₦airaland Forum

So unfortunate that our leaders are dumb. This minister just proved that he is dumb, do dey have samples of the virus they are to cure? How are they going to get the samples for testing and all that.

tuoyoojo:
Abegi....go siddon for corner... Why all do these evil prophecy

What about some people would get lovely gifts from their vals

Or some would get proposed to

Or some motherless babies would be shown love

Agreed some people would celebrate Valentine the wrong way, but it is not all dark n gloom

If u nor wan see good for the celebration, leave am for people wen see something good

That is because the percentage of good tins happening that day especially in this Nigeria based on the thinking of valentine would be lower compared to bad.

Your relationship issue is quite dicey. Reasons are;
* he was quite happy about the pregnacy, but does he really want a baby? This u should ask him( heads up). I can be happy about somtn but not want that tin( two diff tins).
* he said he's broke, its normal to be broke and not be happy but "inside the brokeness u must get person wen u go still dey reason with" not a good reason to ignore you.
* he has been outside for about 5yrs now, i guess to have a bttr life and to plan for his future which i believe u ought to be part of. That should have been his driving force to make money: siblings, parents and settling down.
I HAVE ONE SIMPLE QUESTION FOR YOU.
O.P: has he in anyway talked about marriage, family and taking u along with him or coming back to settle down with you? ( how well does he include u on his life plan)?
For the pregnancy KEEP IT. We can't jump into conclusion

Your relationship issue is quite dicey. Reasons are;
* he was quite happy about the pregnacy, but does he really want a baby?
* he said he's broke, its normal to be broke and not be happy but "inside the brokeness u must get person wen u go still dey reason with" not a good reason to ignore you.
* he has been outside for about 5yrs now, i guess to have a bttr life and to plan for his future which i believe u ought to be part of. That should have been his driving force to make money: siblings, parents and settling down.
I HAVE ONE SIMPLE QUESTION FOR YOU.
O.P: has he in anyway talked about marriage, family and taking u along with him or coming back to settle down with you? ( how well does he include u on his life plan)?
For the pregnancy KEEP IT.

Funmmyastic:
Build with him and he then dump you for a hotter chic.Girls are getting wiser by the day.

All this tins are individual act per say. and besides, whatever you do in a relationship, do it flawlessly, and ur mindset drop it as well. Who value u go value deep down.

tsephanyah:
That's why I hate living in cities.. too much noise and chaos.... Thanks My family for Been a country and farmers family... Watching the chaos far away is better

Hello

Plante ko plante ni mtcheeeew.
How many million copy the album or single sell for nigeria first of all??. Ppl really believed that davido's song could sell a million or two million copy in U.S.A. not even a gold but platinum mtcheeeew

Is it a job ni with all this criteria??

No insults shall is it that ur whole life depends on nairaland? Everybody get problem wen dem dey maintain. Somethings are bttr not brought out to the public. Ur guy told u he is positive u run come nairaland come announce.

Relationship na come and go if u're lucky it last, if u're unlucky it ends life goes on.

Preup, predown nor sign anything except truly u are after the his money.....who u wan marry nor trust u why?. I believe obe of the basis of marriage na trust first then anything else follows.

Cant ppl ever help without publicising it be it individual or coperate body.

Not every family bro

McCoy662:
I'm not stupid oo. Just that I like the girl, but now, I'm thinking of taking a walk

Really but is always stupid ppl that behaves in this manner.

Mistaicey2288:
Asin ehn, that part really baffles me. I'm just imagining how that shit feels like in my head. Like i have a new babe now, i will now get her Ex's number and then call her ex then introduce myself as the new boyfriend... Arrant nonsense! The guy must be really more stupid as you said.

I'm telling you

It wont happen no mttr wat

WATCHOVER:
My guy there is a reason why I asked.
The modern world we are today there are so many things that can cause relationships to break down or weak.
Most of the time it's what partner A ignores is what Partner B wants.

So before giving a relationship advice you need to ask some critical questions before drawing to conclusion, so that you who is advising will not end up ruining the case more.

Bros some ladies can nvr b satisfied if u like make ur pass mark b 100% she go cheat if she wan cheat. Cheating is of the mind, is not from satisfaction per sey but an individual decision. YES OR NO see this word nor b for fashion. Its jst a decision.

