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Aside from adding value and inspiration to human lives, she is also very beautiful. God will give you a husband that you won't have any reason to complain about him; your soul mate and your own husband. I appreciate u deeply for what u did.

Those girls no sabi speak simple English. Exactly, whoever coined this must have visited their brothels severally; very exact.
My point is, Is it not better to have a steady girlfriend than be fucking under pressure, with condom that u won't enjoy, being timed and hurried to Bleep, fear of police coming to raid the place at anytime; the spiritual aspect, cos most of them are fetish with their waist beads, they also sell those used condoms with sperms to buyers who come there often.

paxonel:
All these people una don start again to deceive poor people this year abi

Guy,na wa for u o! Na scam abi?

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Femi Adebayo is a Nigerian lawyer, film actor, director, producer and Special Adviser to the Governor of Kwara State on Arts, Culture and Tourism. He is the son of the veteran actor, Adebayo Salami.

Born: 31 December 1978 (age 41 years)

The last info we got was that he was 44, now 41. Which one we wan believe now?

I believe very much in genuine love between couples. The man should love his wife no matter what, I don't believe in that bullshit in people call 'for better', what I believe in is ''for better for worse'' No matter the circumstance, both couple should stay by each other. If their is no genuine love, then why get married? Nonsense!!

vivalavida:
Job wey dem don share the appointment letters since

Appointment letters wey honourables, senators, presidency don share for their children wey just graduate from abroad.

KayCee92:
That guy has been unemployed for the past 6 years. See as him use all his muscle dey climb. Bros come down already, the job has been taken before the advert..

Bad guy hehehehehe!!!

calabaman:
The funny thing is those that would get this job are not there in this fracas but at home possibly watching this on the news!



....there was once a great country called Nigeria....

Exactly! the owners of the jobs, as in, the 'successful candidates' are at home watching DSTV, others out of the country preparing for xmas and new year, while these mumus are only fulfilling recruitment show off that NDLEA is recruiting.

EKSU na university?better jare. The school must have discovered many of them are redundant staff ( ghost workers) it usually happens in govt parastatals and institutions

agabaI23:
You sound like an uncle or uncles had carnal knowledge of you when you were a minor.

Exactly. I think she was raped, probably.

XOGBADO:
Infinix hot 8 should do. Battery is 5000mah and the camera quality is sharp. 2gb Ram and 32gb Rom

Infinix hot 8 camera is very dull. I think it's on 267ppi even though its 16 mp which cannot give you optimal display. A quality camera starts from 360ppi upwards.

Jalabase:
Don't say that again. Which foolish camera is sharp. The phone camera Nah scam and nah d only thing wey spoil the phone be that.

Infinix hot 8 camera is very dull. I think it's on 267ppi even though its 16 mp which cannot give you optimal display. A quality camera starts from 360ppi upwards.

Children of single mothers!

Aldebaran:
That place is in Aguda...

Crazy people

There is no way you will eat good food and use water to cool it down and be behaving like this...

These Are After Effects Of Drugs

Exactly

Who fucckin cares about Oluwo?

omoashy:
http://kemiashefonlovehaven.com/?p=37488

These kind of news are the ones am always NOT interested in. What concerns me with Oluwo

Kalixx:
No u are not communicating.

Must all solutions be breaking up and quitting? What is it with u that makes u always advice fellow women 9 times out of 10 to quit? Any little issue, u advise them quits. Even when its not infidelity, u still say 'quit'.

Is this a societal standard? What kind of breather do they need if they want one life?

Simply advise them not to get married in the first place because there will always be problems. You too, if your children become obstinate and choose to disobey your home regulations, maybe you should call it quits with them and disguise to offer them to orphanage...so you can take a 'breather' as well.

Hope Im communicating?

She no dey husband house that's the reason. E dey pain am. She want other ladies who are in their husbands house to leave and join her miserable life.

YourTitties:
Not that you will read this. But if you want to leave I'd suggest you leave without the kids. Because to train a kid in school up to university level is not an easy task. I for sure have experienced it. My mother trained my siblings and I alone without the single contribution from my dad or his brothers. Today I'm a graduate n guess who is back in my life and I have to accept him for who he is? My dad. It will pain you more after training your kids alone then their father will come into the show and of course they will regard him unless they wanna answer a bastard. Best thing you should do and it is the easiest way out of this is you filing for a divorce. It's not hard to get one so that he too can take care of his kids as you too. Running away to a place where he won't find you makes you take all the responsibility yourself and believe me no matter your income level, it will shake you. Reconsider. If truly you are in an abusive relationship, file a divorce it's not sin, Bible supports it.

Point of correction, Bible never supports divorce cos of abuse. Read your scriptures well and stop misleading people cos you are a Sunday Sunday celebrity christian

Jewessgratitude:
My dear, do what makes you happy. Man is not a source of happiness.
Thank God you have lovely kids who will keep you company and make you fulfilled In life.

I'm not married but I feel your pain cos I see the way men are behaving these days even in ordinary relationship and if you ask me the last thing on my list of prayer points, it marriage while the topmost thing is money and an established life. Men should always come last because they are most times a big set back in women's life, ive seen it severally.
What we have these days are sissies. We no longer have men.

Just enjoy your new found life dear.
Only you can make yourself happy.

OP, no listen to this kind devilish advice o!

