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This my state governor na correct gadus

bigpicture001:
Guy be careful ooo if children is among your priorities in marriage... Them plenty for my area ooo.. about 6 of them... they all bullshit relationships faced money making and found the monies , not through runs oo... Real hardwork... Now they are not so attractive for young men to marry, so they all married failed men...

Failed men, as we call them here are men who have tried and tried to make it and failed to make it.. they may still b very good men, but in terms of financial resources, they have failed and are now quite old ... Usually about 40+... These ladies married them, infact made the marriage work... They men are handsome, gentle, and faithful,... Problem b say.. all the 6 ladies no fit born...

One is now 43 working in access bank.. married a 35 year old very handsome failed tailor guy, quite tall and loayal to her..

One is a surveyor, owns her own office ND also a big and good jewelry store... Married a secondary skl very handsome gentle tall teacher it's been 3 years den no born... Sh even bought the guy a car..

Another is a. Guy who is young like 35, handsome can hold his own , but long throat if marrying good working class lady made him marry a 39 year old lady who is a doctor in a state hospital, they live an elite life.. but it's been 7 years.. no pikin..

Another is a 4p year old farmer, sh delved into at say age 27, built her poultry farm to one of the biggest in my local government, sh get over 80crates of eggs per day..sh has buses for her business, ride a clean Toyota Corolla car, built her parents house and have several workers.. hardworking, independent, but sh realize late sh needed marriage also...now sh married another failed guy who failed to secure permanent staff status from a marketing possible at fcmb..the guy is frustrated...they are now 4years,no child....

Another is a primary skl male teacher who went for a lady who is 38, sh works for a federal university as non teaching staff and can hold her own and have access to good loan... They are 4 years them never born...

All these I listed , believe me, it's not concocted.. they all live in my neighborhood... Plz be careful my man... We are Africans ND like children...

If we as men now start to reject those old ladies, there will b awakening of concern to get married on time.. but if we keep taking them in cuz eventually they made money, we keep encouraging more to toll their paths..

You go too like amebo

Tufia

Nice2023:
"A man without assets is a man without leverage.

Before 35, you need to stop living like time is on your side. It isn’t. Every year wasted is a year you don’t get back. Owning a car and land isn’t about luxury....it’s about control. Control over your mobility, your options, and your future.

Here’s the game plan:

1. Master a High-Income Skill – Forget chasing quick cash. Learn a skill that will pay you consistently, whether it’s sales, coding, trading, or business. Money follows skill.

2. Control Your Expenses – Stop flexing for people who don’t care. Cut out useless spending, overpriced trends, and social validation that does nothing for your future. Every unnecessary dollar spent is a dollar stolen from your dreams.

3. Build Credit & Save Ruthlessly – Use credit wisely, not recklessly. Stack your savings like your life depends on it, because it does. A land deposit today is wealth tomorrow.

4. Make Money Work for You – Invest. Whether it’s real estate, stocks, crypto, or a side hustle, put your money in places where it grows while you sleep.

5. Move in Silence, Win in Private – Announce nothing, just execute. Let them see your success, not your struggle.

Why? Because past 35, life doesn’t get easier....it gets realer. Your value as a man is tied to what you build, not what you fantasize about. A man with assets moves differently. He doesn’t beg, he negotiates. He doesn’t wait for opportunities, he creates them.

Start now. The future is coming whether you're ready or not."

Abegi
You dash them money?

If you like make Una complain

Una go complain tire

This is the motto of Nigerian polithiefians “ they can only complain, they won’t do anything “

YoungBTCxchange:
there are two different types of enemies girl,
Some people don't just like you but they have never thought of bad against you, why some people want to see the person death by all means, they render people's children useless, made some ladies not to find their husbands, sending sickness everywhere, now are you going to pray for this people to live so that they will keep destroying and killing people.
You need to pray a prayer of back to sender, whatever they wish on you will return back to them.
Human being with evil hearts don't go away, they always plan evil all the time, they might be in Nigeria and be sending arrows to someone in America.
Baby girl you better realize that you are in Africa

Hmmm
True true
For such enemy, they must die o

One president like that is an example of such kind of enemy.

Peter obi should stop this

Nigerians don’t need a saviour, Nigerians have Stockholm syndrome. They love suffering
Don’t try to prove anything for the sake of wanting to save Nigerians.

YoungBTCxchange:
in the Bible both the old testament and the new testament, almost very body there pray for their enemies to die, so why Will I be the one praying for my enemies to live.
The enemy planning for someone death, if you don't pray fire on their head, they might succeed one day because human beings hardly repent. Na who die na him lose, some will repent in their old age that time they might have killed many people before already before repenting

Ah
No o
I’m not praying for my enemy to die o
I can only pray for such to move far away from me

We4all:
Petty things? Would you consider adultery or physical abuse petty?

Getting divorced has nothing to do with being a celebrity. Some women will never leave their marriage no matter the level of abuse, while others won't hesitate to leave when things go south. Would you choose to stay with a man who doesn't value you because you want to stay married by all means?

you clearly saw where I wrote some issues are bad that the only way out is divorce right?

And getting divorced is not about been a celebrity, I used a celebrity cos that’s who toke is.

But why does it have to end with divorce
Can’t issues be worked out in marriage?

I know some issues are bad, that the only way out is divorce.
But I feel most celebrities divorce over petty things.

Well, what do I know

6
11-5

True

I’m not praying for my enemy, sorry

I have distanced myself from such people
Self peace is key

Glory to God

God please if this is how the next world will be, abeg jejely allow me come as a panda.

Plenty foolish people full this thread

Mehn
Majority of Nigerian guys have very low and minute IQ
Substandard intelligence, lack thinking faculty

Ode leleyi

My flesh my blood
The prodigal son
Long john

eepeepook:
I’m surprised she can drop a healthy child at forty.

Ignoramus ignatius

luminouz:
Nah it's YOUR FACE!!

Yeah thought as much YOUR FACE

Is this Tuface??

Haaaa

Why does he look like gorilla …. Allegedly ooo

From the beginning of this topic
Igbos no come beat chest o
But the hate from Yorubas as well as their jealousy was what greeted me first

Una too do ooo

Katakata10:
Ok

We thank the third-class citizens but they should go develop their own land and stop trying to grab other people’s land.

No matter how much you have contributed to another person’s land, the land is still not yours and you cannot grab it

In centuries to come
There won’t be a Yoruba land or Igbo land
All these gragra is not necessary
When Yorubas die do they go with a piece of the land?
Think better

Negroid001:
Make dem go develop their papa land first. Lousy set of people.

You want handkerchief or bucket?

I for say nursing
But, e don tey wey nursing loose respect from equating registered nurses to quacks to equating them to prostitutes.

I guess that’s in Nigeria
Outside Nigeria, there is an almost respect

Astonmartin:
Go on with you plan, Bro.Using the pseudo company number, Invite her over for an interview. Time should be 6am as that would make her come to your house on Sunday and pass the night there in anticipation for the interview. You know the drill as I don't have to say much ..Just make sure she know you'll be traveling to a another state that same Monday afternoon as she's leaving for the interview, gaskia

Devils advocate

Op talk true
You no wan help am before, na lash you wan lash am in the pretence of getting her a job.

The girl sensed this and played you 1-0 🤣🤣🤣
The thing come pain pe as the Omo ogbon wey you be one banny play you
Only God knows how you thought of this your revenge plan
All because of Pvssy
Later Una go say Una get sense.

Go on with your revenge if it will make you better.

Both of Una go Dey alright Laslas