₦airaland Forum

maak400:
A man can only know the true worth of a father when he starts having kids and wife that he has to cater for. A father toils hard to ensure he provides for the well-being of his family, but children end up loving the mother more, such is the irony of life. Appreciate your father now while you still can, some of us don't have that chance anymore because Baba is gone.

A situation where the father is polygamous and hates the first family and even wanting them to play second Fidel in family affairs, what kinda father will that be. The answer to this is "loving your mom more than him especially when she provides everything including starving to make sure you succeed in life ". I still respect my my dad but take advices from mom, and remain closer to her than him.

Idiko1:
I guess you are as clueless as Buhari. It is very hopeless in thought that elementary geography of Nigeria did not impress either Buhari or you. Only dumbass fool thinks the so-called southeast is limited to Igbo land. I have no empathy on shocked fools. The disintegration of the shithole called Nigeria could play elementary teacher.

Southeast is limited to Igboland, where else do you want to go and annex. If appointment is given to Delta asaba region, you'll protest that is not igbo. Face your problems alone naa

It's 2 different things. Dating her as a single dude and marrying her. As a single guy you can take unilateral decisions, manage 1k for 2days and stay at your lane to avoid trouble. Whereas in marriage, your spouse may decide to originate problem either by using abusive words on you, comparing you to her ex who's doing better and even calling you a lazy ass, thereby facilitating your death unconsciously. If you don't have a good shock absorber, you may have High Bp and die young. As a man, always hustle hard so as to call the shots, don't depend on her money to avoid tantrums. Also examine her libido level, if it's higher than yours, just run away cuz you'll die trying to satisfy her in bed. This is one of the reasons we have more widows than widowers. Be guided!

Part of the problem we have in this country is fake media info. That's how they circulated fake news that the murderer of Iniobong, the job seeker trades on human part, and that it's even a family business. Thank God I was privileged to see the corpse with the family and can testify that no part was missing. Let's not cause war in this country o, cos I don't have anywhere to run to with my family.

No, not all women. Take this mentality off your mind so that you'll be able to love and also find love in future. Don't carry hatred in your mind, they are necessary evil, we can't do without them, please. Just try to see if you can contain them, some of them are very nice people to be with except when pushed to the wall.

Is this man more igbo than the igbo -policeman and igbo-soldiers killed everyday by UGM we praise everyday, Or is he more important than Ahmed Gulak we murdered 4getting that brothers are scattered all over seeking for conducive atmosphere to do business. Is he more important than the family of that man whose truck of onions was looted, thereby causing the business to be grounded and children withdrawn from good schools. Let's sit down and answer the above questions then will realize what we've brought upon ourselves.

FreeIgbos:
These are some of our best brains being murdered by those that should protect them. How can one accept a country like Nigeria? How please?

We brought this on ourselves, more will die this way but MNK is enjoying in a foreign land. When we killed our brothers in the security agencies and clapped for UGM, what actually was our expectations. By the time security agencies and UGM tussle get to the extent where we can no longer sell our markets for at least 3 months, it will be clearer in our eyes.

SmartPolician:
This IGP shouldn't behave like the previous senseless IGP who concluded that the IPOB carried out an attack without doing a proper investigation. There should be a proper investigation into this senseless murder. RIP to the man.

For those pinning this murder on the IPOB without a proper investigation, just know that the Igbos are not cowards. Every Igbo man who still decides to live in the north despite all pleas to return home, does so at their own risk.

IPOB and UGM assassinated this man. Which security agents are going to investigate when you guys are after them to kill. I foresee an IDP camp in Southeast sooner

Northernblood3:
This is clear political assassination sponsored by DSS, UGM don't shoot at a perceived enemy neatly like this. They destroy and riddicule the car and it's occupants with bullets.

Not that I condemn DSS sha but, both them and their fellow terrorists in government should steer clear innocent citizens when showcasing their madness. Innocent citizens are our major concern

Lies, the story is that he was shot and killed by UGM cuz he's an Hausaman .U guys have bitten more than you can chew. Wait for reprisals. You want which security agents to investigate, the ones you've been killing and burning stations.

dominique:
Na wa o, this kidnapping for ransom and rituals issue is getting too rampant, nobody is safe anymore. Sadly some people's line of business will require them to go on site or travel to different locations for work, how do they prevent getting robbed or kidnapped? Shut down their businesses? What exactly is the police doing about this? Or could this the reason why police stations are being destroyed? You people that are happy with the destruction of police stations and release of dangerous criminals into the society, hope you're happy with the way things are turning out?

dont mind them, they are hailing UGM for destruction of Police stations and killing their fellow brothers in the name of killing security agents. Very soon they will find themselves in IDP camps.

Foolish man without sense. Is it not same people clapping and hailing UGM while they burn down Police stations? UGM kill our fellow Southeast security men with impunity just because of wearing security uniform. This is how Northerners hailed Boko men until they found themselves in IDP camps.

epondudu:
They hate fact.... Reno ómó Ori Ikiri where are you ?

