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Romance › Re: Dating A Handsome Guy Is Waste Of Time: Facebook Lady. by UDUJ(m): 3:39pm On Apr 05, 2018

Says an ugly chic angry

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Romance › Re: Feminism Is Evil! Avoid It Like A Plague. by UDUJ(m): 3:30pm On Apr 05, 2018

highpriestess:
please dont

Celebrities › Re: Ronaldo Vs Beyonce: Who Is More Popular? by UDUJ(m): 1:40pm On Apr 05, 2018

OSUigbo:
who is beyonce

Just one singer with inflated pride feeling like goddess.

She's not even following anyone on instagram/twitter and some fools are following her.

Ifa hear say I follow her

At the bold face, thanks for that observation. I just noticed it now. Hmmmmmmmm I smell pride there undecided

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Romance › Re: Couple’s Semi Nude Maternity Photos Gets Mixed Reactions Online. by UDUJ(m): 1:33pm On Apr 05, 2018

Olalan:
Really don't understand the craze about all these pre shoots, despite all of them the marriage institution and family cords keeps getting destroyed by the day.

So on point

Crime › Re: Missing Boy Murdered In Katsina Football Field (Graphic Photos) by UDUJ(m): 11:27am On Apr 05, 2018

dainformant:
A 12-year-old boy has been found dead in a football field in Katsina state. According to reports, the boy went out to play at the field on Monday and didn't return home that day. His guardians launched a search for him the next day after declaring missing, only for his corpse to be discovered at the field.

His body was cut open and a rope mark spotted around his neck which suggested he was strangled or tied up before he was gruesomely killed. His vital organs were still intact, according to reports.

The police were notified of the development and his corpse deposited at the mortuary.

Residents who have been gripped with fear - are wondering what would have prompted the boy's killers to murder him in such manner.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/04/missing-12-year-old-boy-found-murdered-in-a-football-field-in-katsina-graphic-photos.html

That any perfectly ordinary human being, under certain circumstances, is capable of committing extreme acts of atrocity. Think about it. It's all inside each and every single one of us. Your brother, your best friend, yourself. The mere thought terrifies me. undecided

Romance › Re: "Before Sex, He Promised Marriage But He Stopped Talking About It Now" - Lady by UDUJ(m): 10:11am On Apr 05, 2018

ubunja:
women should stop trying to use sex to get love

Cutehector:
I totally concur with you bro..
But sadly enough, they cant. Its already prefixed in their system to use sex as a tool to get love. There is hardly any woman who is anti-emotional.

DJInfluence:
I also re-concur your concur...

I concur concurrently cheesy

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Romance › Re: Feminism Is Evil! Avoid It Like A Plague. by UDUJ(m): 10:09am On Apr 05, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:

FINALLY YOU DROPPED THE UGLY DOG MEME.

CONGRATULATIONS.

Don't worry I'll be getting a better one soon cheesy

Romance › Re: Feminism Is Evil! Avoid It Like A Plague. by UDUJ(m): 10:05am On Apr 05, 2018

Jochabed:
There is a popular saying "what a man can do a woman can do better" But i don't agree with this notion,this is an idea that popped up from the PIT OF HELL.
What has feminism done for you today? You could say that feminism has achieved many strides in the fight for equality among Africans.Women now participate in Politics and are involved in the Economy. But this issue has rather caused harm to one of the paramount institution - The African Household.

Feminism has led various families within the African setting into serious CRISES. Fathers are less becoming in-charge of their families,women now Rebel against their husbands authority,the no longer submit to their authority. The want to be eqaul with the Men,BUT IN THE BEGINING IT WAS NOT SO.
Let's face it Men and Women are Wired differently and trying to Rewire that through Feminism will ultimately destroy core family functions. Gone are the days when women were stay-at-home Mums. But it is now a taboo to be a Mother and a Wife only.Lets change our ways.

