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victorazyvictor:
Common sense has already told u, u met the wrong Prophect but don't generalize my brother, u haven't seen nothing. Bible has already told u such ppl are existing.

No real Prophect will demand cash from u, u will be the one running to him with cash or other valuables.

But a true prophet will not collect those worldly things you said because they are not of benefit to him but a means to perish in the world.

See Matthew 19:16-downward. There is a message therein for people who want to enter the kindom of heaven by avoiding acquisition of wealth.

victorazyvictor:
All these inconsequential questions are always up because childnowadaysf this age refuses to study Bible..

And is a shame no one here with meaningful answer and they claimed to be Christians. chai

Go and read 1Corinthian 12:1-14
You will unhderstand.

That is why scammers are scamming Christians of their hard earn money in the name of tithe. So, pastors of nowadays are from Christians of nowadays: scammers and the sheeples.

You are one of the ghost workers the government is talkong about.
To put things straight, you are not one of the government workers. The individual that brought you into that office knows you are unemployed and uses government money that is meant for other things to pay you. That is corruption.

Can you imagine the insult Lagos State government to Ikorodu residents.

Several communities, such as Owutu, Ojokoro village and new town, Agbede, Ishawo, Igbo-olomu, Ori-okuta, and several others have no good access road. The only thing we are entitled to in ikorodu is a statue. Even, the road from Ogolonto to Abute, around Dangote, is bad.

For every election, APC records massive vote from there and a lot of people residing in ikorodu are tax payers. Yet we are being paid back with negative development.

The Ishawo road they promised to start is still dragging after several awards to tar the road in the past. Instead of the state government to work on it fast, they are playing politics with it.

We are also waiting for 2019 to give our support to another party at all level. We are watching you. APC have betrayed us.

madridguy:
Stop displaying your extremism in a public forum like NL. Half baked knowledge is cancerous, look for knowledge and stop saying jargons.

I hope you are not trying to be apologetic about this by trying to appeal to the minds of the kufar. You need to ask why he referred to the use of wedding ring haram.

Before we can define something like use of wedding ring as halal, haram or makruh, we need to find out the genesis or the route of the use of wedding ring.

The route of the wedding ring started with European pagant culture. They believe the wedding ring helps to bind and strengthening the marriage. If that is the case, the use of wedding ring will be haram because it been tied to believe and power that is only in the Hands of Allah. Practicing such is tantamount to associating partner with Allah and automatically is disbelief in Allah.

I think what will all need to do first is to find out the origin of the use of wedding ring and the belief attached to it.

May Allah continues to keep us in His straight part. Wa Allah 'aalam.

I think you are the one having a problem here and not the ladies that leave you for another men.

Firstly, people marry for four main reasons:
1. Beauty,
2. Wealth,
3. Status or position in the society, and
4. Culture, Religion or Calture/Religion.

I think you were running after beaty. And that is where the problem lies. Most beautiful girls are not mentally stable to see love emanating from a man. They believe to much on their physical appearance. With this, they think they can get the most richest person on earth to spoil them with money. Except the cultured and probably a religious one among them, you can rearly find a good wife material among them.

So, ops, if you want a girl or lady to take as a wife, you need to look beyond beauty as beauty should be the least option to first consider in a would be wife. First check for good quality of moral excellence and good upbringing even before approaching her for relationship.

Likewise, you to be conscious of where you seek for a wife. Definety, not a night club or somewhere moraly upright girl will be.

You have a choice to make.

Confused977:
Thanks and God bless you my dear friend. I know say me I be all weather even if na to wash plate, me I can. So far it's legit... I can. Shebi make I find way travel Abi? Since the money dey my hand now so that I no go give in to pressure of joining HND AS form Don dey close.

hmmmmm

I see someone who had already made up her mind travelling abroad.

At age of 24 for a girl, time is not on your side.

At age 24, your chance of getting a good and well paid job is getting slimmer, unless you have good connection or God is on your side. So, going to school for the purpose of securing a good jod afterwards is a bad investment and wrong thought.

