₦airaland Forum

franchasng:
hahahahaha, easy oh, there are sweet ladies among Nigerian ladies oh, sweet and financially valuable ones who are not parasite, and not wicked and prideful like some fools

If u are ready to settle, talk to your mom, aunts, valuable friends, and be active on worthy online discussion forums like Nairaland and believe me u will find one.

Don't write off all our ladies, cos there are amazing ones; I have friends married to great ladies and they inspire me too, so don't give up on our ladies pls

A lot of young men already have

Sad but it's the truth

gloria34:
I understand Ur point. i'm from a poor home (average kind of), trying to make way for myself, supporting my family then i will go ahead and marry someone i earn more than with financial responsibilities like me, even my spirit will not agree

That's good

But what I find interesting is that, if a woman (most women) have this in mind, why are they criticizing the OP and other men for wanting same

What's their problem with that?

Jackipapa:
I married the last born in the family but the entire responsibility is placed upon us. Solution is to pray and let God help you as He is helping us by the day.

sorry about that

BluntBoy:
I don't understand why women can hit men but men are not allowed to hit women.

This nonsense is even promoted in movies. A wife will slap her husband and the husband will just walk away. But a husband will slap his wife and the police will be on his neck.

I am saying this because women are now becoming unnecessarily aggressive. Any small argument, they will be ready to slap you.

This is not good at all. Our daughters must not be brought up this way. They must understand that there are consequences for every action. If you assault a man, don't be shocked if you receive a slap that will make you go deaf for a week.

you have saud the most important thing


THE MEDIA IS PROMOTING IT!


Women not exposed to media that glamorises a woman slapping a man is less likely to do so

franchasng:
Story story! As if that's how you ladies marry too

Nigerian ladies are very cunning and wicked to Nigerian guys.

When a Nigerian lady from a rich home wants to date or marry, she considers the financial capability of the guy first before considering his handsomeness.

A broke guy dare not say hello to her because to her it's a taboo.

What about a Nigerian Lady that is working and earning good salary like 250k and above, she will never date or marry a guy earning below 300k monthly, that will be a big taboo for her. She considers men only based on how much money they have and not how handsome they look.

Go to US, UK. Canada, etc, Nigerian guys living there will abandon all the sweet looking chicks there and go back to Nigeria to find a broke, poor girl to marry and spend on her to become slay queen and then take her to abroad to become a modern chick, but Nigerian ladies living abroad will rather remain single till death than come back to Nigeria to look for a guy to marry and when they eventually try to come to Nigeria to find husband, they only target rich guys and guys from rich family to date and possibly marry.

They dare not date or accept to date or marry a Nigerian guy living in Nigeria and struggling to stand financially, it is a taboo.

Also a Nigerian guy earning over 500k monthly will just meet one fine broke girl from poor family and start to date her and shower her with love and gifts, and even assist her family and the next thing, he marries her and turn her life around for good without considering that she was a poor girl, but our ladies will never do same if they are the ones that have the money, so Nigerian guys must wake up.

What is good for Paul is good for Peter.

Guys marry your class only!

Stop stooping too low to marry broke girls when you have made it financially. Apply Nigerian ladies wisdom of going after rich and successful ladies of your class too, guys wake up

Me I have made it a priority now never to date or marry below my class.

I cannot date any broke girl, never!

I cannot marry any lady that earns less than 250,000naira monthly.

Marry like Royal families; they marry to keep their royal dynasty stronger and richer not just for love based on physical beauty.

Before u marry her, please check her real financial value and worth. Will she help u grow financially or help u diminish The world is becoming more and more capitalist by the day, so to survive and to build a good future for your kids, think like a capitalist; consider financial worth of your would be wife or fiancé first before u say I do

Guys go for your class, we need to learn from our ladies to avoid regrets

interesting perspective you got there... i have to say.


All ill say is...

naija women, and indeed to an extent, their counterparts across Africa are VICTIMS OF THEIR UPBRINGING

WORDWORLD:
Reminds me of Prof. Lumumba.

That is SO SO TRUE!

That is why our electoral process is a HUGE JOKE!

you dont mean it

awelekiti:
I wish you were in kano, you'd probably have had a change of opinion. I couldn't believe my ears what people say here. At sabon garin and keffi last week, people were pulling down buhari's posters. It's hard to believe

sweetrace:
Just stop!!! He is a shameless coward for fighting a woman. Where is his self control? What makes him a man if he can’t have and show some self control? I think parents have to reduce their hustle for money and focus on bringing up their sons right. A man!!! Fighting!!! In public!!!! He tore a woman’s bra!!! Goodness!!! One of the main difference between animals and people is our ability to have and display some self control.

one question for you.....

Dont women also need to be trained to have self control?

Just a question.....

We have so many sick women roaming the streets in that shithole called Nigeria

ultimatebas:
. My ribs oh!! What a story!!! Same thing happened to me . Always believed in Nigeria until i travelled to Dubai,South africa and USA(Orlando,New york and Houston)respectively.

your eyes have equally opened

IshiYANSH:
I'm sad to announce a rape incident in one village in Enugu by Fulani herdsmen. The son of the victim is known as Biguyman. He's a jobless boy and had to drop out of school because his father can't even afford to rent a decent apartment for the family. The poverty is real. I have attached picture of their apartment to buttress my point.

Now the raped woman is lying in the hospital with nobody to help and the son can barely feed to sustain himself. He has resorted to begging on Nairaland. It's a shame we have big men in this country who can't give to the poor and needy.

what's going on in Nigeria?

