Muslim turn back to make mockery of those that still believes forgetting that not too long ago he or she was equally a "slowpoke" or religious nut job. It is an aberration . It's like a former prostitute who is now rehabilitated going back to the hotel she once worked to insult and mock others who are yet to have the opportunity to escape that life. It is really unfair and makes no sense whatsoever. The proper attitude of a former believer who is really honest about helping others see what he now considers the "light" should be that of concern and understanding and not to take delight in mocking others at every given opportunity even when it is not called for. If the person who trolls you online grew up as an atheist without having participated in any religious group before, then you should understand the reason for his behavior and not take offence. The person has not had your experience. So it is only natural that the individual would want to understand why you choose to believe in a God .He simply cannot get it no matter how you try to explain People will always act based on what they know and have experienced. They can't behave otherwise. There are certain things in life that can only be completely understood by a direct experience of it. Nothing else would do. But when the troll has had that religious experience and now pretends not to, then it is self deception. Don't waste your time .You're dealing with a fake person. Move away .The person already knows the answer to the question he or she is asking you about what you believe. There's no sincerity and you would be stupid to engage such a person. The person is looking for the opportunity to make you look stupid for what you choose to believe at this time So please don't regard every atheist or non religious as the same. Not every atheist on ths section behave as you have described .We all can't be the same. Everyone has their own method However, you on your part should also learn to respect what others choose to believe or not to believe. That's the only way we can all make for a harmonious relationship amongs the different groups that exist here.. Final word. Please don't regard me as a representative of any group. All I have said is from me alone. Others can choose to see things differently and they have the right to see things their own way. |
A001: An intelligent person like you that's living life based on assumptions.You assume I am a religious person.Shame Next time, be sure of the identify of the person you're chatting with before reacting unconsciously and embarrass yourself. So far nothing like superior arguments to counter anything but insults and wayward talk . Use your head next time before jumping into matters that is way above you |
A001:You're living in denial. That's all. Your assumption is working against you but you don't know it. You're the one who is actually behaving like a religious since you're loath to question anything. Napoleon is always right. Well done |
A001:Calling me a religious person shows you don't know anything about me And it is clear now to me and everyone who knows me on this board, that it was your wrong assumption that worked against you hence you were canceling my post and judging them silly because to you, anyone who question Otem must be religious and a religious person in your thinking can never make sense. Nobody is above questioning no matter how knowledgeable they present themselves. I don't hold on strongly to any ideological position and for this, I have the mental freedom to question anything that does not make sense so as to clear my doubts or get better informed If not for cognitive dissonance on your part, why attacking me when I am doing the proper thing of wanting to know more? When did it become silly or a crime to ask questions? I have read some parts of the book written by Otem and was impressed . But that does not mean it is a perfect work . |
dazzlingd:Just imagine ! You can't express yourself very well in English language yet you think you're in a better position to analyze my comments by taking it out of context. My friend ,please read our conversation from the very beginning to have a better understanding. Your god, Otem, was the one who suggested coincidence has power when I questioned what he actually meant by power of coincidence.. Go back and read and don't come here to expose your ignorance Mr English language teacher that cannot teach himself the language before wanting to teach others. |
sonmvayina:And you didn't bother to know why you had a spirit wife? |
TenQ:The op is about spirit wife and that was what I responded to before you started dragging me If you believe demons causes problem for people, I don't. Well ,your negative thoughts can take on form and wreck havoc on you and those around you. That is what most of you ignorantly regard as demons but they are just thoughtforms and not real. There are people who are gifted with the special ability to see these thoughtforms as the hover around people. You may have this ability or have met with someone who has, but it doesn't mean what you see is real. It is only thoughts that have taken form. |
Ayo081:Whether near you ,under the bed or under pillow, the motive is the same and it's still superstition since it doesn't work for everyone. What actually works , would work for everyone or most people inrespective of belief. |
Ayo081:When you put Bible under your pillows so you sleep well shows fear. If you're were opened eyes spiritually as you say , you would know that doesn't help in anyway. It is just superstition and nothing more.. |
TenQ:I never wanted to respond again, but just have to . I already advised you get yourself properly informed about how your mind works so you can understand my position better Your mind cannot act on any impression that it refuses to accept as truth. I have been repeating this all along. It is only individuals whose critical faculty skills not fully developed and are cast in the coinage of conspiracy theories that easily swallow the lies of demonic possession Now , according to you, my current stand is because I have been made not to accept what you consider as truth of demonic possession inspite of the fact I already suggested to your that I use to have such belief in the past but now know better through my own experience. Really don't know what to tell you. You not following at all. Don't bother much about me be concern with what you're doing. If it is the right thing you're doing only time will tell. To your last statement ,the reason it is difficult to convince someone who thinks she is having spirit husband is because they accept as real what they see in the dream and also while awake . But those visions are not real or have no basis in reality. I know how difficult it is to convince such people. I have been there before and came out of it. So I am speaking from experience. You people lack the proper guidance to do what you're doing. You're destroying minds and think you're helping them through deliverance. You can't end spirit wife through deliverance. The only way is to increase your awareness so you know the truth and the truth leads to your freedom Good luck in your casting of demons business |
