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TV/MoviesRe: Meet Michael, KAYVEE, JMK & Queen, New Bbnaija Season 6 Housemates (photos) by ubola: 9:08pm On Aug 08, 2021
Idamond:
Queen the new house mate says She do philanthropist for a living.. grin grin

in other words she be advance olosho, see her 26yrs old nyash wey done collect series of huge dickolona..

this my fellow akwa ibomite dey fall my hands
Which 26years she be. Knew her when she did Diploma in Law at UniUyo around 2002. Then she should have been 20/21. Let her keep lying.
FamilyRe: Is It Right Or Wrong? Picture by ubola: 1:11pm On Aug 07, 2021
Yes! Teach them to love their partner when they grow up. The boy will know that it's wrong to have a baby mama outside while the girl will learn to stay, endure and tolerate her husband excesses. Children grown outside wedlock do not understand why they should always hug their spouses especially when there's an issue to address. I do this to my wife often, especially when I know she's angry and ready to explode. My kids will be watching us and smiling sheepishly. At least they are learning something good.
PhonesRe: Kindly Advice On Which Phone To Buy, Target Price Is 70,000 Naira by ubola: 1:03pm On Aug 07, 2021
In this biting economy, go get a 50K phone and use the balance of 20K to help a dying soul in your neighborhood if you are that buoyant, please.
RomanceRe: Strange: Bride Refuses To Kiss Her Husband During Traditional Wedding by ubola: 7:26pm On Aug 06, 2021
What if the guy has mouth odour? People like pretending .Avoiding the kiss publicly isn't enough reason to call off the wedding . They'll work it out in the marriage.
FamilyRe: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by ubola: 5:53pm On Aug 06, 2021
ignis:
The major reason is wickedness. Please let's not justify wickedness and evil. There is no reason for a successful family member not to help a struggling family member.

Someone will come tomorrow and give reasons why the devil is evil.
You won't understand until you get there. I used to think like you but my mentality has changed. There are different levels of richness : 1. He might be a senior civil servant in the state employ of level 14 with monthly salary of 150k. Now every family member sees him as rich because he's built a house in the city, after working for 20years. With that meagre salary, he probably took a bank loan for the project which is deducted from monthly payments. If the bankers take 50k monthly, he's left with 100k for the month. He probably has a family of four including the wife and a maid totalling 6. Assuming the each of them consumes a minimum of N200 per meal, in a day he would have spent N3,600 for feeding them. In a week, that will be about 26K, then about 110K in a month. This particular man am describing above is suffering and one boy in the village will be thinking he's rich because he's a senior civil servant. I didn't include the wife's finances cuz to some extent they turn a "blind eye " to the stress.
EventsRe: Scots Couple Wed, Ditch Clothes And Invite Island Goat As Only Guest by ubola: 6:13am On Aug 05, 2021
Hmmm, wedding apparel of $200, so shocking. Our Nigerian girls dem for pack all their village pple come full there. It's not about the cost but the heart involved.
EducationRe: Cultists Kill Final Year Benue University Student & Anti-Cultism Campaigner by ubola: 4:39am On Aug 03, 2021
From personal experience cultist don't really go after an innocent man. Am suspecting he must have been one b4 handing off to fight cultism. If he had been involved in blood letting b4 quitting, the rivals will come for him even if he's a Pastor.
RomanceRe: My Experience As A Nigeria Truck Driver by ubola: 6:23am On Aug 02, 2021
Juliusmomoh:
Hehehe ,.

I no go argue with you too much cos i know even though we argue from now till tomorrow, 'u no go understand'.

Don't you want to get rich?...
Go and join that your so-called friend na.

If u think say to drive truck na beans.

Old woman don ever go naked swear for you before, cos u delibratelly splash water on her why under the influence of the charm giving to u ?

