₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
Will most women be comfortable marrying a younger man? Since men becomes wealthy as they age on average, and women are attracted to resourceful men, will older women find younger men attractive ? Since most men marry in their 30s, will older women fertile for a long period to conceive healthy children ?

Yes, Yes and Yea

DavidEsq:
That's the vanity of Satan's world: no real happiness

you have said it all.
December 25th1 is gone
What next?
Wait till the next Dec 25th?

It's better to derive joy in the simple things of life

sarutobie:
Typical Nigerians! As long as they can't do it then nobody can or it is impossible to do....if you haven't been to a good gym then you will doubt this lady's transformation...I've seen guys and ladies transform themselves here in Naipaul, who dash dem money for surgery?? Just crazy determination and discipline...

That's true tho

With determination and a good diet, one can lose weight and look good.

The Problem however that you need to maintain that lifestyle to remain in that shape.

Reckless eating will send you back to tajt awful shape

Nacoss25:
With my little experience, i have come to realize that they is absolutely nothing called TRUE LOVE in this generation we are in. we are all selfish. everybody wants the best for them self and when they realize you may not be able to give them their heart desires at the long run, they will leave you. That girl telling you as a broke guy that she can die for you will leave you as long as better offer start showing up.
In conclusion, my advise for young broke guys is that chase that money first before any lady. Don't be deceive by those I love you tales because they will eventually break your heart..lol Never fall in love when you are still broke to avoid heartbreak.
peace out!!

selfishness is rife in this generation

Avedonn:
Hmmm... old age!

The sad end of youthful exuberance that awaits us all except if one dies young.

60 years back, this woman was full of life and she never pictured herself ending up this way.

The sad reality

highpriestess:
What is wrong with men of this generation? Next they will complain that they are being emasculated.

At emboldened, I will hire him as a houseboy.

I tell you

A lot of young boys, sorry men I see these days makes me ashamed to be a man sometimes

How can a man with sense want a woman to take responsibility for his financial needs?

A man with a dick and two balls

Uwa mmebi

busayochic:
you obviously haven't flown on a private jet before... next time pls keep your opinion to yourself especially as it relates to things you have no clue/experience of...

I was wondering what kind of comment that was too....

"Private" indeed

EmekaBlue:

Embarrassment u get sometimes when u follow a rich kid around!!!

exactly

EmekaBlue:

Embarrassment u get sometimes when u follow a rich kid around!!!

exactly

DTaj:
The guy is obviously feeling the heat!

In his career in Kwara politics, this is the first time Bukola Saraki had ever embarked on a roller-coaster radio interview binge to sell his candidates ahead of ANY election!

Normally, he always sat in the comfort of his mansion in Iloffa Road, GRA, Ilorin, dishing out vain instructions to his serfs and slaves, who always sat on the floor, or lower chairs, when he spoke!

Times have indeed changed for Bukola! He never visited any radio or TV station to campaign for anyone.

Also, during the stage-managed radio interviews today, listeners were prevented from dialing-in, but the moderator only read some pre-sampled text messages from the lines of their stooges and supporters. If he had mistakenly allowed listeners to phone-in, he would have received the result of the negative electoral referendum that awaits him and his army of stooges in February and March 2019 in Kwara State!

Anyone who resides, or have relations, in Kwara, especially in Ilorin, but who is still deceiving Bukola Saraki regarding his political fortunes in 2019, must be wicked! People who know nothing about the current politics of Kwara, especially on social media, are ignorantly urging him on- people who are based in Abuja, Lagos, etc.

The man deviated from his father’s approach to politics. Kwarans are now awake; irretrievably awake for that matter!

The political end of Bukola Saraki is nigh!

The funny thing about Nigerians are....


1) Some silly Nigerians are aching for the dismantling of the "Saraki dynasty" (which is not a bad idea, really) while at the same advocating for the extension of the "Tinubu" dynasty, who has short changed and robbed Lagos blind

2) People supporting Buhari should sell his candidacy to Nigerians, instead of that, they are always on the case of the opposition candidate. What you have done in the last 4 years should be enough to sell you, not all these pettiness and hiring minions, paying them 30k to spam the internet


3)Some Nigerians are even advocating for "rigging" so that their perverted candidate win
No respect for democratic process again

This $hithole country is FINISHED with this prevalent mentality

Oluwapresley:
I'm only going to comment on this because most of the guys that commented on the first page didn't really do justice to the question.

