₦airaland Forum

Whiteshield:
This has been the game plan all along. No wonder the woman fought with Deeper Life, fought with Akwa Ibom state government, even fought with her own doctor who issued a report that her child didn't suffer what she claimed her child suffered.

Deeper Life that didn't give you apology. You think it is 100M they will give you. Na Woman Mirror them go pack give you. Fat, ugly thief like you.

Thank you, she thinks media pity-party will translate to cash in court. This is how they condemned Pastor Fagboyinbo of rape on media until the court proved them wrong. 100million my left ass. Proprietors of schools in Nigeria should take note of the boys name not to admit him except they have 100MIL to pay if he's punished.

CalliDora1:
Hmm... Pathetic.

Try to know your partner very well before marriage. That's the essence of courtship but most times, people are blinded and carried away by illicit sex in relationships that they fail to study the kind of woman they are going out with.

I keep saying it. Any woman that easily gives her body to you without any restraints during courting period will do it with another man even after marriage without thinking twice.
Unfortunately that is the kind of women you men prefer because she's an easy lay and catch, forgetting that, that is how other men will easily catch and lay her.

You yourselves are no different because some men have multiple children with women outside marriage. So any man that comes asking for sex during relationship is automatically disqualified for me.

My sister it doesn't add up, courtship is not parameter nor demanding sex at first sight in a relationship. Men believe so much in what they SEE, while women believe in what they HEAR. The first thought in mind in approaching a girl should be how beautiful she is and how to bring her home for feasting. Thereafter I begin to look out for other qualities that can keep the relationship or move on. Denying a guy sex doesn't make me see you as a good woman. what if I pretend and mumuishly get along with you till the day I have it, then call It off thereafter. I rest my case.

tega2luv:
With All Due Respect...We Should Be More Focus On The Cause Of This Problem "WOMEN" Why Would A Woman Open Her Puna To Be Bleep By Another Man When Shes About Entering A Marriage Home Or Already In A Marriage...Women Pls You People Should Stop This Evil Act To Avoid Suspicions And The Paying Of Huge Amount Cost For DNA..Some Women Are Just The Devil We Fast And Pray Heavily About In Churches

Well said, it's their desperation quick money, children and some material things that drives them in to the crazy act. Some in process of looking for financial favor from their exes they fall victim ,some their Pastors whom they respect more than their husbands, some go for bigger dick than that of their husbands to satisfy their sexual urge.A married woman once confided in me that she keeps extra-marital affairs in order to support the husband who is not having and even not ready to work, that she got married to him just because of sexual satisfaction and not having age on her side. Men have suffered in their hands a lot. Women pity us.

CalliDora1:
If my man has extra 350k, he won't throw it around carelessly for some DNA bullcrap because I'm a virtous and faithful partner.

You can keep throwing your 350k away because of wrong choices you made while my man invests his for our lovely children.

He has to be sure that the kids are truly his, married church women do paternity fraud a lot especially if they could not conceive immediately after wedding, out of desperation their Prophet would scam them to come for midnight prayers where the fraud is perpetrated between her and prophet during her ovulation. She returns from the night prayer in the morning looking very weak after a long night Bleep only to deceive the innocent husband that they did a lot of spiritual work on her. This is the more reason I don't encourage my wife to go for tarry night. I cannot come and go and kill myself for what I already know.

Thank God it's not cigarettes, cuz it causes cancer. Cannabis is medicinal, makes you think and make good judgement because it activates the cerebrum which is the seat of judgement. Witches don't attack Cannabis consumers as they usually fear them in the spiritual. At 67,your father is physically,emotionally,mentally and spiritually stronger than you. Make research and thank me later.

Whiteshield:
Deeper Life did not handle this issue well. Also, it seems the boy's parents are more about noise than redress. They fought Deeper Life, fought Akwa Ibom Government and are now fighting the doctor which they themselves chose.

Well said, media judgement is similar to jungle justice. When the woman said that the commissioner pushed her ,at that point I discarded all pity I had for and tagged her a pathological liar. Now even her doctor can't Consolidate her claims.

