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chocolateme:
Daddy please take it easy oo, your waist as of years back and now are no longer the same biko.

geesilver:
fake house mate with fake accent.

AwkaetitiBabe:
These abroad men think ladies here are fools naw. He should do the needful before pregnancy

Blackivy27:
Please, if you were dumped pick yourself up and start again. Stop this rubbish of ruining someone else.
he wasnt the guy for you. Deal with it.
mr right will come along
before anyone qoutes me, continue reading the thread to get your answers as to why i wrote what i wrote. Im tired to repeat the same thing over again.

Blackivy27:
Please, if you were dumped pick yourself up and start again. Stop this rubbish of ruining someone else.
he wasnt the guy for you. Deal with it.
mr right will come along
before anyone qoutes me, continue reading the thread to get your answers as to why i wrote what i wrote. Im tired to repeat the same thing over again.

Edusouls:
This girl ugly no be small, haba...

Tokziby:
Women are naturally confused being and insatiable... They don't know what they want and don't trust themselves.

It's only a woman that will have a wardrobe filled with cloth and yet cant decide what to wear or tell u I don't have cloth. You ask her what about that one, they 'll tell u I don't want to wear it often so that they don't know me with it.

They will use 1 hr to decide, 30mins to shower, 1 hr to make up and 1 hr to dress up. Only to step outside the door and tell u it doesn't look good on them or they don't have a matching bag or shoes.

Only a woman will tell u they need a kind, caring, God fearing and honest guy but when they meet him, he's too soft for them and they'd settle for the bad guys cos he can handle them.

Guys, a very important advice to u all, you can never ever satisfy any woman on this earth cos even their Creator God they still don't like the way HE created them.

He gave them;
hair, they remove and add weavon, dye rainbow color, curl or straighten it.
Eyes lashes, they add mascara.
Eye brow, they shave it and re-draw theirs with pencil
Beautiful Face, they add foundation plus other building materials,
Lips, they put lipstick, lip gloss, shine shine gloss
Boobies and bums, them go do surgery or wear foam bra or padded skirt,
Height, they use high Hills,
Nails they add artificial plus paint and add Stones.
Nose the put nose rings or even surgery.
Skin colour, it's either they are tanning(whites) or bleaching(blacks).

Dem go come ur house with girly cloth but wear ur T-shirt (oversized for them)and boxer around the house saying I just like wearing it even though dem get theirs. Ask them to go outside with it and get the stare of ur life

What I still don't undrstand till date is, if wind blow and reveal their undies them go nearly die concealing it but the same undies them go wear am boldly for beach or pool call am bikini. Is it not the same yansh and Bobby that they are showing for free

drezzyx:
That is y I used to say,,women don't know what they want...
Confused being...

Cantonese:
Please bros the way things are going in this country, why not kuku do visa for yasef to USA and enjoy yasef there? Why are you making yasef a post office? No vex for my quession o.

jesmond3945:
Op your write up is purely your opinion. It is only an idiot that would go abroad to get a degree just to come and land a job in naija. Your abroad degree gives you international experience, exposes you on how to interact and collaborate with multinationals, exposes you to latest in technology and how to conduct independent study, most importantly how to make logical arguments and present your information. There are other benefits. You cannot compare the efficiency of someone who schooled abroad and someone in Nigeria to a job, they are miles apart. So dont judge the quality of a degree from the point of getting local jobs but what impact it creates in the economy. Afterall it is not their fault that Nigeria rewards mediocrity.

OlawaleBammie:
we try to make money see wetin una dey talk, if we no try make money una no go gree date us,
hmm Lord i tire oo.

virgoquin:
Are you minding them,these days it hurts to see how young guys are being advised wrongly especially on Nairaland.

He narrates the problem he is having with his girlfriend and the replies will be as follows
"my brother go and make money jor and you can have the pleasure of choosing any hoè you like"

Their brain has now been formatted to think that money is the only thing they need to attract and keep a woman neglecting other qualities they are supposed to work on to make the equation balance.
And as for the lady sef how can money be the only driving factor that made you go into marriage with the man,the both of them complements each other sef
Never you trust the loyalty and submission of a broke girl or woman

virgoquin:
Go and make money, hustle my brother once you make money any woman of your choice you can have.. this is the anthem of most young men these days.


una see una life bah,if you like make money and go for the woman of your choice if you are not her choice too she will just use your money as compensation.

Most men these days have extremely low self esteem, their worth is tied to money and when the money dwindles down their wives also disappear too.

virgoquin:
Go and make money, hustle my brother once you make money any woman of your choice you can have.. this is the anthem of most young men these days.


una see una life bah,if you like make money and go for the woman of your choice if you are not her choice too she will just use your money as compensation.

Most men these days have extremely low self esteem, their worth is tied to money and when the money dwindles down their wives also disappear too.

oyatz:
But this your comment is very inappropriate. Where is your sense of humanity?
Putting Tribalism into this most unfortunate matter is very bad sir

oyatz:
But this your comment is very inappropriate. Where is your sense of humanity?
Putting Tribalism into this most unfortunate matter is very bad sir

Sense of humanity to a lady that refused to use her brain by opting for prostitution

Kingosytex:
Any lady that doesn't see her p**sy as a money making asset or oil well has solved over 90% of the problems she has in life.

