₦airaland Forum

No, the joke is on you and millions of other Nigerians who have refused to see any other alternatives.
Those in PDP and APC are in a minority, but they have been able to manipulate the minds of people like you that they MUST choose between both evils.

Parachoko:
Some of una get problem

If you think the APC or the PDP will be dislodge, then the joke is on you.

Una go see reality staring at you, but go still dey lie to unaself.

You are so boxed in and myopic to the possibilities that exists. How dare you reduce your fate to a binary option. I feel only pity on your destiny!

Parachoko:
What does been a Youth have to do with someone ruling right?

Which Youth do you even think can become the president?

No Youth can become the president of Nigeria in 2023.

The winner of the 2023 presidential election will be between the APC and PDP candidate.

You are one of the few Nigerian men with some spine left.
Kudos to you. It’s your money & you should determine how it is spent.
As usual, she only tested how much of a man you are ( so as to trample on you further) & you did not fail your ancestors.

I am waiting for APC to blame PDP for impregnating their wives & daughters!

Congrats man! May your kids always be a source of pride & joy.
Hope SNAKE meat will be served at the naming party?!

Rubbish talk.
We are supposed to build strong institutions NOT strong men!!!

Good move. However politically driven the move may look.

They are also mostly Fulanis, so go figure!

Mrmacaroni7:
I don't know why the government can't curb these bandits at all

These bandits are young boys brainwashed with cash & weapons

Old clowns leading a wicked nation populated by evil people!

Sadly, the TUC/NLC have become too lame to demand resignations and prosecution for criminal negligence of the security agencies and security of NRC!!!

May Nigeria not happen to us!

What kind of incompetent men is Nigeria breeding these days for Pete’s sake?! Your wife just gave you an open card to go f*ck outside and you are here whining like the b*tch that you are?!!!!
Besides, so you & your wife cannot be creative with music & other non-bed sex styles? You deserve the treatment you are getting from your wife & inlaw. They know how weak you are and as strong women know, weak men need to be treated like you are being treated SIMP! One day they both will sit with legs thrown on the side stool while you go cook dinner for them in your house! Ode!
Na wa o!

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Watch as this new strategy will start trending.
I hope they got her skit on tape sha?!
Useless country!

I totally agree with you.
I also think she should stop dating the guy, since their objectives in the relationship is no longer the same. The man wants marriage & the lady doesn’t.
But sadly, since women are not ‘permitted’ to woo or propose to a man, it may be hard for all things to align when she finally finds her deeam guy. Also, women have a window of 18-30years when they become very attractive to men for marriage. After that window closes less and less men are interested in marrying them. Their biological clock is also thicking away. The odds are not fair on the woman.
The earlier she realises this and make her choice of a marriage partner, the better for her ( if marriage is what she wants sha). IMO, marriage is overrated anyway.

Rosement:
Thanks for the correction but I also said even if they are dating it doesn't matter because it is better to break a courtship now than to later break a marriage. Strangers will easily realise that a person is unattractive but people living with the person will not easily notice this. If she is still seeing the guy's profession as a problem after dating him, it means she doesn't love him. Her head is just making up excuses to reject him because her heart is not with him.

She feels the guy is not the best for her, if she marries that guy and anything happens tomorrow, she will be more sad because she was pressured to marry him. If you use some set of ladies to judge her, you will not understand what I am saying, some ladies just get married to any available guy when they feel they have no choice but some ladies will prefer to wait patiently and get the right person.

This president and his supporters are so full of sh*t!

Your son is clearly showing signs of autism. He may even be an AUTISTIC SAVANT.
I am only disappointed that his parents or the school has not had him diagnosed & given the right attention!!!

This guy & his 4 yearly donations to political parties sha!
Dele! You cannot even win elections on your street!

Were ni bobo yi sha!
Simps like you make me sick! You deserve what she is giving you, because you are not man enough.
Oga you are too weak a man for that woman!