It's sad when one is in need of a piece of advice that can change his life for good and from a vast majority, he can't seem to get a honest and also effective idea.

So, to your dilemma. Who says you can't do the two at the same time? One thing people fail to realize is that a tertiary institution and its environs provides a very large market for business people. I schooled in Obafemi Awolowo University and the average population every session was put at 35, 000 people! Notice I said average. That's for crying out loud, a very large market for any smart business minded person!

I doubt you would be directly linked to a market as large as that from a shop wherever you wanna set your shop up, well except you want to leverage on technology. With a market size of 35,000 people and technology at your grasp, who says this number can't increase?

That was OAU. I have heard of schools with far far higher average population.

So, think. Why can't you stay in school and set up a thriving business in school? I know of guys that made it for life through businesses in school.

The woli arole everyone is talking about today never dropped out from school. He is a bona fide graduate of OAU and he did MC on campus which set him up towards the right direction.

Chinko Ekun never dropped out of school. I still rem when the news was everywhere that Olamide wouldn't sign him if he didn't drop out from school. Olamide later signed him. Today, he is a graduate and he got signed on campus. All of these was even before the Olamide ish. How bout guys that did buying and selling? In one hostel in your school, you are directly linked to at least 2000 people that can patronize you.


So my question, instead of throwing one away to get another, why not take both in both hands?

Education is key! The fact that you haven't dropped out already shows u still think it is key and you don't want to lose at the end of the day.

Think. You can start up a great business in school there.

You have spoken.well

OkaNaUbe:


I have a B.Sc but I am a business man. You should have listened to your uncle. He is educated and knows that there are no jobs. Education is expensive.
Education may not make you rich but doing a legitimate and profitable business will.

Even me that has a 2:1, my certificate is in my bag. Education gives us an edge and when the opportunity comes, you are prepared but you can have the best of the two worlds.

If you had continued and started your business, you can take a part-time course in any school of your choice. I know many people who have done it.


Since you are in 200L, I would advice you to stick it out till the end. If you go back to business you will start from square one.

The salary range of an average graduate(those that have a paid job) is:

Salary Range ----------------- % of graduates
25-50000 --------;- 70-75% (most fresh graduates)

50,000-100000 -------------- 10-15% (experienced)

100000- 150,000 -------------6% -10% (managers)

150,000- 250,000 --------------5% -7% (more experience, qualification, man-know-man, God's grace)

250,000 and above ------------ 5% or less (more experience, qualification, man-know-man, God's grace)


But as a business man, you can make any of the salary ranges with your freedom, no queries, no shouting, no sack, etc. A business man may not make sales for a month but a day sales profit can fetch you seven months (or so) salary of someone.

you have a point

a solid point.

Mrkumareze:
Bro I don see am tire na m make me dey ask of her belle. In order to cover up old women go dey form say them born meanwhile na buy them buy PIKIN.

with technology, even women of 70 can have HER OWN child.

It's a new era

Pavore9:
If everybody no wan born girl, who our sons go marry? who go born our grandchildren?

don't mind all these people making these comments

Omo wobey ni omo wobey, whether male or female

And may "Omo wobey" not be our portion

that's all

InvertedHammer:
/ Sad.
53+17 = 70
When the boy turns 17, she will be 70 years.
There is more to having a baby than popping him/her out.
Very selfish of her.
/

Nothing wrong with what she did

Admin401:
Ziggylady, this is where those whitemen you so worship go to have sex with ubderage kids, Thailand, 'cause its not legal in their country. They're working hard to fix that.

yea yea

especially Australians

but its not all white men who do that tho

most of them being divorcee and all that crap

It's a disgusting thing to take advantage of these cumbersome kids

but then.....

the Australian bloke just wants to have fun.

Toks2008:
Cooked up story.

Does not look cooked up o

these western men become something else when they get to Thailand, Philippines, and Vietnam.

