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Politics / Re: How Boko Haram Jihadist Snatched 25 Communities From Niger State Govt - FIJ by UltimateStarman: 2:49pm On Oct 10, 2021
HonNL:


Foundation for Investigative Journalism
The prophecy will be fulfilled
Religion / Re: Why Do Many People Fear Death? by UltimateStarman: 2:48pm On Oct 10, 2021
Omooba77:
Why do many people fear death? Death is just transition from one realm to another, if you have Jesus, going to heaven should be a thing of joy.

Death is the fear many join occultism, doing rituals and so on.
HE loves you
Politics / Re: Isa Misau: Nigerians Can't Afford To Risk Tinubu As President by UltimateStarman: 2:47pm On Oct 10, 2021
Family / Re: Should I Cut-off My Parents? by UltimateStarman: 2:46pm On Oct 10, 2021
chinasaekpere:
Hello guys, this is a very strong decision I want to make, I need your help to make this decision or not to. I am thinking of cutting my parents off because they have caused me enormous financial setback as a result of the bad decisions my father made. Firstly, I will like to give you a background of the story.

I come from a family of 4 and I am the first child of my parents. My dad is a retired federal government worker, he worked for many eyes as a school cert holder (so obviously, he didn’t hold very top position until he retired, probably the max in reached was level 8 or 9). He trained me through the university and he retired during my NYSC, at this point one of my brothers was in the university (he never graduated because he was nonchalant), my 3rd brother was a jambite and the last born was in primary school. The Jambite graduated this year and the last born is now a jambite.

In 2013, my dad retired and received gratuity worth several millions. My mom tried persuading him to build a house in the village because we are Igbos but Based in ogun state but my dad refused and insisted that he was going to develop his land in ogun state by building a 4 flats building (up stairs) then start business with the remaining money in Ogun state (apparently, he got the revelation from church to do that), he never completed the house. My dad is very religious until date, so out of the money he paid tithe, bought instruments for church and made some donations. Immediately I finished serving, I got a job with a pharmaceutical company as a medical sales representative. I was receiving a salary of 80k with commission. Things started great. I served some money I joined my dad in some of his fish farm business, I was in Enugu while he was doing the farm business in ogun state. When it was time to harvest the fish, I was told stories about theft, I spent 700k on the business but was able to recover 200k because I had to help him offset some debt.

To cut the long story short, my dad started having serious financial issues, couldn’t pay school fees of my last born in school, had several debts just about 2years after collecting millions as gratuity due to his wrong choice of investment. Ofcourse the financial burden transcended to me, until a point that my dad got into trouble from another debt, he spent church harvest savings that he was suppose to remit. I was paying my brothers school fees worth 150k per term, i had to take money from company’s account to help him offset the debt hoping that he would pay up and I will pay some before company finds out. The whole financial burden was so huge for a starter like me, owing to the fact that I lost all my savings to the fish farming business and I also had to pay house rents in Enugu and pay other bills.
I accumulated a debt of 1.2million with the company and then is started paying it by bit until the company found out that there was a deficit of 400k. I was arrested and was in the cell for days.
To get out of the cell, I had to sign a legal agreement for a payment plan of paying 30k monthly to offset the debt. Luckily for me, I got a 60k job 1month after, my dad couldn’t pay my last siblings school fees, I took him to Enugu and started Paying his bills. I was also paying 30k from my salary every month until I paid all the lost the job again during the heat of the recession. I managed to pay up that debt.
Since 2018, I haven’t really done any serious job, I started driving Uber in 2019, saved up some money, my mom needed money for business last year, i borrowed her, she couldn’t complete the payment. The car I was using to do the Uber got bad again.
I had to look for a remote job now in Lagos, I saved up money and learnt how to do footwear, i Am saving some money to pay my house and shop rent and get machines.
Last two month my dad called that he needed money for my brother’s school fees so he can complete his SSCE exams. He promised to payback mid last month, now I have not seen the money and my that was my house rent I borrowed him. My house rent expired in August. I called him, and ofcourse, he is playing the emotional game. Now, they are in serious financial mess and they seem not to want stop dragging me into it and it’s not as if I am doing great myself. I am not, I’m struggling to make something after mortgaging a lot of time paying several debts. It is overwhelming.

The point is, I am 31years old, I’m looking forward to making my own family and it seem if I am not careful, they will drag me back from this objective. Anytime I try to organize myself, they come up with their monetary problems and it hinders my growth. My plan was to get a shop and equip it before the end of first quarter 2022 from the saving I made from my current 80k salary and now they have collected my house rent in form of a loan. That’s a drawback again.