You guys never get tired of this Feminism topic? It's getting stale already undecided

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Crime › Re: Kenyan Undergraduate Commits Suicide By Hanging Over A Lady, Shares Suicide Note by UDUJ(m): 9:53am On Apr 05, 2018

Good riddance then angry

The world has been rid of one less pussy nigga angry

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Romance › Re: How Will I Kno If She's Trully A 'v' by UDUJ(m): 9:51am On Apr 05, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:

LOL, MY APOLOGIES.

I SHOULD HAVE WAITED FOR MORE 40 YEARS.

Good one

Romance › Re: How Will I Kno If She's Trully A 'v' by UDUJ(m): 9:47am On Apr 05, 2018

CAPSLOCKED:

FROM THE TASTE OF HER BUTTH0LE, YOU'LL KNOW.

You revived a 10 year old thread

Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Deserve To Be Treated Like Trash by UDUJ(m): 9:34am On Apr 05, 2018

AmericanSons:
agreed bro. agreed but truth is they don't deserve to be treated nicely. I have seen a lot to come to this conclusion.

Ok bro, if you say so. But don't get yourself worked up

Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Deserve To Be Treated Like Trash by UDUJ(m): 9:23am On Apr 05, 2018

AmericanSons:
Most of you ladies laughing now, if I tell u what happened, u wouldn't wish your own brother to go through and u will feel ashamed for sharing same gender with this person but I will let it slide.

If you are not ready to spill then there was no need for this thread as it's just rants without context. Just saying undecided

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Romance › Re: Five Signs You Are Dating A Woman,not A Girl by UDUJ(m): 7:47am On Apr 05, 2018

ubunja:
OP if she's all that below 22 then she's special. if she's like that at 32 she isnt special just retired.

Politics › Re: 2019: ‘I Can Run Nigeria Better Than Buhari Even In My Sleep’ – Sowore by UDUJ(m): 7:22am On Apr 05, 2018

Everybody has a better plan of running the country until they step into Aso Rock undecided

Romance › Re: Details Of How Iyabo Ojo Almost Died After Having Buttocks Enlargement Surgery by UDUJ(m): 6:14am On Apr 05, 2018

Alamin9582:
Doctor A*s

People need to know the truth. Good morning

Romance › Re: Please Help A Depressed Brother by UDUJ(m): 6:06am On Apr 05, 2018*

Dude suicidal thoughts should be the last thing on your mind. You are too young to start thinking like this and you got your whole life ahead of you.

Feel free to chat with me anytime you feel down. You can send a dm and I will respond with my contact details. I will be your mentor through this journey.

I know what it feels like to be stuck in a vicious cycle of sadness, fear and self doubt.

When you suffer from depression, it is difficult to see the good things. When you suffer from anxiety, you live in constant fear. When you have a low self esteem, you fail to ever consider yourself good enough for Anything.

I don't suffer from intense depression, anxiety or self esteem anymore. But, I've been there.

I will give you some recommendations for the various disorders described in your post, namely:

1. For mild to moderate depression

If there's a known/ unknown cause - Allow yourself to grieve. Cry if you need to. Don't hold yourself back from feeling fully. Once you allow yourself to feel, you always spring back. It may take a while.

What helped me - Watching happy YouTube videos, writing down my negative thoughts every morning when I wake up. When I did this, I locked away the thoughts that are disturbing me into a journal. Slowly, within a few days, I 'separated' those thought from ME.

I am NOT my thoughts. My thoughts don't define me. I will not let my thoughts control my actions.

When you isolate your thoughts from your self, you realize that everybody is inherently 'good'. Whether you ACT on these thoughts or not, is a good determining factor of the quality of your life.

2. For Moderate to Severe Depression -

If your depression is so bad, that you are losing your job, your relationships, your interest in everything and your sanity. Get out that Bed. Drag yourself if you need to. Get to a therapist. You need to prioritize 'getting better', and the only way that's really possible (before you engage in self destructing behaviours) is if you GET the treatment you NEED.

