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I still wonder how Nigerians celebrate this scam & mediocre politician. Yahaya Bello is another story that baffles me.
Most Nigerians just deserve the rot called Nigeria!

I hope they took samples for rape kit, cos that is a sure way of matching the criminals to the crime when they get caught.
It is such a sad thing to experience. I pray God gives you & your family the strength to recover from the unfortunate encounter.

magmaxmagma:
3 weeks ago, My two sisters in Uni (One is already planning on getting married) came to visit due to the strike.

Armed men 4 in total broke into our house around 1 am, I woke up after hearing a heavy bang, they are already in the parlour, at gunpoint they asked me to bring all my laptops, money and valuables, the robbers forced me and my sisters (unfortunately in night clothes) to the master room, they tore their dresses, in turns they forcefully raped them, I begged and cried for them to stop but one of them smashed my head with the gun and told me if i move he would shoot me in the head.

I haven't been able to sleep and my sisters are so traumatized, I couldn't do anything to help but watch them cry while these monsters raped them. i am so depressed and unhappy, how can i move on from this sad event?

Igbo presidency is the fair thing to do. BUT I DO NOT BELIEVE IN IGBO PRESIDENCY! They hate my people, and I will not pretend not to hate them in reciprocity too.
I will prefer Buhari to continue his misrule instead of an Igbo president. Tufiakwa!

They are at it again! 2023 loot loading!

Before nko?! Na my papa you wan blame before?

So insteadof staying where you are and fighting for it to get better, you want to bring your layed back, escapist *ss to the SW?
Send your family to Akure & stay back there to change things. If you were there when the problem was created and we don't have evidence that you did anything to change the rot, you don't deserve to relocate!!!

On the same road the IG (protected with bulletproof cars/gear and gun weilding bodyguards) patrolled and said is safe for Nigerians?!
Na wa o!

Buy a bike and a small not so flashy car (because of rainy or very hot days) for another 1.5m. With 1.5-2m, you can buy an averagely good tokunbo bike and safety gear. Police will usually not harrass riders and it gets you around as long as you ride safe and easy.
You also will not get harrassed in a small but durable 1.5m car.

2braithe:
So I'm currently in 300 level with a plan to leave the country immediately after my NYSC.
Since I'm studying a 4 year course in a private uni,I have about 3 years more in this country.

I wish to get a car with a budget of 3.5 to 3.8 million naira.
Due to the 3 years duration coupled with police harassing young car owners.

Is a car really worth buying now or I should jejely wait till I move??

I need inputs please.

This lame *ss TUC? Shame on you TUC! You refuse to fight for Nigerians, only to shout now when one of your leaders got killed in the Kaduna train terrorist attack?
Shame on you!

No I cannot, for now. Nigerian women are so irrational and emotional when it comes to critical decisions.
Unlike women in the West who have proven to be dependable and less of a rash, Nigerian women have been very dependent, scheming and erratic.
Nigerian women will not even vote for fellow women, so why should I? They don't even trust themselves, yet they want me as a man to trust them with my destiny?!
Until Nigerian women change their world view, I will continue to hold this opinion and act on it!

Is it a crime to apologize again?!
Oya ma binu Ode.

Parachoko:
If I knew you didn't had sense, I won't have replied your comment too

Shove your useless apology in your ass

My comment was simple, I didn't force you to reply or forced you to vote either of PDP or APC.

You can now carry your fraustrated life comot my front.

I apologize for quoting you. I honestly thought you were ok or reasonable. Please forgive me.

Parachoko:
See the real joker they call someone else joker

You should help yourself

Nah you quote me dey wail

So

You need the help more

I can’t help you & your kind… joker!

Parachoko:
The joke is on you.

No, the joke is on you and millions of other Nigerians who have refused to see any other alternatives.
Those in PDP and APC are in a minority, but they have been able to manipulate the minds of people like you that they MUST choose between both evils.

Parachoko:
Some of una get problem

If you think the APC or the PDP will be dislodge, then the joke is on you.

Una go see reality staring at you, but go still dey lie to unaself.

You are so boxed in and myopic to the possibilities that exists. How dare you reduce your fate to a binary option. I feel only pity on your destiny!

Parachoko:
What does been a Youth have to do with someone ruling right?

Which Youth do you even think can become the president?

