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Who asked women not to be polyandrous
Self discipline kor, selfishness ni! I will love if women can openly display their otherwise deceitful desires for other men. Instead they continue to cheat & hide it perfectly.
So Abraham, Jacob and the other polygamous Biblical figures did not have self discipline abi?
Look at how the monogamous Biblical men were messed up by their wives
Adam- his wife Eve led him to eat the forbidden fruit that he ignored for eons before she was created.
Isaac- his only wife Rebecca created rivalry between his kids Esau & Jacob, to a point where she connived with Jacob to rob Esau of his birth right. What a mother!
Even LUCIFER was monogamous. Look at how he has turned out?! His only known wife is called Lilith. So keep your monogamous story to yourself!

Monogamy is desired by women because of their endless thirst to enslave men and own/ruin them.

bepositive11:
Please keep your polygamous theory to yourself. Being monogamous has a lot to do with self discipline

Both men and women can be polygamous if they lack self control and are unable to form deep emotional bonds. There are lots of benefits to monogamy. And monogamy is about depth over surface level attraction

Some people are incapable of forming deep emotional bonds. Monogamy is not for them. A lot of Nigerian men fall under this category. Actually, a lot of men and women fall under this category

Most Nigerian men are inherently polygamous but enslaved in western monogamy.
50-70% of them will not cheat if they are allowed to be polygamous.
They are genetically capable of being loyal to their polygamous limits.

bepositive11:
Very well said. All these men who cheat one their wives don't truly love and appreciate them

Talk to a pro bono lawyer since you don't have money. He has no right to remove anything from the house prior to your rent expiry.

In Lagos, the quit notice is enforceable ONLY if it is served exactly 6months or more to the date on your last receipt. Otherwise, you are entitled to pay another year rent.

Lastly, you need to learn to manage your landlord. You cannot be living in another person's house and be fighting the person.

yemite100:
I made a post about a month ago on Nairaland about my landlord. He gave me a quit notice when my rent is yet to due, we have not been in good terms, I was rest assured that I still have three months left so no need to panic.

I got home now and saw carpenters removing the roof of my apartment with two abled young men which I haven't seen their face before, the roof of my apartment has been removed now.

I went to the nearby station to lodge a complain but I was told the man had come earlier, and told the police has giving me quit notice that he wants to renovate his house.

It's really a hard time for me and my siblings, getting a quick accomodation. He never informed us of renovating the apartment, I just lost my job last week and this is happening to me again.

My life is in a mess right now as I don't know where to start from, this is just a challenge for me and I will stay stronger and fight this battle till the end, probably God is preparing me for a better place ahead....

You erroneously filled in the gap for me. I have not painted men as saints, I only narrated a one sided view, just like the reply to the post I responded to. I never said men are not as guilty as women. Both genders have wronged each other. All I am sure of is that no gender is more guilty than the other. The propaganda is just narrated better by one of the genders.
I realized when women bash men, most women don't see anything wrong in it, but when men reciprocate the bashing, women see such men as women haters.

ImaIma1:
You make it sound like the Nigerian men are saints, and the women are the condemned gender. Do you know the terrible experiences women have had with Nigerian guys? Do you know how many badly brought up, selfish, mean coconut heads Nigerian women have had to deal with?


It's because it is your gender so it is easier to remove the spec in the other gender's eye when you have a full log in yours.

When we point one finger, the other point right back at us. So use the same energy you use to condemn and castigate Nigerian women for Nigerian men too.

Wicked, clueless, incomptent and undemocratic scam artiste. What a character to give a selfishly useless advice.

This egotistical, cow f*cking narcissist again?!
How does a sane man think he can leave out the opinion of those he ought to serve, when his performance to those people is being evaluated.
All Buhari needs to do is to carry out an unbiased opinion poll by a reputable foreign organization to understand how much of a failure that he is.

Stupid boy! You spent N22m on a Nigerian girl?!
The guy should be jailed for being an idiot. His parents should be flogged for raising an idiot.
Nigerian men are becoming so weak! Gosh!

After taking part in the mindless slaughter of Nigerians?!

