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Idamond:Which 26years she be. Knew her when she did Diploma in Law at UniUyo around 2002. Then she should have been 20/21. Let her keep lying. |
Yes! Teach them to love their partner when they grow up. The boy will know that it's wrong to have a baby mama outside while the girl will learn to stay, endure and tolerate her husband excesses. Children grown outside wedlock do not understand why they should always hug their spouses especially when there's an issue to address. I do this to my wife often, especially when I know she's angry and ready to explode. My kids will be watching us and smiling sheepishly. At least they are learning something good. |
In this biting economy, go get a 50K phone and use the balance of 20K to help a dying soul in your neighborhood if you are that buoyant, please. |
What if the guy has mouth odour? People like pretending .Avoiding the kiss publicly isn't enough reason to call off the wedding . They'll work it out in the marriage. |
ignis:You won't understand until you get there. I used to think like you but my mentality has changed. There are different levels of richness : 1. He might be a senior civil servant in the state employ of level 14 with monthly salary of 150k. Now every family member sees him as rich because he's built a house in the city, after working for 20years. With that meagre salary, he probably took a bank loan for the project which is deducted from monthly payments. If the bankers take 50k monthly, he's left with 100k for the month. He probably has a family of four including the wife and a maid totalling 6. Assuming the each of them consumes a minimum of N200 per meal, in a day he would have spent N3,600 for feeding them. In a week, that will be about 26K, then about 110K in a month. This particular man am describing above is suffering and one boy in the village will be thinking he's rich because he's a senior civil servant. I didn't include the wife's finances cuz to some extent they turn a "blind eye " to the stress. |
Hmmm, wedding apparel of $200, so shocking. Our Nigerian girls dem for pack all their village pple come full there. It's not about the cost but the heart involved. |
From personal experience cultist don't really go after an innocent man. Am suspecting he must have been one b4 handing off to fight cultism. If he had been involved in blood letting b4 quitting, the rivals will come for him even if he's a Pastor. |
Juliusmomoh:Julius laf wan kill me this morning. So you are abandoning the work to avoid splashing water on old women in order not to receive curses. You are amusing my brother. That skill you learnt can put food on your table. Look for a heavy duty vehicle and get back to work, don't be idle ok! |
ugochukwufrenzy:Are they travelling with it? Yes or no. How many Ibrahim and Musa are caught in Malaysia, Singapore and Turkey for drugs. I am Igbo, let's be sincere that as soon as we achieve Biafra, we go be like Columbia and Mexico for drugs. Don't cry more than the bereaved. |
What baffles me most is that we are the same pple calling Nigeria 'zoo ', and still carry out most of this animalistic behavior of trafficking in drugs. How will our own republic look like when we finally get it. Charity begins at home. |
Those days were special. That's when it was regulated to campus in late 90s, b4 the proliferation in streets. There was this egoistic feeling being a "military student ".You beat the queues anywhere on campus, other civil students fear you, you obtain them at will, have access to armoury uncontrolled, wicked lecturers don't Bleep with you, you are considered to be brave if you survive a'hit,' you don't have a regular habit in a strange environs, you identify your men first in a new place b4 settling, you graduate with a 3rd and not give a damn, finally join politics and become a leader. |
madjune:It's an irony that same pple clamouring for separate country and calling Nigeria zoo are same pple committing these crimes and exhibiting these animalistic tendencies. Most of them are brain dead to know that most of the security personnel they killed in the south south and south east are their brothers. They litter all the prisons in the whole world. They are my brothers, I know them. |
Travelled from Cally to Uyo to visit my Uncle who was a lecturer for little pocket money those uni days. Informed him of my coming and the reason which he answered in the affirmative. After spending 3 days and about to leave for school, this man began to advise me for 2 hours and at the end could not provide transportation fair for me to go back with. I began to beg people and neighbors for t-fair. That's the best advice I ever had, won't forget. |
To me, the only part where Kyari could be culpable is to establish with evidence that he received the payments of $1.1m either directly or indirectly. If not, every other thing he did like arresting and detaining Chibuzo was a normal Police work which we are used to here. |
Elders are always respected. Uhuru was properly brought up. Buhari is his father's contemporary. |
Pecoleee345:A very impatient man you are. This is a confirmation. My wife of 12years today was worst. I never raised a finger nor voice. You don't go arguing with emotional beings cuz they'll beat you to it. You are toxic to come to public forum to tell us how she committed abortion and have a weak womb, cos she told you about it. I'll still advice that you get matured be getting the next wife, else it won't get better. |
