₦airaland Forum

mmsen:
What are you talking about - Europeans were slaughtering each other for hundreds of years. Did the Germans and other Europeans not put European Jews into concentration camps? Did they not kill their fellow Europeans before that because they did not practice the right brand of xtianity?

It's unfortunate that you know such people but it is evident that you don't know much about the rest of the world or human history.

Oga forget that thing
Africans were slaughtering themselves too through those centuries.
Europeans at least admit that some of theur actions were wrong and they try to atone eg the reparations and other things
Africans on the other hand have committed worse atrocities against each other, refuse to atone for it, and ecen see nothing wrong with it.
Sudan? Nigeria? CAR? DR Congo? Even the current attacks in South Africa against fellow Africans.

Forget that thing, the guy you quoted has a big point.
Africans don't love each other, And believing otherwise is self delusion
The endless catfight amongst Africans on Twitter is just a microcosm of the thing
What am i even saying sef?

Even this thread is an evidence
go to politics section on this forum and see too

Africans have to change for us to progress

Mypeople2:
Hmm.. I never knew she is from IMO state with all her fake accent..Carry your fake accent go U.K .You still sabi speak Igbo ?Scammer

Her accent is not Fake
She was born and bred in U.K. hence the British accent.

You people and your complexes tho

Guyman02:
Yes, people have lost confidence in the party, even here in the North you can hardly find any vehicle with the Broom symbol of APC. They just want Buhari to remain there on religious grounds but as for the party, it has lost so much support.
If Buhari declines to contest under the platform of APC that would be the end of the party in the North

Why should they want him there based on "religious grounds" ? and not his performance?

They need reorientation

waternogetememy:
Nwanne forget that thing, ur time pass. Na management u dey.

Ur sister that i married and stare into her eyes every night, gives me that impression that without her brother, lover and best friend, she will not be satisfied spiritually.

Our love making is spiritual, complete bonding on a brotherly level, as lovers and then as peers.


U mumus sold out for material things. U are the biblical Esau that sold his birthright to jacob for a dish of pottage.


Running around with kids answering Kunle whilst u answer ifunanya.


Ur igbo but your children are yorubas. Total disconnect.


i guess it is really a material world.


It is so much fun in our marriage having a break from English atimes and speak igbo to each other.

Now ur here fighting us, like we send una message.

Did we ask u lot to be gold digging whores? Make una just take una time, we feel ur painment.

What you typed up there makes NO sense

Rainmaker69:
Logistics of Nigerian Education. In the final analysis, the young lady is right- nobody owes her anything. The acknowledgment and recognition are enough reward. The reward for academic aptitude is recognition. I don't support the monetization of education, there's no need to get hung up on the value of the prize money.

Thank you

Lest I forget, this is not for everyone tho. Those from clannish and myopic families should stick to each other While those from open minded families shoukd stick to what works for them.
Mixing the two categories above will cause headache, heartache and commotion

All these goes to show that indeed, Nigeria is still a very immature society. Big shame.

I have stayed in other African countries, and in one (I won't mention the name) I came remember any of them who was a "pure blood" yet the social cohesion is on point.

Over there, the mother's culture matters as much to the child as the father's own, so they speak both the mother's language and the father's language, and the educational policy of the country supports this too, because they take teaching of indigenous languages seriously, unlike Nigeria

So you have a society that is cohesive, and they switch between languages effortlessly. I respect them for that mehn, respecting each other, and it has formed a national identity for them, as many are mixed, so it's the country first, then the tribe.


But the case in Nigeria is very shameful
The father's family may want to blot out cultural influences from the mother's side, and do all sorts of stupid things, to cut long story short, lack of respect for the other culture.
In Nigeria, there is still strong clannishness amongst the people
So with all these happening, you wonder why there is a lack of social cohesion in Nigeria

For those of you contemplating inter tribal /racial marriage, if you both recognise that the culture of both of you is important in the life of the children and not try to down play the one from the other side, there will be less tensions.
And if extended family has a strong influence in your family, you will have to stand up to them, because it's your life and not theirs.

For me, I'm open minded to possibilities; and thank God for the family I come from.

That's my opinion

midfinger:
Mr Igbo wannabe -shut your hole up!!