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

Jeez! Did you even read the story at all?!!! Please read the 1st paragraph again. Then read your 1st sentence & come back to apologize to me!

FYI, below is the 1st paragraph of the poster:

“My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.”

Rosement:
Op did not say they are dating, they might just be friends and even if they are dating it doesn't matter. A guy sent the story of a rich man's daughter and a poor man's son to me, just because I had no interest in him and I rejected him. She is only seen him as inferior because she doesn't love him.

A lady can marry a guy that is younger than her and still respect him as long as love is involved. If she marries the barber then she is only marrying him out of pity because she is already viewing him as inferior. The foundation of their relationship is already shaking, respect is important in marriage, he will not get the respect he deserves. She is no longer a teenager so she can make her own decision, at this stage in her life she knows what she wants.

I have seen rich men that are barbers by profession so it is not about his occupation. The lady is just making up flamzy excuses, the truth is she is not in love with the guy. When we are in love we are controlled by our heart, if we are not careful we might even stop thinking straight.

She is dating the guy, so she probably loves him. The reason I suspect she refused the proposal is because of the status of the guy. I imagine she is not comfortable with telling people her fiancé is a barber. This is clearly a wrong reason not to get married to someone.
As long as he has a legitimate job and he has a bright future, she can work with him to become the man of status she desires with time.
She apparently wants a ready made guy she can show off to the public who likely don’t wosh her well anyway!

Rosement:
Are you saying she should accept any guy because she is getting old, whether she loves the guy or not? Is it only unmarried women that are bitter, sad or living in regret? If all married women are enjoying their marriage why has the rate of divorce increased lately?

All human beings face issues, whether married or unmarried but the type of issues people face is determined by the decision they made yesterday. Married women even face more problems than unmarried women. Bitterness has grade o, some married women are suffering in silence that is why some of them die untimely or develop health problems.

It is better to be late than sorry. Why should she sacrifice her happiness to please her family or the society? Marriage is not even a race so why should she compete.

Oga, so you mumu reach allowing your babe have a male bestie?!
Since you have decided to leave fish in the vicinity of a cat, who are we to doubt your mumuness?
You better ask her to severe her lust filled bestie relationship ASAP. Move on if she refuses.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Most unmarried women in their 40s today had one or more men begging to marry them when they were in their 20s.
I hope your sister won’t join this gang of bitter& sad women living in regret.

Awon young Nigerians isonu!
No be this guy say Fulanis own the whole of Nigeria?!

Well IMO, the race for 2023 is a battle for the soul of Nigeria. All that pretty play he did by attending Atiku’s declaration showed he was trying to position himself to be in Atiku’s good books… just in case.
For me, such character is not who we need to captain a sinking ship like Nigeria. The fight ito resuscitate Nigeria is too urgent and real for any Mr or Madam nice & proper.

babaolofin:
Being at ICC to express loyalty to an elder statesman whom he was once his running mate does not mean he cannot indicate his interest. The governors decided to choose yesterday as a meeting day to avoid Atiku's declaration. Nobody knows their gameplay. Not to be caught unaware, it is better he declares his intention.

PDP does not have any master plan for now until after APC convention.

Please speak for yourself. Greedy, sick old man!

You want to do paddy paddy in war?!
Is this guy serious at all?!

After going to pay homage to Atiku on his announcement to run for president?!
Who is Peter deceiving?!!!

WAWU! �

MadamVanessa:



poor bird

I wish I was there, I would've gotten the hawk beak. It's always good for clit tickling, and it can do some unimaginable things like this in your body.

Awon oni Biafra isonu!
Na only Yoruba dem sabi hate. When it comes to Hausa/ Fulani, Igbo presidency is not compulsory.

This is doctored. Not with the barrage of sanctions and uncertainties in Russia!
It totally defies logic!

I hope she sues those MFs for billions!

What kind of rubbishly sponsored article is this on the front page?!
Anyway, na only SE / SS people dey this una mumu national association of display of unclothedness & tailors?