₦airaland Forum

Phenomenal16:
...that's esut

it's not esut.

it's one of the two below.

unn nsukka and absu okigwe.

JesamPearl:
Mr Nairaland needs our help between Babe A nd B
Lets see the wise ones among us. A member needs our help

Babe A:
Marriage is not a problem, but you need to consider the responsibilities therein, am not working and you don't even earn much. .I suggest we fic things first before thinking of marriage

Babe: B
Well, you might not have much but we can work things out and grow together. If you are ready come see my parents

You cant tell how long you will have to wait before things are fixed.(50/50}

Try to balance financially,then marry the one you love more.

But I will advise you dump the both of them and find love among the working class as both will betray you in marriage when you can't foot the bills!

Phenomenal16:
..was that unec?

No, about 30mins drive from unec.

XhosaNostra:
Tsek!

Hmm that sa word for second checking right?

Well , just don't want you to derail from your path of being objective to becoming a feminist.

Have always followed your submissions in passing.

Please don't make such derogative comments in da Future

XhosaNostra:
Some guys can be surprising with their fish brains sometimes Always giving more thinking power to the little head between their legs & then act dumbfounded when their stupid actions come back to bite them in the ass.

There are guys on this thread be guided abegi.

What's fish brain thingy about.

Se Ori re pe sa!

Try to placate her the more.

If she still won't be pacified, the best bet is to bounce.

Reasons is, unless she let go completely,she will someday in the future hinge on this flaw to straf a guy just to get even.cuz as it stands you owe her one.

Las last na you dey at fault.

[quote author=Pinky111 post=81303903]Pls friends I have a man coming for my hand in marriage- US base.

He was a two times divorcee and later came home in 2016 to marry the third who later joined him but the marriage is having issues.He has 4children in all from previous marriage
This man is telling me to have a child for him and possibly marry him that the children over there will never come back to Nigeria. He said he needs an indigenous wife and baby who are going to base in Nigeria until the child gets to 18. He is assuring of financial security and comfort.

He is in his early 70s and I'm 33. The age gap is much coupled with the fact that I don't love him. What should I do ,he is damn serious. On the other hand I'm considering my age. But truth be told I see him as a father figure and least expected the sudden demand for marriage.[/quote


Please don't marry him!

He only wants to use you to bear kids so his name doesn't go extinct!

He's selfish!

I know the only reason your considering him is kesh.

Just work hard and believe, you'd get someone better within your age bracket.

Your just 33 don't throw your future away my .dear.
believe in yourself, work hard,and get better.

Love will find you naturally.


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[quote author=MichaelBukamzy post=81274108]This was my greatest weapon of constituting public nuisance and causing fear and havoc. My mother switched from matches to lighter because of me.chai! How time flies.[/quo .

We used to call it racket back in the day.

We would peel out the match head(phosphorus IV oxide) I think, into the racket opening and then strike the nail tail against a wall making a loud kaboom!

Nobody should ask me where I was raised.

I don't think it's ideal for married folks to comment on this kinda thread. If the moniker I quoted is married,kindly disregard my comment and accept my apology.

starbuck:
No physical quality attracts me to anyone, just be prayerful that I am in a good mood that day

Prayerful cuz you want to get a gal's attention?

say watin happen?

Sexy laps

I doubt if they are a couple,been there.

When you visit your bae and things get out of hand, you go dey drive enter street by street to find dark corner park and move to the back seat.

Why the windows dey down and doors not locked?

Went for night class at law faculty to study, there were about 20 people who came to study too.

They all left leaving me and two gals behind.

few minutes after mid night , I stepped out to smoke my stuff as the whole formulas no dey enter my head.

Then, there came one of the gals asking me if I was in that faculty that she was seeing me for the first time and bla bla.

Then she started advising me how dangerous smoking was and that it didn't match my look,we Sha started talking about lots of other stuffs till around 2am.

All of a sudden one thing lead to another , I brought my my wallet,picked my stuff, she turned the doggy way and that was it.

We were an item till I graduated,never met a nicer lady afterwards.

KanuSE:
Sisisioge's advice is like adding more fuel to the fire especially for a lady who's tryna find solution to her marital issues.

If you get closer to sisisioge you would be surprised that she wouldn't dare act out her own advice sef.

if the guy isn't under any kind of pressure and will not open up even after several one on one discuss,then it's obvious that he's just tryna be unnecessarily mean
Hence,the only way out is for the lady to protect herself from going insane.

I agree with sisioge cuz it will make the man feel exactly what the wife has been going through and turn a new leaf.

At times the only way to achieve peace is through war!

But I get your point

He might be under a lot of pressure (work and bills)

Get a job if you're not working already and assist with some of the minor bills .

Get busy and reduce the over flooded attention but make sure your respect for him is intact.

If he doesn't change,take sisioge's advice

Has safia seen this video.

Shey I told her the other day that we could get this thing for meta ten Kobo

Now am vindicated.

If you complete the monicker spell your on your own o

MiztaBobiGentle:
Maybe that was the only thing you could get. In all being said the most important thing here is giving ladies the confidence to know that they don't need to have the mindset that if a guy wants to help them financially, they think he will want something in return and therefore just put her mind to it just incase it will happen.