Who says if you have a good business that is well expanded, you can't get visa easily to any country in the world or get admission into any school abroad to further your education and develop your business simultaneously?

So, my sister think deeply, before jumping into abroad things. It is always not to good abroad.

My advice to you is this. Expand your business outside the school premises, but still ensure you keep your contacts in the school and other institutions such as banks, other schools around, companies etc. Plan to further your education if you see it impact on your business in the nearest future or change to a course that will impact your business.
Do not abandon your business at any time for anything, be it schooling, abroad or any other thing.

Do not allow the abroad thing freak you. You may end up becoming a prostitute or slaves of others. The abroad thing does not pay for everybody. Some went and becomes successful after several illegal deals and some dead in the process of trying to be successful, while some remain poorer compare to their status while they were in Naija.

A word is enough for a wise

This one na operation python dance oo.

I will call Buratai to come and remove their python. I no be IPOD

stanley000:
So even ibo self done join for skull mining too

What yoruba can do, ibos can do it better

The Igbos are the leader in ritual killings. They usually come to southwest to perpetuate their evil work

nawtyme:
Islamic council has never warned fulani herdsmen to stop encroaching into peoples farm with their cattles and killing those who challenge them.
Islamic council that refused to call arewa youths to order when they issued quit notice to Igbos residing in the north.
Islamic council who refused to call buhari to order when he made several hate speaches.
Please Islamic council to every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
We respect the sanctity of life and so far non was attacked until pythons decided to dance.

I want to believe you forget your brain somewhere when saying this trash.

Why did CAN not speak out when the Fulani Herdsmen attacking the farmers?

This is because the CAN and Islamic Council are not the Federal Government. They have the right to speak out if their members or place of worship is attack by any group whatsoever.

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kollinz1234:
@op, it is not the way you see it, these ppl have been wounded beyond human imagination they are only venting their anger on what they think will give them a voice

Why weren't they attack the government house and the state house of assembly for not supporting the breakawy of biafra? Is it the muslim mosque that prevented the Federal House of Representatives and Senate pass a bill to allow igbos to have their way?

Everybody in this country, especially the masses, have been wounded. So, that is not an excuse

What exactly the IPOB guys digging? What is the relationship between seeking to have your biara state and attacking religion? The igbos are creating issues they will never be able to handle at the end of the day.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkaIOOnjsfs

RETIREDMUMU:
this thing will surely happen when i got married

No it won't happen.

pre marital sex comes with God's cause and wrought. While sex after you both got married comes with God's blessings.

supersystemsng:
Okay...I'm familiar with the boat trips.. You're on point boss. But why not rent an apartment around Langbasa?

I can't leave my house for rented apartment not built to my taste. Moreover, those area are prone to flooding anytime it rains

LaurelP:
U are lying. U can't leave Ikorodu by 6:30am and get to Ajah axis by 8am. It's not possible, unless u use a powerbike.

Yes it is. I am replying you in the bus and almost getting to my place of work at chevron drive not far from Ajah. I enter boat from ikorodu to VI, near Oriental Hotel. From there I enter bus to chevron bus stop.

Now, at 7:45am I am already in the office to complete this reply to your post.

supersystemsng:
Ikorodu to ajah wake 6am get there8.30am is a big lie... From Ojodu berger to Ajah alone is 2hours

That is for people that goes to work by road. I go to work and back home by boat every single working day. Leave the house btw 6:20am and 6:30am in the morning. Get to work at Chevron drive street before 8am. Close from work by 4:30pm. Take a bus to sandfill bus stop, by oriental Hotel. Get to my place of resident before 7pm everyday.

So, someone like me residing in ikorodu and working close to Ajah, living my home between 6:20am and 6:30am everyday and getting to work before 8 am is not safe and lost my job?

I think you have a big problem. You are proberbly living and have your business in Lekki and Ajah axis. Ladies living in area like that sees others living in other areas of Lagos as second class human being.

