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AntiBrutus:
85% indeed.
With the kind of lifestyle lots of young men live, lots of you are worse strikers than Morata in the bedroom. Is abortion complications (blocked tubes/damaged womb...) the only cause of infertility?

PCOS is one leading problem infertile women face.
Then we have lots of men with ED, oligospermia/azoospermia.

We also have cases of secondary infertility. Read they won't.

Thanks madam lecturer. We will start reading from now on

bjayx:
Sure...he better stick wit d girl. I'm sure DAT girl is a teen who can't handle her emotions well, wit time...she'll be better n dey can still separate.

Truest words have never being said bro. Thanks for this

Hurlarzan139:
Thanks very much. I really appreciate

You're welcome bro. Please take it easy with the girl for now. Cheers

Shugavee:
Yes i can do 50/50

Yes, she has arrived

bjayx:
Truth is a 20 yr old male doesn't know the implications of deflowering a woman cos of his youthful nature but could be gullible to spiritual clerics depending on his environment. Maybe the clerics told him all that for free depending on his access to it.

Maybe bro. It's a tough one. That girl could really do it you know. Most especially with the op being her first.

To the op if you are reading this: take it slowly with the girl. Don't break up with her yet, monitor and watch the situation. The lady is in a delicate place right now. Cheers

bjayx:
At his age Do U know his age?

As long as he's above 16 he should know the implications of deflowering a lady as well as knowing that over 90% of these so called Nigerian pastors and imams are fake and only in it for the money.

The op is definitely above 16, so I was right using that statement.

Martin0:
oya wey dem girls make una come see sugarcane ooo


choose by signifying!

@Smash (with reasons)



@Pass (with reasons)

This shit you just posted is GAY as fvck.

Dude you look like a closeted gay dude

ubunja:
so you also operate in day time. was suspecting you're a vamp or worse with your midnight posts

She just got a cheaper data plan. Broke ass leech

marvin906:
is kinda an african thing
buh if we where to be honest 85% of such scenarios the woman is really at fault
after doing so many abortions what do u expect

At the bold face, very true. Inasmuch as it's an African thing where the woman is always blamed for this (sadly) but truth be told that for those ladies that have engaged in numerous abortions in the past no matter through which process, abortion does affect future pregnancies but there is an asterisk to this statement. The asterisk being that the potential for complications to pregnancies increases with each successive abortion.

The risk of complications ranges from simple infertility to miscarriage, to potentially fatal ectopic pregnancies. The risk for these complications is higher following surgical abortion than medical abortion.

It is important to note that these complications can follow even after just one abortion.

Felixgold:
[s]I really want to thank you guys for the good work you’re doing. God bless you people and thanks for always updating us with happenings at home because it feels as if I didn’t even leave home every time I read news and stories from your site. I have a big problem and I need your help.

I live in Spain, migrated there from Nigeria when I was 21 through an aunt of mine, who was into the business of bringing young girls abroad. I have been married to white man for 3 years and we have a son together. Since I married him, he has been so good to me and even my family down in Nigeria. The problem is this, my husband told me a year before we got married that he was raised by his dad after his mum died from cervical cancer when he was only 4 years old.

The dad didn’t re-marry and raised him all by himself. So, he loves his dad too much as his dad sacrificed a lot to see that, he is what he is today. He says he doesn’t deny any request his dad makes and would grant it if its in his power. Then he said his dad who hasn’t been in any relationship with any woman since his wife died likes me and wants to have s*x with me. I was shocked but somehow, managed to hide my disgust because I don’t want any crazy white man pointing the gun to my face. The dad who lives in Madrid, a city away from ours, came visiting and his son says I must sleep with his dad if I truly love him.

I did it but wasn’t happy about it. I continued to do every time my father in-law comes to our house or we go to visit him in his city. Last weekend, his dad called that he would be coming to spend Easter with us, I knew it was another weekend of sleeping with two men but I got the shock of my life when my husbad told me is dad requested that they would both sleep with me at the same time since they are both in love with me. He seemed to love the idea and said it to me with a big smile on his face. I almost punched the smile off his face.

He arrived on Friday and luckily for me, he wasn’t too well and his son had to take him to the hospital. He would be here for a week and would definitely want his disgusting request granted as soon as his well enough. Please advice me because I want to run away but the risk is too much.
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Lies from the pits of hell

marvin906:
i dont despise her neither do i like her
am just sick of this feminism topic as a whole
i dont know why they dont want to give it a rest
soon the round table of stupid banshees will soon come to defend themselves

marvin906:
ohhhhhh my lord
not again

I despise this op so much.Very jobless thing

Hurlarzan139:
Good morning to everyone on this forum.. please I need your help urgently. Moreover don’t mind my English, am not good in writing..

All what am going to write here now is a true life story, happening presently in my life..