How come these fulanis keep acting with impunity and no one in govt is doing anything?

kimbraa:
I keep telling people this - with the way the youths want to make quick money at the expense of another's life; when caught, they should be burnt alive. This will definitely send a signal to those intending to join. One has to sleep with one eye closed 'cause some people have chosen the easier way to make money instead of hard labour.

that may work

PrincessB1:
So negative morals has been instilled into their young mind already.
God help Nigeria.

yep unfortunately
That zone has lost its future
And the politicians are happy about that

latsy:
A yahoo boy is in charge of that account.

you have said it all

SouLPoison:
All this guys hitting on the submission thing, it actually depends on the character of the man, I don't think anybody would want their sister to be wih an abusive and disrespectful husband. Nigeria men needs grooming too, I know what am seeing in this my area here alone

yea yea

true

AngelicBeing:

nwoke a bu onye ara

ofwest47:
Nigeria' s glorified secondary schools . Nigerian University education with no particular goal for development especially on the present day science and technology as well as industrial researches and development. All you hear is PhD. Political science, PhD Economics ,PhD. Business Admin. PhD. Law. PhD guidance and counseling, PhD. religious studies and so on and so forth with little or nothing to hear of science and technological engineering, industrial research and development.

what's your problem with the PhDs you listed up there?


Nigeria produces PhDs from a lot of fields

Congrats to them.

It's not easy to be a PhD holder, regardless of what some of you dimwits are saying here

if it's so easy and all, go get your own

Yankee101:
I thought rituals will end with the old generation

But alas

so sad

it's the craze to "make it"

Treasuredlove:
which side chick marries a good man? Its an endless cycle of cheating. You think the husband will be clueless about his wife's past? Hmm
Daz how one of our neigbor's wife was crying wenwenwen....her hubby is a cheat, we said talk to him na....she say she no fit....we ask y? Hmmm she no answer but we know....original slay mama before before....the cycle is endless

interesting

the cycle indeed

pippimp:
Only Nigerians think that way. Nigerians are the kings of sexual morality. When it comes to doing the right thing, not taking or giving bribe, etc, then all of a sudden morality flies out the window. If morality in it's true sense meant anything to Nigerians, the country would not be phucked up today.

exactly

GidiWoodsMan:
It's a lie. She was married to a mid-level banker but the marriage crashed when she started dating Abuja politicians and the husband could not cope with her infidelity. A former senate president was her first major benefactor, among numerous others.

Don't dull yourself, the babe na constituency project. These whores buy new boobs and āss to lure politicians into bed and get paid then they come to social media to talk about God and hardwork.

hmmm...

interesting

bendike:
Oga, Please, please speak of what you know. This lady is a high class " ". She is no role model except for aspiring hoes. Do not compare somebodies working hard mother to such unless you have low morals and consider fruits of high class "runs" success.
This lady's wealth is from a former senate president and an ex house of rep member who is a prince form delta state cum billionaire UK lawyer amongst others. This is a fact and not insinuation.

interesting

AngelicBeing:
Hian, oh my Gosh, this is the first time that I am seeing this, like seriously, Gofundme for immigration purposes, I thought he posted the pictures of his green card and passport few weeks ago on another thread, chai, l am confused

I confuse pass you

justwise:
That ID will not post in this section again for years to come.

better

justwise:
I'm surprised that some people believe this crook.
This guy is a fraudster.
See my attachment

you don't mean it

Omeokachie:
APC is trying very hard to reduce the 2019 elections to U.S. visa, rather than tell Nigerians why they should be voted for again after their monumental failure.

Intelligent Nigerians are not falling for that trick. Buhari must debate.

don't mind these foolish elements

AngelicBeing:
Shut up and face your warrant, nonsense

this guy has come again

tstx:
The first time i witnessed a kidnapping
The first time i was robbed at gun point
The first time i witnessed a car snatching
The first time i saw a son beating his father
All na for portharcourt
Even their police men are touts...... The worst kind of touts.... Their governor gan ma area father for cultism
Portharcourt (especially around mile 3) no be place where sane person go look talk say him wan go live.


Meanwhile yall need to read this.. Especially if you are an African
4 Unethical Medical Experiments That Used Africans As Guinea Pigs

Shame

big shame what ph has become

HigherEd:
This is not good. It is bad for a developing nation when the rich marries the rich. Let a rich man marry a poor woman so he can lift her out of poverty.

Let a poor man marry a rich woman so she can lift him out of poverty. Not everyone must get rich through hard work some must get rich through marital affiliations. As your future president i would create programs that deliberately allows the rich to meet the poor to ensure an even spread of wealth.


Only the middleclass is permitted to marry the middle class.

this got me laughing

ehinmowo:
Normally, I ignore things like this. But let me ask you this. Are you aware that it was Afenifere that first beought the issue of restructuring? Are you aware that the South East is almost a barren land with little or nothing to offer?




I will give room you pple to argue with your keyboard.

The South East is barren with little to nothing to offer? ?

If say this politely


this is NOT a Wise comment to make

InvertedHammer:
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Nigerians are like ostrich.

Titlemania is at its peak.

Everyone is Honorable, Chief, High Chief, His Lordship, Dr. XYZ. It gets absurd when you hear Pharm. Kola, Architect Bello, etc. It gets worse when these titles are appendages to one person: Chief (Dr) Architect His Lordship Michael Bello Akintola. Really? Ever wonder why Nigerian lawyers still wear the seventeenth century colonial wigs?
The level of emptiness is very appalling. I said emptiness because there is no other reasonable explanation for it.

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Low self esteem and emptiness

TheGreenLand:
U no live there again, na last night u come back?! Dis ugo sef!

America and NIGERIA are not the only countries in the world bro
There are dozens of others