₦airaland Forum

Jgovt:
There's only 2 Universities in Nigeria It's UNIBEN and others

naa I disagree

mysticwarrior:
The new generation banks tends to employ young and good looking people, if a female banker starts having more than one kid as a banker the bank will be looking of an excuse to sack her, if a male banker has reached the Age of 42 the bank would also be looking for a way to sack him so they can be replaced with fresh looking young blood, that is why you see banks employing all the time, but this doesn't apply to all banks.

more like the banks exploit the vigour of young people

And drop them when they are done

only to get new willing younger hands and brains to take over

it's a pity

AngelicBeing:
Refrain from calling the biggest country in Africa a shithole, let's continue to pray for Nigeria, prayers works wonders, I believe in the power of prayers to change the fortune of Nigeria, l suggest that every member of Nairaland.com should start 700 days of fasting and prayers, break your fast with fruits by 6pm daily, avoid all manner of wickedness, sexual immoralities etc, pray for Buhari to be able to govern the nation, pray for good health care, roads, security, power, elimination of poverty, just pray and pray more for Nigeria and things will change in the next 6months, prayers is the solution to solve the problem in Nigeria

werey re o

I don laugh fall for ground for my shop now

CanadaOrBust:
Who knows which place is really “better”. Example, how come Canada has higher suicide rate than Nigeria (see below)

the reason for suicides most of the time is not economic in Canada

however
many are killing themselves in NiggerArea because of the ECONOMIC hardship, frustration and hopelessness

imagine an orphaned breadwinner for siblings earning 85k in Lagos

can you imagine the pressure he is facing?

Safari29:
people move bro. they either get tired, get a better offer or get sacked after a while and leave. it applies to most companies. some do in-sourcing, so you might not see their advert. A friend just left Firstbank that i have been rooting for, management position o, to Canada

its like Canada is the new in thing

a fmr classmate of mine at PwC told me that many In his firm have left for Canada o
And even him is processing same

I was like

this is the same job that 80% of Nigerian youths will kill for

Backfornow:
No memes??. I was waiting on one from you.

you sef sabi the brother

Madisonsqua:
Ok listen @Oyinyechiakata, I don’t know if u are the lady in question or not. But if u are, I will love to clear something for u and your lover. I don’t know u or your lover but I was once in his shoe. But now happily married to my partner for some years now.

Firstly this is a faceless forum and I will advise you to be a little bit more respectful of people’s opinions, either ‘good’ or ‘bad’ , not take critics too seriously and also generally direct your anger towards your lover if u have to do so.

People here don’t take side as u can see some have showed so much concern about you and even questioned his love for you. The question of if it’s ‘true’ or ‘not’ is between the two of you.

When it comes to making life decisions, people generally have worries and concerns. Some deal with this all by themselves while some seek for public opinions.

His concerns were more of money, life and migration. Ain’t saying this is right, but has bitter as this may sound, every intending migrant will ask about these three things before uprooting their own life for anyone. It’s not unusual for people in developed countries to quickly see themselves as the victims. So I will advise you stay calm for now.

think about it this way. he knows you are not rich but you are doing everything you could to have a better future. Which is the best thing and I must commend you for that.
In the course of this, you’ve incurred some personal debt and you still planning to have more. A potential partner is not wrong for having concerns about it. If anything, it shows he’s not planning to dump you so fast and he’s concerned that once you’re married, your problem becomes his. Which is generally true because you will end up sharing bills and other household expenses. And if u can’t afford a lot due to your repayment then he has to step up for you.

Nigerians are not so exposed to living on debt as we do in developed countries and our orientation about debt is completely different. Nigerians grow up being told to stay away from debts and we have no government or institutions financial support.
When I migrated myself, I will get mad at my partner for acquiring new loans or credit cards. I thought her about finances and how to live on a budget (not the easiest job anyway). But you know what? 2 years later I realised having debt is even a good thing for myself if I wanna go far in this countries. As long as they’re for the right reasons.

My Orientation changed even though I was still very careful with my finances. All over the world, Nigerians are making history and working their ass off to have a better life. Your partner is planning to migrate and also work his ass off but he’s concerned if he would be responsible for your loan. That’s for you to know he’s inexperience about how things works out there.

The same way your family is concerned about you falling in love with a scammer, he is also concerned about being used considering the news we’ve been told as African growing up that our men have been used and abused by foreign women just the same way some people around you think all Nigerians are scammers.

I’m not encouraging you to continue or end your relationship, but just telling you’ve got heaps to learn about each other if you truely wanna be together.

this is a very valid and balanced point you have to there

Onyinyechiakata:
WOW LOOK AT WHAT WE HAVE HERE !
THIS IS YOUR ONYINYECHI SWEET "AKATA " you speak of I am across the world and have stumbled upon
A whole forum bashing and judging me about making a better living for MYSELF IN MY country!
How could you tell me to MAKE DECISIONS for myself when I shared with you about my people accusing you of being a user and scam! Because you are from Nigeria! I didn't listen I followed my heart I made a decision to use my VERY OWN JUDGEMENT , I listened to what you said and respected your wishes all for you to turn around behind my back and do the very same as me except its from COMPLETE ICOMPENTENT and IGNORANT TROLLS , you value these opinions !?? YOU ARE ASKING ABOUT Finance , money and opportunity not once saying you love me .. the username Byron asked if you did IN FACT LOVE ME and YOU couldn't even answer! That is what marriage is about LOVE ! I fell in love because I thought you were so different ... not looking to use me but I see I was so wrong ! YOU ALL HAVE NO IDEA what its like to be an AMERICAN so really all your opinions do not matter. I have not committed a crime ! I simply did what was best for my future. If you all had the chance you would ! How do you think you can afford school here , YOU WOULD HAVE NOTHING MOVING HERE.I was willing to go after OUR DREAMS we talked about together! I DIGRESS I am appalled in this community. My family and friends were right after all I wont say this about all of NIGERIA but I FELL IN LOVE WITH A SCAM !
I could be so DIRTY and EXPOSE WHO YOU REALLY ARE! EXPOSE SECRETS AND FLAWS YOU WANTED ME TO ACCEPT AND I DID BECAUSE I LOVE YOU and still care.! AND YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT ME TAKING MONEY FROM YOU! PATHETIC! AS FOR ALL YOU STUPID JUDMENTAL PEOPLE I PRAY YOU GET A LIFE AND EDUCATE BEFORE JUDGING !

