₦airaland Forum

darlenese:
maybe u need to come to where I reside, you will see young able bodied guys who sit at home all day doing nothing, they only go out in the evenings and nights to spend money, they dont work but keep buying flashy cars and building houses. they aren't even hiding it anymore , it's that bad.

That is a useless way to live life trust me

lielbree:
My point too. She's foolish or maybe she's just trying to get her own share of the loot! Now that's a smart move. Cos this guy will be back broke in no time.

that's a possibility

it's actually a good thing that the dumb lady did not marry you.

it's apparent that you are yet to grow up

You are not the first and certainly not be the last to be ditched

grow up and move on, cut all communication with her and live your life.

As for the lady, assuming this story is true, carry your cross and stop being silly

You made your choice, and you have to live with it

casualobserver1:
These days even when engineers want to design something quality the client will be shouting they that should cut cost.

I remember one of the houses my aunty had then in Adeniyi Jones. House that was built in the 70s with no crack on any wall or any fault.

Things have really deprecated in this country.

Yea indeed stuff have depreciated

Back in my parents house,they still use that heavy duty padlock of back in the day (im sure you know the padlock) And yea it's been there for decades.


Others on the other hand keeps changing padlock because of inferior quality

Things indeed have depreciated in Nigeria

meforyou1:
they have tried it severally in my office, no way. They are still trying shaa. Na God go punish all of them.

I meant employers


Greed plus a chaotic business environment stands in the way

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
We need to start calculating wages per hour in this exploitative country.

employees won't like that at all

12inches1:
She has no sense. It's not like slavery was a choice. There are somethings you should not say. He might has well have been your brother if some of your people didnt stupidly conive with the the Europeans to sell their people (which remains one of the dumbest actions in African or African American history).

PS: Madam Obianuju If not for Martin Luther King RIP would you even be close to America talkless of achieving anything there?

if not for Martin Luther; D

Let me laugh again


Jim crow was down south not the whole country

chineloSA:
Probably a DM or inbox. In this case white people are happy when they witness a devided race.

I know African Americans are aggressive, rude and look down on Africans. I understand their position. They struggled and suffered alone with no one helping them and now they are competing with all races who never suffered ( Mexicans, Asians, Chinese + Africans )..

I also understand that the position on our sister, but a little private lessons and final warning through their inbox would have helped.

After final warning, savage would be justified.

that's not an excuse

Are they the only ones that suffered?

What about we in Africa who suffered opression by our colonizers?

Or you think the colonizers were here to play?

That air of superiority some of them have should be demystified biko

meobizy:
A marriage where nobody saw engagement, traditional, court or white wedding pictures, is that one a marriage?
To me na baby mama and papa arrangement them get. Until I see those pictures will I think otherwise.

What is this one saying bikonu?

MrImole:
No, I don't...



Hahahahaha hahahahaha



Morons everywhere even on nairaland.



No be only democrats go take both houses na independent candidates, ologogoro!

as I said

till November


oversabi mofo

Emaprince:
Shut up and stop trying to please anybody

Are you worth anything to call anyone bittch arss? Mumu

it's the truth

bitch ass niggas kiss and tell

It's against the code to do that. (except you are say 14 years old)

Gerrard59:
Is it not funny how most males are supporting the first Sarah but demand for sex everywhere? Same Nigerian males who are sex starved now and beseech around for any free vagina?

Is not hypocritical that the majority of males are pained that women are learning from their indiscriminate whoring around?

Is it not amusing that most men are pained that they desire a pristine lady but find it to see one even when they have had sex with almost every lady?

The lesser the hypocrisy, the better. Modern day men have no right to criticise women for their new found sexual liberty. Rather, they should be ashamed that they taught them (women) the wrong way.

You got that right

Emaprince:
You guys keep trying too hard to make women look equal to men in all ramification. I'm no chauvinist.. But please accept the truth.

A woman loses her dignity once she is known for sleeping around. A man can even brag about the number of women he is able to nail and lay. Men are the hunters. Make of it whatever you like.

...also women, even the good ones tend to be attracted to guys(womanizers) who rolls with different women.

If you know how most men discuss about you and your friends when they succeed to get between your legs, you will hate your life.

A man only doesn't discuss his wife or fiance with friends.

only birch ass niggas kiss and tell


it's no surprise tho

a lot of men were not raised properly

MrImole:
My numbskull?

Your skull that's not numb should have known that democrats are not controlling both houses presently; they are not even controlling one.



Update yourself next time before you start spewing gibberish, this is not your village square.

probably you don't know that elections are coming in November


And by the time the results are out, the democrats will be leading in both houses

Even Paul Ryan is not seeking re election because he is smart enough to avoid humiliation


You don't understand English
that's your problem

MrImole:
Which houses?

The ones you built at Ode-Omu?

we will see in November

That's all I have to say to your numbskull

Dreambeat:
Trump can't be impeached for this.The worst that can happen is that it puts his second tenure bid in jeopardy.However,I still think he has a strong support base.

trump is gonna have it really hot

FarahAideed:
Liberals and their overhyped fake news ..I have bad news for all Libtards, satanist , homosexuals and Islamic terrorist DONALD TRUMP IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE till he completes he second term

we will see about that

This mid term elections will be the first blow


with democrats controlling both houses

trump will regret his presidency


I dey look dey laugh am

oluwaseyi000:


here it is presidency that is witch haunting opposition, there- it is opposition that is witch haunting presidency.
trump has been through worse; he'll survive this

I don't think he wull survive o


those powers are out to finish him

tiredoflife:
Observing from a distance I guess u didn't read the part they said they helped to count votes Are children suppose to count votes Make una dey fear God

no mind that goat

Odingo1:
Some Nigerians can defend sotee satan self go dey fear some naija people

That guy you quoted is a known dumbfvck.

