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purem:
I just take a brief glance at the thread and all I could see is two immature ladies fighting over a jobless dude

I already said it that if a lady should fight a guy must be behind the brouhaha

Have you seen ladies fighting over tangible things?

If nor fighting over jobless but good looking dude?

Those ladies just disappointed me

Yeah it was really painful to read.

It is pathetic when grown ass women engage in social media battles over a man! Actually, it is pathetic for grown ass women to engage in any kind of battle over a man.

IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.

My answer might look vague, so digest it slower:

Our (human) personality is not fixed. We were not born with our current personality. We have consciously or unconsciously made this personality during our lifetime. We can reshape it anytime we want.

I don’t think there is anyone out there born gay or born straight. We are just like a raw material. Whatever we want this raw material to turn into, we can do that.

Within each and everyone of us are two types of energy (good, bad/evil whatever you want to call them) within you. Everyone (men or women) has these energies in equal amount.

Initially when we are born both these energies are passive.
How much and what traits of these energies are active in you, defines your current personality
People around you, situations you face, discipline you have in your life, amount of laziness you have all activates certain traits of these two energies.

Qualities like leadership, courage, strength, taking responsibilities, will power defines your activated masculine energy.
Emotions, being calm under pressure, cheerfulness defines the activated feminine part of you.

Personalities are made, either consciously by you or unconsciously by your surroundings. You are not born with this personality.
Most people try to find out their personalities, whether they are straight or gay, smart or dumb. These are those people who are not conscious enough and let their surroundings shape their personalities.

Tell your friend to decide what he wants to do with his life, what is the definition of success for him at emotional, mental, physical, financial and spiritual level, how he wants to contribute back to the universe, whether he wants to or not. Let him build his personality according to that. Tell him to consciously pick the people he wants to share his moments with.

He needs to move from a Fixed Mindset to a Growth Mindset

Shroud:
Bro, if you prefer another man's anus to pussy, do you really think you matter?

Your sexual orientation crisis isn't the only hormonal mutations you suffer. It is just the symptom of other deep underlying cellular mutations and DNA distortion you suffer.

As for me, once it gets to that time for me to get married I wouldn’t care whether she is a virgin or not. I would marry a woman once I know we were genuinely right for each other regardless of whether or not she was a virgin. I am not a virgin, so I first of all think that it would be a hypocritical stance of me to insist that she be one.

I have great respect for women who remain virgins for their personal convictions or preferences, and would not see this as a major cause for concern were we to marry so long as she doesn’t intend to remain a virgin once married. I imagine we would, however, potentially have to navigate some awkwardness regarding the differences between our experiences.

I also have great respect for women who have morally had sex, or who learned from and turned away from immoral sex. When the time to talk of our experiences comes up, I would listen to her with the same reasonable and open-minded attitude I would hope she would offer me in return. My primary goal would be to see whether we are on the same page now as to what constitutes sexual morality, and whether we were then similarly mature in our attitudes and levels of self-control in this area.

Finally, I have not only respect but compassion for women who have been sexually abused / raped. To have one’s sanctity of body and mind violated in such a way is potentially one of the most terrifying experiences people around the world, sadly, have every day. Overcoming such horrible events requires a lot of resilience and mental / emotional healing. If I were to fall in love with such a woman and come to consider her the one I’d want to marry, having this past of hers revealed to me could be a hard thing for both of us - and I would give her as much patience and gentleness she needed if I remained willing to marry her.

The theme you should notice through each of these paragraphs is that the worth of women is not based in their extent (or lack) of sexual experience. It is based on who they are as people - who they have become - through whatever their experiences might be.

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davidson97:
This lady pictured above has sent Twitter users into a frenzy because of her gigantic boobs and fat camel toe.
SEE MORE;http://mediatalkers..com/2018/04/lady-with-gigantic-boobs-and-fat-camel.html

What are my eyes seeing

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Know the various groups below

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CaptJeffry:
Just 9? If your points aren't up to 100, then you don't really know the being called woman. Women have over 1million attitudes which they exhibit little by little until death.

so true. You need a glass of beer for this

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swiz123:
I thought Money makes us look more handsome or prettier..