Votukpa:
Let me get this straight.

You walked out of your marriage because you found out your husband was a manwhore? You decided to deny your child its right to a family to be brought up in because you couldn't manage your husband?

Let me ask you these..

You made the conscious decision to marry him, did you not?
Did u not at least perceive he had manwhore tendencies before you decided to become an item with him?
I'm very sure you did. Show me a woman (or man) who is unhappily married or divorced and i'll show you someone who ignored many blatant warning signs/red flags and ignored all of them.


Please follow my logic (if you will):

It goes without saying that women who walk out of their marriage on account of infidelity or got knocked up by a man whom she isn't married to are prime examples of women who are very poor decision makers and are therefore unfit to be responsible wives; or were desperate for marriage (which makes them poor decision makers yet still).

So, why should any intelligent and rational male submit himself to picking up the pieces of a woman's broken relationship that she stupidly entered into and consciously broke? Why would any man want to be with a woman who brought forth a child in a marriage but couldn't remain in it inspite of the challenges; or a woman who easily spreads her legs open for premarital raw sex without thinking through the consequences and implications?

If a woman decides to walk out of a marriage with a child or had a child out of wedlock (worse) and any man agrees to date or marry her afterwards-she will never respect that man.

Ever.

She will forever resent him for his stupidity. She may pretend to love him (she has to since he will be footing bills and giving her social proof as well as being a step dad), but on the inside, she will loathe him for tolerating to be with her-thinking, "so, this is (me) the best you can do". Every woman (including single moms) wants a man to be better than her her in every sense. Any man agreeing to be with a divorced woman communicates to her that he isn't better than her, but only willing to be a tool.

Why do you think God hates divorce?

divorce destroys marriages and homes and children.

God hates that.

Bottom line.

No single man should cut a covenant of any sort with a single mother who walked out of her own marriage or wasn't intelligent enough to judge whether her sex partner would wife her up-- for his own sanity and safety.

Marrying such women is like going into a business deal with someone whom he knows dealt business with another person, and the deal was resoundingly unsuccessful for very bad reasons. Better safe than sorry.

For all divorced single mothers out there, marry your Bible and dedicate your lives to repentance and building your child. If God sees that you're ready and mature at heart, he knows how to bring a good man to you, who will show you love.

Powersurge:
Small pikin dey grow breast she dey happi. She no know say na wetin go pursue am commot her papa house be that!

I know that people are been pushed by Western philosophy. But if you are a single guy, I will advise you to THINK TWICE before going for a single mother. I am yet to see a single mother without a nasty attitude deep within.

it's a baggage you might not be able to carry on a long run. One thing is sure above all else. The woman will always place her child above you in priority.

I don't have space for all the story that comes with it. But I strongly advise against it. But it doesn't mean that there are no good single mothers out there who became victim of unreasonable men.

Gentlewarrior1:
Gbam

Very insecure. Even when dey pretend to be matured. Most times its just a hoax

You can't even innocently scold their child without them suspecting you might hate/dislike their child

degamemaster:
That's what I said, the single mothers are some kind of people who gives preconditions to a man. They will load all their personal and child's problems on the man and also diverts more attentions and affections to the child instead of the man. Anytime the man complains, he will be tagged a hater of the child.

zebszebs:
They arent, they are just not interested in shouldering another mans responsibility in the name of love.
Only a mad man does that.

amuwo1980:
All the ladies saying nothing wrong with dating and marrying a single mother will never support their brothers talk less of their own sons to marry one, dont belive whatever u hear from women hook,line and sink

Blackivy27:
Ok.y oo.
but widows still raise their kids alone

24kmagic:
The only single mothers I love and respect are those who lost their husbands or got divorced.

But you see all those ones that fvcked one dude and gave birth outside wedlock? I fvcking hate them. They fvcking disgust me. I'm never having anything serious to do with them, except to add to their misery.
Na me go clean another person mess? #spits

The only single mother I will marry if I see is a widow. I will love and treat her child (ren) as mine. I will love and treat her right.
Every other category of single mother is a complete turn off.

temmypotter:
The Chinese police did no wrong. Pastor from Anambra is obviously preaching the wrong gospel in Guangzhou, plus it was only a taser, tasers don't neccesarily kill, as a matter of fact the likelihood of dying from cardiac arrest from a taser is highly dependent on your drug use

It's safe to say, Pastor was a drug Baron, That's all.

Ask yourself why he was running and engaging the police in a Chase if he was clean.

Rip to pastor

stephenduru:
https://www.instagram.com/p/B1Du9aHnZCE/?igshid=ejd5vo72gxwx

A Nigerian man has done the unthinkable in Indonesia. According to report,he jumped down from over a thirty storey building while trying to evade police arrest.His legs were scattered when he landed on the ground. He also sustained head injuries.

See more photos below and watch the video on the link above


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/08/nigerian-man-jumps-down-from-over-30.html