Kalixx:
U better dont mind that awkaetitibabe of a girl. The other one is that pocohontas abi wetin b their name? And that useless onyi22(f)

These expired feminists are w*tches in human form and their frustrations in life stinks from my monitor screen right up to my face. They form advisors online to their fellow women but if you read their writeups well, they can't hide their delight when a woman is going through marital stress and pains. They are so happy to welcome a woman into their kingdom of pains and trauma in the guise of 'many women stay in their homes until their husband commits homicide' bla bla bla.

Yet at the same time, they make so many comments online from Monday to Sunday, usually on front page, that one has to wonder if they have jobs or other forms of engagement. My guess is theyre advertising themselves online to have a false sense of appreciation in order to alleviate their plummeting depression, and at the same time, hope to find hookups from the same gender they bash day and night. I know their ploy.

No mind them jare.

Chai! you wicked o! You mean these ladies you mention can never qualify to live with a man? I sorry for them o!

Newguyhere:
"I was abused as a kid"
Thats where I stopped reading
All these women sef, always claiming mental health problems.
So you think raising the kids as a single mother is psychologically healthy for them abi .
Instead of you to be a submisive wife and settle things with your husband;no, you want 'freedom'
So you can do as you want.
Las las you will ruin those children lives.
Single mothers can never raise phcologically healthy kids.

Exactly. This is lovely

samguru:
I don't want to be judgemental on your ordeal,all I can say is divorce/separation is not the solution.
From your narrations,your husband is proud,pompous and domineering and I strongly believe all these traits must have surfaced during your courtship but you thought you can cope.
My sister,you can not prove any point to a man that has good income, at worst he will get another woman and sting you further.
Please,if the insults/assaults are not life-threatening,please bring in your pastor or those who he respects alot for intervention.
If you quit and things go worst for you nko?
My sister, if not for any other thing consider the plight of your kids.
My advice
Whenever he starts his madness just trivialize everything and turn his negative energy to your positive energy.
Woman is the owner of the family, man is just the head and it is your responsibility to make your marriage work.

wow! I love this. Best so far. No be everything be divorce! divorce! or seperation. Nonsense

Triniti:
She want to hide away from the husband. The man will eventually find where she is except she plans on traveling out of the country. Why put herself in so much stress, when she can end everything legally? Marriage should not be a do or die affair. End the whole thing legally and have your peace

You don't understand how things work in marriage. Ending it legally will put her in misery, regrets and complications for the rest of her life. Seperated first to work on his behaviour, then choose to go back to him if u are convinced he is changed.

chriskosherbal:
I think I go with catwalq contribution, leaving not for Vengeance but for Peace for Vengeance belongs to God, I believe you know this.. However, it beats my imagination how someone will be abusing his (wife) love emotionally and psychologically I really don't get it..even though I haven't heard of the other side of the story. But one thing struck me about what op said, if you choose to marry a christian, then marry a true Christian not some Sunday, Sunday, tick the religious box Christians ....am not saying that there are no morally upright individuals who are not Christians but as a Christian there must exist in you a christ- like character that makes you see your wife as you .

Pastors no dey beat and maltreat their wives, eventually divorce and marry another one? So leave this christian thing out of it

Hedonisco:
Ret@rded comments like this make me consider the usefulness of the proposed social media regulation/hate speech laws. Jeez. It's clear that there are many useless lowlifes on this forum.

You are eager to believe the unfounded claims of an apprehended criminal, just because of the poverty stricken, criminal solidarity you share with the assailants? And assuming but not conceding that these claims are correct, you believe the criminals are justified in their terrible action? The woman "deserves what she got"?

God forbid.

Its your father that is a lowlife, cos I never invited I to my comment and neither are u related to the deceased. So shut up and pass. Dull brain!!!

Bedwyr:
And sometimes, a little bit of self control is in order...

In my medical student days, I had a lot of consultant doctors who could 'lyse you terribly' on the slightest mistake. Yes it was harsh, and yes, it does make you feel upset....but why should you them retaliate with violence? Did their words do anything to you physically?

In life, people are going to abuse you and abuse you. Just keep your temper under control, smile, learn any lessons, and get on with life. Prison in Nigeria is not worth it...especially for things like a murder conviction.

Not when u are called a 'black pig'. The scenario here is pure racial discrimination, in his own country.

davillian:
They mind them
If you've worked directly with these white pigs you will know how wicked they can be

Exactly! They are usually very wicked.

davillian:
The black pig killed her....
Be nice to people who works and live with you.

She denied her worker his salary for four months, even as her husband is a MD of top multinational firm; and in addition, she still called him 'black pig' in his own country.
wow! what else was she expecting, a red carpet? Nonsense!!! if as an expatriate, u are gonna discriminate against someone cos of their skin, then do so in your country, not in the country of the person you despise; also your worker deserves to be paid once service has been rendered. Racial discrimination in my home country is totally unacceptable!!! She deserves what she got.

Sanchez01:
I'm suspecting the apartment to be a 3-bedroom. Either way, a three bedroom of 1m in Bariga can't fly nau. The area is largely unsafe and has one of the highest concentration of thugs and cultists in Lagos.

That amount should be the rent of some areas in Surulere and not Bariga.

Exactly!! Bariga for that matter! An area where people don't have peace of mind cos of thugs and bad gangs. nonsense!

Ibafo power restored

Wow! loving this comment.

''A self made woman is a woman who uses her brains, degree, personality, vocational skills to make money. Not through sex. .''

NoraPibowei:
Go and sleep jor,everybody want to trend

Runsgirl dey vex o