Fact is there's nothing Buhari will do for Southerners for them to like. For them to jubilate and celebrate UGM while burning Police station, killing their fellow Igbo brothers who are Policemen is the height of it. I respect Sunday Igbogho than MNK because he instructed his men on surveillance not to kill that DSS officer who was sent by FG to spy at them simply because the security man is a Yoruba man. UGM are killing their fellow kinsmen, kwantinu.

In Nigeria, there's no fix amount for any course of study. Salaries in Nigeria depends on who your employer is. I know of a private Medical facility that pays Doctors 50k for a start, and when the MD wanted to downsize, the Employee Doctors begged to be allowed to still remain even when their salaries were to be cut down by 20k. No occupation strive by salaries . Do something to earn extra, laundry shop, car wash, drinking joint, fast-food /indomie joint, or better still get retainership in Banks to be fixing their computers. Forget salary abeg.

If you are hiring a rider to be making returns to you, please don't get the Keke cuz the riders are not always sincere and might cos set-back in the long run. But if you'll swallow your pride as a man and get into work by yourself, then it'll be a good deal. Be security conscious, don't ply unfamiliar routes and don't work very late too. All the best.

Bible says 'There's therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus '. Don't condemn yourself for smoking, you cannot stop it by yourself, keep reminding the Holy Spirit that you don't want to continue with the habit ,also make efforts on your own to give it up. God can help you.

It happened in Jamaica,when some members who smokes pushed for LEGALIZATION in the ganja world and it worked for them. But I love ganja cuz it doesn't cause cancer unlike cigarettes.

DukeJoe17:
Society is eating deep into the minds of people,
Marriage will never work if a woman wants to be a man in the union, never ever will it work, those with such mindset should decorate their father's house to their taste and remain there permanently. Shikina

Then as a man, work hard to put things in place of leadership at least for the first 6 to 10 years. Put things on ground, like own a parcel of land, or better still build, or have a plan to be able to pay your rent for the first 5 years of marriage,b4 considering bringing a woman. When you allow her pay your rent, pay children fees and feed you within the first 3-4 years of your marriage, then you wouldn't need a Prophet to tell you that she's the Man. Don't marry her cos her parents are rich, or cos she's working. Look at yourself first, evaluate to see if you can handle her with your limited resources. I know married women who sleeps around for as low as 10k in order to feed the family and pay children fees, while the husbands are into alcohol and always blaming economy for their woes. My father use to tell us that 3 things keep a woman in matrimony, FOoD, Clothes and PRick. An extremely hungry woman wouldn't have the strength to tell you 'I luv you '.So guys, let's make ourselves comfortable first b4 bringing a help mate, OK!

How can you trust a woman, not even as a married man. But the fact is that a man should hustle hard to be able to call the shots. Being a man is not because you wear trousers but being able to pick your bills and detect for her. When you finally make your money, na so you go collect another person babe marry. That's how it is. Sorry!

Ikpongiton:
are you sure that you are not blind? some body is working like a buldozer and you are there vomiting rubbish.you must be insane.

you must be one of the e-rats sponsored to defend Udom on social media for 20k monthly. Better get a life.

yanabasee1:
This is what governance is all about....


Not the federal method of giving out contracts to friends and family and when they can't keep up to the requirements, the people involved will be toothless to take actions.....

What do you know? Henserk is an indigenous firm used by Akwa Ibom State to do roads NOT because it is good but because of their kickback formula with the awarder of the job. Quermerk could no longer play the politics of kickback.

Richochett:
You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.

Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house

Allow her to enter the house.

Are you for real? OR a simp. Just imagine

Being in a relationship with a gal isn't a guarantee that she must marry you especially when you keep delaying things. Stop tempting your gfs with marriage proposal from other guys, cos even the most faithful ladies will fall for it. You cannot use that to conclude that they don't love you, just that you are delaying things. 2ndly, she's not yours until you marry her. My wife of more than 10 years now was someone's gf until I appeared and talked marriage, after 3 months of courtship we got married. I know the guy and he knows me as we live in same city, just that whenever we cross each other in public places, he exhibits an ego of supremacy which is false. Once met him in a supermarket when he was about to pay for 1satchet Milo and 1cowbell milk,immediately he saw me, guy abandoned those stuff at the payment counter and rushed to pick tin peak milk. After greeting him I went and picked a row of cowbell coffee, that's when he came asking me if the satchet beverage was better. I told him point blank that satchet beverages are cheaper and cost effective than the tin, that's when he was fully relaxed and paid for the satchet Milo and cowbell he collected earlier. I even joked with him that at times my wife overuses the tin stuff, while he was there lamenting about how women are insensitive to the present economic down turn. Funny enough this guy still squart in a room apartment where my wife knew him 11 years ago, no advancement. So Op, it's only when you've married her that you can call her your own, stop those trials and temptations on someone's daughter, cos she's human.

Hungry man may not be able to shout Hallelujah. When the Israelites were taken as captives, the Babylonians came demanding them to sing those songs of Zion, to make mockery of it but thank God they were bold enough to to challenge them, that how shall they sing the Lords song in a strange land. Poverty, hunger, unemployment, disorganized family, lack of fees, burglary.,theft, kidnapping, banditry, terrorism etc are all 'strange land '.