He will defend even the devil as long as he is on the side of his bastard saviour Bullhary

EgunMogaji:
Request denied. I shall write as many lines as I wish to

Long live Nigeria, Long live General Buhari. And long live all the great Nigerians that are making a difference.

I'm not your Bro.

Long life Nigeria, YES

Long life Buhari, well that's none of my business, as long as that bastard is out of Aso rock next year, Nigeria deserve a better president

And yea, long live and bless those trying to make a difference in Nigeria, despite the chaotic, poisonous and jaga jaga society

LordAdam16:
Neither is better. It all depends on the overall state of the economy and policy direction.

Gasoline is almost free in Saudi Arabia; in fact water is more expensive than gas. But Saudi Arabia has over $200b in a sovereign wealth fund (note not reserves) for a population that's about the size of Venezuala's (30 or so million).

In a country like Nigeria with over 200 million people, it simply wouldn't work; as we sell less oil than states like Saudi Arabia with 6-7 times less population.

Venezuela's position is complicated by the fact that socialism is done by the government to buy support from the poor, not necessarily like in the Scandinavia where it is done because it allows virtually everybody to live above the poverty line. In 2016, Venezuelan's minimum wage was equivalent to less than $2/mo (when exchanged in the black market).

Many things there are fixed, from exchange rate to prices of most commodities. That's bad, but what's worse is that Chavez and later Maduro expropriated hundreds of functional companies and shared it to incompetent and inexperienced cronies. Here we're just dealing with only DISCOs and we're complaining. Think about the impact wrt hundreds of companies in multiple sectors in a country of only 30m people.

Add in the usual developing country corruption and the fact that the country is effectively now a totalitarian state (a democracy only in name); and you've got a recipe for unimaginable disaster. Which is why inflation is currently at 1 MILLION PERCENT.

It's easy for people to just select parts of the crisis and say, eh it's just the drop in oil price. That doesn't even cover 10% of it. The worse part is that Maduro has a firm control over the country, the bottom 60% of the country is dependent on the government to survive. Imagine where the government has to send water in trucks to towns for their use. No cash in ATMs in some towns.

Like Buhari, Maduro has propped himself up as the defender of the poor and he has demonized the opposition with divide and rule tactic (he's said one half is corrupt like our PDP, and the other half wants to throw the country into civil war like our IPOB). Exchange Buhari for Maduro in either countries and you wouldn't notice any difference. Maduro, like Chavez, even goes as far as blaming the US and phantom imperialists for waging economic war on Venezuela. Then they'd poke the US and when the US responds, they'd use that as propaganda evidence.

Thankfully for us, we have a capitalist economy, most of the intra-national trade is not run by companies owned by incompetent political jobbers, and totalitarianism is still a dream for the Buhari administration (which is why we should be thankful to Saraki for quelling that Buhari's power for excessive executive power).

Venezuela is a political and economic nightmare.

-Lord

gbam

TheOdd1sOut:
They left us here to suffer while they're enjoying

They will now come back here and call us lazy youths while we were working our backs out when they were enjoying.

Thunder fire them

This makes no sense

Do they owe any one anything?

InvertedHammer:
/
Getting caught in the moment and spraying money is one thing, sleeping well at night after the occasion is another.

Some of those spraying may end up counting ceiling at night with occasional tossing and turning.

/

You know what's up

tiredoflife:
And if he didn't think of it all because of the mental torture he has being going through from the wife
The woman should destroy him yet expect up keep money for her kids

Since the man didn't think the woman too is not suppose to think
Funny thing is u are a man

that's another angle too.


But I'm sitting on the fence in this one

I would not support this useless act because I'm a man (I detest beating women)

But the triggers as you have said ("mental torture" et al also dey

But since the man did not think of consequences before hitting his wife, and the wife acted impulsively, I say that the man deserve whatever he gets

But the dependants may suffer


it's a whole tricky situation "

idonhammer:
Only females? timaya if you are an Igbo man you go know say you never Born pikin until you have a male child.

what kind of mentality is this bikonu

tiredoflife:
What I don't get is wives calling out their husbands
OK I have seen cases where the wife will come online call out a husband that works for Shell
Some banks
Now after u call him out and the said organization sacks him due to bad press
U have kids for him
How do u expect him to take care of the kids especially if they attend one of the most expensive schools
Cos after divorce it doesn't stop u women from demanding money from ur ex husband
Most times he may even still pay rent if u have custody of the kids if he sees that ur new place isn't good enough for his kids

So let's say this is true
Was the wife calling him out to kill his career so he will be broke
Domestic violence is bad I agree
But must u make sure he losses his job before u can rest yet after the dust settles u still want upkeep money

The man should think of all that before hitting his wife

MIKOLOWISKA:
OK Who has runaway inflation now Who is visiting the hotels How much land do you use for hotel in rural area

They are just niggas with no sense

LMAO at the comments here

The EU-US relationship is win win for both parties
The US would lose a whole lot going into an all out economic war with Europe.

Agbalowomeri:
You still never sell your fidelity? You wan follow dead body enter grave? Okay o

Meanwhile my junction na 70kobo no be 80kobo; na Honeywell be 80kobo

Honeywell at that amt will ruin me LMAO

As a stubborn man wey I be, I will not sell.

This is too bad

emmanuelpopson:
are they the only socialist economy

at the moment, YES!
very very few countries if they still exist practice the type of socialism that Venezuela practiced

They are lazy, unproductive etc because the oil money was pouring in left and right and they were subsidizing everything