It might be that the would-be groom have either dated or had a fling with the planner before meeting the bride. Probably wanted to take a revenge. Just my thoughts

For one to lost a million dollars, he or she must be very wealthy. So returning is a no no. I'll see it as Oluwa picking my call

Samson0599:
If they want to be fair,they should rally their support round a sincere Igbo man, personally I like Peter Obi, former Anambra State governor to be Nigeria's president,that is our Messiah right now,that is the kind of man that can cut the excesses of the government , build the economy, save for the country etc A presidency under Peter Obi won't tolerate borrowing and will never tolerate using bogus funds to execute small projects, besides he is sound,young,Hale and hearty, presentable, charismatic etc... Please all the igbos should throw support for this man.This is my own opinion..Nigerian must be great
Nb: Before some pipu start calling me ipob,I am a full fledged Yoruba guy

Well said, but let his party PDP give him nomination first, then the rest will be history.

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JaneYave:
Staying indoors means stagnation. Fear also kills . The big question is 'do you believe this is true? '

Most times God uses an insignificant person to warn us against impending danger. He uses the foolish things to confound the wise.

lastempero:
These dont fear God anymore, when akwa ibom internal revenue is not upto 1billion.

You've said it all., 1billion? how, where and when. Udom's govt and propaganda, Akpabio dey learn work.

Uyi168:
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Many bus/taxi drivers earn far more than the so Called white collar jobbers..

well said, an uncle of mine makes more than 15k a day from plying Uyo to Ariaria in Aba. Built 2 houses in town and a daughter in a private university. A school drop out but living very well. Only lazy men wait for the government. You can always start from somewhere. My side hustling is what sustains my family today.

The Bible says that prophecy is meant to edify and comfort according to the book of Corinthians. Any prophecy that brings fears is a no no. The Bible says when men say there's a casting down, I'll say there's a lifting up. I therefore pronounce that this country shall be great again in2021,cos the glory of the later house shall supersede the former. I shall recover all I loss in 2021,maktalibratacomitayaba. I have no other country except Nigeria and it must work for me as am not ready to run away from it. Isaac sowed in a strange land and reap a hundred fold during famine. Nigeria must work for me and my family IJN. No evil prophecy shall deter my speed in 2021. He said I shall supply all your needs according to his riches in glory, Not according to Nigerian economy.

ITbomb:
Takes tithe and offering from Akwa Ibom to develop his own side.

I refused to attend any of the Yoruba or Igbo led Churches in Akwa Ibom, they just exploit the indigenes

well said. I learnt that all the juicy positions in his theological money-making outfit in Akwaibom are occupied by his igbo brothers except director of Evangelism who is from aks, so as to help speak the language and bring more sheepies for breaking of curses. All the money made in Uyo and used to develop his home town and not a single development in the host community.

Jaqenhghar:
...abd who are you that we should believe you? For all we know you may be the Commissioner's messenger or even the commisoner sef.

What I mean is that this woman cannot be a judge in her own case. Let her allow government to conclude their findings and slam whoever the culprits are. I hate media trials and appeals to pity, argumentum ad miseracundiam.

mikebabs101:
You are a big fool

can see it all over you

As a family man with 5kids I appropriate 70percent for feeding, cos kids daily menu differs from adults. For instance kids would have noodles, pap, sliced bread, Milo, milk, crates of egg, lunch box, biscuit, fresh yo, ribena, sma gold, nan 3 etc, while adults can take dogs and one week old soup at any time of the day. know why, cos I don't send adults my kids first.

ArewaWife:
Never vouch for anyone. Do you sleep and wake up with her that you claim to know her. Even some spouses are shocked by what their wives or husbands do but you claim to know someone I'm sure you're not related to.

I know this particular one, worked with her some years back, a mother, a pastor, an epitome of humility. The commissioner never pushed her.

A woman who attends solemn assembly organized by primary and post-primary institutions, almost kneeling to beg cultist to repent? The Commissioner I know is an epitome of humility both at home and in official capacity. That woman is bringing sentiment into the whole thing.

This woman is a serial and pathological liar for saying the Commissioner pushed her out. Av known the present Commissioner for over 15years now to be a very humble person and NOT bask with the euphoria of being in the state exco. Enobong Mboso can never push her house help, let alone pushing you. Can't take this woman serious again for that singular lie.