Thank you tiwa for proving me wrong.


My heart goes out tee billz for all he has been through

This is just savage

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purem:
It's not common

They don't troll each other like we guys do

But those two second monickers you mentioned ehn

Yeah I just read it. That thread was crazy. The link below:

https://www.nairaland.com/4284904/it-must-wife-disclose-income/9#66362809

Shugavee:
refer me please

Thread link below:

https://www.nairaland.com/4284904/it-must-wife-disclose-income/9#66362809

Shroud:
Welcome back. Now you prove my genius. No one in Nairaland has told me goodbye and kept his/her words. Not after reading my response
They always come back for revenge and then they get screwed doubly over again.

Did you read the pic from BBC I screenshot and sent you? No. You didn't.

It will explain your stupidity and the foolish irrelevant links you dropped. The American society, police and health practitioners have ignored domestic violence from homosexuals because of their population and the fact that they were concerned about women in abusive relationship never knowing more was happening in same sex relationships.

It took a while but they eventually did.

You see, people like you should be killed at birth to put your parents out of the misery your existence ensured in their lives.

You're a Dumbo thinking you will be awarded an online honorary PhD for being an intelligent gay lover when in truth the very sweat and vagina secretion your parents sudated to produce you was a waste.

The only time we can ever exchange words is when we're online. If you stand before me and utter any pro-gay insinuations, I will have you arrested and kept in a dog cage.

You're a criminal as far as the laws of this country and every other God-fearing country is concern.

Bloody mutant!

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Things are moving from bad to worse in the country

But suicide is never the answer

Gender Equality means getting the same treatment whether you are male or female. It means equal job opportunities with equal pay, regardless of whether you are male or female. It means being treated the same under the law, regardless of your gender.

The main advantage is that men and women can now achieve all the same things in life, from the same careers, job types, and rise up in the ranks in the same fashion, with the exact same limits. This is a good thing.

On the other hand, there are some serious disadvantages as well.
Gender equality destroys the traditional gender roles of society, and that includes the cultural mores and standards that govern courtship and marriage.

With gender equality, women no longer need to be pretty to attract men. Women no longer need a man to provide for the family. Women no longer need men, period. And the same is true: men no longer need to protect women, no longer need to be the breadwinner for women, no longer need women.

In my view, men and women are fundamentally different, especially on a biological, physical level, and we need to be conscious of this fact and accept it.

I’m not saying women should not have the same rights and opportunities as men. Far from it. But we need to make sure it makes sense.

Women and men are different biologically, have less physical strength compared to men.If you want to pretend that men and women are the exactly the same, you will end up with a neutered, sexless society.

Society and civilization itself was built on that basic premise. We destroy it, we may end up destroying human civilization itself.

Selling sex is not the same thing as trading one's body. Despite some very bizarre (and extremely harmful) assumptions that exist, you still have all of your body after you have sex, regardless of whether money was exchanged.

Beyond that, there are as many answers to this question as there are people who sell sex. Lots of people do it after evaluating the alternative employment opportunities that our Nigerian society has to offer, they realize they might as well be doing something they actually enjoy and get paid while doing it.

Even for people who don't particularly enjoy it (not loving your job doesn't make it oppressive), it's also one of the few employment opportunities where some women are able to out-earn men.

People have to earn money, and not everyone wants to do it working for sexist, bigoted corporate machines.
Men have also joined in the business here in Nigeria (the likes of male gigolos et al)

ebenice:
end time prophet


why sleep with another man's wife



but why are NL mods so quick in placing thread such as this on Fp?......which most times degenerate to religious e-fight

Such topics generate the biggest traffic

coolestofall:
Simply because she still has sm other places 2 visit where her pussy wld b traded 4 cash. Shes only trying 2 reduce d wear n tear on her pussy.