I have to make my own family, I need to shed some burden to be able to do that. I also want to be a parent and I never want to depend on my kids in my old age.
Should I cut them off?
If no, what do you advice that I do?
Never
You are blessed
Soon You shall see
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Central African Republic : World Cup Qualifier 2 - 0 On 10th Oct 2021 by UltimateStarman: 2:43pm On Oct 10, 2021
robosky02:
world Cup Qualifies sun. 10th Oct.2021


Return Fixture

Nigeria vs Central African Republic vs Nigeria

Date: Sun.10th Oct.2021

Time,: 5:00pm

Venue: Stade Barthélemy Boganda Duala Cameroon


Lalasticlala. Mynd44

https://www.google.com/search?q=nigeria+vs+central+african+republic+&client=tablet-android-transsion&sxsrf=AOaemvJHZRb_9fk4hN79saQn8JOO2tl5vQ
Nigeria will win
The prophecy will be fulfilled
Politics / Re: Ministry Of Justice Goes Bankrupt Under Malami, Can No Longer Pay Salaries - SR by UltimateStarman: 2:43pm On Oct 10, 2021
AllahThePig:
EXCLUSIVE: Nigeria's Ministry Of Justice Under Attorney-General, Malami Goes Bankrupt, Exhausts 2021 Budget, Unable To Pay Workers' Salaries - Sahara Reporters



http://saharareporters.com/2021/10/09/exclusive-nigerias-ministry-justice-under-attorney-general-malami-goes-bankrupt-exhausts
repent
Politics / Re: Top Politicians Who Broke Defection Vows by UltimateStarman: 2:42pm On Oct 10, 2021
Nemere2020:
No fewer than 11 top politicians in the country, including serving governors, a former vice president, lawmakers and others, have broken their vows on defection, records by Daily Trust on Sunday have revealed.



https://dailytrust.com/top-politicians-who-broke-defection-vows
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
They are fulfilling the prophecy
Family / Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by UltimateStarman: 2:40pm On Oct 10, 2021
MoyosoreEkenimi:
My guy, na so. Endagearing planet.
Constructive argument
Family / Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by UltimateStarman: 2:39pm On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
Nope
you are blessed
Politics / Re: Back-Up Employment With Productivity, Reduce Expenditure — Kalu Tells FG, State by UltimateStarman: 2:39pm On Oct 10, 2021
Politics / Re: NUPENG To Commence Strike On Monday. by UltimateStarman: 2:38pm On Oct 10, 2021
Religion / Re: Pandora: How Pastor David Oyedepo Set Up Family Offshore Company In Tax Haven by UltimateStarman: 2:36pm On Oct 10, 2021
TV/Movies / Re: Toke Makinwa Unveiled As Anchor Of Gulder Ultimate Search 2021 by UltimateStarman: 2:36pm On Oct 10, 2021
Politics / Re: HURIWA: It Is Profiling To Arrest Chiwetalu Agu While Gumi Supports Bandits by UltimateStarman: 2:35pm On Oct 10, 2021
Crime / Re: Sarafina Bulus Achi: Missing Lady (Photo) by UltimateStarman: 2:35pm On Oct 10, 2021
Christophorus:
Missing Person!!! Last Seen On Thursday Morning, 7th Oct.

She's married. Wife to our friend.
Pls anyone with any useful information contact the number on the flyer.

Pray with us cry
Thank you.
Don't worry
She's with HIM
Celebrities / Re: Whitemoney Looks Good In New Photos by UltimateStarman: 2:34pm On Oct 10, 2021
Gbedulord:
Bbnaija season 6 winner posted new pictures on his IG page.

He captioned this:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CUz_hf8NsKM/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Good
Politics / Re: Why Osinbajo, Aregbesola, Fashola Didn’t Visit Tinubu In London by UltimateStarman: 2:34pm On Oct 10, 2021
Politics / Re: 2023: Young Nigerians in the UK Declare Their Support For Yahaya Bello by UltimateStarman: 2:31pm On Oct 10, 2021
Politics / Re: 2023: Young Nigerians in the UK Declare Their Support For Yahaya Bello by UltimateStarman: 2:31pm On Oct 10, 2021
Celebrities / Re: New Stunning Photos Of BBNaija's Beatrice Agba Nwaji by UltimateStarman: 2:30pm On Oct 10, 2021
envoymedia:
Big Brother Naija season 6 star, Beatrice Agba Nwaji shared new stunning photos of herself on her Instagram handle, IgbereTV reports.

