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Pukkalolo:
One problem experienced by men: The ladies you're romantically interested in only view you as ATM machine or as just a friend.

Basically the ladies you have interest in say they prefer to be just friends with you. That's what we refer to as friend zone.

As a young man, If almost every attractive lady you woo tell you they are not interested in you or tell you they have a boyfriend or tell you they prefer you as just friend or they simply ignore you, then there's a problem...Yes, seriously, there's a "problem", which we are going to solve today.

Some random guys reading this now might say something like, "the problem is that I'm not as rich and famous as Davido."
Well, brothers, sorry to disappoint you; the problem is not that you're not as rich and famous as Davido.
But wait...let's think of it for a moment: If that was the problem, then almost all unmarried ladies above 18 would still be virgin up till now.

Why?

Because there not so many of the likes of Davido to go around for all the millions of young ladies all around the world. But guess what? There are many ladies who had lost their virginity even before the age of 18 years old; which means they didn't all lose their virginity to Davido and his likes. They lost it to normal looking guys like you. Even Davido didn't meet Chioma as a virgin. Chioma dated and slept with normal looking guys like you before meeting Davido.
So for you guys saying that the problem is that you're not as rich and famous as Davido, just FEM...


Let's continue...


Some guys that are reading this now might also say something like, "the problem is that I'm not spending enough for the ladies I'm wooing."

Again, sorry to disappoint you; that's not the problem.
But hey, wait a minute... what If the problem was that you're not spending enough for the ladies you're wooing? Then that means almost all men will have ladies chasing after them.

Why?

Because guys spend for ladies almost all the flipping time. But unfortunately, despite that, most of these guys still get the following lines being thrown at them by almost all the beautiful ladies they want. "I am not interested"; "I have a boyfriend"; "let's just be friends."

It surprises me that many guys think that if a girl is not interested in them, then simply being nice, agreeable and caring to her will get her to switch from harshly saying "I am not interested in you" TO passionately screaming "f**k me harder"... But sorry to disappoint you, the only time you will hear the later is if you mistakenly forget to turn down the volume of the porn video you're watching.



Back to the main gist.

As a young single guy, does almost all ladies you woo tells you they are not interested in you? Or they tell you they have a boyfriend Or maybe they are interested in you initially but after getting to know you, they suddenly change their mind and prefer to be just friends with you.

There are couple of reasons why this things are happening.

One of the reasons is that--when interacting with a lady you're attracted too, you put getting her to like you over everything else; Over your self-respect, over your time and over your value as a man. You interacts with her as though you're walking on egg shells.
The problem with this kind of behavior is that it validates the female ego.


The female ego says: “I expect every man to put me on a pedestal and treat me like a flawless goddess.”


The female ego is overblown as a result of constant praise, ass licking and undeserved attention from guys. Treating a lady like a flawless goddess and Putting her on a pedestal will make her feel on top of the world, but at the same time, she’ll feel pressured to live up to that standard.


You’ll never inspire a girl to bring out her true sexual and naughty side when you put her on pedestal and treat her like a flawless good girl. She'll assume that if she shows you her true sexual side quickly, you might bring her down from the pedestal.


Now, if you're ready to put an end to every "I have a boyfriend" or "Let's just be friends" line being thrown at you by the ladies you want and you want to become that admirable and sexy guy that ladies naturally crush on, then send me a PM let me send you a "free" copy of "the one" formula.


It's possible that you've dated so many hot and beautiful ladies in your imaginations and fantasies, but with "the o hene" formula you can turn that into reality.

"The one" formula is a concise e-book that contain effective wisdoms that will change your dating game totally.

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hell rufail is working

It time southern Kaduna people look into another direction to protect there people and stop believing terrorists governor like hell rufail will protect them....I don't even know what all this southern Kaduna leader are doing they should have initiated a communities militants to stop this nonsense....

It time southern Kaduna people look into another direction to protect there people and stop believing terrorists governor like hell rufail will protect....I don't even know what all this southern Kaduna leader are doing they should initiate a communities militants to stop this nonsense.... :DIt time southern Kaduna people look into another direction to protect there people and stop believing terrorists governor like hell rufail will protect....I don't even know what all this southern Kaduna leader are doing they should initiate a communities militants to stop this nonsense....

Na make I go look for trailer to follow go home for xmass.....

I will rename this article as red meat is your village people

sawolu is a liar na God go punish you and your family

if I can see the organizer of this award na hot big slap I go give I'm

when all the natural food has been taking away from us through inflating the price by the government....now will are eating chemically preserve food....no wonder sickness such disease and cancer are not far from us. I pity this our indomie generation.

solmus:
Ok sir ... Comment your Email on one of your threads and quote me , I'll contact you

please sir I need to Learn from you, how can I get in torch

rubbish what is Yoruba Muslim, Yoruba is Yoruba, stop spreading and using of divisive terms

Rubbished

ttbaba:
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please I need answer to this

hello domainer please I need urgent answer I summit my domine to SH after the approval they were asking me to point the domain to Squadhelp Name Servers at all times....did I need to do that, if yes what about if I still want to list the domain in another website...

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please is godaddy charge for list on their website?....

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Good evening everyone!

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As a teacher in one private school, this morning one invigilator collected 35000 for geography...... who to blame? is it the student, there parent that put schools on pressure that their children must pass, the school authority, exam bodies or government.....

This country is like baba toy...2 refinery is down and you still want to build new one.....

your are welcome my man......you wanna pick VP ticket, tinubu running mate....

So they can't even manage to save 5 month salary out of 20 month paid to them to start a business...shame on some Nigeria youth..they were planless just like our leader.. I pity the future of these nation called NigeriaSo they can't even manage to save 5 month salary out of 20 month paid to them to start a business...shame on some Nigeria youth..they were planless just like our leader.. I pity the future of these nation called Nigeria

This is reply from the throne of God of Solomon.... perfect..baba I'm envy your wisdom...

I think 20 year imprisonment is too small compare to his offence, just ten(10) year in normal counting.....

I'm new bee here, I have read all through, any advice for....thanks

Drchristian:
I swear with my whole life d dude is not product if Anambra educational system and upbringing

Yoruba Amaka

please how do you post on naira land I can only comment.....thanks

why now as if it just start, the killing in Benue, Kaduna south, jos do give then joy, so they can cry, more cry is still coming.......sai baba

two useless people....

dont be deceive ooo those schools are build buy NGO....I was once there ooo...

happy birthday sir

aregbesola madness

yeye.....lalalalalaala....... ;Dyeye.....lalalalalaala.......

E-voting Atiku don't need to campaign again ooo just employe hackers to do the job, just like Trump