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CAPSLOCKED:

MANY WOMEN HAVE EQUALLY MISUSED THIS TERM "EQUALITY".

THEY BLAME MEN FOR THE MISTAKES THEY MAKE THEMSELVES AND THINK FEMINISM IS ALL ABOUT HATING AND RIDICULING MEN EVERYWHERE.


MEN AND WOMEN CAN NEVER BE EQUAL IN THIS SOCIETY. THEY CANNOT TAKE UP THE SAME JOBS.

YOU CANNOT WIN A WAR WITH ALL THE TROOPS BEING FEMALES.
YOU CANNOT COMPLETE AN ENGINEERING OR TECHNOLOGICAL TASK WITH THE TECHNICIANS BEING WOMEN ALL THROUGH.
YOU CAN'T HAVE WOMEN MOULDING BLOCKS AND LIFTING HEADPANS AT BUILDING SITES.

YOU CAN'T HAVE BARCELONA MALE TEAM PLAY AGAINST ARSENAL LADIES.

ONE SIDE IS ALWAYS SUPERIOR, NATURALLY. YOU WILL ALSO FIND THIS IN MOST ANIMALS AND ALSO FISHES.


WHAT WE SHOULD FOCUS ON IS EQUAL TREATMENT, OPPORTUNITIES AND RESPECT.
BUT THE WHOLE ATTENTION HAS LONG BEEN DIVERTED INTO STUPID BIASED OPINIONS AND AGENDAS OF IMMATURED WOMEN ON FACEBOOK AND TWITTER.

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KangaIye:
Just come out and answer some questions that's all.

the guy will receive some few beatings here and there while answering the questions

talk2archy:
The eradication of tension is d begining of success in ACs

Very true. Just relax, observe, digest so your thought processes are aligned for the particular task at hand

micariice:
When it comes to picking one them I will go with XBOX and I play both of them in real life and am one of their game developer

I have both. I prefer PS4 because of the game variety

Ishilove:
The person who wrote this is an idiot. A sexist idiot

Never take anything you see on Nairaland serious.

chinochizzy:
Though there's nothing I can do to change my appearance but I guess I just have to accept it that way even though I so dislike my hieght.

Show us a picture lets see this height you always talk about. Let's see if your own 5ft 11in is different from the 5ft 11in we all know about

Ayoemrys:
Someone lose hair overnight and you are here prescribing product,

Are you ok atall?

Op u just go into 3days fasting and prayer to avoid both physical and spiritual catastrophe. Thank you

your only solution is 3 days fasting and prayers. smh . One of the reasons Nigeria never moves forward.

And how dare you steal my meme

True talk.

The efforts of REAL MEN (when I say Real Men I mean those responsible ones who provide for the family and ensures the wife and kids don't lack while having a stressful job and facing other issues life throws at him with dignity and pride) in the society is grossly underrated

You ladies need to appreciate us more

deedy111:
Hi guys greetings and happy easter
I am actually worried over this that's why I thought it wise to bring it up here so I could have a better chance of getting the best advice.
Yesterday am sure I went to bed without noticing any hair loss on my head, just to wake up this morning to fine out some small patches of hair(very noticeable) loss on my head.
I have asked few people and neighbours, most of them came up with a particular scary cause and that is "its witches handiwork", while I still doubt this, I believe it should medically explained
Note: am healthy, tested negative to HIV, no sign of sickness physically except prickly rashes suspected to be heat.
So guys/professionals can you please tell a clue of what could be wrong? Thanks in advance

Most pre-mature hair loss in men can be blamed on increased stress. While genetics plays a key role in balding, a stressful lifestyle can play havoc. Simple lifestyle changes such as, getting seven hours of sleep, having a glass of water every hour (strands are made up of minerals, which only water can replenish) and eating protein-rich foods at regular intervals can bring about an 80 per cent change.