Sex tourism there is booming

Sex tourism in Thailand is very common, especially amongst westerners
Even black folks are catching up too
Thailand, Philippines and Vietnam are the main culprit customers

Jiang:
1- Ciroma -Bauchi

2- Mandara - Borno( the owner of the defunct bottling company dalaram)

3 Mashidimami - Borno hotels, plastic manufacturing company etc.

4. Ali- Borno ( over 5k cows as at 2008) ( personally had the pleasure of working at two of his ranches, stingy old man!!)

5- Alh Musa- ( his farm produces over 100k bags of rice each season)

6-Bukar Bolori

7-Abdul Samad Rabiu.

8.Alhaji Mai Leda etc

That's just from like 2 states only woh, Do you think having money is about bragging on social media, some people don't need to prove anything to anybody. Some of the people I mentioned don't even know how to operate an Android phone, but they have REAL money, not fake online shyt

the fact that someone show off does not mean that the person is a broke person or is fake

it's a personality thing

ruggedtimi:
lol because u dont follow super rich northern kids on ig. Then you go know say e money and davido dey learn

There are stupendously wealthy folks from across the country, nott just Aboki folks

BillGoldberg:
First and foremost, do not contact anybody from this site or drop your email or phone number. Most Nigerians are hungry animals and will rip you off that 250k you saved already! You have been warned. Simply go through advices and pick the ones that best suit your life.

As an aside, Please do not pay any stuppid tithe neither should you buy any stuppid Keke. Keke Business is almost saturated and you will be harassed on a daily by touts and passengers!

You have some options now. Two of the answers are already here.

First and foremost, why not open a lesson centre from the money you have already? You can even teach adults as per adult education. You can also teach a large number of your school pupils as per afternoon lessons.

Go and learn barbing in your area ASAP! Relocate to a low cost city like Onitsha or Ibadan and open a Salon! With a Salon, you have solved two problems. Housing and Salary because you will also be sleeping there. That means that rent is off the case. Wake up early morning and baff somewhere. Find a way to shitt and also feed. It mustn't be Onitsha. Lagos is ok too. But why I didn't mention it is because unless you have someone or a relative in Lagos... You may suffer accommodation issues! I swear.

Another great option is to learn driving ASAP! Find someone to teach you expert driving because the cities you will be driving in requires such. Also start processin drivers licence immediately if you dont have one! When you are done learning, come to Naira land here and request for a car. Pray to God to find a good partner who may also give you temporary accomodation in Lagos! Sign up on Uber and Taxify and start driving! You will be seeing your daily feeding money at least! Thats it.

The third option is for you to start clothes business with some money you saved. Mind you, don't invest all. Come to Onitsha with like 80-100k. Buy cheap okirika clothes and start selling in schools around you! With the said amount above, You can buy clothes that will fill 7-8 Onions bags. You can also buy cheap party china wears. From your description, you seem to stay in an area not too developed. So I guess, they wont know the difference. Carry your clothes around and sell in schools, universities and colleges of educations. Also go around school hostels shouting "Things For Sell". It pays a lot.


Fifth and Final option is use some part of the money and buy a laptop if you don't have one already. Start Yahoo Yahoo! It maybe long before you pick but if Satan is on your side, a good maga will change your story forever. I don't want to say God because God does not like evil! Am just being realistic bro. (PS: This is a joke and just for fun. I dont and will never support this.)

But never ever go for masters! Its useless. There is little or no white collar job in Nigeria now. The few available ones either pay peanuts or the high paying ones need connection to get! Don't learn any useless computer skills! You may remain hungry Don't become a Keke driver! You will suffer! Think big and become big!

This is the best advice here.....

Nothing to add

Congratulations to you, and your wife, and your baby boy for making it out alive

Not all babies are privileged to make it out of the womb alive.

God bless una

NessaBoo:
Yeah...he's actually really a big deal, he's fondly called the "Guardian of the galaxy" ,

Blacks are always so underrepresented, from George Washington Carver to the black women who worked as mathematicians at NASA in the early 20th century, to James West, who co-invented the microphone and those whose impressive scientific records have nearly languished in obscurity.

Hakeem is as big as they come!!