Make i no talk sef
Julius laf wan kill me this morning. So you are abandoning the work to avoid splashing water on old women in order not to receive curses. You are amusing my brother. That skill you learnt can put food on your table. Look for a heavy duty vehicle and get back to work, don't be idle ok!
CrimeRe: NDLEA Recovers 35 Wraps Of Cocaine, intercepts drugs heading for Europe by ubola: 3:07pm On Aug 01, 2021
ugochukwufrenzy:
ndlea should come to the north and see how drugs are being used anyhow here,,all these stereotyping of Southerners to make it seem as if we are the only ones using it no be am at all
Are they travelling with it? Yes or no. How many Ibrahim and Musa are caught in Malaysia, Singapore and Turkey for drugs. I am Igbo, let's be sincere that as soon as we achieve Biafra, we go be like Columbia and Mexico for drugs. Don't cry more than the bereaved.
CrimeRe: NDLEA Recovers 35 Wraps Of Cocaine, intercepts drugs heading for Europe by ubola: 2:59pm On Aug 01, 2021
What baffles me most is that we are the same pple calling Nigeria 'zoo ', and still carry out most of this animalistic behavior of trafficking in drugs. How will our own republic look like when we finally get it. Charity begins at home.
CrimeRe: Can Somebody Tell Us One Advantage Of Being A Cultist? by ubola: 11:55am On Aug 01, 2021
Those days were special. That's when it was regulated to campus in late 90s, b4 the proliferation in streets. There was this egoistic feeling being a "military student ".You beat the queues anywhere on campus, other civil students fear you, you obtain them at will, have access to armoury uncontrolled, wicked lecturers don't Bleep with you, you are considered to be brave if you survive a'hit,' you don't have a regular habit in a strange environs, you identify your men first in a new place b4 settling, you graduate with a 3rd and not give a damn, finally join politics and become a leader.
CrimeRe: How Bad Nigerians Are Worsening Relations Between Nigeria And UAE by ubola: 7:25am On Aug 01, 2021
madjune:
This is why you can never blame the agitators clamoring for separate states out of this dead country.
The name Nigeria is a huge burden on its citizen once abroad.
The burden is like sleeping and waking with 3 demons tied round your neck all day.
Nigerians themselves contribute to the matter by default- From the airplane out of Murtala Airport, they'd start talking atop their voices, cursing their own country and praising their destinations to the hearing of white men inside that plane.

How do you expect to be treated then onwards?
It's an irony that same pple clamouring for separate country and calling Nigeria zoo are same pple committing these crimes and exhibiting these animalistic tendencies. Most of them are brain dead to know that most of the security personnel they killed in the south south and south east are their brothers. They litter all the prisons in the whole world. They are my brothers, I know them.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Best Advice Someone Has Ever Given You ? by ubola: 4:51pm On Jul 31, 2021
Travelled from Cally to Uyo to visit my Uncle who was a lecturer for little pocket money those uni days. Informed him of my coming and the reason which he answered in the affirmative. After spending 3 days and about to leave for school, this man began to advise me for 2 hours and at the end could not provide transportation fair for me to go back with. I began to beg people and neighbors for t-fair. That's the best advice I ever had, won't forget.
PoliticsRe: Hushpuppi: How FBI Arrested Three Of Abba Kyari’s Co-Accused by ubola: 5:28am On Jul 31, 2021
To me, the only part where Kyari could be culpable is to establish with evidence that he received the payments of $1.1m either directly or indirectly. If not, every other thing he did like arresting and detaining Chibuzo was a normal Police work which we are used to here.
PoliticsRe: Kenyan President, Kenyatta Bows To Greet President Buhari (Photo) by ubola: 7:02pm On Jul 30, 2021
Elders are always respected. Uhuru was properly brought up. Buhari is his father's contemporary.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by ubola: 11:26am On Jul 29, 2021
Pecoleee345:
She is single now.....I can forward you her number... seems you know the best way to handle her and how things should be done.
A very impatient man you are. This is a confirmation. My wife of 12years today was worst. I never raised a finger nor voice. You don't go arguing with emotional beings cuz they'll beat you to it. You are toxic to come to public forum to tell us how she committed abortion and have a weak womb, cos she told you about it. I'll still advice that you get matured be getting the next wife, else it won't get better.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by ubola: 11:18am On Jul 29, 2021
Pecoleee345:
She is single now.....I can forward you her number... seems you know the best way to handle her and how things should be done. This is a confirmation that you are very impatient. Bros my present wife did worst, an Ikwere girl who'll tell you to your face how stinking your mouth is. In our first year of marriage she bursted my car tyres with knife cos of phone call. There are others I can't bring up here, thanks to my mom, who kept reminding me that there's no perfect woman. Today that same woman calls me Lord, encourages me in my weaknesses, buys my wears and that of my 4 kids even when I can do all that without her. Your own 2 years you dong dey burrow money from wify. You are toxic yourself. God knows y belle no gree stand make you no suffer the woman. Learn to be a man, cos you are not yet one. The next one you'll marry will be worst if you don't change.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by ubola: 9:42am On Jul 29, 2021
Pecoleee345:
No.....she had miscarriage twice
It was two year into marriage I got to know she had an abortion while in school.

She has a weak womb according to test results.
Op, did the Doctor tell you that her weak womb is as a result of the abortion she had in school? Or you are just assuming because she told you about her past. Men like you are the reason some women will take some secrets to the grave. She doesn't deserve this banter, if you've divorced her, go your way and get madam perfect. Stop using damaging words on her. Another man will do very well with that lady and appreciate her more. The fact is that you went into marriage not realizing that you are the man. Just two years and you started burrowing from her, meaning you also had alterior motives b4 marrying. Av always adviced men to be financially independent b4 marriage. That same lady who ask for refund after burrowing from her can still pay for your and children fees if you know how to manage her well,as the going says "every mad woman get lover". Be matured and independent b4 you get involved in the next one, else it won't get better. Men goes into marriage not boys, okay!
CrimeRe: How Do I Move On With My Life After Been Wrongly Accused And Jailed For Rape? by ubola: 3:26pm On Jul 25, 2021
3minssex:
Litigator,why can't there be a jail term for false rape accusations? This story almost moved me to tears. I don't buy that defamation bullshît, false rape accusation should be punishable by jail term and financial fines just like rape.