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I understand your anger towards women bashers. The man clearly said the woman is a good one outta the lot who doesn’t deserve to be cheated on. He didn’t marry a Jezebel (which most Nigerian women are) who made his life miserable daily.
I tell men to just be grateful if the Universe gave them a woman with low ‘witch vibe’. If you marry out of the many defective lot out there, you will understand where these men bashing women are coming from.
Most Benz users swear that it is the best automobile you can buy, but if you ever got a defective Benz you won’t even wanna touch it ever again with a 500m stick. Most men have very terrible experiences with Nigerian women, which they have been raised NOT to share, so they don’t look like nagging sissies. If men unlearn this bad and unhelpful predisposition & start sharing their stories like women do, you will understand the psychology behind their anger.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Here is a sensible man not the underage kids on nairaland who are still feeding from Mom's pot parading online as wannabe redpillers..
Bunch of weaklings..I hope these wannabe redpillers won't call him a simp since their brain is only glued to women bashing and unproductivity..
Appreciate and respect your partner then watch things go in order..
Blessing to all real men and women out there...as for the wannabe redpillers keep enjoying mom's rice and stew maybe when you folks grow up you will get back to your senses..
Modified: wannabe redpillers are still crying on my mention? these people are too insecured.. instead of the wannabe redpillers to appreciate this man they are blaming him and calling him names..it's really a pity that most boys on here ain't matured..

You are an idiot that bows to pressure easily.
Why not demand for the reason why your babe doesn’t want her to have the phone. If she refuses to tell you , stamp your foot as a man & tell your woman you will buy it for her if she won’t give you her reasons for opposing it.
Also present the phone to her sister in her presence to avoid the hanky-panky I smell in this your greek gift!

What a sad life! For a parent to work hard only to raise a wh*re! Wasted parenting.

Werey! Go to school jor! Are you so dumb that you can’t combine the two for just a few years.
Idiots like you are all over town being liabilities to hardworking graduates out there. Only few succeed by dropping outta school.

What else is expected of an olosho wey jam maga?!

Says a babriga dollar governor to his mentor, the bullion van looter!

Wicked hypocrite! Who will give you a 'weighty sanction for your unconstitutional leadership changes in Nigeria in 1983?!

Rubbish talk! You better relax and continue to enjoy your loot in peace.
Nigeria is too destroyed to employ destroyer as president again.

Maybe this is the case in Igbo land.
In Yorubaland, raising a bastard is an aberration. We say in Yorubaland that 'if there is peace in a home, perhaps the bastard in the house has not matured yet'.

Yeah I agree, Africa is rich, but insanely stupid.

Goldbw122:
Africa is rich

All this dodo and egg monarchs! May God save us from highest bidder monarchs o!

Nobody is intimidating you, it is your reputation and greed that is haunting you.

Most Nigerian women are just a disgrace to womanhood. They ask not to be treated like sex object, but most of them have no value more than being sex objects.
Serious men look beyond Nigeria when they need real women!

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

May God empower the dad to quickly recover from the loss and replace the wicked, selfish & insensitive dead son.

Corrupt scammer like Buhari.

For a Nigerian used corolla? 1.5-2m is the fair overpriced range.

Buhari is healthier than Garba Sheu and all his children.

Well, she is trying to make a point.

Rubbish sponsored hype. How can you work with a tata tata governor who used armed men to scare voters during elections?

Fake statistics from a politicized National Bureau of Statistics. This is so shameless. Unless, they translated the farmers not going to farms in the NE & NW. The 1of 5 working days sit at home in the SE and the continued closure of companies in Lagos and other parts of Nigeria as evidence of economic growth.
Government of propaganda & lies!

So this stupid acting is supposed to be believable?!

Excellent decision. You were not employed to come & show affection in the office… especially if you are a non performer.
You will find some hypocrites resuming work only to waste 15-30min of the 8hrs they were paid to work to do personal things like praying & calling loved ones. Nigerians can be so pathetic !

jaelz:
So a lady was actually fired in my office on Valentine's day after she did a public display of affection for her boyfriend who is also her colleague in the office, they are both younger staff and less than 12 months in the office.

According to her direct line manager her KPI's were low and she hadn't met any one of them since her resuming in the office asides the fact that she had a very lackadaisical behavior towards work and in general.

Twins that people like me desire so much?! This life no balance o!

That guy in green holding the snake with the head is playing with death. A dead snake or animal can still exhibit reflex attack movements via Cadaveric spasm or rigor mortis.