₦airaland Forum

sinceraconcept:
Same with my family,my family can buy 98% of what humanity can't buy. We thank God for that

that's good

You should feel blessed

OVIHINNO:
We're damned in this shit hole country. You can imagine the SYSTEM, even the Dean couldn't correct the anomaly.

And this is a nigger shithole country that people say would get better

Acidosis:
You're highly ignorant. Do you know the content of the contract?

Haven't you seen people buy land, invest and open bank account for an unborn child? It's called transfer of ownership. That's why Davido is signing the contract, not the child. A little child can't sign a contract anyway, so what's the fuss about?

As per the Igbo tradition, it is called tradition for a reason, not legally binding terms.

I'm surprised a man that appears to know a lot about legal contracts can't rationalize the weight of traditions. That tradition like others in your land or any other land is useless as far as the law is concerned.

A man is the father of a child whether your ancestors approve or not. And Davido got as much access and rights to his son as Chioma whether bride price is paid or not. Don't let your tradition make a mess of the knowledge acquired in your school. Your forefathers, like mine, were stark and reckless illiterates.

don't mind him

Wickedtruths:
Easiest way, marry the mother.

There is a limit to how far money can help, especially if the mother get craze. Remember Sophie stopped this same Davido at the airport from travelling out with Imade while she was an infant.

That is the same way Davido can stop chioma child from travelling out if she or her family does anyhow

Both parents must sign.

now assuming one want to practice that barbaric culture of sidelining one's father

And the father takes the case up big time

You really think the mother or the child will have peace?

sinceraconcept:
There are many things he can't get if he wants. I He can't get a megayacht, he can't buy a small isle in Palm Island and archipelagos of Dubai,he can't buy a floor on Trump Tower,He can't buy a 767 Gulfstream,not even his father can, he can't buy a Pablo Picasso painting, he can't buy a Michelangelo or Leornado Davinci artwork and many more things

but what the adeleke family can buy

98% of humanity can't
that should count for something

crafteck:
We r talking legal, you de yan tradition, which carries more water?

leave him
He does not know how the world operates in 2019

Wickedtruths:
The contract is null and void. David signed it because he lacks sense.

The performer of the contract (the unborn child) is not YET a juristic person. Hence, can't be bound by the terms of performance. This is not a beneficial gift, it is a contract which requires performance.

Secondly, in Igbo traditional culture, a man doesn't own the child until he has paid the necessary traditional marriage rites over the mother. This is different from Yoruba culture where a man owns the child irrespective of whether he's married to the mother or not.

I don't know the idiotic lawyers advising David, but I know any rookie lawyer would get this contract thrown out.

Igbo traditional culture don't mean $hit in the eyes of the law

the supreme court has nullified all that in previous rulings

If you get an igbo woman PREGNANT
You have as much rights to the kid as she does

And this is coming from an igbo man
In 2019, just try that shenanigan and see what follows

let's see how that child will travel out of the country
or do anything meaningful
without the child's father reigning in.

As for the contract, we all know David likes publicity too much

salford:
This is not true. if you are pretty or beautiful, there is a good chance they will also try to victimize you.

these ones talking here are talking as if they did not go to public uni in NIGERIA

I did
And I know its a jungle

tsmith:
Mentality such as this shows you're one of the animals that makes Nigeria the zoo/jungle that it is. It's only animals that excuse or act on "animal" instincts. Humans exercise something called best judgement and constraints.

no mind them

BedLam:
Let's assume there is no evidence, what they are trying to say it that it is okay for them to engage in whatever sex misadventure t their workplace(the UNI).
Can he allow his child of that age to go out with the man in such settings?
I gave up on to Africa a long time ago.

Africa is done for

StaffofOrayan:
A typical black man tastes power and become drunk.
Because more likely than not he suffers from self hate.
Just a frigging lecturer!
And themselves go dey complain about Nigerian economy

don't mind him

Babyvet:
Yea I have met AA women of various of levels and most had nothing good to say about nigerian men . I remember when Tamar Braxton got with her nigerian boyfriend , they’re we’re multiple comments bashing him because he was Nigerian and the reputation that nigerian men have .

This comment tho

Selfless1:
Which good country in Africa can I enter from Ghana. I'm tired of Nigeria.