Mistaicey2288:
The bolded part. Yes! You obviously are. If not, what will you still be doing with a lady who dumped ya Ass for another dude despite all you claim you've done for her. And now only comes to you for sex and you gladly oblige her? And the so called new boyfriend even called you to tell you they're now dating, as what exactly? Why did he have to call you to tell you such crap? Isn't it crystal clear the lady just sees you as a sex object to satisfy her libido? What exactly is about her coochie that can't be gotten somewhere else abi dem don tell you say you no fit knack any other gurl except her only? The earlier you realised you ain't shit to that gurl and kick her outta ya life completely, the better it will be for you.. SMH!

So guys still call fellow guys on female issue as per na my girlfriend for year 2020. That shows the new boyfriend is even more stupid than the o.p

McCoy662:
Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf ( my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She don't even visit on a regular except for sex
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much.
My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.

I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.

So if person nor tell u sey u stupid bros, talk truth sey u nor know sey u stupid. Read the rubbish u wrote sitdown think ur life then u will understand. She jst dey compensate u wit sex i pity u.

Not a must bro everyday is val day.

Not a must bro everyday is val day.

sunday0707:
which state is that bro, u might be referring to a director. The gross of a PS is above 400,000. The net hovers around 350 to 360 thousand . Though he might be doing cooperatives and takes home about 200,000 but no PS earns 200k as his net. I might share payslips with you if you doubt it

I said 200k smtn that is about 5yrs ago.

sunday0707:
A PS earns more than that

Bros dem nor tell me i dey see am with my eyes.

Maxymilliano:
How come that whenever the cutting down of salaries of lawmakers are omentioned, they outrightly go berserk?

That is because the salaries are small. Truth be told shall i ones did my I.T In one of the SSG'S office under DFA some time ago,the salaries of this people are not big compared to the nature of the work dey do. I think they should be thinking of slashing their allowances cos that is where the excesses are from. The PS then earns around 200k smtn there about.

Tajbol4splend:
Nothing has changed, it's still how it used to be. Most of us were 15 or even 14 when we first had sex, we didn't think we were too young because we weren't too young to do it but it is when we grow up and see teenagers of the age at which we were doing it who are also doing it at the same age, we think they are too young because we easily forget ourselves and notice others when it comes to this thing

True talk bro. If u check the c.v of all this ppl tryn to form advice in here, u'll discover that majority of dem fall in this ur category.

Randy100:
If you have money just buy nokia 9 purview, you will enjoy paradise on earth with that phone but I know you are wretched and can't afford such phone. Sorry.

U tink u jst made sense now?? Wise up

jeff1607:
Exkiss me please , you have a what together?

can u feed her?

can you handle her emotional needs

can you protect her

can you cater for kids coming in


Do you have a roof over your head?

will you be able to sponsor her education?

Bros all this tins u talk so only time go tell.
Not that i'm supporting them dating at an early age, but there are some married couple that are still married today who met themselves at a very tender age.
The man she's going to marry is an old man which is child abuse and besides might even going to be a second fido u nvr can tell. The girl has the right to her future not this by force marriage. Bros talk truth.

Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

What is this uncle saying less forget the teenage relationship tin btn the girl and the boi here. So, u mean u ar in support of this stuff? Assuming the girl in question is ur family member, na this wan u get to talk?

She was said to have locked up her husband inside the house on 22nd December, 2019 and assaulted him by using a frying spoon to smash his head and face, causing him grievous injury. Then she forcefully collected the sum of N650,000 from him before she spared his life.
This part weak me.....

Brazenbabe:
That is how the woman would pay most of the wedding bills and household bills, tomorrow they would wake up and say
"Get out of my house"
"I used my money to marry you"
"You don't have a say in this house"
"Your place is in the kitchen, etc
I hope you have also imposed half of the house work and child care on your self, the way you have imposed half of the wedding bills on her
This is the reality of a lot of married women in this country. They inherit more than half of the bills in the family, none of the equality, all of the chores, none of the respect etc.
Tomorrow, this one would impose his family on the woman wait on hands and feet, they would never tell the truth about how the bag of rice his family is swallowing was bought by the woman o
If only their ego was directly proportional to their finances. E for good o.

No point in all what you wrote but nagging.
Anty live all this ur mentality and assist ur husband wen u are married or bttr still if u are married.

Dem nvr born the girl wen go deprive my immediate relative by that i mean momsy, and younger ones from coming to visit me and her own go come visit. That is the more reason why as a guy before getting married set boundaries, let ur about to be wife know that u don't joke with ur family cos they are part of u.

AshiraWealthy:
To come and stay as what? Do these relatives not have their own homes? I for one find I difficult staying with couples or another family.
We should respect other peoples privacy. I dont like people invading my privacy even as a single talk more as a married couple.
Come visit and go that very day. If by error, you stayed till late, by next morning you should be off.

Meaning u are not accommodative.