₦airaland Forum

Acevot:
Effect of Early marriage, at 19/20 she barely know herself and what she wants in a man

So, those that married at age of 30 and above and still divorce do not know what they want in a man?
Continue to deceive yourself.
Women are, most times, the architect of their problems. They listen to bad advice. I am certain if she had no children with her ex-husband yet and no million in her account, she will be calm and gentle with her husband.

I could see that she had a boy and a girl for her ex-husband. This is one of the reason most women start misbehaving to their husband. They tell themselves that, ones you had a boy and a girl, you had given it all to the husband. The man should now be worshipping them and doing their bid. They want to take control and make themselves the husband and the husband to be the wife. While the husband still goes out to provide for her and the children. As if marriage should be a thing of doing your spouse a favor. This is one of the big problem in our society today.

This is one of the reason divorce is on the rise now in our society.

SpecialAdviser:
The problem with most of you Muslims is that you always like to play religion in everything.
Dont forget that most of the good practice systems in the world also have Christian origin but nobody has made noise about it.
If you have something you presented, why making it look Islamic always? Why not allow it flow in order not to draw unneccessary religious dimension to it? For instance, how would it be that some people attach thier religion to the origin of football? Attach to the origin of many
great scientific feats. Attach religion to even our calendar system and much more

Quit being stupid, it creates an atmosphere of suspicion. You muslims will never learn sha

The fact still remains that this idealogy is from Islam. Then... It is worth mentioning.
There is nothing wrong all religious groups bring out a game changing ideas that can bring reformation in the country.
So, if your religion has something for the country, then let us know and don't keep it to yourself

nairavsdollars:
Why do Muslims worship on Fridays

Muslims worship God everyday not just on Friday.
Friday worship (ie Jumah day sermon), is part of what had been commanded in the Quran. So, there is evidence for it.
Moreover, the Friday worship has its own purpose and significance.

Onahi95:
Most Nigerians are of the opinion that Business is the answer to the ever raising number of unemployed youths. What most doesnt know is that business too has its own challenges and not for the faint hearted. I would be sharing some of my experiences trying to do business.

**First Experience**
Growing up I've always been a lover of business, I remember after my secondary education I was given two options of university education or business. I choose business without batting an eyelid. I think it was during the early days of Goodluck's tenure when ports were closed so most importations where from Cotonou Port and the goods smuggled into Nigeria.

I gathered small capital with the help of relatives and would go to Cotonou to get male jeans and resale in wholesale to my customers in Nigeria, I went on a trip at least once a week which gives me an average of 30k to 40k profit per week because my capital wasn't much. I started with 200k and within a little over a year I was counting in millions before my legendary village people gave me a call.

My logistics agent put my goods in a vehicle transporting second hand tyres, which was intercepted at Benin and everything got impounded. After spending so much for the release of the goods it was released several months later only for us to meet goods not up to 10% of what was originally seized. It was devastating and I came crashing down to square one. All attempts to gather another capital proved abortive.

Hello op:

I will advise you go back to your Benin clothes trade if the opportunity of importation of such is still allowed. But this time, be wary of the logistics agents you use to transport your goods. Or better still get a bus or car of your own to transport the goods yourself

englishmart:
How much does this comedy really pay? I don't understand again o. Abi yahoo boys don dey didguise ni?

You say my mind.

Everybody don turn comedian to show off ill money gotten as yahoo yahoo

thesicilian:
It's not the company's fault. The criminal probably dropped your number as a close contact and they are helpless now that he has absconded with their money

It is actually the company's fault. Why disturbing an innocent person when you did not call the him or her prior the given of loan as part of the emergency contact.

It is their duty to confirm from the individual that his or her contact is given to the company as emergency contact in case of loan defaulting.

It is only in Nigeria things are not done with proper processes.

Pierocash:
You can now see that this terrorists are hypocrites.


They are dancing to Western music which their stupid Sharia law is against.