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Pecoleee345:Op, did the Doctor tell you that her weak womb is as a result of the abortion she had in school? Or you are just assuming because she told you about her past. Men like you are the reason some women will take some secrets to the grave. She doesn't deserve this banter, if you've divorced her, go your way and get madam perfect. Stop using damaging words on her. Another man will do very well with that lady and appreciate her more. The fact is that you went into marriage not realizing that you are the man. Just two years and you started burrowing from her, meaning you also had alterior motives b4 marrying. Av always adviced men to be financially independent b4 marriage. That same lady who ask for refund after burrowing from her can still pay for your and children fees if you know how to manage her well,as the going says "every mad woman get lover". Be matured and independent b4 you get involved in the next one, else it won't get better. Men goes into marriage not boys, okay! |
3minssex:How will you kill her when you are already in Awaiting-Trial custody. Pray it shouldn't happen to you, cos you'll do nothing than try to defend and appeal to pity. The public will quickly back the girl's claim. |
Cubana pays taxes on all his business fronts to the government. It's government responsibility to build roads from tax-payers money and not an individual. Tarring road is a choice of an individual. In all his interviews, I never heard Obi say that he's wealthy. He never sprayed any money, but his invitees did. Choose who you pick a fight with, might be the wrong person. |
sigiyaya112:Bros, Nigeria cannot work for you except you believe in it. Even with all the disadvantages and short-comings you mentioned people like me still strive to make it without involving in vices. No government is perfect in the whole world, even in America people still beg on its streets. I pray for my country Nigeria, that God will give us leaders that will change our narratives. I won't runaway like you guys, but stay to change things for the better. |
That arrogant female commissioner for Education should be sacked ASAP. Ever since she resumed, she's been issuing threats to Principals and behaving as if she's the Governor's second wife. |
sammyuche:I personally don't pay my employees for unproductivity. Where will the GO pay him from. The Pastor has to work for his pay. |
You pple should allow the father of the kids to go with them. No rich father will abandon his kids in that manner except for infidelity of their mother. Did you do proper investigation b4 getting along with the lady? From your write-up, the man doesn't want his money to enter the lady's hand probably because he was hurt. Better not to involve yourself in that issue cos your wife isn't telling you all that transpired. If I were the man, I would personally targeted you as the reason she misbehaved. Just be careful cos he has money. |
Crunchyg2:Can you drop your hair strand as collateral? Let me know on time. |
Finemoore:I gradually realized that the good guys pay their bills while the bad guys come in their faces. Lesson I learnt the hard way. |
Why on earth would she spend her money on you, a boyfriend. She can only spend for her husband and kids or support you during wedding NOT Traditional marriage. In Africa it's the man's pride to pay for the wife's dowry, not vice-versa. Even we the married men, do not rely on our wife's money,cos you may be disappointed. Always try to call the shots as the man. Don't even act as if you are aware of her cash, but be Judicious in spending your money. My father once admonished me that money spent on a lady you are not married to, is like spending money on a prostitute. I understood better after training a girl for five years in the University with my meagre 25k salary and on graduation she opted for another man with a salary of 400k as contract staff in an oil firm, not minding if he was someone else's husband. If you can avoid them and face your future, better. Be guided! |
What about guys who do not have where to sleep and still went ahead to propose and eventually married like my cousin did. He deceived his girlfriend in Zenith Bank that he is based in Abuja and only comes in to deliver cars to clients in Aba where I stay. He deceived her to believe that my one room apartment was rented by him, for me to stay and do my Masters program. They planned the marriage in my room and after the wedding she discovered that the guy had no job, no accommodation anywhere and was even indebted to someone with the sum of 800k who showed up and almost disrupted the wedding. By this time it was too late to walk away cuz she was 3 months on. Later gave birth to a baby boy in her father's house and flew out to Switzerland with the baby without informing the guy. Till date my guy no get room, still dey petch like fly for pple house. |
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vickydankal:You just nailed it dear. Continue to be a source of inspiration to young couple. Tell them to be up and doing as young men. Success is not for lazy people. |
This is for mature Christians not for babies in Christ. So many will perish because of unbelief, not because they are sinners. According to the Bible, you are a sinner by NATURE not by actions, that's why Christ said when the devil speaks, he speaks lies cuz that's his native language, cuz he's incapable of telling the truth. Papa Abel is right in this one abegi |
Why not, if not. I started drinking alcohol from the age of 7,when my uncle use to send me to buy. Am in my 40s now, married to a lady who drinks sparingly and life is sweet. |