No one will promote you, but yourself...

Black folks need to promote each other and our achievements, the white folks aint gonna do that for us...

IsaAbubakar:


morals don die kpatakpata
that a lady can now open legs for a man she knew that has no intention of getting married to her just because he's a celebrity

and after everything this one will be looking for husband material after timaya must have chosen another lady to marry

these shameless slots keeps validating our men and keep giving them reasons not to marry afterall why marry when you can easily impregnate a hoe and take custody of the baby just like that

and to think that this hoe is now forming celebrity dey vex me
see one mumu down there dey tell her about the dm she sent since last week

and to think that nairaland is promoting this nonsense shows that the forum is now the shadow of itself

The society has been messed up from day 1,and marriage is increasingly being seen as a liability, because of the so called "incentives" the Nigerian society placed on the marriage thing.

Marriage originally is about companionship and compatibility, but the traditional society promotes it instead as a legal avenue for sex and procreation.

There is more to marriage than that, but since it has been ingrained into the heads of the people here that it is all about the sex and the procreation, now that people can do that outside wedlock, what then is the need for it?

Marriage gives much more than just "legal sex" and "legal kids"; and that is what should be promoted.

Ishilove:
I saw this very remarkable historical piece on Facebook, by Mazi Uba Acho. It's good to finally have pictures. Sort of makes it more than a legend.


Right here are the real MVPS.

Although history lessons taught in school give me a slightly different version of events, I will admit that this article gives me a warm and tingly feeling up my spine.

They were brave!

They fought for what they believed was right

kunleweb:
You will never hear Dangote paying dividends

what are you saying??

I own Dangote stock, and I sure get dividend as at when due, so what are you talking about?

RevLikeBigYansh:
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You are mad.

They have been crying to Buhari to call his Fulani bandits to order and to register their displeasure they took to the streets to protest and here you are in your full stupidity regalia justifying the shooting of unarmed protesters citing lack of protest permit?

Don't let me swear for you.

Bloody afonja

no mind them

LibertyRep:
Oh Lord! Not again!

Zamfara people have really suffered. They are killed by armed bandits, herdsmen and now those paid to protect them.

The worst is that the media has a blackout on the carnage going on their.

#PrayForZamfara

Too bad indeed.

dante0147:
Some people on here are just block heads... He says he is selling is shares in the down stream sector of his company and not upstream, midstream.... to explore and maxise in refining and petrochemicals... HE MAY BE trying to build an oil refinery....

interesting

but will he now compete with dangote if he is building his refinery?

What is more likely is that he wants to buy into Dangote refinery.

That's my thoughts sha

Naajjii:
Your materialism is excessive, get money any means possible. We in the central Nigeria are contended people , yes we like good things of life but not all these excessiveness. Going about defrauding people,drugs, causing pains on people etc

Some of the most content people i have met in my life are northerners, that's for sure

77up:
My prayer whenever I see low and dull people like you is that they 'll never have any coz to stop jeolous Yoruba .

So as Yoruba 'll always be ahead of you people .Continue wallow in pain and headiche on Yoruba matter.

"Yoruba" will always b ahead my black arse

No such thing as "tribe" being ahead.

Success is individual driven, not a function of ethnic group

that's why I laugh when I hear this "Igbo Amaka" thing or People like you saying "Yoruba are ahead"

Better give una sense

There are successful Yoruba and Igbo people on the global stage and in Nigeria too


There are also failed Yoruba and Igbo people as well (a trip to Nkpor park, Upper iweka, Oshodi under bridge and ojuelegba will show you)

So make una forget that thing

Naajjii:
Yes all over the world or region have peculiar crime. But your part of the world seem to make it a culture; drug, baby factory , robbery, internet scam, Yahoo yahoo rituals all are available at your region. This is due to high level of materialism and showing off culture.

"Afonja" and 419 na 5 and 6

They are the reasons why we cannot use credit cards in peace anymore as Nigerian abroad

Yet you are here talking of another part of Nigeria?

The entire country is materialistic, it is not specific to tribe

Niconpoops like "Opa 6" Baddosha, "Investor Bj" etc are hailed in Afonja land