3. For Anxiety -

Do the same, write down your anxieties in a journal. Take one anxiety at a time, make a mental stage and analyze that anxiety from all ends and conclude it. Just like how a viewer would interpret a movie.

DON'T discuss these anxieties with your partner or family, unless you are sure they ARE true. Most anxieties are a creation of our mind and have no basis in reality. Some anxities like fear of your partner cheating or the likes can REALLY hurt your loved ones and cause unnecessary arguments which will further your anxiety.

4. For Low Self Esteem -

I have to admit, I still suffer from a low Self Esteem. It has a lot to do with your upbringing and how confident you've been growing up.

About the only thing that's truly uplifted my self esteem was TALKING to MYSELF before a mirror. I literally spend 20 minutes everyday talking to myself and watch myself. I learnt a great deal about what excites me, what upsets me etc by just watching myself. I came out of this exercise feeling Great, Confident and Self Assured.

Your self esteem will skyrocket, when you allow yourself to be indifferent about other's opinions of YOU. Listen to these opinions and DON'T take them to your heart.

I really hope this helps you. These steps really helped me overcome my fears and actually think for myself.

Just tell yourself that you've had enough of missed opportunities and that you will LIVE to the fullest from this day forward.

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Romance › Re: Why Am I Having Wet Dreams.....am Confused by UDUJ(m): 11:41pm On Apr 04, 2018*

abiolamitodun:
am 27 yes old and am still having wet dreams why?

There is nothing wrong with having wet dreams.

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Romance › Re: Four Women With Kids By The Same Father (Photos) by UDUJ(m): 11:07pm On Apr 04, 2018

tbaba1234:
What is the difference between a polygamous marriage and having several baby mamas?

Social acceptability in African norms and cultures. The polygamous marriage is, while the baby mamas phenomenon is not.

Romance › Re: Details Of How Iyabo Ojo Almost Died After Having Buttocks Enlargement Surgery by UDUJ(m): 10:51pm On Apr 04, 2018

Buttock augmentation is a serious operation and one of the few procedures in plastic surgery in which there are fatalities every year.

Apart from the fact we only hear of success or death as outcomes, there are also many things that could go wrong in between. Most surgeons are not eager to fix the complications of another surgeon, this highlights yet another reason why shady clinic surgeries can be so dangerous. By having the procedure performed in another country or in a shady clinic, you run the risk of not having a doctor to treat you when complications arise.

Apart from the deaths and amputations caused by botched back alley augmentations, there are less severe problems like infections and deformities which need to be treated.

At the end of the day it’s just not worth it health wise and financially. undecided

Romance › Re: Good Evening NL by UDUJ(m): 9:18pm On Apr 04, 2018

amani63:
that was a mistake bro

Thanks for pointing bro

You're welcome bro

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Romance › Re: Good Evening NL by UDUJ(m): 9:10pm On Apr 04, 2018

amani63:

Let me just say good evening/Bonsoir Nl and to my recent side_chick

Ask me any questions that is distributing you,it could be how to cook or anything.
I will be glad to answer or a Nairalander may answer.

Nothing is distributing me cheesy

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Romance › Re: Why Women Are Never Caught Staring- Udu Joel by UDUJ(m): 8:53pm On Apr 04, 2018

Divepen1:
Lol... I've posted it with my account before I f
could rectify it...

Ok. Its Udu Joel not Uju. Thanks

Romance › Re: Why Women Are Never Caught Staring- Udu Joel by UDUJ(m): 8:35pm On Apr 04, 2018

Divepen1:
Now, you know the moniker behind menvocate...

I gave menvocate permission to use my article.

I own this copyright

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Romance › Re: Lady Refuses Her Boyfriend's Breakup, See Her Funny Reason by UDUJ(m): 8:24pm On Apr 04, 2018

heheeeeeee cheesy

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