It is even much easier if you truely own you business yourself.

seXytOhbAd:
So going by the above, every infidel who doesn't follow the command must die by beheading or bombing?

I see how people fail exams.

Where in the op post you read that?

Jonwesley:
That's a Tokunbo bus fa! She can do better than that. Anyway it's a step in a right direction. Kind spirited soul. The lord bless our hustle to do more.

It is possible she sent money for brand new bus but her people decided to corner much of the money and go for nearly dead bus and repainted the body

How many months the car has been used.

Can it go for 1M

This ritualist is one of the problem we are having in Islam in south west. Instead of him to teach the desperate guy Islam and warnings from the Quran against such act, he still want to continue his evil work after Ramadan. Why are you fasting then, when the fasting cannot cleanse you off your evil acts.

To all human beings, to be contented is better than seeking fast lane.

uglyafonja:
Igbo's are hustling to make end living while a set of people are flooding the multinationals oil companies for employment....

Who are the parasites?

Unfortunately, aside the Niger Delta people that dominated the O&G industry, the Igbos are the next dominating the industry. They always plan coup everywhere they are by putting there people there, even when they are not qualify for the job.

Ok

Okay. Waiting for the rest to be confirmed

thesicilian:
No need to arrest her. In an ideal setting, you just wait for her to deliver and then take away her baby and give to the maid's parents.

Will she be the to be responsible for the new child till she reach 8 years of age?

Mcweber:
Hello Nairalanders... Pls I want to know any profitable business one can start with a small capital of 300-350k. I know the said amount is a little change in Nigeria today to start up a business but still, no matter how small it is I know it will definitely start up something.

NB - I am very much interested in farming business but I'm not totalling rulling out the possibility of other businesses

I a land of not more than 1 plot and use only 50k out of the money to start vegetables planting. But do your research about it before you start.

Warning: Never invest all your money at a goal.

magmack:
These parasites from d north would not let us harness our God given resources in d name of ONE NIAJIRIYA.
Do we share share their cattle, onions and groundnut with them?

See mentality.

Find a way to get her mother's phone number. Give her a call and tell her everything. Let her know your stand and her stand on the issue. If you are willing to marry, let the mother know.
In case she asked why you did not approach her in person instead of calling. Let her know your love for her daughter and do not want anything bad to happen to her and you are ready to marry her as your wife.

I wish quick recovery. May Almighty God restore back his health, make him stronger than before and give him the strength and wisdom to lead the country in the right path.
Amin

*LADY PLEASE STOP BEING LAZY*

He was having his evening beverage

That's when she joined him.

"Hi there handsome, you're looking good. So fine I can eat you up" she said sitting down.

"I thought we agreed to keep away from each other? I am a married man" he told her.

" Come on. I won't bite. You can't resist me, no man can" she said.

"I am a married man" he told her.

"Fight all you want but soon I will have you. I am way better than your wife" she told him.

"You are nothing compared to my wife" he told her off.

"Really? All this body. All these curves. All these sweetness. I bet your wife is not as good in bed as I am" she told him unbuttoning the top button of her blouse to reveal her cleavage then lifting up her skirt, just a bit.

"If I was a lustful and unfaithful man, all that would move me. But I am too grown to be enticed by what you're showing off. I am a grown man, you think all that consumes my mind is sex? And for your information, my wife is actually great in bed" he told her.

"How will you know unless you do me. Try me tonight. Let's drive in your black car to a romantic hotel, I promise you a night you will never forget" she told him.

"You know what you are? You are lazy? A lazy woman" he told her then took a sip of his beverage.

"How dare you call me lazy?! I am a high flying educated woman. Any man would give anything to have me" she said.

"Fair enough. But would you give anything to make a man?" He asked.

"What do you mean?" She questioned.

"You look at me and find me attractive yet you disrespect the woman behind who I am, you want me to cheat on my wife, the woman behind my attractiveness" said he.