My wife wants to do fried rice and chicken for the family, but I prefer egusi soup with kpomo, while my children especially my second daughter wants white soup with goat meat. Only God can help us out with this kinda bill. It's well.

So sorry op,most struggling families in Africa see marriage to their females as Poverty Alleviation Program. I would advise you to take your wife out to a sit-out and talk to her. Let her know that you are in debt of the 30k you borrowed to settle her mother. she will always have sympathy for her siblings though, but try to manage the situation with utmost care in order not to have a broken home. Beg her not to involve her parents as both of you can handle it. Let your wife see reason why two of them should leave after today celebration, use sleeping space as an excuse. Just use your head, be diplomatic.

Mc oluomo is really investing well. Those lambasting him of being a tout should go find a job, In Nigeria of today education is no longer the key,and no longer a base for a successful life... due to dependency on certificate and entitlement mentality that government is supposed to employ you. The employed few are enslaved by some states with a meager monthly salary of 50k which cannot afford a good apartment let alone saving for marriage and other responsibilities as a man. After using your strength for 35years, you are retired to nothing. An uncle of mine who is a driver is currently building his 3rd house in the state capital. I inquired to know how he makes his money and he opened up thus..... 'I carry passengers every working day of the week to Ariaria market in Aba and earn at least 15k daily after all expenses'. Let's do the maths together to know how much he makes in a week, then multiply that by 4weeks in a month. With a good saving culture this man would take home at least 250k in a month, equivalent of a level 16 civil servant. Oluomo may be a tout but with brain.

op, as a woman your responsibility is to SUBMIT and not to LOVE according to the Bible. John 3:16,For God so LOVE the world that He GAVE..., Love means giving not text msgs. If you are a man, guy or boy and can't afford 3 square meals for yourself avoid marriage. when your wife pays rent, children fees and feed you, then you won't need a prophet to inform you that she's the head of the house.

Op,ladies were asked to choose between marrying a keke rider and be happy, and crying inside a G-wagon. so many said they prefer happiness in keke, only one was sincere enough to say that even if she cries inside g-wagon the AC will dry her tears. In your own case this your love no even get keke to carry start life, not to talk of marriage. you cannot use your money to pay your brideprice haba. He should be able to bring something to the table no matter how little.

Of all Professions Nigerian nurses in government hospitals are worst. Once rushed an in-law to a teaching hospital emergency room and the nurses sat there discussing not minding what's going on. I struggled alone to bring the patient down from my shoulder to an empty bed space, still no reaction from them. l decided to walk up to them to assist the patient not to die. They maintained silence for about 2minutes smiling derogatorily at each other before beginning to ask me where I brought him from and why he is weak and bleeding at the same time. The most painful part was that while they sat there to question me the patient rolled up and fell down before their very eyes and they continued their laughing spree without assistance.

Earned N6500 in an evening continuing education as a tutor immediately after my youth service in 2006. Met this girl whom the family never encouraged to further her studies after secondary school. went ahead to purchase JAMB form for her and even wrote the exam for her. she finally had admission and I started paying her 5K monthly from my 6k salary. Had to sleep hungry some nights trying to help an ingrate secure a future. Finally graduated and adviced me to ENDURE my hardship alone, that marriage is supposed to be ENJOYED not endured. Story I'll tell my son.

Av been in your shoes before. Like I was advised by a friend at the time, keep your cool, improve your self financially, live a good life and don't try to replace her immediately else you'll be making another mistake. Finally, invest in yourself and improve so that whenever your path crosses hers, she regrets.

Marriage is the oldest institution on earth,older than both the church and the Bible. To some it's been a blessing, while a nightmare to others. When you see it as part of your responsibility as a man, the better. It's for men not boys. Age is not a function here as we still have boys at the age of 50. Personally I used to be a slow hustler before getting married, but this increased after the marriage as I knew kids were coming. In a bid to satisfy my woman and kids to live a little above the poverty line, God blessed us with properties.

Being Oluomo right hand man doesn't mean that he's incapable of planning to get to the top. Absolutely always learnt that formal education is not a parameter for success in life, else Professors would have been the most successful. Afterall Knowledge is 4 service.The more you Read, the more you become a Servant.

There's no legal definition of "girlfriend ". if any guy beat up my daughter I'll make sure you rot in jail.