Fahdiga:
The guilty one confesses when no one asks. This one legged imp Okorocha should be arrested immediately for this his heartfelt confession even though Imo people doesn't have a legitimate governor as of now. The truth of the matter is that FG is hell bent on destroying the east but they will fail woefully. For the records once again, IPOB is a non violent group that is agitating for the sovereignty of Biafra and very soon Biafra will come. any futile attempt to smear IPOB is dead on arrival and the perpetrators will surely end up in hell fire

You are not sincere to yourself. This same IPOB burnt Ariaria police station at faulks road in broad daylight and killed a serving Policeman there, and you are still saying they are not violent. Am also an Igbo man if it interests you.

kingthreat:
Not just rail. Government should not do a thing there.

Afterall we didn't vote this government and we don't want their presence that's why our ESN went to burn down the Police hqtrs at Owerri. We the Igbos are our own Problem,when the Police completely withdraw their presence from us, then we shall realise that this ESN are nothing but bandits of IPOB. I pray God save my family from calamity that is befalling Southeast.

masterfactor:
Beauty fade over time but the brain does not.

Don't also forget that too much reading can lead to Dementia and Amnesia, all na madness. If you are a man, let physical beauty get you first b4 you see how to balance it up with IQ. No go marry monkey because e sabi book.

Men believe in what they see, while women believe in what they hear. No woman should have a first class and neglect her body, thinking that I'll look at her twice. Most men are physically strong and ugly, so such should go for soft and succulent babe to wife so as to have beautiful kids.

When she started behaving funny, I approached her mother who was aware of our relationship but she turned a blind eye. I insisted on paying her bride price cause I was paying her school fee from year one,the evil mother still resisted. At the point where I knew av lost out completely, decided to pull a fast one. Visited the mother regularly as though I care until she lost -guided and I collected the Android phone I bought for her without her knowing. Secondly, I proceeded to MTN office to block her line and got new SIM for it and began listening to calls and messages from the new bf which I warned and informed him of the grave consequences of frolicking with her. The mother kept begging me to buy her a new phone until my useless step-sister whom I gave the phone to be using,after warning her not to let them see it, she decided to go to their house with the phone, thank God after all the banter there she succeeded in bringing it back. She brought her police officer bf to threaten me to return the phone, while I also employed the services of a soldier who warned them to stay off from me.

My wife's pregnancy water -bag broke getting ready for labour. Na so this small boy doctor begin carry gloves wear, come say make I wait outside so that he'll be free to check my wife. I asked him what he was doing with gloves and where he is inserting his hands. I told the nurse to call another bigger and elderly doctor. Na so the guy take commot the gloves like condoms, come tell the nurse make she go check another patient. I carry me wife go meet another elderly Dr wey be like grandpa. The grandpa Dr just stay for him office call the matron to deliver the baby without bothering to show.

Continuation : After the marriage, I and my wife had a serious accident that almost claimed our lives but not for God. The first quarter of our marriage was characterized by nightmares until we decided to send her packing. The day she moved to dad's place we started having sweet dreams and plans for our future. This my half sister jokingly said that the accident was supposed to take our lives that there was a mistake some where. She began telling people that we won't last as husband and wife that am under a spell. Five years after, she got married and didn't bother to inform us because the fiance was rich. Two years after the marriage, her husband started calling me to come and settle them that he caught her with a man in their matrimonial bed. As am typing the marriage is broken with 2 children shes feigning for alone.

OP, the devil fights against good fortune. The Biblical Sampson fought and killed the lion that confronted him, and it was on his way to marry according to the book of judges. That means every marriage has a lion to be dealt with. What interests me most is that you and your woman can pray. I had similar experiences 10 years ago when preparing to marry. Two weeks to the date, I dreamt where I was about to be joined to a short and dark lady whereas my fiancee was fair and average.At the point of exchanging vows with her I excused the Pastor in the dream, that I should goan explain to my fiancee that am marrying another person in her stead. The dream pastor granted my request and gave me 10 minutes to do that. As I left the place in the dream I saw soldiers moving in to burn down the place, I cried and woke up. I refused to tell anyone cause my step -sister was the one living with me at the time,and on several occasions had playfully told my fiancee why she's considering marrying someone like me who doesn't have money instead of her ex who's rich and still pestering her. B4 this time, someone I never knew told me inside a bus that there's a monitoring spirit in my house that will never allow me to marry except I send her packing physically. Now after the dream, that morning my fiancee came and started fighting me, kinda fighting we used bottle and threw knife at each other over a little misunderstanding we had the previous night before she left. In the process she broke some of the drinks that was meant to be taken to her family, neighbors had to call in the police. At the station, she told me to call off the marriage that she wasn't interested anymore. The Bible says the canal mind doesn't understand things of the spirit, I moved from the station, packed the remaining items into my car and proceeded to their village without informing her. I told her mother everything that happened. thank God today we've been together for a decade and very successful. Op kill that lion.