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E pain am.

I will not say because I am Igbo I will not say it as it is.

Yoruba dey cheat, Igbo sef dey cheat too, leave that thing

As long as you are a man, the tendency for you to cheat is there, and it has nothing to do with tribe.

tonychristopher:
Even God told the Israelites to marry within their tribes

So what are we arguing here

God said this because of the religion not bexagaw of tribe
The moabite women who changed to the religion of the jews all married Jewish men with God's approval and some of them were ancestors of Christ e.g. Rahab, and Ruth

So your argument holds NO water

Kellibae:
Now look at ur lines "some of them" but u said "many" do it in imo..
Now i can see biasness in ur comment.
U shot urself in d leg.

Now i bliv u are not igbo forget the igbo u speak.
Anyone can speak igbo.

Na wa....
I am talking based on what I saw na
it was not all of my neighbours back then doing side job, that is why I said some

Na you sabi sha
What you believe changes nothing

AreaFada2:
I am not babalawo to know.
But most of them said they wanted to avoid those things by marrying outside of tribe.

But they got even worse marrying outside.

But perhaps they turned down guys that might have been better within tribe by deliberately choosing to go outside. At least, the siblings who married within tribe remain married, and from what is known, those ladies appear to have got a better deal.

Therefore maybe your question should have been directed at the ladies who were biased against their own tribe. They used the experiences of some relatives from a previous generation to negatively judge their own tribe. Maybe they should have realised that whether within or outside tribe, things can go awry. My unscientific observation is that for those who married around similar time within tribe, divorce rate is much lower than those who went outside. Maybe just a coincidence, but it is as it is.

Marriage is not that easy. You need every support structure you can get. Friends, family, etc.
While love is great, it can be fickle and can also fade. Mills & Boon love exist only in Mills & Boon.

Let's not fool ourselves: race, tribe, religion are still very important factors people consider when marrying. I have seen it across many countries. What would be ideal in 21st century and what happens in reality do not always sync.

It depends really.....
There are many intra tribal marriages that hit the rock too, especially Yoruba to Yoruba marriage.

The bottom line is that a couple that is not ready to put in the work and compromise will lose his or her marriage, regardless of which tribe or race the person marries from.
And it's worse in Nigeria tho because of black man reasoning

Kellibae:
lol.. ur comments ar funny anyways
but get my facts rights..its more rampant in soutwaste i kno wat im.tellin u.

Where a pregnant woman will not respect her current situation and still go around bleepin.

Well, I grew up amongst them
And I saw this behaviour among some of them
.But that does not mean that did that because they were Yoruba.

It was done because they made poor choices

afroxyz:
While y'all are still brewing in 17th century ideology, I've matched my action with words

Nice

Kellibae:
U ar not!.. i kno u right from time

Nne hapu okwu a
Ndigbo na-eso eme oringo

henryhemon:
Go to Owerri and see for yourself.

Leave am

Kellibae:
Which married men in owerri hotel?

You will not understand
I be Nwafot dia, I know as e dey go

asuustrike2009:
It called what Mr know it all

That is assault; because it looks like an attempt We can say Kemen sexually assaulted her

Kellibae:
Its more rampant in yoruba land both men and women

Igbo men cheat a lot too, it's not about tribe.
All those married men in owerri hotels as we speak are what? Herdsmen?

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

Nwoke
You are crazy

asuustrike2009:
It still doesn't change the fact that there was no consent.Whether she exposed herself or not as far she didn't give the go ahead, it's term rape. No matter how you change or twist it, it's still called rape

Oga what happened was not RAPE.
Use the real term.

And you are still arguing on ignorance

padiga047:
this is not the video, idiot

See this mumu guy o
Oya show us the one you have. I will not even upload the one I have, show us the one you have

ephi123:
In Nigeria maybe such things can be twisted. In advanced countries, even if the girl is drunk a man can be jailed for rape not to mention she just being asleep.

If she did not explicitly give consent, it is considered RAPE. People should learn self control.

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/men-face-jail-for-rape-if-women-are-too-drunk-to-consent-in-bed-to-boost-convictions-7175922.html

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-34470205

And one more thing.
Kemen did NOT rape T Boss

ephi123:
In Nigeria maybe such things can be twisted. In advanced countries, even if the girl is drunk a man can be jailed for rape not to mention she just being asleep.