No Youth can become the president of Nigeria in 2023.

The winner of the 2023 presidential election will be between the APC and PDP candidate.

You are one of the few Nigerian men with some spine left.
Kudos to you. It’s your money & you should determine how it is spent.
As usual, she only tested how much of a man you are ( so as to trample on you further) & you did not fail your ancestors.

I am waiting for APC to blame PDP for impregnating their wives & daughters!

Congrats man! May your kids always be a source of pride & joy.
Hope SNAKE meat will be served at the naming party?!

Rubbish talk.
We are supposed to build strong institutions NOT strong men!!!

Good move. However politically driven the move may look.

They are also mostly Fulanis, so go figure!

Mrmacaroni7:
I don't know why the government can't curb these bandits at all

These bandits are young boys brainwashed with cash & weapons

Old clowns leading a wicked nation populated by evil people!

Sadly, the TUC/NLC have become too lame to demand resignations and prosecution for criminal negligence of the security agencies and security of NRC!!!

May Nigeria not happen to us!

What kind of incompetent men is Nigeria breeding these days for Pete’s sake?! Your wife just gave you an open card to go f*ck outside and you are here whining like the b*tch that you are?!!!!
Besides, so you & your wife cannot be creative with music & other non-bed sex styles? You deserve the treatment you are getting from your wife & inlaw. They know how weak you are and as strong women know, weak men need to be treated like you are being treated SIMP! One day they both will sit with legs thrown on the side stool while you go cook dinner for them in your house! Ode!
Na wa o!

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Watch as this new strategy will start trending.
I hope they got her skit on tape sha?!
Useless country!

I totally agree with you.
I also think she should stop dating the guy, since their objectives in the relationship is no longer the same. The man wants marriage & the lady doesn’t.
But sadly, since women are not ‘permitted’ to woo or propose to a man, it may be hard for all things to align when she finally finds her deeam guy. Also, women have a window of 18-30years when they become very attractive to men for marriage. After that window closes less and less men are interested in marrying them. Their biological clock is also thicking away. The odds are not fair on the woman.
The earlier she realises this and make her choice of a marriage partner, the better for her ( if marriage is what she wants sha). IMO, marriage is overrated anyway.

Rosement:
Thanks for the correction but I also said even if they are dating it doesn't matter because it is better to break a courtship now than to later break a marriage. Strangers will easily realise that a person is unattractive but people living with the person will not easily notice this. If she is still seeing the guy's profession as a problem after dating him, it means she doesn't love him. Her head is just making up excuses to reject him because her heart is not with him.

She feels the guy is not the best for her, if she marries that guy and anything happens tomorrow, she will be more sad because she was pressured to marry him. If you use some set of ladies to judge her, you will not understand what I am saying, some ladies just get married to any available guy when they feel they have no choice but some ladies will prefer to wait patiently and get the right person.

This president and his supporters are so full of sh*t!

Your son is clearly showing signs of autism. He may even be an AUTISTIC SAVANT.
I am only disappointed that his parents or the school has not had him diagnosed & given the right attention!!!

This guy & his 4 yearly donations to political parties sha!
Dele! You cannot even win elections on your street!

Were ni bobo yi sha!
Simps like you make me sick! You deserve what she is giving you, because you are not man enough.
Oga you are too weak a man for that woman!

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

Jeez! Did you even read the story at all?!!! Please read the 1st paragraph again. Then read your 1st sentence & come back to apologize to me!

FYI, below is the 1st paragraph of the poster:

“My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.”

Rosement:
Op did not say they are dating, they might just be friends and even if they are dating it doesn't matter. A guy sent the story of a rich man's daughter and a poor man's son to me, just because I had no interest in him and I rejected him. She is only seen him as inferior because she doesn't love him.

A lady can marry a guy that is younger than her and still respect him as long as love is involved. If she marries the barber then she is only marrying him out of pity because she is already viewing him as inferior. The foundation of their relationship is already shaking, respect is important in marriage, he will not get the respect he deserves. She is no longer a teenager so she can make her own decision, at this stage in her life she knows what she wants.

I have seen rich men that are barbers by profession so it is not about his occupation. The lady is just making up flamzy excuses, the truth is she is not in love with the guy. When we are in love we are controlled by our heart, if we are not careful we might even stop thinking straight.