₦airaland Forum

LifeIsGuhd:
Has nothing to do with maturity...

I also believe we shouldn't go through our partner's phone but when that partner is making a conscious effort to keep his/her phone away... then my brother, it is time to throw away maturity and trust.

On point

amani63:


I create this thread to show Airforce1 how best to please your girlfriend not by giving her or preparing Children food for her to eat.

Oga lefulefu here I come you can relate

Ladies out there if your husband or boyfriend can't boil water for you push him away from your life

#Money is not everything

Food is ready if you no mind join the best chef

At the bold face - not cool bro. Happy Easter

TheLordIsGr8:
Like I said earlier. Live and let live. Because you feel it doesn't make it the case. We'll have to get statistics on that. But look at the history of the world, women marry up(whether it's age, money, status etc) more often. Even when you give them the power and money, they are still looking up. But often times when none is available up where they are looking, the ones who value a partner more than their ego, tend to look down and they quickly get scooped up many a time cos the men down there often believe they've caught a big game.

You are very right bro. No arguments there. Women always tend to look up financially when choosing a partner.

TheLordIsGr8:
Does brokeism against men exist in Nigeria?

The point is that it's not just Nigeria, neither is it exclusively against women. It cuts both ways. It's been like that around the world and across the ages. Even in the workplace. So don't try to pretend that women have suddenly become atlas, carrying the world's burdens. We all got problem to deal with. A man who loves older women (or vice versa) will not think to himself, "I have to make sure ageism works it wonders through me." But if a man doesn't love an older woman (or vice versa), then live and let live. Love is not by force. Everyone have preferences. I cannot fathom how someone will complain that age should not be a factor in marriage and then go on to extol the" virtue" of being "stable" before considering marriage (Often code word for "he must be rich".

Perhaps you will point to the fact that more older men marry younger women than the reverse. But hey, unless such a woman was forced, she made her choice (which is often the case) so live and let live. If the woman does it for financial security. Hey, it's not easy to find someone willing to work just so you can sit at home and spend his money. A man could also choose to do same for financial security. But if anyone chooses not to, then, live and let live.

Definitely brokeism against men exists and it's not just a Nigerian thing, its worldwide.

As for the age-ism part. I feel it's mostly in Nigeria you see it been practiced. In the west I know lots of people that married older women.

AntiBrutus:
Right now there is a thread on FP, slamming old single ladies. The Op went on to advise us to hook a man when we are young, lest we turn desperadoes.

Most young ladies are dependent.
Guys have to deal with that.

Ahbeg, allow us dream of marriage and marry early. Before una go call us...feminist, misandrist, evening newspaper, borehole...fairly used...etc.

Nice one

NANEF

National Association of Nairaland E-goat Feminists

where da hell is my man donstan18

[quote author=Mynd44 post=66304268][/quote] Nice one

Mobilia:
Jman06,
Sir, with all due respect, you seem to have an over-inflated, over-hyped ego.
What did you say to the woman that made her feel as if she could send you flowers and messages?
If it's about your looks, then that will only take you so far...and plus handsome guys are a dime a dozen.
Usually, there are 2 sides to every story...and blame goes both ways.
Not every "older" woman gets infatuated with younger guys.
In fact, many are repulsed by younger, immature and "no-sense of direction" , "lack of intellect" young guys who only offer their alleged sexual prowess...
So please....humble yourself young man...and stop trying to covertly insult and demean an age group of women that you know nothing about.
If you aren't attracted to her and haven't "led her on", then gather up the courage and kindly release her....
It's that simple.
What is it that you have that's got her so hypnotized or mesmorized?
Are you wealthy Do you have any investments, a car, or home?
Please do better...
I'm amazed at how cruel men can be towards women in Nigeria....honestly it's so sad.
Never thought age-ism would exist in Nigeria..
No wonder the women have such hard-core attitudes...either they are hard-core or are completely docile.
I just don't know how the women cope with that mentality..
I feel so sorry for them...I really do.
(LOL @ late 30s..early 40s as being "old"?) LOLLLL!!
But I guess with the average lifespan being around 45-50 years of age in Nigeria...I guess that is old.

Lovely write up. Sadly age-ism against women exists in Nigeria

DonPiiko:
Someone should make the first move on me, I am desperately searching for wife, but you must have plenty money

DonPiiko I hail O. Happy Easter bruv

Passy089:

Does lack of sex over a long period of time have any side effects? Guys please help.

None whatsoever

Michael781:
HARDLABOR bros no b only u oh!!! 2 gals self don bill me 5k n 4k just to f.uck ...and the worst part their Toto no even tight self..


meanwhile I get beautiful gf wen dy give me steady but eh man can never be faithful.... chaii

What do you mean man can never be faithful?

NwaAmaikpe:



Your preek is suffering from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

Wear very tight boxers; preferably wear a leather pant, two boxers and a jersey short to trap that mumu.

Julius55:
I am a guy of 22 years old.my problem is, whenever am talking to my girlfriend on phone or walking with her, my manhood always rises .have tried several times to control myself but all to no avail.please my fellow nairalanders is there anything wrong with me?because I didn't understand my self again at this stage.I'm fed up totally.thanks in anticipation for your candid responses,please no insult

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you dude.