TenQ:What do you understand about how minds are preprogrammed. You think it is something that happens only consciously. If you're not a Christian, and you live amongst Christians your mind can be preprogrammed to start accepting Christianity. It doesn't have to happen consciously by someone preaching to you. If you have delivered a non Christian, was it a random stranger who did not first agree to deliverance and submitted to you? You still don't get me. Please let's end this . I am t not rying to force you to accept anything. I am only responding to your comment as they come. Your experience is the only thing that can convince you. But that would be when you know what to look out for. You can't know the truth about anything by focusing on one aspect of it. Goodnight |
Ayo081:Your latest comment shows fear. Fear is the meat of "demon" possession |
TenQ:I already explained the above when I said the mind will create effect from whatever it accepts as truth.. The human mind is extremely powerful. The mind functions in two modes, the conscious and the unconscious. The later is responsible for most of your unconscious habits and other things you cannot even fathom.. The day you realise the truth of how your mind truly works is the day you begin to ensure no nonsense enters it and remain.. This the reason I said you're abusing the minds of the people you claim to be delivering. The people you "deliver " are already preprogrammed to react that way . And it begins from the impression and believes projected into their minds from people around them. Once they accept , at the unconscious level, all of this impression coming into their minds they automatically become susceptible to any command from you to make them start misbehaving and acting as if possessded by demons. That's how it works.. Those who reject or dont accept those impressions coming into their minds will not react . I am sure there are times you must have encountered those who don't respond as you expect no matter what you do There are valid resources on the net to help you know more. You can search for them. Or you begin from former deliverance minister near you to ask them questions why they stopped so you can have a balanced perspective on things. As it is now ,you only know one side of the story and that's what you're holding on to. |
TenQ:I have had my own experience which you don't know , if not ,I won't discuss the matter. The only reason I am referring you to others, is for you to know I am not the only one . Go first and understand how your mind works so you understand all I have been saying. You have not responded to any explanation I have given concerning how your mind can trick you to think you're casting out demons which shows everything I have said is lost on you. Modified. Everyone believing in something doesn't make it true so your percentages are irrelevant |
TenQ:I ask you again, how do you know I have not done more than what you think you're currently doing ? So you don't know that there former Christians out there who have abandoned the nonsense you're currently doing ? This is the Internet. Do a search and come back and tell me your findings. I hope your world don't come crashing down when you read their stories. The scripture you quoted ,I know is the foundation for your belief. Permit me to address it now. The Bible contains , if you don't know , things that people believed in the past which were not true. For instance, people during the bible times believed in a flat earth and also that the sun moves around to cause night and day. It was for this reason "scientist" of those times created the story of Joshua to make people accept as fact what they knew about the earth as at that time. Just like the Joshua example , there was also a time people believed that demons inhabit people and to make this idea find acceptance in the minds of people, the story of Jesus casting out demons was invented. There lots of instance in the bible which I can reference to make you understand and know more about what I just explained. But the two is enough for now. Now the question is , what causes what you're doing to appear real to you? (The casting of demons.) The answer is ,your mind is creating the illusion. The human mind has the capacity to create effect from whatever it accept as truth. If it is made to accept a lie as truth, it will create effect from it. When you don't know how the human mind works, what I have been explaining won't make any sense to you. So get yourself informed I hope one day, you find out the truth yourself and stop abusing the minds of others in the name of delivering them from demons that , sorry to say, only exist in your head and in the heads of those you have infected with the false belief. Final question, Have you ever commanded a demon to come out of non Christian who does not believe in the demon possession? |
TenQ:How do you know what I have experienced? And how does the above scripture explain spirit husband? You just confirmed what I said before now. Did you take time to read my first response to the op? It's obvious you did not. Please, believe all you want . I am not interested in dragging this matter further with you. The day you meet with those who have abandoned what you're currently doing , then you will know the truth and do the same except the fake deliverance is your only source of income. |
TenQ:I never said spirit beings don't exist. I only said the concept of spirit husband is a lie. As for your other comments, this is what I have to tell you, make sure you know exactly what your talking about and not just what you read somewhere , watch in movies and from hearsay. Demons don't possess people. What you think is demon possession is caused by something you're unaware of. Pentecostal churches are the ones promoting these nonsense. The Catholic church has abandoned such practices of exorcism because they now know better. If any catholic member , not those in the charismatic movement , approaches a priest who is welll informed, for deliverance, the person would be advise to go for mental evaluation in a psychiatric hospital before anything. Most people who take this advise never return because they get to know after a session with a mental health practitioner that their problem is not caused by demons but is simply psychological. But some people don't want to be caught visiting a psychiatric hospital and so they run to your Pentecostal churches for deliverance which doesn't stop whatever they are experiencing I know of some persons who for years have been running from church to church looking for the most powerful man of god to deliver them but without any success. You can argue all you like but I just hope one day you come a cross a former deliverance minister in some of these Churches to let you know why he or she has abandoned what they were doing before.. Then you will get to know the truth |
