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SolutionMee:Why such conclusion? Why judge her story, do you know her history? You better delet this and rejoice with her, otherwise you will meet such impasse in life. |
I don't blame you. If you ply Ikorodu road daily, you will not ask this question. How I wish you captured the pot holes that caused the bottle neck traffic aside trailers packed toward Jibowu bridge. Please Governor Ambode in your mercy, fix the spot and there will be no temptation for drivers to use dedicated BRT lane. |
Ensure you tell your husband you are going to take the matter to family members since both of cannot resolve it. Never quit your especially if the can help you feed the kids. By the way, how many kids does he expect a working wife to have? Console your self and get prepared in prayers to single handedly train the children. Asking you to quit your job, is a way of punishing you with fund withheld and to get his own pound of flesh over the secret you denied him. |
A lady can think of marriage as from 18 years and above but should be ready to settle down as from 22 years. By the later, she would have finished school or trade. At this age too, she may have matured to handle relationship downturn. Thirdly, at this age she must have been espoused and not limited to only men around their village, church and school circle but to work and societal places. My humble submission. |
donbachi:I believe you. If you are able love someone, you can still love another wnd you can always stop loving someone. She must have seen some pointers but she either ignored or chosed a wrong person for counselling. May I ask, has he never failed any appointments since the relationship started? Haven't caught him telling lies? |
Indeed, you should be thanking God. If you get married to him, his sisters will still ruin the marriage because they seems to control him. You can still love another man, better than him who will not judge with hearsay evidences. BROKEN ENGAGEMENT IS BETTER THAN BROKEN MARRIAGE. |
I wish he would be sentenced to prison terms with no option of fine. GTB Nigeria is the worst place to work if you cherish interpersonal relationship with boss and subordinates. The full staff are mostly 'aje butters' that treat contact staff like house maid. @Legal officer, the non payment of profit share at all contract staff is enough for them to be afraid anytime they are coming to work. Your management claim helping contract staff to further education, hence the engagement. Yet, your package doesn't speak in that direction. The contract staff pay their school fees through their nose. GTB change, even some contract salaries has not been reviewed since the past 7 years. Your services and annual profit keep deceiving outsiders. Imagine someone asking me why I should leave GTB to not so common bank? WHAT IS BAD IS BAD. 1% of basic pay of contract staff can never shake the GTB finance. |
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Why will the number not be as much high when lastma priority is arrest instead of deploying all technics to ensure smooth traffic flow. |
You are not alone and I am really getting fed up Ikeja Disco, too. I tried fighting them over crazing bill to the point of even asking for disconnection. They then advised me to clear outstanding to enjoy a scheme for installation of prepaid meter within 21 days. The payment of outstanding balance of N150,000 was made in March, 2018 by me. Do you know that till date there's nothing done, yet their crazy bill keeps coming? Please how can we push for criminalisation of estimated billing that have passed second reading at the National Assembly which I believe is the way out of this finance sapping menace? |
He made Police Officers to take to their heels whenever they hear his siren approaching Kam Selem House Force Headquarters Annex, Lagos. Otherwise, that Officer he meets outside or on the corridor should get ready for transfer to his (Gambo) village. |
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Provide for her all necessary comfort to enable her overcome the husband's 'wickedness' as a relation but never SEX comfort. Remember, there are always two sides of s story, you have only heard from her. |
I was scammed, too out of desperation to get a job after being laid off. 13,250 is the beginning, the next is about N90,000 on induction day for a rewarding level of marketing. Their training is serious brain washing and seminar admittance so restricted to keep secrecy. |
As a pastor's son, you knew what the prodigal son did. Take that bold step to get the restoration that the prodigal son had, period. |
Be nice to your superiors to get recommendation for Army education. For example, my ND cértificate is from Army school of finance and administration, Apapa. Make inquiry for other opportunities. Army school of Nursing is there, also. Never think of suicide, it's better you die in active service. Cheer up! |
