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lmao

I dont think he is over rated,

well since we'v broken the jinx of goalless-ness besides yesterday has thougt me to believe in miracles so i'l say we stand a good chance of defeating Ghana

Congrats Nigeria,

Lets pray for them against Ghana tho, at this rate anything is possible, the Eagles seem to perform when nobdy least expect and the goalless jinx has been broken, so lets cross our fingers and hope for the best. Osazie will be missed in that matc

Life boy:
dear fellow nairaland I really need your advice to this problem please.
A firend of mine a young boy said he is always afriad when he sees a mad man, at times his mind will be telling him you will go mad, crazy, he said this thought that do come to his mind some time is uncontrolable to him, some times when the thought comes to him he will be tired of every thing around him. At times his mind will be telling him kill your self which he as being trying to resist by God's grace, he said this thing has beeing disturbing him he doesn't know what to do, he is just tired and feel like to die, and some times his mind will be telling him oh boy you will die just kill yourself, and things like that, how can he be helped out of this problem please.

He further asked me whether this is depression or a spiritual attack that i should please help him out,
please dear friend we need your advice and prayers

Clearly spiritual, when the voice comes to him he should rebuke it as d voice of the devil, it will be nice for him to seek counselling in the church as well

God bless us all

i beg to differ but then that is not a topic for this thread

almondjoy:
Hope she did not sleep with him to get the job. Thank God, this did not happen in Nigeria because chances are-------------------

Is this to insinuate in anyway that career women have to sleep their way up the ladder? i hope not cuz i be feminist o!

stale gist,

i concur with the two advice preceedin mine

oops i actually read d thread from begining 2d end, smiled and cried at some point.

Beautiful love story dere, Makes marriae seem worth while and someting to look 4wrd

Bagoma, Angelaz, Dablessed may God be ur husband and father 2 ur kids,

flakylady:
hi all,

have been away on a romantic long weekend and just got back. Was lovely! anyway, nice to know that you guys are still interested. I guess in some ways we have had things very easy and we are very grateful for that. by the time we got engaged we had been together for almost 8 years so we had a lot of time to be sure of each other and our feelings.
The wedding:
the wedding was amazing! the best day of my life. We spent about 14 months planning it and because each of us were the first in our families to get married (first grandchild, cousin etc) it was a really big deal. We're both from catholic families (although we go to a baptist church now) so we got married in the catholic cathedral in the town we grew up in. We had about 300 guests (very big for england!), and a lot of family and friends came over from nigeria, america etc that I hadn't seen in years. He has a large family as well, it was like a huge family reunion! we both felt so loved by our families. There was no opposition at all, he gets on so well with my family, i don't know if its just having lived here for so long but my parents had no problem with me marrying an english guy. I don't think they've ever had a problem with race, tribe etc as long as I'm happy. My mum has looked on him as her own son for a long time now and he loves her to bits.
His family is great as well, they're quite a traditional, 'posh' english family but they've never made me feel anything but welcome and his mum is really lovely.
Anyway back to the wedding. we had an introduction the day before which was traditional with some westernized elements, we had it in a marquee in my parents garden. The wedding in the cathedral was beautiful, we had a nigerian choir, I had bridesmaids in strapless summer dresses and 'flower ladies' in traditional lace. It was a really joyous occasion. The reception was in a stately home in the countryside, we had a marquee in the grounds by a lake, with fairy lights in the trees. there were canapes and drinks in a little ornamental garden, then the guests went through to the marquee for a nigerian buffet, followed by very touching speeches, our first dance and then we had a nigerian band for a few hours (which everyone loved) and then a disco. We didn't stop dancing till about 1 in the morning. It was so lovely. We spent our first night in the stately home and left for our honeymoon 2 days later.
The best thing was we had a mix of both of our cultures, the nigerians loved it and so did the english people. So many people said it was the best wedding they'd ever been to.
Oh yeah, and by the grace of God, we managed to wait until our wedding night to sleep together!

here are some pics of the day:

this was just after the ceremony, in the church garden
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those are my parents either side of us
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my beautiful 'flower ladies', 3 cousins and my older sister in the reception marquee
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my beautiful husband and I at the reception venue, it was a really lovely sunny day
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will post more later!

How romantic, i especially luv the part of u guys managing to wait for 10 yrs and no sex, tats really inspiring. God bless u and ur marriage

geegee:
im not a christian nor a muslim but lately i don't know what is happening to me,after i read someone post encounter with Jesus changed my life. i was touched and i was wondering if it is real? i kept thinking about it for days. i am curios and want to know more of him. can all these hurt, abuse and pain i feel go away just like that? can he truly help me forgive those who hurt me and give me a new beginning? can he truly heal me of my blood disease? can he take away the feeling of anger,bitterness and revenge away?and give me a purpose and a focus? i mean i sense of direction? can he be trusted? because the once i trusted the most are the once that hurt me.

My dear just close your eyes and say God almighty i know u are dere and u are real, reveal urself 2 me cuz i want 2 knw u and my dear he will so reveal himself 2u and embrace u, welcome 2 d peace of knowing God

@Malaika how sweet and nice

LOl. such viciousness

Am not optimistic but WTH? am wishing d eagles gd luck.,, they need it

her stomach is not big now, haba

i don't give two hoots if he tells me, i'l probably never ask my boyfriend, as long as he is able to take care of himself and is not always broke, or a leach on me, but if we are going to get married, that is get engaged we need to plan our finances, mine and his know who picks up what tab and all dose stuff. marriage is not`one casual thing we'l enter and say we'l take each day at a time

well, i think the issue shouldnt be forced, i mean i doubt is because of career, i doubt they'v met the riht person, when they do, or when they are freally ready to settle down, luv will come irrespective of career

congrats people

@D-reloaded word, wats with the sex thing anyway?


@ Poster u know why were u askin her if she still wants u? were u lookin 4 an ego feed or was dere a particular reason 4 askin, well am of d skl of thot dat d girl in question should have said yes i still want u instead of sayin no and cryin, i mean how old is she, a girl needs to row up at some point, so if d guy is d one saying no its clear and if u are saying no wen u mean yes cuz of ur dignity u may as well leave instead of staying dere and crying like a baby,


Anyways in response 2 ur question if u want her go ahead and tell her dat u just wanted 2 knw what she wanted and how she feels bout u but u still do want her.

i can only speak for myself, i luv meat so therefore i luv suya

she's got good skin, very attractive woman, so yes i agree, she is hot

my dear not even only Oil and Gas jobs, almost all except bank jobs ask for 2.1 and above, even some banks have started asking for 2.1, do ur best ok

i like Jim Iyke and Genny, so much beef for them in here,

well as per fakest i hate when any of them have to form a foreign accent, its usually so annoying cuz they dont take lessons or anything,

Ini Edo is good but her weight mehn, Naija artiste should work hard to keep their body in shape, they need to take their cue from Bollywood or Hollywood

We are so out even if ivory coast thrashes mali. I wonder why Nigerians think we will win Benin. so far we have not scored any goal in the tournament and i doubt that is about to change, super zeroes

yakubu played short one

we are so out, we cant expect Ivory coast to help us qualify

she is really pretty