YOU KNOW WHO THIS IS!

oh lawd

now the cookie has crumbled

I don't even know what to say

CanadaOrBust:
My moniker is actually parody - I joined NL at a moment everybody and their illiterate uncle was talking about moving to Canada

lmao

I see

but Canada is a good place to live tho
even tho I have not been there before

my relatives there have good things to say about the place

And thank Trudeau everyday for the opportunity express entry gave them to "flee that hopeless $hithole"

justwise:
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Your choice of ID disagreed with that.

I thought same too

[quote author=AngelicBeing post=80649711][/quote]lollmao
you don madt finish

lexy2014:
Bros read am again. U will c that it was d journalist that decides to misquote him& put a spin on d story:


Also speaking on his local growth, Burna Boy stated that Nigerians only acknowledge him now because the rest of the world does.

“Nigerians love me a lot more now because they can see that the whole world likes me, too. They think I’m something special, but I’m not."

What d journalist wrote& what Burna actually said are two different things

okay
my bad

should have read more in depth

thanks for the clarifications

shomutuski:
On becoming one of the richest Nigerian artists, he skaid, “You are only as rich as where you come from, and Nigeria has a lot of poverty.


Word

that is dope

this is a very dumb comment to make Burna .many of us have liked your music from the days of "Run my race"

blackslayer:
feminization of wannabe black men! chris brown looks like a man bish with that hair despite all the tattoos to look tough! All he knows how to do is beat on a woman...i like his music though!!!

what is this one saying?

largehead:
If not for Entertainment, Nigeria would have been a failed nation triggered by the Muslims in the country.

lmao

kumulus:
Even when there's nothing to secure lmao....na we!!!

I can't even move freely like that
a nobody like me o
talkless of those who claim to have money and are well known
that is why convoy boku 4 road
And policemen are now the personal security of the so called "elite class"

Afamed:
Anyone government finds to be a threat to the unity of a nation just like a case of Asari Dokubo Vs FG years ago.
Elzazaky definitely is a threat to the unity of the nation. Or if She's is captured today and next week, he's taking to court and he's granted a bail. Will you say government should allow him the bail conditions despite he has a right to be bailed?

this does not make an iota of sense

HOW is that Shiite guy a threat to national peace and interest?

Myself2:
One of the few still using their brains

I don't understand

opebiboy:
Escoba smith old street hustler. Street pure pass

And you know this how?

just asking

ruggedtimi:
Iyabo ojo is applying regina daniel mother's tactics

well
that MAY be the case

0KNM:
To flog this girl with kondo dey hungry me

don't be a pervert

princeade86:
American musicians are borrowed poss, yet our billionaire musicians trying hard to meet them and even post it on their social media as if it's an achievement. is like something dey worried akon when he made such comments.

what is this one saying?
.Jay Z/ puffy na borrow pose to you abi

yeye

Mongomeyen:
His intention was to block the ball if every other player on the wall jumps and Meyrez takes a ground shot.

EXACTLY so

Ostrogoth:
Dont mind those fugly things with overblown egos. Actually most Nigerian girls start looking old from age 23 because they dont exercise, nor watch what they eat. Thats why you find girls who were princesses in their lane at 18 desperately praying/desiring for a relationship at 23. One of them once told me when we were in final year in OAU, "man na man" meaning any man will do!

huh?

Boyooosa:
hmmm, exactly where i was coming from. you will love life in America... you will not love to die there....

on my last trip to naija I went for one of these fancy concert/comedy stuff at Eko Hotel
was not happy with the ambience there at all

Boyooosa:
there is life in America

yea true

Naija tall fences every where and that general feeling of insecurity

this is so nice
And just like the others says
it's good to see Joe again
As for that one talking opata that jenifee lopez looks like she is in her 40s may be you should use soap to wash your eyes
she looks mid thirties AT WORST
And yea the other guy is right a lot of wonen in naija don't age well when I see some of my female secondary school mates I'm like

AkataWoman:
I do have an idea. It’s because of idiots like the one spewing his anti-America nonsense. Too many fools who are all talk no action.

naa

just cool down eh

those of us wey sabi the greatness of America sabi am

AkataWoman:
You sound absolutely insane. I take it your US visa was denied or you were deported. The fact that an AFRICAN of all people would try to insult a developed country-ANY developed country-is crazy to me. You’re not decent enough to try to improve Nigeria. Like a selfish coward you run to suck from another country’s teat.

America doesn’t need its billionaires to do anything for its people. We have opportunity and means to do for ourselves. However, our wealthy people do spend millions putting people through school, building homes, schools, etc. Many even help out the continent of Africa (ex: Bill Gates & Oprah). What does Africa’s billionaires do except live large while everyone else lives in squalor?

. The fact that an AFRICAN of all people would try to insult a developed country-ANY developed country-is crazy to me. You’re not decent enough to try to improve Nigeria. Like a selfish coward you run to suck from another country’s teat.

there is something wrong and condescending about this comment
you have zero idea of the dynamics in Africa and why a good number of African countries remain underdeveloped (not all)

If you did you will not talk this way.