It’s about my girlfriend. We have been dating since last year February, but some things happened around the middle of the year last year. The matter is very strong that eventually leads to our break up. Well around November last year we reconciled. But I let her know that am not interested in relationship that we should just be friend. She agreed and we became friends. Later on we start doing the romance game. Little by little it lead to sex which I deflowered her. She want us to be back to bf and gf status but I insist am not doing that. The game continue goin on and I discovered that she as given me her heart totally. She can do anything for my sake, she can go extra mile just because of me. When I discovered this I begin to worried. Cause I don’t know how I will handle it. Well I act as a man and I called her that we are not dating and that I don’t think we can date, so I told her to reduce the love and caring. Since then she as not been normal, she as been admitted thrice, even till now that am talking to you she is still sick. What makes me come here is that she told me I should come and carry her corpse very soon. I’m really scared right now. I don’t know what I can do..


Let me also tell you this. am not like this before, I really love with all my heart and soul It takes me more than two years to convince her that I really love her..... but the problem started when one pastor prayed for me and after the prayer he told me I should run away from my girlfriend, I asked one Alfa also he said the same thing.. that’s how the love I have for her turn to something else.. I still love her. I have never have sex with any person since we have been dating. And also I did not date anyone.. but the fear of what I heard then has taken over me that’s why I don’t want to date her again.. I wish I could go back to how we use to be before, have tried my best it just didn’t work for me.. ...

Please how am I going to stop her from committing sucide. Cause when I visit her yesterday she as become lean.... I’m not happy with myself cause it’s my fault.. Today is my birthday, I suppose to be happy but I’m not. I’m really sad and confused.. please I need advice...

At the bold face, why deflower (locally called disvirgining) the poor girl if you know you never wanted anything serious? Do you know the implications of deflowering a girl and the responsibility it connotes (as she falls head over heels in love with you naturally after deflowering)? If anything happens to her you are to blame.

So at your age you still run to these fake pastors and imams (you are one of those they call sheeples). People who can't think for themselves and rather let their so called pastors and imams do the thinking for them while milking them dry in the process.

I got nothing else to say to you. Carry your cross

Op you are a mumu. See my detailed explanation of your mumuism below

Corruption has crept deep into the average Nigerians psyche. From the politicians at the top to the low income workers at the bottom.

There once was a country-sad, sad, sad

TheUpsetGirl:
don't ever quote me again, I wasn't referring to you.. black fool

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Ugly dirty bitch. I need you to know you are and will always be a fool. Local benin biscuit factory broke trash.

What gives you the right to call the Nigerian pidgin English a rubbish language and you even said that to a foreigner thus further demeaning the country? I am not surprised this is coming from a Benin girl, an ugly broke one at that

Low-life Scum

TheUpsetGirl:
Succubus Nigerians have spoilt you with their useless pidgin English

So what's useless about our pidgin english? Just shows how local you are.

Go to Malaysia their pidgin english is called Manglish and it's spoken with pride everywhere. The same thing in Singapore where it's called Singlish (also spoken everywhere).

Inferiority complex at it's peak

lefulefu:
well since the incident happened in Kenya i believe the story.crazy things happen over there.

Lefu well if it's Kenya or Zimbabwe I wouldn't be surprised as it seems their women kind of have an upper hand in marriages there, so they can choose to do whatever they like or live apart from the husband.

But I don't trust all these bloggers sha, the way and speed with which they chunk out juicy stories these days (all for site traffic) is very suspicious

Lies from the pits of hell.

A man married a lady and the lady doesn't sleep in his house(from the story) as it says she still lives with the man telling the story,nonsense

Another lie- a wife purchasing things in the house and the broke fool doesn't ask the source of income from which these items were purchased? What rubbish

These lazy bloggers take us for kids. Thunder fire you

CAPSLOCKED:


I'VE NOTICED THE NEW DOG.

Thanks bro

Grayjoy:
U just being wicked by cancelling everything. I can't just stop laffn.
Just a little sense in plenty write up.

Just being a realist

MistadeRegal:
Absolutely true.
No trash.
I know what I'm saying.

Ok if you say so. I feel you just described polar opposites

ERORR404:
I really don't know why,as it was the first time of me being turned down by a girl. But now there's this girl in my area off k where i stay and i really like her and want to walk up to her but each time i remember the rejection from the last girl, my ballz just shrink and roll back into my stomach
Please help me guys,my confidence is dying

Dude you say you're student so I wouldn't bother advising you to go hustle

I used to be where you are now so I understand how worrisome it could get.

Don’t overthink it, just walk up and talk to her. It's that simple.

90% of why it’s hard is because you make it that way. But don’t worry!
With enough effort, you can make drastic changes very quickly. That’s the good news. The bad news is that it will require you to understand that you will need to go through a period which is going to be very uncomfortable for you. You will need to get out of your comfort zone and do things that scare the absolute shit out of you.

You will also need to understand that:
• Girls aren’t magic. They’re people like you and me.
• “Talking to girls” will need to become a part of your everyday life, not just something to do when you’re drunk in a club.
• You will always get rejected. A lot. Get used to it.
• Some women simply won’t find you attractive, no matter what you do.
• There is no “perfect pickup line”.

THE only thing you need to do is try and try and try again.
Keep talking to women, keep escalating, keep crashing and burning. Keep failing and getting rejected. Without a doubt, it is the fastest way you will learn to talk to girls.