You post with one monicker and like with another.

Scammer, am done talking to you guy

[quote author=MiztaBobiGentle post=81160030]Can you do me a favor as the real gee that you are? Get a nice cold glass of water and drink it slowly. Then try to read the post again carefully so that you can comprehend the message properly. [/quote..].
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The tall and short of your story is how you assisted a lady without requesting sex.

And am saying it's no biggie.

Also you needed not tell us how the hotel staffers chilled your room and how she followed you to your car and the money thing,

People way sabi know say you want show.

To start with, only a mofo(4ked up guy) will want to be bestie to a gal that has a bf,to me your tryna steal someone's gal.

bad ass guys have this soft spot for good gals,we do things for them without expecting nada in return.

We are only hard on cunning gals,feminists ,and players who like to eat their cake and have them.

Reading through the lines it's obvious your tryna sing your praise

Mr op you haven't done anything special !

Real gees don't get laid via blackmail.

lonelyjeff:
@useku Thanks for your prompt response.

I will enrol for the course ASAP.

Also, you mentioned that it's easier when one is already
is already in Asia. If that's the case ,what kind of Visa can one come in with before regularising? if it will be too telling to discuss that here, is there a way I can contact you pls?

Am actually open to work option to bail outa here.

Tnks

I got your IM will add you for a chat.

Thanks, b appreciate

lonelyjeff:
@ Useku Thanks for sharing, do they accept Nigerians?

Can one apply from naija?

What are the requirements?

Any idea how much they earn?

yes you can Apply at the link from Nigeria and the Requirement needed are bachelor's degree and ESL teaching qualification (such as a TEFL certification). its easy for does that are already in Asia can get teaching Jobs with permit so easy without the TEFL Certificate.And teaching Job pay from $650 - $1200 a month.

I will advise Nigerians to take SHORT course class online TEFL with the link below online instead of waiting for Sowore to save Nigeria or our government that is not ready to help the youths.English teacher are needed in high demand in south Korea and china and taiwan,vietnam and Japan and parents are getting private teacher for their children and learning English.

https://www.teflcourse.net/?c=a4&g=2&gclid=CjwKCAjw1rnqBRAAEiwAr29IIzwW3H7mCpqF2uqSsvNQIsr8PU-8IZXSSO1p011HoFrYjSS_GOi-TxoC72MQAvD_BwE

Thanks for your prompt response.

I will enrol for the course ASAP.

Also, you mentioned that it's easier when one is already
is already in Asia. If that's the case ,what kind of Visa can one come in with before regularising? if it will be too telling to discuss that here, is there a way I can contact you pls?

Am actually open to work option to bail outa here.

Tnks

lonelyjeff:
Good morning Narialander,

I am trying to bring information to help Nigerians planning to travel oversea to work or people looking for a way out for greener pasture.I notice information is the key to success and achieve and personal success is achievable for anyone with the right information and people around can get easy things.I believe what Everyone wants to have a happy, healthy life, do meaningful work, enjoy a career, and achieve financial independence.I was thinking ontill you go to Europe and america or Canada can get a good life and be successful but notice Nigeria in Asia are doing great in business and education with low amount can get a good education and also work and do business.I Was in Myanmar(Yangon) for a short visit and meet a Nigeria from Edo state teaching English and getting $750 a month with free apartment and other benefits and been working for 2years now and also chat with a lady from Vietnam a Nigeria teaching English with little kids and she say her salary is good with free apartment.what I am saying is that you can get a teaching jobs in ASIA working abroad in Japan, Korea, China, Thailand, Vietnam, Malaysia, Brunei, Taiwan, and Hong Kong.with good information you can get permit and travel to does countries and work or teach English.people looking for teaching jobs in Asia link below can apply.

https://www.gooverseas.com/teach-abroad

Thanks for sharing, do they accept Nigerians?

Can one apply from naija?

What are the requirements?

Any idea how much they earn?

Rev Tom, very fine man, p Chris one of my revered pastors

The babe di okay

OgbeniSamm:
What's Okafor's law?

Lol, baba somebody already already stated the law, check 6;45am on this thread. Just some posts after mine.

Thank you good people

ComputerOperato:
Mudisolo2! Mudisolo2!! Mudisolo2!!!
How many times did I call you?
No long story.
Here's the answer you are looking for.
Respect @ Useku et al.

Tnks boss ,much rep for you too

Take whatever she says with a pinch of salt.

If you hadn't snooped into her phone you would have been there loving and cherishing a bleeping hoe.

you know okafors law right? My guy comot your mind for that babe she no get stand.

Nb, Bobo yen ti do.

Go to ile epo market in after iyana ipaja, e full there.

Lagos

Neddstark:
Anyone that skips posts like this but clicks on BBNaija is part of the problem of Nigeria.

Am telling you ,just two ladies have commented and thread is on page 4 already.

Who no go no know.

From relativity to fermidirac to la place etal.

E no easy, sai mallam.

I was there.