If she did not explicitly give consent, it is considered RAPE. People should learn self control.

http://www.standard.co.uk/news/men-face-jail-for-rape-if-women-are-too-drunk-to-consent-in-bed-to-boost-convictions-7175922.html

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-34470205

It can still be twisted
NFL players escape with things like this all the time
He touched her, and turned away, then he left her.

I'm telling you there is a loophole in a situation like this.
If he held her and she moved, and still attempted to hold her, then he would be on the losing end

The law is an ass girl

prettyboi1989:
Lmao this shows Nigerians can fall for anything presented to them on social media and someone had to bring this crap to Nairaland. For ya'll information the account @realtboss doesnt belong to tboss, its another person thats behind the account to get twitter followers. tboss' twitter account is @officialtboss and she even condemned the impersonation done by @realtboss

I was about to say that too.


There was NO way t boss will talk in such manner.

padiga047:
Somebody dey sleep, u go and b touching her pu**y

Kemen was lucky he was not in an advanced country.

And one stupid 'girl' above me b talking nonsense

All of you will just be talking rubbish
In an "advanced" country, Kemen still has a chance of winning in court if you don't know, based on that video circulating.

I'm not saying what he did is right, I'm just telling you as it is without sentiment
They have shared a bed before
And other stuff. He misread the signs (his bad) And that is what causes this mess.
And if after t boss rolled over and he stood up from the bed, then he can argue that he read that as a no, and left her

You don't know how things can be twisted in law o

eyinjuege:
If you know what happened to her was wrong, and it also happens to others on a daily basis, why then don't you speak against it as a nation to make such stop?
It will be to the greater good of those at risk of abuse.
I never watched the show, and the little I know about it is just snippets from NL.
I'm not even sure of what the Kemen did exactly, but you say its wrong. Did he touch her boobs? He fingered her? Or kissed her?
Someone up there said she was unconscious?
If he touched her inappropriately without her consent, then he deserves to be fizzled out of existence. Possibly ostracized, so that the women folk can feel safer while on Danfo/BRT/ a queue and they won't live with the fear and trauma of unsolicited tapping.

Remember such things and even worse has happened to others too. They all have fathers, brothers, cousins. Most importantly remember it can happen to anyone. Don't let it reach close to home before you condemn wrong doing.

Evil triumphs when good men do nothing... Edmund Burke

What is the correlation between fizzling him out of existence and women feeling safe
What kind of logic is that?

See, we have established that what he did was wrong and he was disgraced and punished for it.
But the thing is a bit ambiguous, because it happened between the sheets.

Even NFL players that has done worse than him are still playing and living their life.
I'm just saying

flexcool131:
You guys on here are not getting it at all, Tbosz family are not trying to gain attention but for AY to humiliate her sis on stage in the name of making money is not fair to her, that's pure wickedness. How many of can accept that if any of our family get that kind of humiliation when the other is making money from it? Truth

Did you watch the show yesterday night?

@OP This list without TTT is a joke

@OP This list without TTT is a joke

alfonso36:
Some of you wil l be in america and be getting angry when we insult Nigeria, you dont know how much we are going through, you dont know how hard we struggle to feed daily, you dont know how we sleep in darkness all the time, when your parents have labored so much to see you through school, and you come back home after graduating without job, you dont know how frusterating it is, how painful it is to see your family suffer without been able to help, if you are lucky and you got a job lets say like 20k monthly, its either you are been owed your Salary or one Oga is there frusterating your life, theres absolutely nothing to enjoy here, my friend travelled to Romania with the help of his parents, his first message to me was, guy we are living in hell in nigeria, Please nobody should come here and spit trash again o, None of you is even willing to help.

I feel you sha
Things are hard here

pansophist:
your friends wealth will not elevate him from the structural poverty Nigeria thrives in. Common South Africa, you'll need a visa to go. Your money will not exempt you from enduring the unstable power supply, guarantee you a reliable quality medicals etc. if I were you ma guy, I go Port.

You got that right bro

jayriginal:
Christ on a stick!
Warrisdis?

I don't even understand that poster again. It's good to be patriotic tho