That is how they will be f.cking people's wives and still be pretending to be practicing Sharia.

Why will someone choose to enforce a principle they know they can't abide by.


Islam is hypocrisy

Don't you see you are the one blinded by your bigot. So, you don't know a doctored video?
It is a pity

yanabasee1:
Before 2015....


Nigerians had nothing to do with nepotism and ethnicity.... But a little of religion and so on...


But since Buhari took over and gave birth to the hoodlums we have now as MURIC, MIYETTI ALLAH and AREWA groups of dunce... Everything changed...


If Nigeria exist after 2023... It'll be a miracle...

You are wrong about this you know.
Religious bigotry was very pronounced during GEJ era of presidency. You could see it during the campaign for 2015 presidency. Even, CAN, Ayodepo and other Christian clergy men were running their mouth dirty. So, let's stop spreading falsehood.

Instead of CAN to be talking of criteria to be possessed by would-be next President, we are talking about religion, as if any of the politicians care about religion or tribes they are from. All want to steal from Nigeria. And CAN knows that very well. But they want the repeat of GEJ era where money is shared for the clergymen instead for the masses that needs it.

Igboho is NOTHING like Prophet Muhammad ﷺ

By Sanusi Lafiagi

The blasphemous and sacrilegious statement credited to Afenifere, a Yoruba sociocultural group, (and published by Sahara Reporters) comparing the plight of Sunday Igboho to that suffered by the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is a great insult to Islām and Muslims all over the world. It behoves every Muslim, especially of Yoruba extraction to publicly condemn this blatant disrespect to our religion and demand an unreserved apology from them. The ignorance exhibited by the group about the Prophet ﷺ shows how lowly the so-called Yoruba nation agitators think of Muslims. Why did the group deem it fit to travel far into the 7th century to find a comparison for a thug when I could have simply compared him to Afonja?

Sunday Igboho is NOTHING compared to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ for the following reasons:

1. Muhammad ﷺ was a Prophet and Messenger of Allāh. He was divinely anointed and heavenly guided. Sunday Igboho, by his own admission is a political thug and hire-for-pay warlord whose conscience is sold to the highest bidder.

2. Muhammad ﷺ spent 13 years in the hostile plains of Makkah preaching Unity of Allāh and devotion to His worship. In spite of the persecution (including summary execution) that he and his followers faced, it is NOT on record that he instigated them against the system or called for secession. Sunday Igboho on the other hand resorted to self-help and terrorised innocent northerners (remember that only a court of competent jurisdiction can declare anyone guilty of crimes brought against them), leading to deaths and destruction of invaluable properties. He instigated a violent insurrection against the system.

3. Muhammad ﷺ advanced the cause of humanity and was vehemently opposed to tribal bigotry and jingoism. He abolished the class system and preached the equality of mankind before Allāh. Sunday Igboho on the other hand is a tribal bigot who advanced ethnic cause and preached the superiority of Yoruba to the Hausa and Fulani ethnic groups. He described the latter as parasites and cancer, who are feeding fat on the fortunes of the Yorubas.

4. Muhammad ﷺ belonged to all who professed faith in Allāh and submitted to His worship. Despite that, he treated even his worst enemies with fairness and justice. He never at any time supported the corrupt system that operated in Makkah.
Sunday Igboho on the other hand (by his own admission) is a bonafide member of PDP who participated actively in election malpractices that foisted insecurity and corruption on society. His last political outing with the current governor of Oyo state, Engineer Seyi Makinde, was in Kogi state, during the election that earned governor Yahya Bello for second term in office. This, it is not far-fetched to say that Igboho's agitation, just like his counterpart's, Nnamdi Kanu of IPOB is LARGELY (to put it mildly) political!