A lot of young ladies go about with their hair uncovered and body parts exposed due to scanty dressing. If it were true they can be possessed by that, then we would have been seeing lots of them displaying the same sort of behavior as the lady in the op. The concept of spirit wife and spirit husband is gotten from traditional African religion. It is a false belief which our primitive forbears used in the past as explanation for certain strange phenomenon they could not explain. The whites dont have this sort of experience (spirit husband or wife) simply because it was never part of anything that they believed in the past or even now. The human mind is extremely powerful. It is capable of creating effect from whatever it is made to accept as truth. Most people are ignorant of this fact ,hence , they are easily taking advantage of. The sad thing is that some ignorant people posing as men of God, in this part of the world, are still promoting the false idea of spirit husband or wife and conducting fake deliverance sessions which does not work. This fake deliverance has left most of these desperate ladies seeking for husbands disconsolate and depressed because after everything they were made to go through during such sessions and the money taken away from them in the form of sowing dangerous seed to God, nothing has changed. And another unfortunate thing, is that after a time, due to the fact that they have completely accepted this lie, some of them start acting irrationally because they are now certain that they are possessed by a demon which is simply not true. The lady in the op, I believe, is a victim of this. She may have been exposed to this idea either in the church or from people around her and the result is what is described. Pastors who use this to scam their members , begin by preaching on the pulpit that any lady who is finding it difficult to get married has a spirit husband . Some of them even go to the extent of conducting fake deliverance session to cast out imaginary spirit husband right in front of their congregation and sadly enough, sometimes kids or very young persons of impressionable age are also part of those watching. Then the members , after watching the fake deliverance nonsense, go home beleiving that there is something like spirit husband or spirit wife or that people can easily be possessed by demons. And later , when some of the ladies or young persons who have been indoctrinated by the fake display find it difficult to get married or are having other strange experiences they can't understand and explain , which may be normal, they wrongly think it is caused by spirit husband or a demon. The immediate reaction is to run with fear in their hearts back to the same person who has indoctrinated them with this false idea in order to get delivered . But after deliverance ,nothing changes because it is a scam.There's no invisible man stopping them from getting married. The concept of spirit husband is not in the Bible or part of Christianity and so why are Christians made to believe in something that is not true? Christians are not the only ones in this part to believe this. Everyone else seems to and it is for this reason most find it difficult to shake themselves of it. The solution is to know that there's nothing like spirit husband or wife preventing you from getting married and also to avoid persons who believe in it or places where such nonsense is believed or preached, if not, one can be dragged into it unconsciously and you start having strange experiences which would then make you think it is real. |
OtemAtum:Using labels to describe people when it doesn't really describe them only shows the kind of person you are. So far you have not been able to prove any superior intellect other than to engage in self deception. Those who don't know anything or have limited knowledge are quick to label others as ignorant while those who truly know are loath to do so because they know that inspite of what they think they know they can't know it all. |
Elanozy:I almost forgot he is in the habit of twisting and turning in order to create confusion in ones mind so you don't pin him down on anything. Thank you |
budaatum:My arguments has been that coincidence is non casual. It is not a cause for something. We dont say something is caused by coincidence. The correct expression is, it is coincidence . The word , coincidence, and the phrase, caused by, should not be together in the same sentence, except when used figuratively Why is this difficult to understand? |
budaatum:And does this thread really has anything to do with what is contain in his book? He has taken a position about what he thinks is responsible for certain occurrence in nature which I disagree with. Have you seen me arguing about any portion of his book before. He has been talking about spiritual cage and I understand it is not literal. If this thread was an excerpt from his book , I would understand what message he is trying to pass across. Nothing like that. At a point I even asked him if the expression is figurative.No answer I think he is creating his own religion by talking of the power of coincidence which is not different from saying the power of god. However ,whatever the case I don't believe in luck or coincidence. I don't fully accept it . it prevents people from finding the actual cause behind any occurrence. There are plausible explanations why certain thing we dont understand happen. That should be the focus not imaginary tales, though used in good faith , may prevent some people from knowing better. |
A001:You the one stating what I didnt mention due to your own misunderstanding of everything I have said. You're not insane but you insult without any reason and cancel replies like a demented fellow. |
budaatum:Casting inuedos doesn't prove anything. Cowardly behavior at its best. Not what I expected from someone like you. You're taking sides without bothering to find out how it all started. It is typical knee jerk reaction to jump into conclusions about someone without knowing much about them. How do you know I have not read his book? And what do you even know about my position concerning the arguments we have been having? |
A001:Canceling my reply like a thug only shows the kind of frustrated person you're |
A001:Calling someone dull or of a low intelligence doesn't make them that. If I were all you described ,you don't need to mention it . Others following would confirm and prove it. But as long as you're the only saying so, it means you're deluded. Now , here you are mixing up two things together and you think you're making sense. My disagreement is that there's nothing like coincidence having power to cause anything. It is as simple as that. Don't mix what you understand about coincidence which I can accept with that of the op. They are not the same |
OtemAtum:Stick to one thing and don't turn it to an English language class . When you struggle to understand the word coincidence which budatum up there wants to make you understand better, what do you want to teach anyone about English words and meaning. You have made your disciple to start insulting with all of these. Good day bro |
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even ran away to create another thread just to counter him.