Just think about this:
Number 1 reason why most guys don’t know how to talk to girls is because they don’t talk to girls.
Number 2 reason: Don’t get all up in your head with the techniques and the lines and the perfect time and body position.

Ask for something. Ask for directions even if you don’t need them. Ask her for anything and then say “I am just kidding, I just wanted to talk to you”. Ask her what’s her favorite movie. Ask her absolutely anything. It really doesn’t matter what you say. Just get her to talk.
Or just walk over and say “Hi”. In reality, that is everything you need to do to talk to a girl. It has at least a 90% success rate.

CAPSLOCKED:

YES. SHE'S STILL A VIRGIN THOUGH BECAUSE SHE ONLY TAKES IT THROUGH THE BACK DOOR, FOR A CHEAPER PAY.

Good one. The op seems too self righteous and that's very disconcerting

CAPSLOCKED:

SEEMS LIKE THOSE MEN DELETED THAT TRAITOR THREAD..

Yeah the mods deleted the thread. But the good thing is at least now the dude knows who his real friends are

DeadRat:
What Level Of Savage Is This? This Is Evil!


I Was Talking With my Crush and She then Gave Me Her Boyfriend's phone Number that I Should Call Him And Tell Him To Come online for Them To Chat



Please When Is This World Ending


I Am Thinking Of Suicide and I'm taking The Whole World With Me

This is worse than being in the Friend Zone.

You've being BRO-ZONED

Jochabed:
point is,nobody wants them,but men make them.

bizzy500:
why are you so concerned about this ... Are you a prostitute?

Let me rephrase the question: Op where you once a prostitute?

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Easzy96:
It’s a wonderful gift to be good looking. In this context we are talking about people who are born good looking. As a proud member of the “attractive people association”. I can tell you that there are more demerits than merits to being good looking.
Today I will share with you, the disadvantages of being a fine boy.
ENVY
Jealousy from friends. I have experienced this lot of times. In a group of five friends and just one is handsome, the possibility of the other four to be envious of him is very high. He gets all the beautiful girls. There girlfriends have a crush on him. He will constantly gets accuse of trying to snatch a friend’s girlfriend.
INTIMIDATION
When an attractive guy is talking to a less attractive girl, she might get intimidated and would feel he only wants her for sex and he is not really into her.
THEY ARE TAGGED “PLAYER”
There is this popular believe that fine boys do not have one girlfriend but multiple girlfriends. That is not always true. I believe double dating is not a looks thing but depends on the individual personality.
PEOPLE MISTAKE THEIR CONFEDENCE FOR COCKY-NESS
Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. Handsome guy are victims of misconceptions.
THEY DON’T GET EMPLOYED EASILY
Handsome guys find it difficult to find a job, may be because employers who are of the same sex let their jealousy get the better of them or they see good looking guys as a threat. Me and my friend went to look for a job. When we got there the man who was the interviewer was telling his colleagues discreetly. “ha! Shey dis ones way dey do fine boys fit do the work, abegi call the next person joor”. We never got the job because of our looks.
LONELINESS
Most good looking guys are lonely, most people conclude that handsome Guys have so many people clustered around them, but no, even sometimes when a girl sees a handsome guy, she will choose to ignore him with the thought that he already has a lots of girls at his side. You discover most handsome guys are with little friends while some are even single.
PRETTY GIRLS PLAY HARD TO GET
Most beautiful girls believe that whenever they accept to date a good looking guy, it is a massive conceit of power. So they put up a higher wall of defense when handsome guys approach them.
THEY ARE PERCIEVED TO BE LESS MANLY
There is this notion in our society that for you to be perceived more masculine, you have to be not so good looking. Most fine boys are believed to be weaklings.
Read more:

https://9jalife.com.ng/8-disadvantages-handsome/

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Absolute Trash

paxonel:
This is the story of this lady.

She is saying
Please don't tell me to quit the relationship

Ok I am confused - is this the boyfriend or the lady

MrBrownJay1:
FAIL #1
looking to date a babe you fully well know already has a BF



FAIL #2
not slapping her silly when she made such claim...



FAIL #3
looking for cheap excuses as to why accepting her request would make sense.



FAIL #4
if that was indeed the truth AND/OR she was a proper woman, she would have broken off with that man BEFORE making such cheap request to you.



FAIL #5
accepting to be the spare wheel of someone (if you were number one her BF would have been dumped already, duh)



FAIL #6 and #7
6) thinking that you are actually "dating" while you are stealing just taking your share of that community toto
7) so you accepted to start fukcing this babe while she was still in a r/ship and now complains that she still stays at her BORFRIEND's place?! bwaaaaaah what a funny statement!



FAIL #8
see as the babe is dancing and twerking on your MUMU button



FAIL #9
why would you even ask?! isnt it obvious?! know your damn position bro.



FAIL #10
not understanding that the reason she is still with him is because deep down she hopes that he will marry her...you are just a spare wheel in case he never does (spare tyre things)



ULTIMATE FAIL

falling in love with a hoe, not understanding that you are being played. wake up bro....this babe is NO GOOD, even if she was single.

You said it all bro. I wish I could give you a gift for this response.

Now it's left for the op to man up and realize he's being played or continue being a pussy whipped sissy