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Gerrard59:
But those kind of women are said to be proud, haughty by the vast majority of NL males. On one hand, women should be financially independent, on the other hand, these women are proud and cannot be submissive (whatever it means).

Hypocrisy everywhere!

Who said they must be proud?
anyone who assumes that all independent women are proud is naive and perhaps an hypocrite but yet it is not entirely correct to say financially independent women are not proud women.

The truth is that people who are financially independent or rich tends to become proud easily ...whether women or men.

But whatever the case maybe (criticisms or no criticism, hypocrisy or no hypocrisy). The truth remains that it is better to be financially independent than to become a liability especially forcing oneself into a relationship with the intention of being financially liberated ...bad mentality.

Cr7 can hold up a team anywhere in the world.

R. Madrid should have honored his demands.

LoJ:
Krishna is another manifestation of the divine. He is one of "the greats" of the Pantheon.I have no conscious personal experience of and with Krishna.

When it was high time for me to "meet" and find my universal guide, I had expected that it would be Krishna or Jesus of compassion. I was amazed it was neither of them, but the merciful one who had been following me for a long time, up to many lives before, and I had not been aware. Until the day I could consciously access previous live memories, I understood what happened.

You wrote about "universal guide", what do you really mean by that phrase?

Do you think there's an Almighty God ?
Do you think Jesus is just a "universal guide" and not God as the bible tells us?
lastly, what would you say about Christians who by the leading and power of the holy spirit performs all these supernatural abilities that the "realised souls" you refer to performs ?
thanks..

She is already pregnant!
na wa ooo....if na me I no go hold her not to get married. But it is obvious she didn't love her husband .

MarieSucre:
What would be your ideal situation as regards a woman and approach to financial realities?

If I understand your question rightly.
you're saying what do I think is the ideal situation concerning women's approach to financial realities.

concerning financial approach, to me there should be no restrictions to women as much as it is to men and there should be restrictions to women as much as it is to men. if possible allow more opportunities to women when it involves simpler and/or less complex jobs.
But I advice that women of this age shun relying on men for financial gains or liberation( it would solve a lot of relationship mismatch, mistakes). hustle to pride yourself a free woman whose decisions to relationship with men is not particularly made on level of the mans financial background (it will help women be more responsible for their choice of man or relationship).
Now in terms of women living off men, I have got no problem with that as long as the man was not forced to give out his money(even if he was deceived through fake love by the woman just to get money from him, as we see it happen often " i cuss men who propose in public because they were deceived into thinking they were loved". that is why i also cuss girls who claimed to be deceived into sex by marriage promise). sorry for the last part I was only stretching my opinion and thoughts . i cuss men who propose in public because they were deceived into thinking they were loved

MarieSucre:
"opened her leg freely"

I don't understand.

Should she have opened her leg constrictly?

Asked for payment so that now, it would not be freely it would be expensively.

What do y'all even want sef, confused bunch.

you're the confused one...
my point is not about the sex.
my point is that a side chick who was not raped has no right to become violent because she felt used.

actually I am saying no man or woman whether wife or husband or side chicks or side dude has the right to go violent on his/her partner even though such a partner cheated... it's crime.
The one who has chose to stay with his/her partner should be able to leave his/her partner if the relationship is no longer favorable.

so what are you bunch confused about?
you go ahead to act as if it is men alone who cheats, I am sure if you see a woman being battered by her man because she cheated you wouldn't be in support of that " simplep " fool. hypocrytes...

I won't blame them...

most women prefer being liabilities than handling liabilities...
( just like wanting "ready made" than making it "ready made" )

this is no bashing ...an honest truth .

Quality20:
Conceived thru marital union not thru free sexual union with all and sundry

how does it assures you being better than those born outside marital Union?

Simplep:
my brain is disconnected

you're just as foolish...


I know you're a side chick, so you are probably looking for legal grounds to destroy properties after while you've willingly opened your legs freely right?

go ahead , tell me how it ended later.

I have never really done this before...
I always go for non-virgin cause the last time I tried a virgin I couldn't continue when I heard sounds of pain , even when she was urging me to go ahead I just couldn't as I lost interest.

I feel it is a thing of the mind.

upgrading....

those men wey no wan get sense go get by force...the world is changing you got to change too or live under.

foolish woman....having side chick/man is not a crime, vandalism is..

who is the criminal?

Paroh:
They'll sharply catch this one now. If it was women he was raping nobody will send. All they'll say is why did you wear short skirt? Nonsense



Seee my signature.

Seriously some women are just plainly selfish..

all the rape cases and rapist arrested that you've been reading on every news online and offline nko.. you had just one about men being raped, you're complaining of how female rapist are being ignored ..
I am not talking of those females that false accuse without evidence after 20 years oo...that too if it could be proved would be taken seriously because without even the prove they (foolish people) will already destroy the image of (maybe an innocent) man.

for your information male child suffer child molestation daily and very little is done about it because the community doesn't even believe a man could be raped (according to the law)
so what exactly are your grievances ?

ednut1:
Marriage cannot survive the next 200 year. It will soon be fuk me i fuk you like in the west.

better .....victims of marital disaster is getting too much..

left for women to accept "Bleep me you Bleep you package " (and of course some sissy men too )..

if you must marry , you must be ready to compromise with the head of that married, and in this world at this age, the head is who provides financially and who provides the security .