She captioned the photos;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CUxhc61sDQr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
black is beautiful
Politics / Re: PDP Governorship Campaign Tour In Idemili North, Anambra State(photos) by UltimateStarman: 2:29pm On Oct 10, 2021
post=106603086:
PDP governorship campaign tour in Idemili north local government, mind you Idemili North has the highest voting strength in Anambra State because of Obosi, compare this to APGA rally In other lgs with lesser voting strengths, APC is yet to start campaign

Lalasticlala
Don't follow the ways of APC
Education / Re: How To Create Your Whatsapp TV And Earn 40,000 Naira Weekly From It! by UltimateStarman: 2:24pm On Oct 10, 2021
NLChallenges:
I've taught it in the video already Boss
you are blessed
Investment / Re: . by UltimateStarman: 2:23pm On Oct 10, 2021
heartbraker:
I NEED MONEY TO FINANCE MY OTHER IDEAS
check my signature
Educational Services / Re: Free Online Tutorial For Secondary School Students (physics) by UltimateStarman: 7:37am On Oct 10, 2021
konlinetutorial:
It is true that givers never lack. I will be rendering free online tutorial service to students who have challenge in physics or who wish to learn more about the subject. Nigerian students in SS1, SS2 and those preparing for WAEC, NECO and JAMB should take this opportunity seriously. This opportunity will expire on 2/05/2019.

Contact me via konlinetutorial@gmail.com
you are blessed
Education / Re: Share Your Experience As An I.T Student by UltimateStarman: 7:37am On Oct 10, 2021
Nigercity:

Don't be offended Like how much do they pay?
And is the payment monthly, or after the program
I don't know but go You are blessed
Educational Services / Re: Can You Write Biology Lessons? by UltimateStarman: 7:36am On Oct 10, 2021
Homextras:
Hello,
Please DM me if you can write 20 biology lessons for a fee. I will share with you sample of questions.

Qualification.
You must be good in biology, because this is like SS3 level biology.
Can adhere to timeline, very strict timeline with no stories. Emphasis- no stories with solution submission PLEASE.
Timeline is 5 days max for 20 lessons.
Must snap or scan back completed answers in A4 paper written in clear handwriting, or typed out as the case maybe.
You will get free data for your task.
We will agree on a fair fee and I will send you the lessons by email, and you will send back daily answers to my email.
Watsapp only pls- 080.3503-4841.

Thank you
you are blessed
Educational Services / Re: JAMB PAST QUESTION AND ANSWER by UltimateStarman: 7:36am On Oct 10, 2021
zigmatechconsul:
I love you
HE is here now
Politics / Re: Ndume: Continuous Borrowing To Fund 2022 Budget Worrisome by UltimateStarman: 7:28am On Oct 10, 2021
Traplord09:
Seee hope keep hoping for de best since grin grin Nxt year go shock u ..... ...... I hope da have apprehend dose army arrangement that kill people
Government da use your brain play party ride
You will see the signs
Politics / Re: Attairu Jega: PDP, APC Have Led Nigeria Astray For 21 Years by UltimateStarman: 7:27am On Oct 10, 2021

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Education / Re: SA Boy, 19, Burns Teenage Girlfriend Alive After Stabbing Her 25 Times by UltimateStarman: 7:26am On Oct 10, 2021
Seeksnigeria:
Update from

Karabo Bahurutshe, 19, who stabbed his 18-years-old girlfriend 25 times and set her alight after realising that she was still alive, has pleaded guilty to charges of rape and murder in the North West High Court, South Africa, Siggy reports.

The accused the gave spine-chilling testimony and told the court that he killed his girlfriend, Gomolemo Legae from Seweding village because he did not want to go to jail after she threatened to open a case of rape against him.

Through his legal representative, Bahurutshe told the court that it had all started at a tavern where he was drinking alcohol and smoking dagga.

He said while at the tavern, Legae arrived with her friends and later told him that she wanted to have sexual intercourse with him.

Bahurutshe told the court that Legae changed her mind after he told her that they wouldn’t have sex at his place but in the streets.

Bahurutshe said he then took out a knife and forced her to UnCloth and raped her.

"I always knew that my conduct was unlawful and punishable,” he said.

He said after the ordeal, Legae threatened to open a case of rape against him. “I did not want to go to jail. I started stabbing her several times,” Bahurutshe said.

Bahurutshe said he realised that even after he had stabbed her 25 times, Legae was still alive.

He said he left her lying on the ground and walked to a nearby petrol station and bought petrol in a two-litre bottle.

He said he poured it on her body. “I knew that stabbing her and setting her body alight may result in her death but nevertheless I did it,” he told the court.

Legae’s family cried uncontrollably as the details came out.

After the court adjourned, Legae’s aunt Gadifele Mashetla said she was happy that Bahurutshe pleaded guilty.

"At least now there is a green light. I want a harsher sentence for him. I want him to go to jail for the rest of his life,” she said.

She said a few weeks after Legae was killed, her father took his life because he could not handle his daughter’s death and the manner at which she had died.

"We lost three family members because of this boy. It was not only Gomolemo’s father who died. Her grandmother also died after her father killed himself. We are hurt.”

Justice Frances Snyman rolled over the case to Friday for the legal representatives to make their submissions.

https:///sa-boy-19-burns-teenage-girlfriend-alive-after-stabbing-her-25-times/
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