I keep saying it that the day any idiot will falsely accuse me of something as serious as rape, I'll kill her and kill myself. Let's move to the great beyond together since I would likely not get the kind of justice I deserve even if she's proven to be wrong.


The Nigerian police force is also useless. Why keep people in jail for that long without empirical evidence? One of the reasons I was glad when they were being killed like chickens in the SE and SS few months ago by unknown gunmen. I'll never feel an iota of pity for any security official killed in this country because all of them are useless.
How will you kill her when you are already in Awaiting-Trial custody. Pray it shouldn't happen to you, cos you'll do nothing than try to defend and appeal to pity. The public will quickly back the girl's claim.
CelebritiesRe: Uche Maduagwu Blasts Obi Cubana: You Claim To Be Wealthy Yet ... by ubola: 2:59am On Jul 24, 2021
Cubana pays taxes on all his business fronts to the government. It's government responsibility to build roads from tax-payers money and not an individual. Tarring road is a choice of an individual. In all his interviews, I never heard Obi say that he's wealthy. He never sprayed any money, but his invitees did. Choose who you pick a fight with, might be the wrong person.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 20 Profitable Businesses To Start In Nigeria by ubola: 1:57am On Jul 24, 2021
sigiyaya112:
Nigeria is a failed state nothing works in that useless country excerpt fraud, banditry, kidnapping, killing, terrorism, high level of corruption etc  

Dont be deceived if you get money please leave Nigeria there is no future. OP what kind of a business can one do in a country that does not have electricity, No good road network, collapse educational system, fantastically corrupt governmental and political system, a terrorist country with the highest number of kidnapping mankind has ever seen and recorded, a society were scam and fraud in seen as a normal thing with religious brainwashing and fraud been a way of life, a country where hundreds of people will be massacred and the next day the president will be heading to UK for a vacation, a country where the truths are called lies and lies are called truths, a country where even in death you still not rest in peace because you have a higher chances of losing your skull or any other part of your body from the grave... OP should i continue huh huh huh
Bros, Nigeria cannot work for you except you believe in it. Even with all the disadvantages and short-comings you mentioned people like me still strive to make it without involving in vices. No government is perfect in the whole world, even in America people still beg on its streets. I pray for my country Nigeria, that God will give us leaders that will change our narratives. I won't runaway like you guys, but stay to change things for the better.
PoliticsRe: Muric Condemns Akwa Ibom Govt For Fixing Exam On Salah Day by ubola: 4:12pm On Jul 20, 2021
That arrogant female commissioner for Education should be sacked ASAP. Ever since she resumed, she's been issuing threats to Principals and behaving as if she's the Governor's second wife.
Christianity EtcRe: Sacked Pastors: Winners Chapel Is In Order - Reno Omokri by ubola: 7:46am On Jul 19, 2021
sammyuche:
This man Reno is a snake. I do respect some of his articles buy this one I disagree. Make we no dey lie to ourselves. The pastor was sacked because he didn't bring enough money.
Is bringing enough money now equivalent to soul winning?
Why didn't they say ok try and do more evangelism? What crime did he comit? Is it now about money money money?
Damn
I personally don't pay my employees for unproductivity. Where will the GO pay him from. The Pastor has to work for his pay.
FamilyRe: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by ubola: 10:33am On Jul 16, 2021
You pple should allow the father of the kids to go with them. No rich father will abandon his kids in that manner except for infidelity of their mother. Did you do proper investigation b4 getting along with the lady? From your write-up, the man doesn't want his money to enter the lady's hand probably because he was hurt. Better not to involve yourself in that issue cos your wife isn't telling you all that transpired. If I were the man, I would personally targeted you as the reason she misbehaved. Just be careful cos he has money.
Foreign AffairsRe: Chinese Military Shows Off It's Deadly, Robot Attack-And-Destroy Sharks by ubola: 7:31am On Jul 16, 2021
Crunchyg2:
Hello good people of nairaland. I run a POS business which I just got a new location which I want to open a second POS but my challenge is enough fund. I need someone who can invest 100k and get 10k return every month or 50k and get 5k return every month and anytime you are ready to take your initial capital back you can take it. I am in Lagos and I am ready to provide you any thing that you might need as collateral . My number is below on my signature.
Can you drop your hair strand as collateral? Let me know on time.
RomanceRe: Guys How Did You Find Out Your Girlfriend Had More Money Than You? by ubola: 6:33pm On Jul 14, 2021
Finemoore:
The ending to your story is so scaring, may God bless all the real men out there, Amiiiin
I gradually realized that the good guys pay their bills while the bad guys come in their faces. Lesson I learnt the hard way.
RomanceRe: Guys How Did You Find Out Your Girlfriend Had More Money Than You? by ubola: 6:00pm On Jul 14, 2021
Why on earth would she spend her money on you, a boyfriend. She can only spend for her husband and kids or support you during wedding NOT Traditional marriage. In Africa it's the man's pride to pay for the wife's dowry, not vice-versa. Even we the married men, do not rely on our wife's money,cos you may be disappointed. Always try to call the shots as the man. Don't even act as if you are aware of her cash, but be Judicious in spending your money. My father once admonished me that money spent on a lady you are not married to, is like spending money on a prostitute. I understood better after training a girl for five years in the University with my meagre 25k salary and on graduation she opted for another man with a salary of 400k as contract staff in an oil firm, not minding if he was someone else's husband. If you can avoid them and face your future, better. Be guided!
RomanceRe: As A Lady, Would You Accept Marriage Proposal From A Guy Living In This Room? by ubola: 5:38pm On Jul 09, 2021
What about guys who do not have where to sleep and still went ahead to propose and eventually married like my cousin did. He deceived his girlfriend in Zenith Bank that he is based in Abuja and only comes in to deliver cars to clients in Aba where I stay. He deceived her to believe that my one room apartment was rented by him, for me to stay and do my Masters program. They planned the marriage in my room and after the wedding she discovered that the guy had no job, no accommodation anywhere and was even indebted to someone with the sum of 800k who showed up and almost disrupted the wedding. By this time it was too late to walk away cuz she was 3 months on. Later gave birth to a baby boy in her father's house and flew out to Switzerland with the baby without informing the guy. Till date my guy no get room, still dey petch like fly for pple house.
RomanceRe: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ubola: 4:22am On Jul 08, 2021
mofedamijo:
Even the extremely wealthy are divorcing. Know your woman and work with her with what you have. What you think might be financially stable might be totally unstable for some women.