Starlight10:
Northern women living under oppression since time are now rising up to defend themselves under this new wave of feminism sweeping their region, ministry of women affairs and other orientation agencies should put emergency programes in place to educate them that emancipation does not necessary have to require violence, Manslaughter etc. They could just walk away from a relationship or situation they are not comfortable with.

You're a woman with good logic.
many lack this and focus on emotions , and they still think they can win with emotions alone.

GrabHisBalls:
Oga, abeg shut up! You're just making excuses for stupid men. The same person will see a married woman being battered by her husband and will advise her to stay for her kids. Isn't that what our patriarchal society advocates?

Instead of this nonsense, why not tell people to study their partners, know what's likely to make them raged, or not. Do you know the psychological effects of cheating on someone?

save this post for the thread written to call out men who beat their wives...

#grabyourdadsballs

This is funny and fun...
but this is bad photoshoping ..lol

sincerely...no hating, just the truth.

elated177:
I am a hotblooded male.


Yeah! Of course I am under no obligation to prove anything, especially the existence of the existence of the Creator, to anyone. However, allowing some people display their puerile views, such as atheistic views, can be entertaining.

I get you brother.
sorry I referred to you as sister earlier , I already typed "brother" and after I found a place where that lord guy you were addressing referred to you as "Felicia" so I thought you might be a lady . lol.
my bad ...please do go ahead and lecture him as long as you don't let yourself become tempted into anger, doubt or fear.
God bless you

elated177:
Don't you think some of your comments are exhibiting signs of paranoia?

Like I have stated, those who can relate to this particular message have clearly understood it. It is not for everyone. They know exactly what this particular message intends to achieve. Again, that is all that matters. You are the one reading fear and paranoia into and from this message.

My people perish for lack of knowledge, the Scripture says. An heir is almost no different from a slave while he is still a child.

If you can comprehend the two statements directly above, you will see no iota of fear mongering in the op.

When you say "yourselves", do you think everyone who says he or she is a servant of Yahushua the Messiah or quotes Scriptures is actually his servant?

sister, you've said it all; "those that can relate to what you wrote will understand, and that is what matters". don't stress yourself arguing, you are under no obligation to prove anything to anyone after when you've done your job rightly.

Nice!

Just because you can talk doesn't mean you should nag all the time.

woman live with the memory...

They might probably be right.

I am possibly a male version of you, I don't like girls I have find myself dating... it's either they match my physical taste and they have good intellect but amiss in character, or they are of good character, high intellect and not sexually or physically attractive, or they are sexually, physically attractive and they also have good character but of low intellect ( mostly they can't hold a logical and meaningful discussion ).

until I realised that i myself might be the problem, that I should be more understanding to the perspective of others. then I realised that compatibility to a complex mind is making effort to understand the less complex mind.

I am not accusing you of being faulty I am only saying; live life more freely and make effort to understand all situation from a more beautiful aspect and from the standpoint of both yourself and the other person(s) involve.

unsentimental love most times is a sacrifice .

Enjoy your life, forget haters.

whether you had solace on white mans invention or not, just enjoy your life...

human beings on nairaland are not just hypocrites they have added acute hatred to their hypocrisy..
somebody is using a phone to criticize someone using and enjoying a car.

No carry witchcraft o.. better to remain single than to share your resources with a witch .

Kylekent59:
This will make the said maid to have plenty of baby boys in future.

I know how she feels, like Iraq and Iran are fighting war inside her vagina wall.


The woman deserve an accolade, at least it is better that way.


She should also beat the hell outta her.

Nonsense.


Before you quote me, reason from the other side an ask yourself this?

Would it had been better that a tire is placed round her neck and a gallon of petrol beside her ready to be set ablaze.


Next time she won't steal.

i understand you bro, everyone has their own punishment for wrong doing...
but also one should be careful while passing judgement, for you're judged in the same way you judge.

lastly the girl should better desist from the act of stealing otherwise it might not be this simple the next time.

Your area nko?
if you can't find one all these while in real life, what's the possibility of getting one online (not just online but nairaland of all e-places )... lol

you Neva chi chum chin.

Florblu:
Your obvious stupidity and foolishness is apparently the stiff- necked kind. "Love always" doesn't mean "I love you" to same minds.

My regards to your momma, she deserve a child like you.

hehehehe....you will be going for that case certainly.

I console the unfortunate man in advance...

I told you before, keep your love...

Disgrace all of them ...stupid pussy ass niggas.


shout out to my real men out there, keep the world rolling.