5. Muhammad ﷺ migrated to Madīnah to establish an Islamic state where members will be able to live freely and practise Islām without fear of torture and persecution. As a precursor to this flight, he had earlier sent his followers in groups first to Abyssinia, and later to Madīnah to take refuge while he stayed back. Neither did he leave his followers behind, nor fly to hide from the powers that be. Muhammad ﷺ wasn't a coward. Sunday Igboho, like Ojukwu and his mentee, Nnamdi Kanu, fled the scene after causing trouble (leading to the death and arrest of some of his followers) to enjoy the warmth of his wife and kids. He's a coward and rabble-rouser who has no balls!

6. Muhammad ﷺ fought the Makkans ONLY after he had settled in Madīnah and established an Islamic state with all its political and administrative apparatuses. The first battle, Badr, came about a year after his settlement in Madīnah. At the time, majority of his followers had fled Makkah. Thus, he was able to provide maximum protection and support for them in the friendly and serene terrains of Madīnah. Sunday Igboho on the other hand wants to cause an uprising that will not only destroy the lives of millions of Yorubas living across the country, but that will also ground the nation's fragile economy and heap more difficulty on innocent people.

7. Muhammad ﷺ was severally persecuted and harassed on the street of Makkah, yet he remained undeterred in his mission. He didn't run away or stockpile arms to force liberation. There were days that he was attached even while observing Salāt. Sunday Igboho on the other hand is an oppressor and lout who publicly harassed first class Obas of Yorubaland and threatened violence. He's on tape to have threatened to kill the Ooni of Ife and Bola Ahmed Tinubu, attack the palaces of some prominent Obas, mocked pastor Adeboye over the death of his son, and traded insults with Gani Adams.

8. Muhammad ﷺ was NOT a magician. He didn't practice magic or boast of diabolical powers. Sunday Igboho, as it turns out is a jester, a lousy idiot, comic actor and an empty shell of nothingness. One would expect that by now, given his incessant JuJu braggadocio, the security forces that invaded his house would have turned into fowls or that he wouldn't need to go through an airport to disappear into thin air. Alas! The acclaimed warrior of Ife-Modakeke communal clash disappointed his cheerleaders and fans by not living up to expectations!!!

Therefore, comparing the noble Prophet of Islām to a nuisance like Igboho is a great disservice to humanity and insult to the sensibilities of Muslims all over the world. It should be retracted immediately and apology tendered.

©️ Sanusi Lafiagi

2023 politics has began. So, fasten your seatbelt

Watch out. Don't walk into kidnappers den nor ritualist nor people that sell human parts in foreign countries.

Beware.

If you do not see many people around there for same interview, please don't enter the place.
Also have a pepper spray and a knife handy with you.

If the said land is located where it worth say, N20 million, then sell the land. Go to area where land is still cheap, say N300k to N1m, buy 4 to 8 plots of land. Use the remaining money to regularized documents for the land, with each of you having 1 to 2 plots and fence the land together with four gates. Each gate marking the plot(s) for each person.
So, everyone of you will have documents for his or her own land.

Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll leave to regret the curse of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum ......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.

You can never replace her mother. So, you can only be a wife and not your husband mother.

So, get it right.

But to issue at hand, there is more to the issue. The mother in-law and the brother, to me, came prepare for the happening. It is a planned work which she fall into the trap played by them.

If the is no other issue aside what you said, the man is to be blamed. Even when I still reside in my self-contained apartment, my mother and my mother in-law and anyone else stays in the sitting room.

Girlwhocares:
Well,he's not taking care of my bills,i make my own money but he's responsible in his own lil way.
Thank you.

Here lies the real problem.
You are rich and take care of your bills but couldn't get a husband, right? Out of desperation, you married a guy you never love, just to satisfy your parents, family, friends and colleagues at work who are already married.
Because the guy is not as rich as you are, you see him as someone not same level with you.
That is why you cannot connect with him as you are not ready to submit to him as his wife but to get a child that is yours through him.
I want to believe you initiated the idea of two of you sleeping in different rooms.
I believe if he is Dangote, Otedola, or any very guy, you will quickly connect with him.
Please!! Discuss with the guy and both of you should go your separate ways. Let the guy go search for real love somewhere else.
I believe the guy is crying internally for marrying a woman with worldly heart.