Nutrition is very vital for hair growth. No other part of the human body grows at the rate of half an inch per month, except bone marrow, so you must feed it. Eat well and see it grow.

The relationship between food and hair is simple. Hair is made up of a protein called keratin. So, it's essential that you include sufficient protein in your diet. A low-protein diet forces your body to save the available protein for other purposes, like rebuilding cells, thus depriving hair of it. Foods like spinach, almonds, walnuts and milk are hair-happy foods. Green tea is effective because it blocks out Dihydrotestosterone (DHT), the hormone that causes hair loss.

Men are not alone. Women are also losing more hair than they did in the past, because a stressful lifestyle is a major reason for hair fall (most especially in high stress countries like Nigeria). Stress is driving their bodies to produce more androgens (male hormones), thereby upping the secretion of the hair loss-causing chemical DHT.


Smoking is also a major cause of hair loss.. The carbon monoxide that you inhale, prevents the blood from transporting oxygen and key nutrients to hair follicles. Nicotine narrows the blood vessels, further stalling fresh hair growth.

While moderate drinkers can hold on to their hair, regular guzzlers are at risk. Alcohol is known to suck the body of its iron supply, impeding absorption of zinc. Booze also causes dehydration, stopping the body from absorbing vital nutrients. Since hair is almost one-fourth water, excessive alcohol will invariably leave it brittle.

A major reason why stress is one of the major causes of hair loss is this: A hair follicle needs energy to grow. Coenzyme Q10, found in whole grains, fish and meat, boosts the scalp's ability to produce energy, especially in a cell's mitochondria or energy factory. Stress causes oxidation, harming Coenzyme Q10 among other anti-oxidants, thereby being one of the major contributors to the list of reasons for hair fall.

Feed hair with the following to prevent hair loss:

Vitamins B3, B5, B9, and E (found in orange, spinach, chicken, fish, broccoli and soya beans)

Zinc (wheat, dairy, oats and egg yolk)

Magnesium (milk, tuna, banana, cashews)

Iron (fish, leafy greens, fortified cereals, and beans)


Massage your hair with hot oil

Heat some oil (preferably coconut oil or almond oil) and slowly massage your scalp using your fingertips. It increases flow of the blood to the hair follicles, enhance the strength of the roots of your hair and condition your scalp.

No lady has commented on this thread to counter the assertions

shinarlaura:
I just want to find out from the guys in the house .

The husband owns it. The child only borrows it for 1 or 2 years

RuthDaniels:
Lol..I only reply people who can sensibly, logically and constructively argue their points and the bbbbbb guy is lacking all these qualities.



It will be a waste on my path to engage in conversation with an unstable, uncultured and unlearned being. Quit the wait Bro, you will be wasting your time.

This Ruth eh, that was harsh. Looks like the two of you had some issues in the past. Anyway have a nice sunday

Any lady not ready to sign a pre-nup should hit the highway. These greedy leeches want to reap where they didn't sow

RuthDaniels:
You will have to wait

That's because Ladies tend to be more civil, responsible, cultured and matured than Guys even when hurt. Guys would use derogatory words like biitches, whorres etc to quality ladies that cheat. Would you have us use "Only dogs cheat"?

I have never believed Men and Women are equal, I have always believed Men are babies while Women are their Mothers. Little wonder we always have to clean up your mess and even take the fault.

Bbbbbbbbbbbb:
The red bold face, that's complete hogwash. Women are more emotional when hurt as evidenced from their hysterical outbursts like street fighting, destruction of properties, stabbing and even killing when heartbroken.

You try too hard and this your post just shows it. Trying to prove a point while ignoring facts is just plain stupidity.

You write and reason like a kid. I hope you get well soon. Fake Nigerian Feminist

waiting for her counter (doubt she has any) lmao