You seems to make irrational decision at the verge of bookering peace. When gate was to be opened at your sister in law place, you left in anger. Now just to bring back load, you said not your car. You must strive to keep peace (sacrifice) if you don't want broken marriage. Remember two of you are passing emotional stress due to financial impasse. GO AND BRING THE LOAD BACK, is my candid advice. Days going in marriage in separation creates difficult barriers to first love and trust. |
I keep wondering how ammunitions are being wasted these days by Soldiers and Mopols. Has it become so cheap for the Army and Police Authorities? Expending ammunitions for just jubiliation or celebration except for rubber bullets is very very wrong and dangerous. |
You have money gulping project,yet you forget 'family' money gulping project and was sleeping with her till she got pregnant. Your hand is not clean from the murder because you failed to do what would have kept those lives. It's not all families that can withstand pregnancy without traditional and white wedding. |
@Op, I don't know the basis for 70% score on maintenance. Roof of the buses are rotting away. The hand grip for those standing are fizzling out. Most buses have their Airconditioner malfunction. Above all, remember that these buses are new- just two years. |
Try and complete your HND is best advice. Promotion in Police is based on mostly vacancy in your state which is called Federal Character or what Police call quota system. All the estimated years given before promotion to ASP will work if you are neither from Edo nor Delta States because they have more than enough indigenes in the NPF. |
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It's because there are no jobs and no competition at getting applicants in Nigeria that's why companies don't make provision for breakfast and lunch for interview. Those who support the HR staff against eating the food, what if company gives a transport allowance after interview, will it also be a test? Hardship has made us to accept somethings as not normal. For your information, MTN Nigeria provided breakfast and lunch for a whole day interview for us the mid 2000 for Customer care. We were afraid that the breakfast was a set up. But when hunger came and there was lunch, everybody ate and nobody remembered a set up as you can't even think of going out to find something to eat. I equally attended another MTN interview for Security Supervisor. We took breakfast when they served other staff. The chairman of panel came so late behind schedule, while apologizing, he inquired if we have been served breakfast. Actually, companies are supposed to show case their caring for their staff to woo applicants. Like I said earlier, the negative turn of things in country is seriously affecting us, it's now the applicants that keep wooing companies for employment. God have mercy! |
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ifyalways:C'est mal vie, mon ami |
When can we be sincere in this country? How much is minimum wage that FRSC is proposing N100,000? This is just a ploy to increase bargain amount for bribe. Otherwise, FRSC should propose what will address the cause of traffic offense. |
Don't cheat, please. I am yet to see someone bold enough to say, thank God I cheated on my husband. It has always been regret after the act. Are there no singles that are controlling their sexual urges? Do you know if he is planning surprise visit this Yuletide? It said, don't blame someone until you have seen him. Don't allow the guy to take advantage of your situation. If pregnancy happens, he will deny you and call you a hawk that sleeps around. You will not die of sex starvation to the best of my knowledge. If you not satisfied with this, please ask him for permission to cheat him with the guy. Make a wise decision today, that you will not regret tomorrow, even if he gives you go ahead, he will definitely use it against you in future. |
What goes around turns around. If you will be comfortable for your wife to sleep with a bachelor in future, go ahead. She may just love your company without any other ulterior motive. Please note that seductive dressing is almost normal these days. Decide wisely! |
Report the case to Marabel centre and let them handle it. |
A pastor's son, keeping girlfriend. May be this is the reason you never mentioned what the Holy Spirit told you about the this matter. With this lifestyle, you know that you are not qualified to join him at running the church if your are to obey him. Secondly, your father seems not be a sound Christian as no such sound pastor will threaten his son with curses to scatter his (son's) future. We can't bless and curse with the same mouth James 3:10. The earlier you repent and face serving God in all honesty and then break loose from the clutches of your father, the better. However, if you are a sound Christian, then your father is not your God. You have not be called into full time ministry, yet. If you decides to obey him because of fear, you will still meet serious frustration from your father that you're trying to avoid. Think wisely! |
Church copying the world. This is not right except you are telling me, a man gives engagement ring to a sister that have accepted her marriage proposal. |