Ogun State Head of Service, Mrs Amope Ajibola Chokor, declear Ogun state a Christian State

The religious insensitivity, bigotry of Mrs. Amoke was brought to the public glare by several pictures flying around when the Ogun State Chapter of Academic Staff Union of Secondary Schools (ASUSS) paid her a courtesy visit.

Mrs Amoke displaces two banners having in them the Ogun State official logo with captions "Jesus Reign and Rule here" and "Jesus". The office of the Head of Service is not a Church where such should be displayed without being sensitive to people of other faiths. The office is for all civil servants irrespective of their religious affiliations.

For a HoS to be so insensitive to, it shows her level of bigotry and favoritism to people of particular faith.

By implication, she has declared Ogun State Civil Service and by extension Ogun State a Christian State.

With this, a religious fanatics, fundamentalist and bigots like her would play religious card and could never be fair and just in dealing with her non same faith subordinates.

Concern Citizens.

GraGra247:
Stick with this no matter what and you will not miss it. Even if you miss it, it would be because you were not lucky and not because you didn't do what you were supposed to do.

I agree with your dad. Focus on building up your career, CV and Qualications and skills. Go from masters to PHD if you can.

All these come with huge bonuses:- Career men and "oil company" men will be competing for your attention. They'll be hunting you and not the reverse.

Probably, you should ask so many ladies in Oil and Gas with bogus carrier and cash in the bank turning themselves to baby mama after unable to get any man to marry them. Shiooo

Idonweak:
Please advice. No money to carry olosho

Go and marry or you go fasting

m no

IceColdVeins:
Can someone analyze how the closure of borders will benefit me as an individual?
Cos all I see is inflation and famine.

May I remind you the rationale for this very closure of borders? Its is almost solely to curb the issue of smuggling..... not just staple foods but everything....up from car spare parts down to your okirika clothes. Now that aside!!

Closure of the bordering gates to curb smuggling analytically means all or most of the smuggled products come through those gates
Now this should be the logic
1. smuggling is corruption (unarguable)
2. All smuggled commodities come through the border (very arguable)
Closure of border will curb/reduce smuggling...........fine
Mitigation of corruption at the borders will curb/reduce smuggling.........fine
Since smuggling is a function of corruption in the borders (S=f(c)) Why not tackle corruption at the borders instead of subjecting the common man to more hardship without putting in place any form of ''shock-absorber''
When America wanted to boost their local steel production value that importation had almost crippled, you know what they did? they didnt even halt the importation, rather they lifted taxes on the local ores and placed huge taxes on the imported. Diplomatically, the market tilted to the side of the local steel production. Now this is how policies from informed set of parliaments look like.
I have always said this, until Nigeria starts to run the government&police like a corporate organisation(bottom-up approach), where KPIs(key performance indicators) are reviewed, operations externally audited with impending sanctions for code of conducts breachers, only then the government can function.
You've been shouting farming, need I remind you that locally made rice as a case study is always double the price of the imported. Now the imported has been banned, you think the prices of local rice would go down? Check your law of supply!!! Anyways thanks God fake/non-durable aba made clothings will be glorified atlast cos nobody go fit afford the original which import duties go don almost choke to death. So poor rats will be poorer cos aba made will now be more expensive once the demand increases.

Government did the right thing for sure but it was poorly strategized and for the wrong cause!!!
Anyways, Orun nyabo, kon shoro enikan (IF sky dey fall, na all of us head e go knack)
Body go teh u!!

I love your thinking. But, how will you collect tax from smuggled goods? If you can't, then how will increase in tax or import duties affect them?

hisgrace090:
Say no to church politics!