Although many erections are caused by sexual arousal, such as watching porn, a sexy television show or fantasizing, many erections seem to happen for no particular reason.

So if you've had an erection in an odd or embarrassing situation — like right in the middle of a really boring lecture — there's no reason to worry that something is wrong with you. Your body is just acting naturally for a guy your age.

Because each guy is different, it's impossible to say what's a "normal" number of erections. Some guys experience many erections each day, whereas others may not experience any.

Hormones fluctuate with age, sexual maturity, level of activity, and even the amount of sleep a guy gets. Unless your erections are causing you discomfort or pain, don't worry about how many you get.

Imapearl:
My English teacher

Leave all these fights. If you had used this your new dp I am sure you would have received lesser insults. Anyway there was no need for this thread

chenzen:
show me one perfect work on nairaland i ve seen... u av a long way to go...

Dude your post made sense

No need for these quarrels, ok?

Imapearl:
if na people like u
Jesus for no come die

Why did you change your dp from natural to artificial nah

Angelanest:
A suspected homosexual was nabbed red handed while trying to sleep with a young boy in Benin city, Edo state. The man who claimed that his name is Daniel and hails from Edo state - almost had his way in penetrating the boy from behind before he was caught by the boy's elder sister.

The sister raised an alarm as other residents apprehended the suspect and beat him mercilessly.

The suspect who said he is a bus conductor - confessed in a chilling footage how he was nabbed and also revealed that this is not the first time he has done something like that. He claimed to have slept with three young boys in Warri, Delta state.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/03/man-caught-while-trying-to-sleep-with-a-young-boy-in-benin-city-photos.html

What's really happening in Nigeria nowadays? The proliferation of homosexual cases is increasing by the day

Do we call this forward modernization or backward modernization

There are some things that are very unafricanlike and should never be allowed in our society

CSTR1002:
So Russia has more influence in the Middle East than America and Europe combined?

Pass me that weed. It is strong

salvationproject:
When celebrities talks about entering politics, Kenneth Okonkwo is one who never hides his aspirations as well.

Recently his governorship campaign billboard was spotted in enugu with the inscriptions "When Jesus Says Yes, No Man Can Say No".

This simply means the Nigerian actor is really interested in the race for the Enugu government house under the platform of the All Progressive Congress (APC).

http://www.jagabanxclusive.com.ng/2018/03/30/when-jesus-says-yes-kenneth-okonkwo-for-governor-billboard-spotted-in-enugu/

smh The guys campaign banner is like a church convention poster

micariice:
I'm a young millionaire but there are many women that are interested in me and they get mad if I don't have intercoure with them,I'm a man that date 18-26 but is 30-40 normal to a 29 year old business tycoon

First off no need to tell anyone your financial status in a faceless forum ( you can be anything you want to be here )

There are guys that love pretty matured women. That's where the acronym MILF (Mothers I Love to Fvck) came from.

tenderlaw:
Your English is really poor.
am not a feminist = I'm not a feminist.
its annoying = It's annoying.
okay I do bad tin to response to his mail? =This one is pidgin, but please use respond instead of response in this case.
Face impression matters alot in where I come from= First impression matters A LOT where I'm from.

With English like this, I wonder why the guy was even chatting you up. What a waste of his valuable time.

I thought I was the only one who noticed the series of GBAGAUNS

Imapearl:
some guys are useless
sorry to say
you sent me a mail, I replied you
only for you to ask me if I wanted to see your dick
......
is that how you treat a woman?
that isn't right bro
besides what's so important about ur dick DA8T u think I must see
Nlanders this not good at all
@HUMANISTMIkE

Spits**** comes back and spits again*** rubbish

She no even fine sef

But wait o, how come all these criminals always have six packs

Meanwhile I jog every day, eat clean foods and gym yet even three packs I haven't seen

Nothing this government says or does surprises me anymore. I have completely given up on them

Mynd44:
If these people dont sue the FG for defamation then something else is at work

You can only sue when your hands are clean

bignoisemaker:
so.. I came across this lovely door on the internet. It's made with fine intricate designs. I'm sure it's bullet proof due to the quality metal used in making it.


I'll rate it 8/10. Drop your ratings guys

Are you thinking what I am thinking

marvin906:
you never see anything OP
i remember a chick back in school that used my toilet..
i said i should go and release my bladder after she finished
i swear tears left my eyes
the smell can make a comatose patient wake up
wetin pain me pass the chick fine die

UDUJ u try your copyrighting
the mods wont see this ooo

I learnt this stuff from you bruv

Men it's always the fine babes that have the smelliest poo

Lipscomb:
Because they are very useless

No arguments there

4FACEADELEKE:
hahahahahaha op no vex but you mumu o. na their poo smell pass it is a known fact that women poo smell bad more than a man's own.if my sister poo here,God even if pee or shit dey worry me the thing dey loss.

So true bruv Whenever my woman goes to the toilet I try to stay as far as possible so I don't perceive anything because the few times I do my love reduces by 5% every time

Lipscomb:
I laugh whenever I hear Nigeria politician die

Why nah