Even if you earn cool and live comfortably, some women will call you a pauper. Whereas, even when you don't have much, some women will stand by you till there is a change.
Not in all cases. But it's good for a man to always be on top of his game to be able to pull the string. When your wife is paying the rent, feeding you and paying children fees, you wouldn't need a Prophet to interpret to you that she's the head of the house. Men be wiser.
Some women will help you up the ladder, some will pull you down with your finances.

Choose wisely.
RomanceRe: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ubola: 3:58am On Jul 08, 2021
vickydankal:
Truth be told we love our me to be up and doing. We can cover up here and there for few years but when the man decide to leave the providence for us, we tend to become tensed. We are coming to help not to carry the burden. We can hide the fact that we are the ones doing most of the financial needs but of course certain level of money can not be hidden.

For struggling men, my advice don't get married yet and if you must forget childbearing for a year or 2. The insult, humiliation, embarrassment may not come from the wife, it may be from in-laws, neighbors and family members.

4 keys to solve half of the marital issues
1. Money
2. More money
3. Increase the more money
4. Make more money with the increased money


Pampers, rent, dstv, repairs, upkeep, clothing, health, food, as the essential before talking of pleasures like outing, a local government worker with steady salary can't handle those not to talk of vacation and luxury.

It's not easy on our men oooo seriously, I didn't know what my daddy past through until 1 year of marriage. No body will blame the ladies but the men for lack in the house no matter whose fault it is. Men are expected to do everything but it's not fair nah. You go kill your man if you leave the whole burden to him oooo.

Live at a cheaper place
Marry a manager
Both hands (husband and wife) should have milt steams of income
Start small with the must basic things in the home (na so me and oga start ooo, almost with nothing but story don change small) though give the opportunity I won't try it again, who suffer help abeg.


May God favor and have mercy on our hard working men.
You just nailed it dear. Continue to be a source of inspiration to young couple. Tell them to be up and doing as young men. Success is not for lazy people.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Abel Damina: Sin Cannot Take A Person To Hell (Video) by ubola: 11:31pm On Jul 02, 2021
This is for mature Christians not for babies in Christ. So many will perish because of unbelief, not because they are sinners. According to the Bible, you are a sinner by NATURE not by actions, that's why Christ said when the devil speaks, he speaks lies cuz that's his native language, cuz he's incapable of telling the truth. Papa Abel is right in this one abegi
RomanceRe: Would You Marry A Lady Or A Man That Drinks Alcohol by ubola: 11:15am On Jun 27, 2021
Why not, if not. I started drinking alcohol from the age of 7,when my uncle use to send me to buy. Am in my 40s now, married to a lady who drinks sparingly and life is sweet.

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