You will have to be more clear and specific to get help

are you in Ghana at the moment?

LORDKing001:
Bros why did Adam blame Eve for giving him d apple?

because Adam refused to take responsibility for his actions

tintingz:
So all lecturers don't know each other?

leave am
he does not know what is happening

LORDKing001:
I started with *I blame the stupid girls...* Read well before you fire back

that's even worse
on no account should the girls be blamed if a lady is harassing the lecturer get evidence and get her expelled
It's all on the lecturer You have the fiduciary duty not her
But Nigeria is messee up with messed up mentality

naijaguy123456:
Wicked British are damaging your educational institution and lazy mumu youth are happy and praising it . When was the last time BBC run a documentary about research breakthrough or academic breakthrough from unilag ? When it’s bad news about African the slavemaster are always quick to report it but when a Nigerian child made 9 As in GCSE/WAEC they should run a documentary about that too .

shut the hell up

MelesZenawi:
How many videos has BBC released of American molesting female students or do you think such doesn't exist..


Colonial mentality..

stfu you slowpoke

a lecturer will rather be in a strip club than threaten his female student in this manner
with this #metoo movement everywhere

his career will be in smokes if he tries it

You think America is a nigger country like Nigger Nigeria?

LORDKing001:
I blame the stupid females who will voluntarily offer their body for sex and later accuses the lecturer of demanding. I blame the students not the lecturers. Quote me anywhere...
Now

A lecturer invited you to his office ....
You deliberately accepted his invitation knowingly fully well what the invitation entails even though you don't ... Why not ask him politely... Sir any problem or why should I be invited please...
Now your mind is not settled... Why not go with a friend awaiting to always distract you when the conversation is getting longer and resulting to something else yet you're agreeing....
You went there alone on leggings, sleeveless, showing your breast very juicy saying nothing will happen after all you'll shout.... But you didn't reject you went ahead...

My point is even though you must go to his office why not dress like deeper life member or d way Mallemas dress covering their face and feet with gown to his office.

See all this girls are the major problems not the lecturer...

Have you ever seen a core deeper life member or mallema report a case of sex for marks?

stfu if you have nothing sensible to say

On NO OCCASION should a lecturer get down with a student

no occasion
no excuse

it's against the ethics of the profession

end of story

@seyewest, this is the country you think will get better?

hahahahahahaha

Gforce2015:
Saraki is still alive politically ... Using Twitter to update his political popularity....
Saraki , the past Senate president....and political pensioner

What does that have to do with the topic in ground?

You get sense so?

jerryunit48:
You guys should quit this, Saraki spoke well, this is a serious issue

many Nigerians are known to be senseless people

instead of them to address what he wrote
they are addressing rubbish and nonsense

even mocking the man they will never be

it's a doomed generation we got out there

BRATISLAVA:
you don't sound as happy as you would like to make us think. Did it occur to you that you got the wrong person?

hahahahahaha

hilarious

AntiBrutus:
Lots of them are like that. The dating dynamics in Nigeria is fcked up- from both sides though. Everyday they are on NL calling Nigerian girls names, but when they want who to marry them with 30k...

They will start emotional blackmail and typing like those GNLD motivational speakers.

Manipulative creatures.

GNLD what?

Bwahahahahaha

the society is done for

that's just it

BRATISLAVA:
How are you sure I'm meeting men? Or you think everyone is desperate for a relationship as you must be?
All men are the same. You are one of them. They all want the same things. You want independent women but can't handle it. When you can't eat your cake and have it, you begin to heap rebuke on women as if they are the cause of your inability to hold down such unions

you got the wrong person


hahahahahaha

isthatso:
if a man is not cheating or has never cheated it is likely because he is unattractive to women, gay, or his something is no longer functional. If you are good looking women will throw themselves at you, if you are successful women will scheme their way to you. Even when you try to avoid them, they will find their way to you. Only 1% of men can go through life without succumbing. If women arent coming after you it's because you have nothing they want. There are regular cheaters and occasional cheaters but 99% of men will cheat. Dont be fooled by the one man one wife import of the white man, even he is not faithful. We are not naturally monogamous and the only recreationalstress relief activities we have in Nigeria as men are drinking and blasting.