He drank a sip and continued, "My wife is responsible for the man in me that you want today. When I had little, my wife believed in me. These suits you see me wearing, are my wife's idea, I ask for her advice on what to wear. My success has come to pass because she prays for me and put ups with my demanding work hours. She corrects me and moulds me and that has moulded my character. The Range Rover you see me outside driving that you fancy, I bought that with my wife. She and I invested to buy our house. I look attractive and pleasant because she treats me well and gives me peace. And now you want to have the man that she made out of me and dishonour her? You want to have the man that she has built for years? You are lazy?"

Silence.

"I see you turning down the single men who want you and yet you want me, a man that another woman has made? No, it doesn't work like that. Find your own single man, believe in him, pray for him, support him, nurture him and mould him to be the attractive man you want him to be. You women have a nurturing and helping gift, activate your gift. My wife has been busy building me and I will not leave her for a woman who has nothing to offer but her sexiness. So if you may excuse me, I need to drive home and take my wife on a date. She deserves the best" he said as he stood up and drank a last sip.

He reached in his wallet and placed GHc 300 on the table.

"Have yourself a drink as you think about your life and how you'll stop being lazy and find a single man you can build with. My generous wife and I have paid for the drink" he said.

He walked away as she looked on.

"I need to find my own husband" she thought to herself.

*A recommended therapy for all married men*

Many issues have been happening in so many homes where the husband and wife always quarrel over issues that could be easily resolve but words taken out of context or wrong interpretation of action.

The following is a whatapp message sent to a man by his wife and the reply to the post by the husband...

The woman must be possessing most of the following, if not all, qualities to the man:
1. Obidient wife,
2. Supportive,
3. Protect the man's properties,
4. Not a demanding wife,
5. Respective to him, his family, and friends,
6. Helps in the planning and saving cost for the man,
7. Never do anything without the approval of the husband,
8. Never try to dictate or force things on the man,
9. Always prayer for him,
10. Never try to contradict or go against the man infront of his children,
11. Never try to poison the heart and mind of the children against the husband, the father of the children,
12. Etc

Fkhalifa:
This is what our brothers should be doing, visiting the sick, prison and helping those in need and other good sunnah but no

We don ignore that

Na to dey shout bid'ah upanda they sabi... And keep attacking one another hence, causing division

Those nassara are good at wooing you into their deen

See His reason for conversion, nothing spiritual or of quality worth...

I don yarn my own.

kimond101:
God guides whom he wills to the straight path.

It's quite unfortunate that we Muslims still have loads of work to do in matters of showing more love to people in difficulties and propagating Islam.

May God not afflict us with difficultiies/trials that will make us renounce our faith.

It is unfortunate we still see people that called themselves muslims blaming muslims generally because of what they themselves are guilty of, because of a christian showing off his action.
We muslims don't show off our good actions because we only expect our reward from God Almighty and not for people to be singing our praises.
So many things muslims have doing to others, we don't publicised it because we don't expect reward of praise and the rest of worldly benefits. We do it for God sake alone.

baby124:
Africans are so much in the dark because of people like you that believe in having sex everywhere. Rather than devoting time to building your children and giving them a good quality of life. Not having so many kids that lack the care and attention kids need. They end up with bitter nuisances who their brain development have been stalled from the trauma of such a life. They learn to be desperate to survive, not content. This is what causes the ills and immoral behavior all over Africa today. You scientific jargon is largely false and desperate.

Personally, the guy is talking sense. Marrying more than one wives does not mean more children. You can have two wives and not more than 4 children.

I have seen a man with three wives having only 7 children.

Tbillz:
The Moment you accept Men are polygamous by nature, U have no choice than to move on and accept nature.

I hope women will one day come to terms that Men by the nature of thier creation are polygamous.

The idea of attributing or seeing man going for another woman means cheating needs to be push aside.

Although, I did not buy the idea of man dating another woman without the intention of marrying her. But if he intends to marry her as second, third or fourth wife is not a bad idea as men need more than a woman in thier life.

So, women needs to start accepting the fact that men nature is polygamous.