Why not?

The church in Nigeria have been dabbling in politics in the country. Why say no to church politics?

crazygod:
But the problem now is the alternative is not available. Even where its available, its way more expensive that imported products. Until the necessary infrastructures are put in place, this border closure is just a simple case of increasing suffering

We need it to reset our brains.

TruthProphet:
If only you guys used this energy you devote to some meaningless foreign religion and language to what actually matter like the betterment of humanity, the world would definitely be a better place than what it is today especially the middle east. There would be peace in that region.

But alas, what is more important is where Arabic music is played.

Every part of the teachings of Islam is towards betterment of humanity. So, the topic is not meaningless but highly relevant to betterment of humanity.
You not knowing anything about Islam or not being a Muslim does not mean to condemn everything about the religion. Instead, you should asked more questions on how this is relevant to humanity in a polite way.

aolawale025:
Its the customs that ought to wake up. Let government regulate importation thru tariffs

It's like you did not read the post. Increase in tariff can only apply to those that import goods legally and not those that smuggle goods into the country

ornicus:
the dresses below are from anna hariri

so are these real or fake hijab?


https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0918/7216/products/2R7A7899web_grande.jpg?v=1561986223 https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0918/7216/products/2R7A4405web_grande.jpg?v=1567430119

These are the ones being referred to as the Fake Hijab

URblogger:
See video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cX982HczU9w

Did I just heard bad government t the tail of the video?
I thought Wike is Mr Project.

temmypotter:
These guys above me though

In a sane country, the brilliant chap would have gotten all the neccesary assistance to ply his brilliance at the very top flight.

And for the silly comments above, the lot of you are probably frustrated empty headed dudes struggling to graduate with a pass even, what nonsense!

You are wrong guy.
The reality is what you yourself have said. " In a sane country......". This statement of yours speaks volumes and it is enough for those that are realistic enough to know that in Nigeria you dey for "OYO". So, you need to think out of the box and do something extraordinary to ensure you raise money before thinking of applying for any scholarship.
If truly he is genius, he should use his skills to raise money required of him and reapply for next year scholarships and stop wailing on the internet.
Since we are not in a sane country as per your words, going extra miles to achieve his dreams of schooling abroad will be necessary on his part.
With his software skills, if truly he is that good, he ought to have developed several, good android applications that will be for token on Android play store. By that he will raise enough money for his bills and still have a lots more raking in into his account.

So, it is only in a sane country your expect something to be done by your elected or selected rulers and not leaders.
#OYO, #standupforyour, #saynotorulers, #sayyestoleaders, #speakwithonevoice

Jordan97:
What have you done for someone else whether on camera or not?

Gullible Nigerians. This is how the polithietians all started. Doing good with cameras all around. And people label him as mister goodies. He will now come under a political party to contest.

This is not the first time I have seen such stunt being played by some people.

teadrake:
Destroying those monuments won't remove anything from Okorocha but rather will portray the current governor as unserious individual who is pursuing a personal vendetta.
Imolites should enjoy what they voted for

Imolite should remind him of what happened to Ambode of Lagos State when he was busy pursuing personal vendetta against his predecessors, Fashola.

And the vendetta was taken too far till he steps on wrong toes.

Xisnin:
Most of those Oro worshippers are also Muslims.

You cannot be a Muslim and still worship others gods.
Anyone that does that have seized to be a Muslim.

Hmmmm. I see why stealing of new born babies and news of sales of new born babies are rampant in South eastern and South-southern part of Nigeria.

This things these people do for money.... Only God almighty could save this country from the impending disaster that will follow all these evils being committed in a bid to get rich quick.

cosef:
This is not the first or second time, children are getting missing in RCCG. If the church is not interested in the security of its worshippers by installing as many CCTV as possible, even Night vision CCTV, then they might be pushing us to believe they are directly responsible for the missing kids.

Who else is responsible? Business booming things you know