Also note, there is a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. It's the way some men "cheat" without complications. Who can afford to pay for sex if not older married men? Who do you think is blasting prostitues, you think it is single men? BTW women also cheat more than we accept, there is a good reason why 1 in 3 children are not the child of the man the call daddy.

Humans are not so different from animals
And our animal instinct is NOT TO BE MONOGAMOUS Be it a man or woman
Animals mate indiscriminately (most)
lionesses do
lions do

But we as humans curb our animal instinct
And that is what separates us from animals

Things like commitment and respect is what separates us fron animals

You need to be at a higher level of understanding to really comprehend these things

why are a lot of men offended here

hahahahahaha


if you lot were old enough to watch BBA back in the day till today
you will know that Mike is about the first married man to go in there and behave himself

there was that punk from S.A. (what is that his name again? l
i think his name was Richard or so.
There was Thin Tall Tony

there were others

You men need to have discipline
learn your lesson and stop arguing

hahahahahaha

a man can keep his dick in his pants
it's his choice
it's a decision

you young men better learn

isthatso:
Nigerians are very gullible. It doesnt mean he wont cheat, it may only mean he is a smart man who knows he is on TV. You cannot extrapolate anything from this. I am not saying he is a cheat but the op is obviously a dumbass if she thinks this means he is isnt. Al it shows is he is smart or he respects himself. Now that might seem like a big deal because we live in a world where people dont. Recently there was a mother who is seperated from her husband having no shame in telling the world she and another singer are friends with benefits. It is only because these are the people that have become role models that some think this Mike guy has done anything extraordinary.

99% of men will cheat regularly or at some point, even good men who respect themselves, their wives and their families, the only difference is some will do it openly and others will be discrete


personally, I dont think any self respecting person will go on BB in the 1st place.

99%?

you got your stats wrong

BRATISLAVA:
You know! They expect a lady from a well to do background to marry their broke asses just because they think she must support them.

If he doesn't have up to what you have, don't marry him. Don't build a future for him, because one day when you've gotten a house and everything he dreamed of, he will show you that men are ingrates. He will suddenly remember his male pride and ego in which he's entitled to more women and authority than he can handle after feeding the ingrate until his belly can stand away from his body!

Lol though at him not cooking or being submissive and bringing back 30k . Men never learn. Women should get an income to keep themselves busy in preparation for that rainy day.

you must be meeting the wrong men


You see that is the problem of this generation

Jordan777:
My boy that I pay 25k is married but no issue yet, he's really a young guy, like 26. I'm 29 but not married. I wonder where they see those kind of ladies

where most men don't look

AntiBrutus:
Every day, this same question in different ways.

This life na jeje. Guys, look for the woman that can marry you and marry her na.

simple and short

ejitest1:
Well, for me I don't think it's even sensible for a guy to think about marriage in that state

depends on where he lives

if he lives in a free house he inherited and works in Niger state for N30k
it may not be the worst idea

But in Lagos/Abuja/PH /Onitsha

not the best thing to do.

oluayebenz:
I wanna ask.....

Do you think your ranting everywhere will make things better or cause more damages?

Do you think Nigeria itself as a country have problem or you people ”Nigerians” is the problem of the country...... The country that is blessed with natural resources!

Some Nigerians abroad has to be blamed also..... Those countries shutting their doors, do you think is because of what's happening in Nigeria or overstayer ?

I definitely know what's happening in Nigeria and talking down of the country does nothing......
Nigerian leaders are corrupt but almost 70% of the citizens are also criminally minded....
Put something on the table, what do you have to offer.....
Nothing?
Ranting?

Nobody is holding anybody down.
If you have the opportunity to travel abroad, pls go.
Americans also travel abroad if they had a better offer.

To me Nigeria is not the problem, blame yourself ”Nigerians”

for the first time

I have to say that most most of what you typed up there made some sense

Nigerians being the problem of Nigeria

Absolutely in many ramifications, one of which was to vote a brain dead cunt as president TWICE and still defend him despite his foolishness

And yes, Nigerians are also to blame as to why the Nigerian passport is now am object of disdain
We are suffering from the consequence today.

that's true